An older gentlemen told me one time that he not only loves his wife, but he LUVs her and this is what is missing from most marriages. LUV: listen, understand, and validate. This was such a confirmation, Chance and Tab. I'ma go give my husband some suga'! Praise God for the brand new mercy we get everyday, we can start over with our spouses, ask for forgiveness and forgive, and start all over again. Amen!!
Amen I had to screen shot this Listen Understand Validate 🥰 I will celebrate 22 years of marriage in February and I know and that God everyday for the blessing He gave me in my husband.
@@queenofweaves916 Congratulations on 22 years. Yes, thank God for YOUR husband. So many spouses complain about what the other spouse isn't doing, or being, or who they are not like. When we stop complaining and start praying and praising, what the spouse is doing or not, isn't at all what we thought we were seeing or hearing. The Lord has a great way of showing us ourselves. Then you're right Sista, we can see our husbands as blessings!
My husband is my best friend....and we can talk about everything. We Wana be happy....so we don't always have to be right....and we practice investing in one another. Thank you for this Black Love.
Wow. Thank you so much for sharing such priceless truths and giving hope to those who might have lost all hope. God bless you and heal our families🙏 Can anyone see what I'm seeing? Beautiful stuff like this online...praise God. The internet is not all bad, depends on where we choose to focus, on value or trash. May we choose right.
I love the transparency in your open conversation. I wish as a community we could share our hurts as well as our successes in marriage. Chance spoke a word!! The day you decide to have a successful marriage is the day you take hard look at yourself!! Keep encouraging folks Tab & Chance❤️
Wow! This is what an ideal couple sounds and looks like! Your demeanor, understanding and love to one another is next level. Many can use you two as a model for marital relationship. You guys are so young with old souls, you really get this life thing. God keep blessing you both🙏🏾
That was the most beautiful expression of love and marriage that I've seen in a long time! Thank you for the inspiration, the possibility, the hope that this can be my joy-even if I don't get to experience it as long as the two of you have!🙏❤
She so pretty and looks very happy. You two make a great combination... I LOVE black Love. I wish me and my hubby were in this stage of our marriage.. we LOOK good but we are not vibin
I just ran across this Tab and Chance show on my UTube. Well I am. Hooked. I have been married for 47 years now and we're so happy. To see the two of EVERYDAY. I learn so.e to spice my marriage. You're never too old to learn. Blessings and Love to you both.
You two are so beautiful. I felt ya'll loving and genuine energy that you love, like, and are in love with each other..I see that natural couple glow. God bless you both. Thank you for sharing.
I love you guys this interview brought tears of joy to my eyes!i I’m grateful for you guys and you sharing your relationship with us .I know God will continue to bless you . ♥️
She reminded him of the time he hit her in 5th grade! Lol. I LOVE them! I'm mad I just found out about Tabitha today, binge watching her is added to my plans this week
These two!!! So wonderful and heart-centered. I am grateful beyond words that they ended up as partners for life! I am also the product of a high school sweetheart marriage. ❤️ sometimes when you know, you know!
Oh that part about the day you decide to have a successful marriage is also the day you’ve decided to take a good hard look at yourself and grow!!!!! Oh wow! It’s true! Marriage truly tests you to take a look at yourself! If you’re not doing that... I don’t know how you can grow, be stronger for yourself and give back to the relationship in a way you were impatient or stubborn prior. I’m telling you, that’s true!
Tabitha you and Chance are a Beautiful Couple and I truly admire your relationship with each other. Following the guidelines of Father God will insure victory of an Awesome Union, God Bless!❤❤
The two of you are genuinely Blessed and a Blessing to so many! May you continue to focus on living life in various areas of abundance! I listened to the Q& A's regarding your marital relationship and was truly inspired and blessed!!! Continue your LOVE JOURNEY! SHELIA T IN KCMO
This couple is so absolutely adorable u can see the love they have for each other in the way they talk look and feel for each other I love this black 🖤 💯💯💯💯👌💯💯
I thank you both for being so real. Your the cutest couple I ever seen. Right a book about relationships do a soft copy and audible and some coaching on the side. Schedule sessions via the phone do it for all ages. Create a website people can come to for scheduled session. Starting at a half HR to an hour. Put your price on it your info is priceless. That way they schedule on your website. You have a business going and don't even know you have the followers the community to support you you can do weekends only. They can pay online right on your website for their schedule coaching. I just see that you guys have a lot to offer and a lot of people can benefit 20 + years you are a relationship expert you know all the ups and downs in and out of a relationship what works what doesn't work how to try and make it work just like you did here today add more and get paid you guys are awesome and I wish the best always.
Beautiful couple..I enjoyed hearing them tell their story together. I would love for Chance to write a book. His information would be useful to men of all ages. I would definitely buy it for my husband.
It might have seemed like a bad decision when you were young (ya'll breaking up as teens), but in the midst of things God worked it out for your good. Chance, your beautiful daughter Leah is an Amazing young woman. In all God had a plan & look at your family now with all 3 of your children. Chance, you talking good. Like my Grandma used to say, it doesn't matter where you start, but where you end up because God knows what he's doing!!!
I think that's so important because they wear a hard exterior outside the house. When they get home, that should be their safe place, haven and place of peace!!!
It’s a give & Take in a Marriage, me & my husband had some low down arguments , but we was very young I was 19 & He was 21 navy man , just young & immature , but we love ❤️each other & We was Friends ❤️ we’ve been together now 35 years ✝️thank GOD
I'm crying tears of joy. Oh my God to see too black people in love like this it's so refreshing. It's so good. Black kids around the world need to watch this power couple and follow them.
I tell you that was the most REAL marriage info I have heard. I love how yr husband talked and communicated so well. So many times u all always hear the women over talk the men. It was refreshing to hear what really goes thru a man mind and point of view. Love Love this!
Thanks for sharing. I've really learned a lot from this. I see a lot of respect and love for each other which is very rare nowadays. May God continue to cover your union.
