Swifties Have Completely LOST THE PLOT With Travis Kelce 

"Just because its public, doesn't mean you have to be weird" - something more people need to internalize 😭.

“Taylor Swift still hasn’t settled down with a man, so she must be gay” feels a lot like “there’s no way any straight woman could ever be happy and independent of a man in her life.”

Taylor literally can’t even eat fries without it being sensationalized.

this is what happens when we live in the 2020s and quality romcom films are few and far between...the girlies have gone mad. they are being deprived and look where it's gotten us. there is no healthy outlet for their delusion and maladaptive daydreaming skills. i'm honestly a little scared.

As a fellow Trained Journalist YOU ARE SO SPOT ON. There is such a fine line between “fun speculation” and full on conspiracy theory. That’s what makes it so dangerous! Does “dangerous” sound dramatic? It’s not, bc almost every single conspiracy theory has roots in racist, sexist, antisemitic, etc. conspiracy theories and stereotypes. Be safe and keep critical thinking, Swifties 💖

As a long time taylor fan I feel like I’ve never seen people THIS obsessed with one of her relationships. It’s honestly so embarrassing. Like it’s one thing to be rooting for them but quite another to be obsessively invested. I’ve been staying off social media cause it’s making me cringe

What you said about projection is SPOT ON. As a nearly ✨34 year old ladyyyyy✨ people who married and had kids young are SO uncomfortable around single women, especially single women who are embracing and loving their single life. I think for them, they feel like it invalidates their decisions, so they project their choices onto others as a way to justify why what they did was the “right” decision. Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.

10:54 "all they keep asking me is if I'm gonna be your bride. the only kind of girl they see is a one night or a wife" ✨ but it's so telling that when people dislike Taylor they label her a slut, but when they like her, she's seen with this insane purity-obsessed love story girlie lens, who is desperate to get married. The clutching at pearls at the idea that Taylor is capable of casually dating or (gasp) just hooking up with people.

Let the girl have the time of her life!! 😅 she is a grown up woman and can do whatever she wants. It’s insane how everybody else makes decisions for her

"the only kind of girl they see is a one night or a wife" Swifties, have crazy theories if you want, but maybe you should pay attention to the core messaging, THE STUFF IN HER SONGS! You are proving her right in a way that would not be happening if you actually listened. She isn't anyone's "bride" until there's an actual marriage announcement. That football game barely qualified as a first date??

Truly astonishing how in one beat Taylor is so head over heels in love with Travis and their relationship is so intensely serious that she would move mountains just to sit and watch his game, then in another she’s being forced to be there against her will to keep up the appearance of a relationship she doesn’t want. And these people live on the same planet, in the same dimension, breathing the same air as all of us.

“She met his mom” ok?? She met the getaway car’s mom. These people are engaging in the same exact type of behavior that happened during the 1989 era the first time and you know what it got us? She disappeared. Do they want that? I don’t. It’s ridiculous. History repeats itself. Taylor said The only kind of girl they see is a one night or a wife. And she was right

I’d rather stare at the sun than look through Swiftie responses to Travis and Matty

I’m deeply concerned about overexposure at this point. I don’t think Taylor wants to hide herself away anymore. I think she just wants to live her damn life. But people will not let her breathe. And when someone gets this big, especially a woman, people come out of the woodwork to tear them down.

“There’s a child in the car, you should stop doing this and attend to them” had me deceased ☠️

I am only 11 minutes in and I had to pause the video to pick up my jaw off of the floor. I had no idea people were this public about their delusions-I stay away from social media. I am sincerely disturbed. I hope Taylor doesn't see these kinds of posts.

If you have time to write a book in a week about a random woman going to a football game you URGENTLY need a job and someone who loves you.

Its not just patriarchal, its amatanormative, amatanormativity is the belief that one person ALWAYS needs a central romantic intrest in their life. Or thats the ultimate goal. Like taylor said its either one night or a wife

Youre the best swiftie creator right now! I don’t understand why people and the media are obsessed with her relationships and not her music! It’s so weird! Thank you for your honesty ❤️

Imagine if these swifttokers/gaylor theorists spent as much time learning the words to “I don’t want to live forever” as they did studying this stuff… maybe they would have been able to sing along in Chicago! And which one do you think Taylor will notice? Your crazy TikTok or that when she looks into the audience, she sees you singing the correct words? I’ll wait!

When you're a 30+ woman and are like "I'm getting a cat/dog/budgie/etc", people always go "Why? Do you know how expensive pets are? You give up your freedom, you'll be responsible for this animal for years to come", but nobody says that to you when you're having a child or want to have one :'D Dating and marriage is pretty much the same. All you crazy people on TikTok or any other platform, just leave Taylor alone and let her have some harmless, mindless fun with some nice guy.

