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To the guy in all white outfit: you will find the most amazing genuine feminine woman you deserve . It might take longer than you expect but she is out there . Stay strong in your values .
If you have to "impress" a female, she doesn't like you. Just keep working on yourself. You shouldn't have to "impress" someone. You should simply be impressive.
Such a great comment. Chad, Tyrone, and Chadrone don't have to do shieettt to get the box on the 1st night. Only beta providers who are unattractive but possess long-term daddy qualities have to prove themselves. These same beta's then get punished in the divorce courts for trying to do the right thing.
👏🏼🎉 we will all find the right one God willing! I’m in my 30s too and it’s easy to give up hope sometimes in this world that’s distracted by materialism and short term pleasures
I don't really agree, as it is unrealistic for many men to do this as they physically will go crazy. I've known 2 guys who were like this (religious school) who both waited until marriage. Both of them weren't particularly interesting in girls as we grew up. We would go out and they would never want to even talk or date girls. I'd say their sex drives were low for young men, making the religious discipline easy. If you've got a normal male sex drive and you can do this - amazing work!
It's much easier to have that discipline when you've never been with a woman. It seems that maybe he hasn't even had intimate moments. Once you've had a "taste" it's hard for a young man to think properly. Haha
So, some basic logic. If you’re doing the makeup, and all that stuff for yourself and NOT me, why does that mean I owe you a $200.00 date because of something YOU did for YOURSELF?
She wears all that expensive make-up when she goes out with her friends but she doesn't expect THEM to reimburse her. If he asked her out on a date, that means he already found her attractive. The date is to get to know her, not to look at her painted face.
The thing with women is you have to impress them if you dont know them well, like if I invited a girl like ice spice on a date should I take her to mcdonalds (NO) . She has way to many guys who like her why would she want to go out with a guy that takes her to some fast food. When she goes out with friends thats because its her friends, shes not gonna date them or have sex with them.
@@King-vm2yk So if a girl isn't excited enough at the chance to get to know you that a coffee isn't good enough & only a $200-300 *MINIMUM* date is acceptable. Then how quick do you think she's going to be walk the 1st time the marriage goes through even the slightest rough patch?
You are exactly right. If a woman shows enough interest to go out on a date with you then it shouldn't matter how much is spent on the first date because she is attracted to you. The date is meant to introduce your self and to get to know each other to see if you're compatible. If not, then the man just lost out on a lot of money if he takes her out on an expensive date. A gold-digging selfish woman is worried about how much we spend on the first date. They should be impressed with the type of man thtey are talking to instead of how much money is spent on the date. A good man witl take good care of a woman if she isn't shallow and selfish. @@gsxr1189
To the man in white. It makes me sad to see that you struggle - you already have so much to offer. Your strong, humble and loving mindset, you’re ability for selfreflection, respect and criticism, your loyalty and so much more. I wish I would meet a man with those qualities. I’d probably never let him go.
The man in white is a real masculine man. He has self control, morals and wants to provide and protect his family. God bless him! I hope he finds a real feminine lady that wants a family and will be faithful to him. I hope and pray he finds her soon.
Blah blah blah babble. I don't mind him being a virgin, good for him. That has zero to do with you lemmings Red Pills to handing out congratulations. I dare you to do that with Black men dating obviously attractive women. You won't. Sorry B but you lose.
I feel sorry for the first lady's future ex-husband. She is going to take EVERYTHING from him! The kids, money, 401k, investments, the house, the car, etc... EVERYTHING!
The expenditure on overpriced cosmetics will be unbelievable. She will inevitably ask for boob implants too cos she needs those even more than the cosmetics.
Virgin dude, never change! You’ll find your woman brother. I had a buddy the exact same.. was a virgin because of religious beliefs.. he met his girl at 23 they got married when he was 25. They were both virgins! Before meeting him I’d never believe it.
But he's 10 years older. Isn't it more difficult at that age to get the same result? Virgin women normally don't really exist in their 30s unless they are not that desirable.
Absurd logic by her anyway. She said “it’s on him” if he wishes to spend more. So by the same merit, it’s on her if she chooses to use extortionately priced beauty products. The man didn’t ask for her to nor should he reimburse her for it on a first date. Avoid self entitled women like her at all costs gentleman !
All the best to dude in white, it's gonna be hard finding a woman in thats open to being with him but I mean there's hope its not impossible best of luck ✊🏾 and to the 42 year old woman, i hope love finds her again she seemed sweet and genuine.
