My son, Dan Bailey, died from this terrible disease in 2005.. The disease was so swift, he died within 24 hrs of telling me he had a sore throat... Thank-you for sharing your story with us..
And thank you for sharing yours and your son’s story with us and with this young man and his family, who as they said, ‘it was good to still have him’, yes, it is the person’s heart that blesses others. You also for some reason are still alive, and despite your pain, thinking in others. Thanks again!
Thanks for your comment. This was a particularly moving documentary to be a part of and we're looking forward to watching everything Ripu achieves in the future..
@@curiousgeorge6921 he would have died if they didn't, and the limbs were dead. Those things are pretty heavy and disgusting to drag around when they are all rotten.
His father speaks so elopquently and poetically about this whole situation. You can tell this has been on his mind for a long time. As a doctor he knows what how It is on both sides and seeing his son go through this is heart breaking. You can just hear the sorrow in his voice for his son and for his patients. What a great father. His son is lucky to have a family who really cares. One line that got me is when the mother said “why is he cold? He doesn’t like to be cold” you can just feel the helplessness in her words. She just wanted to make things right for her son.
I'm glad he was honest, a lot of times I think people who have these horrible things happen to them feel like if they discuss the negatives about their situation then they look less brave or like they're whining, and try to be overly positive when they're being filmed for a documentary. It's nice to see someone explain the honest reality instead of being concerned about putting on a brave face all the time.
How in the love of Christ did that happen?? Such a nice looking guy. This is proof that you can have your life all thought out, but something will go wrong and derail it. I know the feeling!
@@beverlyledbetter9302 we have vaccinations for most strains of this disease, but they're not part of the vaccination schedule. At worst I've seen them cost about $150 each, not a huge sum, but not small either. The health care system has applied some health economics here and the cost to give everybody all the vaccinations for different strains of this bacteria would cost many more sums than what it costs to deal with the few people per year who get affected by it.
Even me being a full bodied able adult, he is more of a man than I'll ever be. The single fact that he has retained a sense of humor is incredible & inspiring. I wish you all the best Ripu, you and your beautiful caring family :)
Ripu, I don't know if you'll read this, but you're incredibly handsome. I'm old enough to be your grandmother, but please believe me when I tell you there is a special young lady out there whom you'll meet. It will be at the right time, at the right place. Until then, please continue being strong and confident. Personally, I'm very, very proud of you! You have a wonderful family and friends, too. There are worse things in this life than physical limitations. I see your future as bright. God bless you.
Ripu iam so blessed to have come across your story your a fine human being I know there's going to be better things down the road of life you have been detoured for what reason only the Lord knows I pray you get threw this with your family by your side you can do anything you want. Stay positive bless you .
Honestly, truly he's really handsome and intelectual. And honestly the way he writes and speaks drags you in and makes you wish you could get to know him.
exact same thing happened to my friend. she was a high school cheerleader. now she is an awesome mom who works for the hospital that saved her. and she just got a new pair of awesome legs!
A friend contracted this shocking disease. It was discovered very early, so her physical damage was less than yours. However, her intellectual capacity has been diminished. I believe, despite your real and difficult physical situation, you are the lucky one.
Ripu, I hope you read this. You are an incredibly handsome man! Honestly, after the first minute or so I totally forgot about your nose, and by the time you read this, you'll probably have that sorted. Besides, you can play the piano with no hands, like a boss! That is just so freakin' amazing to me. I know that right now you are very dependent, but it's early days still. Over time you will learn more and more coping skills, get your legs, and figure out ways of doing things on your own. It's just going to take a lot of time, strength, and practice, and I know you can do it. I am sure that when the time is right, you are going to find a girl who will love and appreciate you for the wonderful person that you are. I look forward to seeing updates as you go forward.
I totally agree and I think you are very handsome. Beautiful family I wish Ripu all the best for the future and hope he finds his way in life bless you ♡♡♡♡♡
I don't think he would have such a positive attitude if it wasn't for his parents; you can tell that he was raised in a very positive and loving environment. God bless all of them.
I remember receiving the email regarding the health warning that a student at our university had contracted meningicoccal. It really hurt my heart and I had always wondered how that person was doing. I'm so glad to have found this video and to know who this strong and amazing person is and that they made it through. I feel blessed to have attended the same university as you, Ripu!
I got twins boys , And was both born with Spina Bifida . Thank God all of these story's gives us strength & motivation , and to continue being greatful for life .
"I won't ever be the best." None of us will be. Everyone has room for improvement. Even people who haven't experienced this type of setback feel the same way at times. I certainly do. But you CAN be the best you that life allows you to be. I think you're getting there, Ripu. You've humbled me today! Thank you for perspective and inspiration.