This is genuinely my favorite channel of all time. It has been a MESSY time to be a swiftie lately 😭 😭 the girlies have been going crazy and im glad I can retreat to this channel to live in some common sense 😭 🙏

Liked before I even watched it because I knew I would agree with you. The only voice of reason in the fandom. I'm low key hoping this works out just because optically its cute but....everyone is wilding out hard af. Everyone needs to learn to keep it cute. I love how you call out the outrageous fans and patriarchy bs.

Thank you for talking about the gaylor fandom. They're INSANE. I've seen gaylors proudly announce how they've "successfully converted" workmates who AREN'T EVEN SWIFTIES into believing the conspiracy theory that Taylor's gay and is secretly dating KK. It pisses me off to no end. It's also annoying how they compare it to swifties speculating which songs are about which ex. That's NO WHERE NEAR the same. Speculating which songs are about which exes don't invalidate her past relationships (gaylors preaching that her past lovers were beards), it doesn't go against her wishes (her tweet about asking media to stop romantically linking her with friends), and it does't go against her OWN WORDS (Taylor saying that gorgeous is about Joe while gaylors force the idea that it's about KK).

i don't even mind gayIor theories but calling travis a stalker and toxic for absolutely NO reason is so wild to me

The way the world has gone rabid for Taylor content is giving me 2016 vibes. She is clearly living her best life and some people will hate that. I hope another mega backlash doesn't happen, but it feels like that is where all this exposure is going. People need to step away from their computers and invest more in their own lives! Thanks for all your incredible content. You are honestly the only one who will speak the truth, good or bad, and I appreciate you!

I think the marriage rumours are so prevalent because her music, especially those of earlier albums, attracts a specific kind of person-a hopeless romantic who believes in The One soulmate who will magically fix all their problems and make their life all sunshine and rainbows. That's why some fans were genuinely distraught when she and Joe broke up, because that relationship to them represented the fact that such an ideal was possible in reality. It's possible Taylor herself had bought into that fantasy when she was much younger (especially considering how she was treated as a weird outsider in her school years) or maybe it was simply the pr angle that was pushed because they knew that would appeal to the widest demographic. I suspect she became disillusioned quite early on about that ideal, and while she continued to write songs and do pr from that perspective, she's been writing more and more about her current worldview, the most explicit examples being from her most recent album-something that most of the fanbase hasn't caught on to. Those kinds of people still seem to be stuck in that mindset of her fulfilling the 'classic' 1950's American Housewife dream, 2.5 kids, white picket fence and all, because that's what they fantasize about for themselves. At the end of the day this is all just wishful escapist entertainment for people trying to get by in an indifferent world that didn't meet the idealistic expectations of naive youthdom. That's what you get for participating in a culture of celebrity worship, the existence and cultivation of which serves as a convienient distraction from real world issues the ones in power don't want people discussing about

Its gotten to a point where im embarrassed to admit im a Swiftie. Everyone who knows im a Swifie has asked me about this man and i now redirect and talk about politics

My aunt keeps saying that she “needs to settle down” and “””have kids””” and I just laugh that everyone has to put their own desires onto her! She doesn’t not need to settle down! She does not need to spawn children! She can do what she pleases and she will tell us via song when she feels like it!!!!

The secondhand embarrassment I got for all these people is thru the roof I could barely watch

the book traumatised me. the craziest thing is def travis ex saying that she had him first.

I know and understand why you don't want to adress the g**lor theory. But I'm glad you did. It became so mainstream over the last few years and it's not even the problem but these people get so extremely aggressive for no reason.

"you're like lying in bed before you go to sleep, do you think that you are living a purposeful life? or are you kept awake, having these delusional ideas?... I don't know" I'M DYING THAT IS LITERALLY THE FUNNIEST THING ANYONE HAS EVER SAID

Thank you for being a voice of reason in the Swiftie madness. I’ve had to take a few steps back from social media and work at changing my algorithm to limit this insanity. Everyone writing fanfics in their head about what this is.

i literally got tired of hearing about this after 2 days and i’m a HUGE swiftie. this is crazy.

I’m just going to say it plain and simple why don’t we have more people like zack in the swiftie community so thank you zack for being REAL and NORMAL

i do not get why people are saying he's "the one" just because he looked at her and smiled. It's TAYLOR SWIFT. that's a common reaction and proves that whatever's going on they're both happy.

To see your channel grow warms my heart! You deserve it for all the hard work!!

I don’t have TikTok and had no idea “fans” are taking it THIS FAR! Ty for the sanity cleanse and reminder to all stans that we need to CALM DOWN you’re being too loud

In high school, my former friend and full time bully made a fake MySpace page of me naming me Gaylor and for this reason alone, I absolutely hate all gaylorisms and gaylorists. Their pure delusion is absolute insanity.