Respect for the bron that is a virgin. There are many reasons why it is better to wait till marriage and have it exclusively. However temptation is everywhere. So again much respect for this dude and look for a girl in non western countries.
The bond and union of souls between two people that remained virgins until marriage is out of this world, its sad most people in modern day will never get to experience it, people have FOMO of the wrong things & capitalist have exploited temptation everywhere for greed & profit. I feel like two people being in love with each other's spirits & souls is one of the easiest ways to even assure marriage last until old age. But the west is so so secular & temptation, over sexualization is everywhere so its rare to meet anyone non religious that's even practicing chastity. It is easier to go into foreign communities where the fathers raised the daughter with traditional values or to value & see the importance of chastity, abstinence, and other very important virtues in life for a higher quality & more fulfilling, meaningful life. And if men happen to luck upon a girl who has a high sex drive & eager desire/curiosity in sex but saved herself from all the temptation or being led by strange men who don't have her best interest in mind anyhow he gets to experience an unreal treat in discovering everything with her and getting to be apart of all her first experiences... seeing her unreveal & unravish that side of herself she's never explored, the enthusiasm & passion is unmatched, most young women in the west mindlessly & unconsciously give all that passion to the first couple boyfriends that don't care about them & toss them out back into the streets after they've had their fill to find new conquest. A lot of people might be terrified of her not being good in bed but they just have a terrible mindset, the point is you two become better together & enjoy time with each other for the 90% other part of the relationship besides the sex life, people have short term mindsets for everything, some men are terrified of virgin women since they don't want them to get attached or very clingy and co dependent on them, they see it as a bad thing she's not sexually experienced as they only care about all their short term gratification not a meaningful serious relationship.
$200 dollar make-up, $300 cream, $400 serum.... "Who do you do that for?" "I do that for me" Question that should've been asked-So if all that is done for you and you don't do anything for him, why should he spend a minimum of $200?
Obviously you never bought makeup. Russian women don't deny this. They say it's expensive to be a woman/girl. Guess that means Slavic women are off limits for you despite being some of the most attractive women on the planet. Sucks to be you, there is always the Philippines when all else fails.
@@dj4monie Guess you know absolutely nothing about marketing, branding, and buying habits of women. Makeup is expensive in the same way Bayer aspirin is more expensive than the generic brands. It's not expensive to be a woman. Be pleasant and don't be fat have always been free. Your need to attempt to insult Filipino women as somehow low quality while you're also inadvertently saying that Russian and Slavic women need to have a lot of expensive makeup and other things in order to be attractive is bizarre.
The classy 42 year old lady looks amazing and I enjoyed hearing her perspective and answers. Hope she finds someone to match her energy and gives her the love she deserves after her heartbreak.
She admitted it herself, saying she let a stranger have it for free while asking her future husband to pay $200-300. She raised her price after 18 while bring nothing more to the table no man would be okay with that. Imagine paying full price for something someone else got it for free.
Girl in brown dress said "never a dull moment in our relationship". It's obvious she doesn't understand what a real relationship looks like because even great ones can be dull and boring for stretches. A healthy relationship doesn't look like a 24/7 vacation on an all inclusive resort. It includes jobs, family, responsibilities etc etc. Good for both though. Sometimes it's not about forever. Sometimes its about being fortunate enough to have a certain person in your life for "now". Forever and now are both important in their own way.
This s guy is beyond help if he thinks he's going to get with a girl thats not a virgin and expect them to stay celebrate with him till marriage this is beyond simp level this guy is straight delusional and ill experienced with the true nature of women.
Salute to the virgin man in white. You deserve a traditional faithful virgin woman. Don't settle for a woman that's been through the ringer. Go to church and maybe you'll find a good one there who shares your values, or travel abroad
I don’t understand the logic behind them saying a man should spend a lot because their makeup and products cost a lot. They aren’t even using a significant amount of it for that particular date. If they get 100 uses of something that cost them 200, how the hell does that one use of foundation or whatever equate to the entire cost of the product? Someone needs to hit them with this rebuttal.
