"There is a way that seems right unto a man but the ends, thereof, are the ways of death." "The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked. Who can know it?" The Almighty would never send a mother to look for a man, let alone a stranger on the internet in a distant land. Why? He considers the needs of a child and that includes its psychological needs. A child without both its parents already has trauma going on in its head. Then you are bringing a strange man for it to turn into its father. Most crimes are committed by those from 'broken' homes. That is, siblings with different fathers, where men come and go. A child from a home with only a mother but who concentrates on her child as its comfort, its shelter, its cave in which to hide, its listening ear, spends one to one time with him or her, shows an interest in his/her education, give him/her hugs that give off her human warmth comes out more law abiding and mentally balanced than one whose mother focuses on being with a man. As a single parent, your child or children should be your strength. Why? Because children need protection. They depend on those who have brought them into the world and those who have brought them into the world should see them as the 'apple of my eyes'. If you think of your eyes, would you put anything into it? Would you not be bothered what you put into your eyes? How is it adults think of the Almighty as One there to give them all the good things they want, believe that is what he is going to do and yet don't see themselves in his position when it comes to their children? Who are children expected to see as their everything? Are they expected to see the Almighty as the one? Are they born knowing about him that they would automatically think that way? If children were to see the Almighty the way adults do, each and every human would come into the world the way Adam came. While all and she herself is crediting "God" as the matchmaker, what checking of that man did she do? What can she put before as what she knows first hand that he is or is not? Does she have his family photos of generations? Can she show his work place? Can she show his criminal record report? Can she show his social circle, one childhood friend? Can she name his schools? A true servant of the true God see God's will and so she would depend on him to show a way to get an income to meet her children's needs. That she clearly is not lacking because she owns a vehicle and gets money for others. So, the man is not there out of interest for her children's welfare but for her own lustful desires. And if she looked to him as a way for her children, I would still object to it as something that involves the Almighty, for the reasons I have already stated. Next, persons of the opposite sex who have a freshly interest in each other and are righteous according to the true God's definition of righteousness, would not be alone in each other's presence, even once, the male touching the female's body like he is doing, nor would be cohabiting, that is, living immorally.
Nobody says that he is not a human being but when a pig is a pig you call it out she is clearly using this old man for a Visa and money do you deny that
You are right dear, you can still get that young guy and it doesn't work. The thing here is compatibility people. Let this gal live her life. The critics can't marry her 😢
Essie tewetondo, Ennimi engwira teli atazikoleramu nsobi. The fast that you trying to speak it however hard it feels, it's a win and that proves that your unstoppable. Practice is the best teacher. 😊 Ich wish you all the best
Greetings with love....whoever is saying that yr man is older the yr parents sho know that age is a number what matters is love. Abenugu bwebatyo keep going...we love uuu n blessings!!!
😂😂The way am enjoying this couple ohhhh, Essie darling don't mind negative people just love your man until river Nile dry 👌much love darling from saudi Arabia 🇸🇦 hey Mr G please love our gal as u love yourself best wishes guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Please, stop saying my man, it sounds very vulgar, you can say my boyfriend my fiancé, my baby oh my sweetheart it's more appropriate, softer and more tender
Just for the viewers, you keep on saying man it’s not sounding a bit romantic, you can say your partner or your boyfriend but you just say man that’s not sounding right just putting it out there. You need to say more something better. The man is just like the average man on the street..
But when she had used the word boyfriend, she was criticised that her man is not a boy but much older etc... so I think the term 'my man' is absolutely right.
Did you want her to take you, the young one with no future 😏 Keep that advice to your little or elder sister when she gets a man that is older than your parents in the future Tumbavu
If you don't have anything good to say,then say nothing at all. It's better to be with an 'old man' as you call him and be truly loved than be a slave to a young man!