He has such a chill personality. He's not all fake and overly positive about his crap situation. And he's still cute. I get a good feeling about his future.
Amazing documentary. I was run over by a drunk driver 2 years ago and have had 12 surgeries (a fraction of what you are dealing with) but seeing your positive outlook is so motivating. stay strong Ripu - From United States
You are an amazing young man. A warrior. My only child died from this disease at the age of 18. God bless you and keep you strong. The world needs more like you. I hope to meet you in person one day.
I checked out his instagram and it's amazing to see how far he has come since this video. Absolutely amazing. Regardless of what people think about his outer appearance, he is a beautiful person.
Ripu, you are still a very handsome guy! You are an inspiration and have a lot to offer the world. Thank you for telling your story and I wish you all the best!
You are the most determined person I've ever seen. You're getting your life back and doing the work to make it happen. Your attitude is great and I am really in awe of you!
I have been watching so many videos from this channel and this is definitely one of my favorite stories so far. Ripu is such an amazingly strong man. The hardships he has overcome are awesome and I can only wish the best for him.
Ripu, my name is Roy. I live in southern California. I salute you, sir. You're attitude is the best I have ever seen. God Bless you and yours and your great family.
wow what a mentally strong guy, and to be honest the handsomeness is still there, in your eyes, when you smile your eyes smile with you, lots of love from U>K
Im so proud to call this young man a friend ❤ we spend weekends together laughing drinking coffee and loving life despite everything he has been through. He is a really beautiful person and Im so lucky to have him in my life xx
Ripu, your story is immeasurably intense and profoundly life changing, and I cannot thank you enough for sharing it with us. Kinda wish I’d get the chance to have a coffee and chat with you and your family. I hope you’re well and that your confidence is soaring high. Because it should. You’re incredible.
That was a captivating documentary with a very strong and determined young man. I was born with a physical disability so I don't know any other way of life but for him to have known a life I can only dream of and to have it all taken away practically overnight must have been surreal. His family seem very supportive and loving. His friends still come round and those friendships are great for his mental health. One day he will meet a wonderful person who will be more than happy to marry him, have kids with him and grow old with him. I sincerely wish him all the best the world has to offer.
Thanks for your feedback and we hope you enjoyed the documentary. Ripu was an amazing young man to film with and we are sure he will go far. Hope you stay tuned
Ripu...You are no different from any of us,just because uve lost yr limbs doesnt make you less human,I'd call you unique,more gifted than most,you will never be without anyone to care for you,you are amazing,strong and I'd be proud to show you off to people just how amazing you are. Stay strong and keep on doing what you enjoy. You are loved by your family and friends,you beat death and that just shows how strong you are,you are unique xxx
Ripu you are beautiful inside and out. You have many gifts yet to be discovered. I would love to see updates about your journey. Thank you for this opportunity to meet you. Sending my best from Monterey California. 👋👍☺️
Where I really lost it and almost broke down was the bag of chips falling. Seeing him struggle with something as simple as grocery shopping just hit me in a really soft spot. This is an incredible strong person and someone that people should look up to for his determination and perseverance. I hope his future is so bright, he certainly has an incredible family to support him.
I have no words, except to Send my respect and love to this person I never met, watching a video that’s three years old. At 63 years old, I have been through a lot, and experienced much of the good and bad that life has to offer. I often think of myself as a very strong person. This young man’s strength and fortitude has humbled me.......
I have no idea how I stumbled onto this. So many of us reach a hopeless point in our lives. And if we’re lucky, we stumble across a gem like this man who remind us what we’re made of is what matters, not our circumstances. I hope he’s found peace and joy and is loved dearly for the beautiful soul he is.
Brother.. I am a guitarist and songwriter and this hit me right in the heart. I live close to Sydney and have heard of many meningococcal cases over the years in our state. You are incredibly strong to survive this.. living through this shows not only physical strength, but extreme mental strength. To be honest about myself, although I will never understand what it is like to go through what you have been through. I was a Youth Worker. I started my career at 21, but at 23 I was diagnosed with a psychotic illness that slowly ate away my ability to function. By 27 I could no longer work.. and the medication took away my creativity. Not mentioning it cos I feel sorry for myself. I don't. it's the cards I was dealt. But I am still trying to navigate what that means for life now. I guess what we do have in common is it's hard to see a positive. It's hard to deal with the "you" before disability vs the "you" afterwoulds. It's hard to put down the expectations about where I would be now. Slide guitar is a great idea.. so soulful. I hope you continue to play and write songs. Music is healing, personally and to the people you share it with. A loop machine might be a good tool as well since you can play multiple instruments. If you ever find yourself on the South Coast hit us up for a jam :)
Ripu, I too have disabilities but mine are not visible. The psychological journey is truly the hardest part. Eventually enough time will pass and the way you are will be more normal to you than the way you were. The best is still ahead of you, I promise you. You have to grieve what was in order to accept what is. Just tackle one goal at a time. It gets better. You are stronger than you think you are. 😊
Ripu, listening and watching you in this video, I see you have so much to offer the world, your music, blog, wheelchair rugby and personality to name only a few. Life really sucks at times. Go out and make people move for your wheelchair you have a right to space on this earth as much as anybody else.