Girl in brown dress has a lot of growing to do. Still equating how much a man spends to how much he cares. If a dude got it like that? Money is just a tool to get what he wants. He'll trick no problem. A man willing to invest time. Is a man that cares. She'll have to learn the hard way
18:00 Fellas never “try to impress” a girl with anything. If she likes you and how you move you can just get coffee and she’ll brag to her friends that she was in your presence for an hour. What actually impresses a girl is when you’re normally too busy for her but give her a little time in your presence or when you’re willing to walk away at the drop of a hat at any sign of attitude
lol, if a woman has a problem with me giving her my presence over a cup of coffee she can kick rocks. Because if you can't enjoy a cup of coffee and conversation with me then why tf would I want to be around you any god damn way? You can get tf out my face with that quite honestly. Anyone who thinks like that has never had a meaningful, long term relationship. Im 16 years in and we've vacationed in different parts of the US, Spain, Portugal, Germany, Italy, the DR and that's how it all started... over a coffee and a smile. So I guess we both bums then huh? lmao
The girl in the black wants every date she goes on to pay for her products. She uses very little of those products. Like literal drops of each serum yet she wants one date to pay for an entire whole bottle. Thats like the guy saying she should pay the equivalent of a new car because he used his car and gas to pick her up. Actually, thats the new standard fellas😂 🤘
These girls always say, “I wont say the most, but I’ll say the minimum. …AND THAT’s BEING NICE.” After saying some stupid 💩 like $300 on a first date 😂
they think being demanding makes them look confident and gets them respect. even other women don't respect that attitude, they just built a culture to encourage it because they're all trying to sabotage each other. the actual smart ones just cheer on other women for acting like this and laugh at them behind their back. for the ones dumb enough to actually act like this in public the whole world is like a joke they're not in on.
The biggest problems with dating in todays times according to the video. It's some females ego and fairytale expectations. On a first date you're trying to get to know each other but for one person to think their time is worth a man having to pay $200, $300. When he doesn't even know if he likes you and wants to see you again is insane...just for conversation...those are lawyer prices lol.
I love how both girls said that there is no maximum you can spend on her, but the minimum needs to be 200-300 $ and that's them "being nice". They used the exact same logic and even the exact same language. This goes to show that this way of thinking is probably more prevalent than we think. Meanwhile, my boy over there is thinking to himself that he is offering something special by being a virgin. Two completely different worlds. I like when you stitch examples like that in the same video lol
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So true brother, when you’re on your death bed, what will you remember the most? That time you bought a 5k Gucci bag or the meaningful moments you’ve had with your friend’s and family? Woman are so out of touch is actually so sad
So, impressing a woman on the first date is how much money that you spend on her , and not showing her that you are a good man and can complimnet her and add value to her life? Got it. These women are delusional.
Transactional women have been around forever. Also,the pattern I have seen consistently, is women in their 20s with very high standards/ridiculous for a young man’s position and earnings capacity to qualify. The young man may be smart, empathetic and sleeping on his mother’s couch while going to grad school. She would turn heels and walk away. Look ahead, she is now 40 years old, very attractive, generally more mature and perhaps in a place where she could sustain a relationship. However, they are usually complaining all the good men are married or unmarried bad boys .The young man sleeping on the couch met a girl who valued him for his true attributes, He is now successful,, in great shape with a great job. However, she was blind . I see it over and over again.
The girl in the black dress made me lose all faith and humanity, no fucking way someone should be spending $200 like he OWES you something and your presence is worth $200. If it talks and looks like a prostitute...
Facts. Perhaps she should pay for the dinner instead , since she is commiting makeup fraud to fool the guy into believing she's more attractive than she actually is.
First girl in black is toxic and will be in for a rude awakening in her 30s. She WILL change her outlook. Virgin dude will change his mind also once he is married, gets some and it doesn't work out. Hopefully it will but you gotta compromise alot in a marriage. He's already in his 30s. Good luck.
"The woman is the neck"😂that was hilarious, women and men have their roles in the household yo, its all about communicating with each other, traditionally to the man is the head as it should be, and the woman takes care of home and can still work as well, but relationships are different so it all depends on the couple so🤷🏿♂️
No. The man is not the head unless the woman agrees to that. And if he is not paying 100% of the bills, then he needs to help with the household chores.
Why is nobody talking about the girl in all white who was 42 (4:40) and how she answered all the questions spot on,she didn’t let her 9 year marriage relationship over shadow her self respect props to her 🎉👏👏👏
Crazy when ppl have no accountability. “I have to put my stuff (makeup, lotions, etc) on to go see the guy.” Woman, your stuff your choice. I don’t believe in McDonald’s but the guy should be able to do a walk in the park and conversation or a beach date.