Gaylors delusion will never end.. I couldn’t be Taylor for a day, the way her fame has just went up since 2020 is insane i would be an anxious mess 24/7 if i was her 💀💀

I come to you for confirmation that there are reasonable people in some corners of the internet

As someone who is a romance reader, and makes online content about it, and is a Swiftie, there’s so much weirdness going on.

Real ones know the delayed livestream 😂😂 Also, a book? It’s literally been like one day, I’m honestly impressed!

i think the thing that is wildest to me about the travis x taylor discourse is how sustained it is. it’s only been a week, and i’m already overwhelmed. i get hearing about something like this, getting excited, being dramatic and over the top for an hour, and then… moving on with your day, but the financial + time + energy commitments people are making is unsettling to me at this point.

I have to admit, I'm terrified about any sort of backlash right now because of how high up she is. As we saw in 2016. And these types of Swifites are not gonna be helping.

As a women in her 30s who isn’t married I actually feel like other women are the worst when it comes to shaming you / questioning your non-marriage status. I also hate the gaylor speculation because I feel like people are just trying to explain away the fact that that she isn’t married, because why would someone not want to get married? 💀

Im so grateful you gave us this video because i needed to make sense of all this nonsense 😂 I’m excited for Taylor but I’m not taking it that far like I’ve seen others doing online. Thank you for calling out these people 😅

I dont think i’ve ever experienced a celebrity being this famous before. It’s scary and kinda dystopian seeing how many people are aggressively obsessed with Taylor’s life rn

I always appreciate your sane commentary. It’s starting to feel like I’m the odd one out for not engaging in the delusion.

Idk why some people just can't recognize that Taylor is still a girlie! Like she's a mega star but she can still be a girlie and want to date and be messy and want to have a hot girl moment! Especially considering she's been in a relationship for 6 years she probably just wants to date around and have some fun! Like I don't think it's all that serious so idk why people on tiktok are just so up in arms about them getting married, or it being such a serious relationship. If this was any other young adult woman no one would be saying all of this stuff, so what makes Taylor different? She's still only a 33 year old woman who wants to have some fun!

So happy it’s back up!

Taylor dated a guy for 6 yrs and they didn’t get married! How is going to one game of football and then attending their afterparty is an attest to them getting married 🤪🤪😄 Zach, thanks for another great video! I sure am subscribed and I came on RU-vid only hoping you might have a new video! 🙏🏻😍 Thank you

I look forward to your videos every week. You make the swift cinematic universe so much better.

I think it is-hilarious that the NFL used welcome to New York in a promo video and everyone thought it was Taylor’s version. It clearly wasn’t which mess she didn’t license the nfl to use her music.

The fixation on marriage has a few roots in women's behavior at least in American culture. As a woman who literally never wanted to marry I have fought against this social norm my entire life. They see this as one big rom-com and they've picked out their leading man. Out of all the insanity I've seen the last few days on TikTok the only one I'm interested in is the whole revenge aspect of this with her completely obliterating Kim K's announcement of Usher for the halftime show. I think the fandom fixates on Kim too much so at first I rolled my eyes. However when they wrapped in the fact that Usher is business partners with Scooter Braun that concept suddenly took on a new light. I still think Taylor is just having fun and figured it was a win win for all parties involved for her to show up to a game. The fact that it was orchestrated to be that particular game? Yeah I think that might have been planned. I'll even buy into her throwing a bit of cover for Sophie on the tabloid front long before I will buy into the marriage fantasy.

Can’t a girl just have fun without marriage being brought up 💀

I’m just glad that for once it’s the millenials who are clowning so I don’t have to be embarrassed about being a younger swiftie

it's so hilarious watching this video in December 2023 😂😂😂😂😂

The first person must have never, ever listened to "Lavender Haze".

Oh my gosh, you are the most sane person among swifties!! Thank you!! 😂🙏🏻🩷 love this video, your wit, intelligence and common sense are refreshing. Also, love your reaction to tiktokers! The sarcasm is gold. LMAO.

The IRONY of Swifties wanting 1950s shit from her. 😂

The smol gorl video was my favorite. As a tall girlie, my first thought was “oh she gets to feel average sized now!” 😂😂

The first date was 18 July, they also did talk before her show

I literally never had heard about Gaylor before and now it's everywhereee and I do not get why they're trying so hard to convince everyone else of this insanity and why they are so willing to die on that delirious hill

I'm sure the "author" of the book made the prompt in ChatGPT and then just did some editing/cleaning of the copy her/himself. I mean, 50 Shades of Grey read like it was written in 3 days.

D*** envy is pretty accurate. I think a lot of people are all up in her business because they love to live vicariously through her and imagine the experiences she must be having.