Ripu your eyes and smile make you beautiful! Honestly, I see past the injuries and scars and can see the good looks. It's almost like wearing an outfit - you look different but you still have the same essence and good looks. I'm a burn victim so I can slightly relate to the trauma and recovery and then societies perception. But remember that each path is unique and sometimes you need to let go and give in to the universes plan for you. You need to let go of the life you envisioned and embrace the life you have been given ❤️️
His heart speaks volumes, Ripu is still on the rise, clear as can be you will do more than overcome a condition...a dear family friend of mine has ALS, i stumbled on this video after a couple relating to that disease,,,, i wish in her case it wasn't stealing her spirit as it takes everything else
This broke my heart, what a beautiful soul ❤ God bless you and your family and im sure you are gonna achieve a lot more. Sending you much love and positive energy from Croatia ❤❤🤗🤗
i see it now clearly how I was lucky to loose only half of my one leg in similar circumstances. I still can walk and everything. Im so sorry for him. Its not fair.
Thanks for watching Cmielak! Hope you enjoyed the episode and yes Ripu has been dealt a tough hand but he is a strong young man and we're sure he will do well!
This is from 4 years ago, but Ripu’s story is still being seen and I learned today that Ripu is still Ripu, a cool creative guy. I liked his message at the end when he’s looking at the ocean and how he felt good in that moment, not thinking too much about stuff and just enjoying where he was.
Thanks for your comment Sabrina - certainly seems unfair how such good people can be met with such circumstances, however I'm sure Ripu will overcome and achieve great things.
Sabrina Mazzei The universe is completely random and indifferent. There is nothing protecting us, and bad things can happen to good people. However, choosing to seize life and love those around you can conquer this indifference - make your own meaning!
This isn’t trying your best, this is killing it and going above and beyond! This is a challenge that nobody wants or deserves but to adapt and overcome is incredible. I can’t imagine how hard it is and don’t know if I could have gotten as far as he has. Keep it going your a inspiration
I wish there was a follow up to his story....this is the most honest recount of someone’s feelings after a tragedy...sometimes I find it hard to believe when people say tons of positive things....you are amazing!
I remember having Meningococcal meningitis when at primary school. I recall it vividly : the hallucinations, the dreaded lumberpuncture, the isolation room, the luxosade, the get well soon cards from my classmates; Processing the fall out from that illness [and the complications] took a long time I wont lie.. It seems to go through phases with suppression of the feelings lasting a good long time. Eventually the grief seeps out. I grieved the person I could have been but no longer could be. I feel it is much harder for men to admt they need help, but eventually I did. That was 10 years ago, and after some therapy and implementing coping strategies I've accepted it now. I've adapted and finally, in my thirties though i still dont know how I got the damned disease nevertheless im in a good place now.
This is the manliest man that has ever manned, man. But seriously this guy kicks so much ass. Inspirational for sure. I hope he gets a good relationship because he deserves it.
Wow. I'm in awe. Such a eloquent young man full of potential and depth. I'm beyond inspired. Ripu.......u r back in a place where ur full of uncertainties and wonder....much like before u went to Australia. You found yourself there and began to own urself as a young man.....realize.....u r there again. The greatness you felt u were about to achieve just before getting so sick........u will achieve. It's in ur path. Because ur greatness isn't defined by ur physical abilities....it is defined by ur mind n heart. I dunno what that path of greatness looks like......n maybe right now...u don't either.....but it's there in u. It hits at u as a background sound u must tune into......but that will come as u overcome these hurdles. Ur intellect, ur wisdom, ur soulful depth.......ur fighter spirit........I'm in awe. You my dear......have greatness written all over u........push forward.......n connect again with urself as the new u.......like u did with the old u back in Australia. That's coming.....n I hope to see more of u.......as u make ur mark on this world. Namaste ❤️
I work in a ECI (Early childhood intervention) alot of kids are not sick and alot of them are and watching this gave me a perspective on how people of all ages that are unfortunately not able to do things for themselves because of so and so reasons. This was so moving and so emotional but most of all inspiring. I hope Ripu is still doing amazing. Thanks Attitude for the story💕
This young man and his family are absolutely incredible people. I'm in awe by their strength and communication. I stumble and stutter and mess everything I say up. Keep going you're incredible Ripu.