TABOO: Civil Marriage ( Perkahwinan Sivil) 

Islam sama islam kahwin sama jugak. Kes cerai naik, anak luar nikah pon naik. Apa beza nya sama jugak. Biarlah it’s their happiness in marriage not your problem.

Islam sama islam kahwin sama jugak. Kes cerai naik, anak luar nikah pon naik. Apa beza nya sama jugak. Biarlah it’s their happiness in marriage not your problem.

in ur view someone is no longer a Muslim. Ur saying u have been given special pass by Allah (S.A.W) TO JUDGE? only HE can judge. who are you? u can see the level of her iman clear as day ? u for sure know ur going to jannah just cos u think ur Muslim bro? by the way , music is haram. Just saying.

Alhamdulillah.Baca...

@@CTSal Alhamdulillah. Semoga suatu hari, hati akan memahami mengapa Islam mempunyai banyak halangannya. Dont bother with kecaman. Yg ada tu kawin sesama Islam pun takde akhlak. Contohnya bini lawyer, tapi kaki control satu keluarga. In society, carik pasal dengan org yg tak heran nk berkawan dengan dia. U know? Narcisstic people. Ada pelajaran tapi takde akhlak. Tak hormat suami. Control control control.Tkde class. Camtu pun tk kenal agama sebenarnya, setakat kawin halal je tapi kumpul dosa2 jenis lain. So carry on with ur happy life but at the same time, berilah Islam peluang. Allah memilih mu sebagai umatnya for a reason. Dont turn ur back on him because of love alone. I wish u the best.

Mixed marriage doesn't mean murtad. Zina, yes. Murtad if she denies Allah swt. But in this case, I agree with your point. And I can see where you're coming from But strictly speaking as I said, mixed religion marriage means it is zina. only

@@sarahszss Title mixed marriages with nikah sivil of different religion so not nikah in Islam way so same as murtat for Muslims !

Agreed.. I was born into a Muslim family... practiced Islam as a kid... but I left because I knew Jesus called me to worship him and rest my faith in Christ, and so I embraced Christianity. It's one thing to be born into a religion... It's another thing to choose. Who am I to judge you for your own path?

I managed to stop my sister from going through civil marriage, alhamdulillah... after full explanation & reminded her all the consequences if she insist to follow that path. It's a huge sin, that's all i can say.

I believe shes born muslim but not practicing it. So muslim in registry only

Mudah2an sempat bertaubat.

Ya the part whr he said he want to change his religion n get angry when he have to go for the counselling n pay for the fee.. like he just muslim for d name sake .. but iman da gone

Can asked sameone about it. Thanks for watching.

For her safety. This is the reason. If you are Muslim, you will know and understand why. If their identities are revealed, there is a chance that some people they know (or not know) may take matters into their own hands for religious reasons. I understand why they have decided to remain anonymous.

@@raven_among_doves if that's the case, why make the claim as if Singapore is a safe place to do civil marriage? Isn't that dishonest (to the audience and her own self)?

@@sallieceelee5660 Because the claim is not false. Singapore recognizes civil marriages, even many of those from overseas. That's not the problem here. The problem is IF you are Muslim and YET you choose to only go through civil marriage in Singapore. If you're not Muslim sure, no problem. But if you are... oh oh oh.. you better watch your back coz you'll never know who is going to endlessly harrass you because of this for the rest of your life.

@@raven_among_doves In that case why "Thank God we are in Singapore," if it is not safe to do so? I mean civil marriages can happen anywhere. It is societal acceptance that makes the difference. Even in neighbouring Indonesia, civil marriage is not only legal under the law, but normalized in society. There is no real need to hide your identity if you enter into civil marriage in Indonesia, even as a Muslim. Considering that she still faces societal pressure to the extend that she needs to hide her identity, how is Singaporean society considered conducive for civil unions?

@@sallieceelee5660 There's nothing wrong with showing gratitude despite the circumstances. They are thankful to our country for not forbidding their union. They would've had to leave the country otherwise and get married somewhere else which would've probably never had happened. To add on to this, entering a civil union in other Muslim countries as a Muslim may not be as safe as we would like to think compared to Singapore. So I do not agree with civil marriage being generally normalized for Muslims living in for example Indonesia or Malaysia or Brunei at all - not where state and religion are one under the Shariah Law. In some cases, the opposite happens where Muslim couples marry the 'right way' without officiating their union with the state (no civil marriage) and the consequences to that are worse. Like not being recognised as a married couple by the country, not being being able to inherit assets after a spouse's death or children being sold or 'married off' in order for the family living in poverty to survive or women being abused in their relationships and the state cannot help. Marriage between two people should always be a civil union. Regardless of their religion. In Singapore, ROMM takes care of both (it is a civil AND a Muslim union) provided the parties are Muslim. ROM takes care of civil marriages regardless of your religion. Singapore does not force Muslims to go through marriage via ROMM but they recommend it without punishing you for choosing otherwise. They are officially married now whether society or their circle of family and friends likes it or not. But it is the fact that they have chosen a path many will hate is the reason they choose to be anonymous. I am amused by the fact that them choosing to remain anonymous for their own safety bothers you. Why not respect that choice? We don't know exactly what they've gone through and that's food for thought.

She is a human..she comes across as much more educated and wiser than you. People like her are welcomed all over the world with open arms. As for people like you, who is close minded and intolerant against people who are different, will be mocked and ridiculed !

@@conanabang1515 that’s not the point. She is trying to proclaim to be muslim but is not preaching anything really to Islam. What are you even talking about…

That's for you and your kind. Majority of the people in this world also hold different view than you - thought you need to be reminded.

perhaps that's why the guy needed to do civil marriage...

Voice is not real ...they scared. So confuse a bit.

How old are you ? 7 years old ? Do you want to know why their voices has been altered or do you still want your questions to be answered ?