Tami Roman | Me, My Husband & A Baby 

My 7 year old son has autism also. I know actually how you feel 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

@@MiscellaneousMichelle Salute to you Mom 💪🏾 we are in this together

Same here my young man is 27 and I have no support but he is a blessing and teaches me things every day💕🧩🧩

@@annedraherron546 Salute to you Mom we can do it 💪🏾🧩💙

My daughter also has autism. So we all can agree it is definitely not easy but they are worth it all💜

Yeah some of what she said was like breadcrumbs

@@audreyevans6660 Breadcrumbs?

Yes like a trail of sorts. She stated she doesn't want to leave her husband to take care of a disabled child. She then said he stated he wants to use the time with her loving her he doesn't want to use the time with her away from her emotionally investing in someone else to have a surrogate. I should have finished my thoughts but I didn't because I walked away. I hope this makes sense.

I just hope she is well.

@@audreyevans6660 She said she wouldn’t want her husband to have to care for a child with special needs, not what you said.

Congratulations !

Congratulations! What a blessing. I would have a 10 year old right now. I was able to love on her physically for 4 months. I pray for a favorable outcome over the next 12-24 months. In 2022 I'll be 43. I've chosen the year to began trying again. There's no way to know the outcome, be it a 25 y/o mom or a 45 y/o mother. But what I do know is that 43/44 will be it for me, especially with having other health issues.

Congrats ❤️

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AWESOME Testimony! 🙌🏾

Well said. 💛

Aaaaawh that was soooo sweet. Blessings to you and your child! 🌹🙏🏽

she spoke on it so it was not private

This is a update though.

Yes, it is her private business, therefore she did not have to tell anyone.

Love Tami but she really didn't have to tell the world this info.

its not private if shes telling us

She really could have just kept the information to herself

It's sad she got to explain this! Love 💘 you Tammy always real!

Yet she did just that!! Make it make sense

The “You don’t have to explain anything to us” crew really seem to think they’re saying something deep. Double DUHHH. Tammy has shared this particular journey EVERY step of the way. I would have found it odd if she hadn’t shared. This is her testimony. You don’t know who else is grateful and needed to hear those words. Or who has a word she needs to hear. Just receive the testimony and send them love 💕

@@passionatebliss4591 AMEN!

Amen sis..this my sentiment exactly. Wish I could meet a man that understood this, but men so into what their jealous and miserable family and friends think. ❤️. Be Blessed girl!!! But I still wanted her to give him a baby tho.

I understand what you're going through my mom had a special needs child

Period sis

I am also a mom of a child with autism. His dad passed away four years ago from colon cancer. My son is the joy of my family's life. Is it easy....absolutely not. But I believe that we were chosen to be his parents for a reason. Each one of us have to decide what is best for us. Be blessed and confident in your decision.

God bless you Queen!

Bless you 🙏

Curly G. You have 2 autistic kids AND SO, you KNOW THE BURDEN. May GOD HELP YOU ! MY PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU!

Which one is more of a burden? Autistic kids or bipolar kids? My friend has 2 and it s a burden on her as well. But idk which one is worse.

@@daphneepaul3737 it probably will depend on the care taker/parent.b

Well, have you had your baby yet?!

@@MariaEOD I said that she came out very healthy. So yes! But I was saying that I was told the same thing she was told due to my age.

Yes God is truly in control. What a decision to make for older women who want to gave more kids

@@originaleverythingelseisca5977 Yes exactly! We prayed about it and took our chances and our daughter came out very healthy! We are truly blessed!

@@keiaskloset praise GOD.

Please don't lose hope, somethings happen when you lease expect it. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Don't give up. I had my daughter at 40. It could still happen for you ♥️

Dont lose hope god got you

There are women having babies in their late 40's and we'll into their 50's. Don't ever lose your faith, we all have a different walk in life and what The Most High has for you, is for you.

keep the faith strong. you’ve made it this far

an hysterectomy is so drastic please reconsider your decision and get a 2nd or 3 rd opinion

@@danijones819 I already had it done. Physically it was the best decision I ever made. Mentally I'm still dealing with the loss. I still mourning.

@@novavega7394 healing and light to you and take care of yourself

Why a hysterectomy I don understand plz help me understand.

I know a couple who were trying for years. They finally adopted a child then six months later they were pregnant. All the stress from trying so hard was gone after they adopted which is probably the reason why they were able to conceive.

I JUST LOVE TAMI......

She really is 🥺

I hope it work out

Prayers up🙏

Geritol (liquid or pill form), prenatal pills, take as directed for at the least 3/6 months. I had all the conditions you stated in the above and after a year I was bless with twins! He said.. here’s TWO for your troubles. 😭🙌🏾 God is still in the miracle working business! God bless..

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Comment# 1/3= Yes,...I have always loved that transparent characteristic of TAMI ROMAN,....but I was a bit perturbed by the 17 years difference in their ages because at first I made the ERROR of thinking that she was a "competitive-mother" like the one I grew up with. However, after seeing her ,"INTERVIEW" videos, & after Tami made her "CLARITY" statement,... I now know and fully realize that TAMI ROMAN is NOT competitive with her daughters .because she sets very good & high standards for them, = requiring that they obtain college educations and abstain from sex before marriage.. In my opinion, she is an excellent mother The 17 years' of age difference is just "one-of-those-rare-things" that happen every now & then. After all,...MEN MARRY MUCH YOUNGER WOMEN EVERY SINGLE DAY !