Tbh the first one was right. They were already in serious relationship by that first game

the “why are you all so weird” in a high pitch took me out. cause i have that in my inner mind dialogue on a loop everyday.

imagine releasing an album with the theme included that you dont wanna settle down and just stay in the lavender haze and then everyone starts thinking u wanna marry a guy uve been seen with twice. the absolute insanity

You said it. People are invested so much because they’re projecting. ALSO isn’t it sad that she « should » marry him because he chased her and said publicly he has a crush on her? Of course he does: she is immensely talented, kind for all we know and beautiful. Some people should look inward and investigate why they were made to believe that a (attractive white) man who expresses interest in you HAS TO be the one.

Let this be another example of why I’ve still held out on getting TikTok lol I refuse I can’t

omg not the KELCEE-EE 💀 i screamed

The main thing that bums me out about Kelce is that he has a mustache.

The amount of men and some woman I've seen talking about her eggs drying up is so disgusting. Life isn't all about making babies. It's a complicated subject and isn't for everyone.

Wow, you made this so fast! Thanks for all the hard work!!!

I'm actually starting to be embarrassed about being a swiftie because these people are so embarrassing, but you make me feel a like less embarrassed.

Dude, Chiefs fan here. You’re freaking amazing! You are spot on. I want them to both be happy and with who they should be with. Let’s not deny them, at minimum, a chance to have a possible great relationship.

After dating Matty for five minutes, pop culture reddit was convinced that she's already pregnant. There's no chill with Taylor.

People are going CRAZY! I'm glad you're talking about the dulu Also, the last one got me shedding tears of laughter.😂

this is the angriest I think ive seen you at people in your videos before and I love it

It really is sad that Taylor is out here selling out stadium after stadium and yet all people are focused on is when/if she's gonna get married and have a family. Even the most famous woman in the world can't escape this pressure as soon as she hits 30. I say this as someone who likes her with Travis and hopes they work out, but it seems to be impossible for people to picture a woman in her 30s that is just dating a guy she finds attractive and seeing where it goes.

Finally someone approaching the subject sensibly and factually. Refreshing. Don’t understand what is wrong with fandoms nowadays. I had to take a break from TikTok cos my algorithm couldn’t cope with this mania 😅 . Between the Taylor&Travis craziness, the “unmentionable” conspiracy theorists, and the aggressive Larries/haylor haters … I couldn’t get out of it! 🌀🌀. It got all too annoying. Its gone from supporting an artist to worshipping whatever relationship, existing or not, blindly, without using any discerning or critical thinking. No one makes sense. And there’s so many. And I t’s all PR or marriage, no other scenarios are considered. + the level of disrespect towards these humans (cos they are humans not characters in a tv show)… embarrassing. Thank you for talking about it !

Most of them being grown adults w kids is absolutely insane

I read that book I can’t with the disclaimer at the start LMAO. “All persons in this book are not based on anyone in real life” LIKE YES THEY ARE

it's back up we won

3:35 I dare say that the Zach vs. Swifttok thing is probably the most entertaining life-altering super engaging event that's happened within the swiftie community in 2023, it honestly feels like I'm watching a reality show Edit: maybe labeling it as a "reality" show isn't appropriate, especially when one party chooses to get away from it.. and ofc I'm not talking ab Zach lol

thank u for making these videos.. for me i think it’s so incredibly unreasonable that people take tiktoks for face value and more often than not they’re complete bullsh*t. it’s so important to have critical thinking abilities and differentiate facts from ludicrous theories.

The overexposure is genuinely scary. I need it to go away asap.

"there's a child in the car...you should stop doing this and attend to them" HAHAHA

Soooo excited you’re gonna be live streaming!

As my lord and saviour once said, "no deal, the 1950s shit they want from me"

I really love the takes you give. Like it’s so nice to hear honesty

They’ve had one physical encounter that we’ve seen. I think they’ve likely been talking for at least 2 months.

"I'd give you my sunshine, Id give you my best but the rain is always gonna come if you standing with me, Would it be enough if i can never give you peace" These lyricks are hitting hard these days with all this nonsense going on right now. Let these people breath without all this goddamn pressure😅😅

thank you so much for this, i felt like i was going insane every time i checked tiktok

Your videos are the only thing that make me feel like there are other SANE swifties out there. The "novel" makes me feel icky. I love me a smutty novel, but the idea that it is written about real people is sooooo icky.

“No I don’t, and you can’t make me 😄” yes babe tell them what’s good !

16:39 as a a freshly new journalism student who does wanna go into the entertainment business this section was really eye opening for me as what not to do! Plus I learn so much from you in general on how to look at media objectively and smartly. So I thank you sir! I hope to be as good as you one day.

I love the word "meth math" 😂