Bless you and Reggie, Tami. I've always respected and admired you. I'm glad you've moved on from basketball wives, Shaunie and the other fake- sters on that show. They're ridiculous and petty.

@@layparisss Yes, her son is her child Period end of story. Btw your comment is very rude and insensitive.

@@layparisss that’s her child!!!

@@shaunjones1712 I deal in facts. Fck the sweet shit.

@@shaunjones1712 How is it rude?

@@bettymwangi4092 @Lay Paris deleted her first comment which stated "So technically that's not your child". Yes I find that to be very rude and insensitive PERIOD.

That's wuts up queen 👸 👏 🙌

@Bree Yah okay……

As a fan who watched you, from the real world i am surprised. God makes no mistakes. You choose to do this is your way. Either way of choosing your choice God has the final say. A lot of women do this and there is never a baby. Therefore, I wish you the best.

You are too sweet ♥️

You're a real G!

I am 6 years my husband's senior. I have a 20 year old daughter from my ex husband and my husbae doesn't have any children either. I am 46 years old and carrying a baby just isn't a "realistic" situation for us, but I would do what I could to give him the child he desires

@@brangeeellis3083 same ❤

Well Said

AMEN!!!!

So true.

Exactly! She does'nt owe anyone a damn thing. He got married to her unconditionally.

Thank you! I agree. Reading some of these repetitive comments has given me yet another topic to chat about on my channel. Why do people feel they are helping by telling a very grown and open woman what she doesn't owe us? She clearly knows that and is CHOOSING TO SHARE pieces of her self beyond the surface. But then, if all she gave was surface, then she wouldn't be human or down to earth enough. I just don't get people. They will complain either way. If all of the milions of RU-vidrs stopped sharing personal details and talked about the weather and how good iced coffee is, hardly anyone would watch. It is, after all, broadcasting yourself. I'm proud of Tami. And I respect her so much.

AMEN

Amen

Amen🙌🏾

You don't support that. Stop lying

@@9290SC yes I do and please be respectful and not call me a liar. Be blessed 😇

You understand it now but if she didn't explain it would you you still have understood it???

They told me when I was 5 months that my baby had a rare genetic disorder along with acrondoplasia which is a type of dwarfism & the #'s tested positive for down syndrome..we went to a high risk doc that said he would never have any quality of life, that he probably wouldn't even survive birth bcuz of brittle bones & his advice was to abort. We decided that we would let God decide...so I had him, he survived birth, no down syndrome but he did have acondroplasia...they said he wouldn't live past 6 months ..he did...then they said he'd never make it past toddler stage cuz his heart & lungs stayed the size of a babies while he grew older..& he did have a heart surgery, & had to have breathing treatments & feeding tube for about 2 months b4 he turned 3 & he had to have physical therapy to learn how to walk & do what "normal" sized children did....then we was told puberty will kill him..my son is now 28yrs old & the absolute biggest joy in my life..all 3ft 7 of him. He went to school, played every sport there was with other special needs kids & has helped raise money for medical expenses for parents raising kids with disabilities...He went to a regular high school where u would think he woulda got bullied or teased but every child loved & respected him...got to play on the football & basketball team for the school...which in the south & in our town was a pretty big deal. But graduated & he's now a youth minister for church & organizes community outreach programs to keep kids focused on positive things rather than turning to the streets & negative influences. But my point in saying all of this is to say that although Docs are intelligent & educated..they absolutely can & should give u the info & statistics so u know what ur up against...but What they say can happen does not mean that it will...all of it is in God's hand..he is the one who controls the outcome & I can not imagine what our lives would be like if I would have listened & decided not to have him...& I have been reminded of that by how many people I have had come to me to tell me how my son has helped & positively affected them & changed their lives thruout his 28yrs.. So while yes he has physical & some mental limitations...his life has been so full of purpose & the impact of who he is & his presence alone has made a difference. I am in no way judging your friends decision by no means...bcuz I believe its a personal choice that nobody has the right to judge..& what she did does not make her less human or tho diff from the choice I made, doesn't mean she's somehow beneath me or not as strong...I can never be one of those people who look down on anyone & I truly hate that she had to go thru that...I just wanted to share my story, as I have so many other times to maybe put the idea of hope & faith being an option in situations like that...not THE option...but a option. Hope she is doing well now & God Bless u both & your families. 💛

No one “intervened”, SHE told us willingly and publicly!! 😒🤷🏽‍♀️

@@MariaEOD Translation: Giving negative opinions that were not solicited 🤷🏾‍♀️

I don't think you understand , Tami is responding to the video floating around , of her saying that she will give her husband permission to go for 2 years have child, with another woman. And she will help raise the child , because her body isn't able to carry their baby. several blogs have already posted it. And under the post many comments was like .. No they couldn't do that. Or Why don't she just let him go on with his life. But ppl don't understand it's not Tami , her husband really loves her and he's loyal , he could've stepped out when they was dating but no he didn't. So yes this why Tami explained her reason for saying what she said on the "REAL" .

@@softcaramel53jab58 Yep, and she’s explaining herself after the interview because of the negative responses. That’s her and Reggie’s marriage 💯

@@drmonica Yes agree💯

Perfectly stated and Amen!!

@@teresajackson9140 Thank you so much!