I think it's more he doesn't want to admit it and speak the words but words probably can't describe it he definitely cares for her alot I mean the shirt come on
@@zuzuspetals1977 Strongly disagree. He has opinions, boundaries, standards and feelings and he's not afraid of expressing exactly what they are. People are too scared to verbalize what they do or don't feel these days for fear of being socially rejected. Shes not wrong for having feelings for him, though pushing the way she is will only serve to further cement her own rejection. And he's not wrong for expressing crystal clear that even though she has feelings for him he does not feel the same. I'd agree, he is a rare breed these days.
@@Freevo_Lowsecheated on, lied to, strung along, used. That last podcast with Indiana, you could tell he was really hurt and holding back a lot of emotion and even then, he was very straightforward about how she treated him despite all he was willing to do for her.
Yep ! Can’t force something that’s not there naturally; sometimes people just aren’t meant to be together. *A lot* of people really need to come to that realization.💁🏻♀️ 💛
Why? For telling a girl that he doesn't love her? I bet if it was the other way around and she rejected him yet he kept trying you'd think he was a creep and call the police on him. @JulianStarbuck
She deserves if she had any actual feelings for him but treated him overly platonically and trying to humble him. If that's how she treats crushes she can stay single forever
@@YasmineMorris-ed4vv Deserve is a pretty terrible word as it implies absolutes in circumstances where there are none. Everybody who produces food deserves food. Everybody who helps people deserves help. Couple that with a broad, variable term such as 'love' and it makes for a sentence that tries to sound deep but is it reality, nonsense. Nobody deserves 'love', and nobody should need to, the harder you work at something the more likely it is to be successful and a successful person plays the odds, not their 'rights'.
My boyfriend told me (casually) that he loved me about 2 months into the relationship and I didn’t say it back. He said it again a few weeks later because that’s how he felt. He didn’t pressure me into saying it back because then it wouldn’t be coming from a place of love, but instead a place of guilt. The day after we hit 4 months, we were at a party and I told him I loved him. Going to celebrate 5 years together in April.
Similar experience for me. He started saying "I love you" fairly early and I just didn't know how to react but eventually, I started saying it back. I really liked him and loved spending time with him but needed more time to get to saying that I loved him. I was never seemingly rude about it. I'm pretty sure I would just usually awkwardly laugh a little bit because I was just an awkward person. He never rushed me either but he would continue to say it here and there before I said it back. We're married now. This year will be 7 years together total, 4 years married 🤷🏽♀️ Also have a toddler together. It all worked out and I'm glad 💚
You're both sick. Zack stop sleeping with someone you don't respect and Tara listen to what he's saying. He's not going to grow out of this. He Tolerates you? You look so foolish. You both need something the other can't give.
Don’t know if this is true but he definitely has been through a lot I heard that he one time was sleeping when his roommate decided to have sex with Zachs date on top of him
ah, classic gen z, spouting nonsense. once i get haircut and think at night in shower about ruin their lives. silly gen z kids will feel my wrath because i can fight. dont mess with me because i see red.
I accidentally said I love you to a guy I had been seeing for 2 weeks…I was drunk, got shy and ran out of the room, and he yelled from the other room “I love you too” and we’ve been together for a little over 2 years, have plans to move out of the state we’re in, work together, live together, and we say I love you no less than 20 times a day. Truly a match made in heaven and I love him with my whole heart. If you don’t feel it so deeply in your heart to the point where you can’t go a day without saying it, maybe you need to find someone else. My heart kinda hurts for her if this is true.
Gotta be careful though bc if you say it too much, the word starts to lose meaning and weight, then it's just out of habit, that's called a burn out, a love burnout essentially.
@@CarlosMontesBby Oh for sure! But I feel like that’s the difference between saying it because you think you should, and saying it because you mean it. With my ex, it always felt like a chore to say it back because there was no respect and a disproportionate amount of effort being put into the relationship. It’s a lot easier to continuously love someone when there is equal effort being put in, and it’s a lot harder to experience love burnout when both parties support and respect each other.
and eventually lose yourself and the only one picking up your broken pieces would be you in the end. It's so sad how men in the comment section are quick to jump to the defenses of the guy when its convenient for them, even tho they would jump on the girl for stringing him along if it was the other way around.
My husband came to my apartment with my cousin. He said 5 minutes was all it took for him to know he was going to marry me. We became close friends and I never knew. One day I was telling him about some guy who was interested in dating me and he said. None of that you are marrying me. I was so shocked. He picked me up kissed me and walked away. 😂😂😂 it worked. He passed away 27 years ago and I still miss him and never remarried.
The first day I started at a job that my now deceased husband worked at, he told me one day I'm going to marry you. I never saw this man before in my life but we started working together 5days a week together 7months later, we started dating and 5months after that we got married/ eloped. He was only in my life for 4yrs he passed away from a heart infection and its been 18yrs and I haven't remarried yet either. I'm saying this to say that I understand you. I miss him so much and I know you miss yours as well.🖤
It took a long time for my husband and I to say I love u to eachother when we were dating. Not because we didn't want to but because we weren't ready. 12yrs later we're happily married with a blended family. Living our lives with our faith and love with God our Father
My boyfriend said I love you first and I physically couldn’t say it back until I knew I loved him too. He would say it whenever we left each others houses and I would sit there and stare at him flustered every time bc I wanted to say it but wasn’t ready. I told him that and he said I can take however long I needed but he was still gonna say bc that’s how he felt. A few days later I said it back to him without hesitation and it felt so natural and it made me so happy
That's so sweet. But I'm sure that if you didn't feel it too that you wouldn't be mean and hurtful like Zach is being to Tara though. He's being downright cruel to her and it's heartbreaking.
Same, I am unable to lie about my feelings, but this has taught me that people like being lied to, I had exes straight up asking me to say it even if i don't mean it 😢 why do people treat themselves like that though?...
At 15 I met my husband. His mother worked a lot & had a very active love life. From a family full of raging alcoholics. He automatically included me in every minute of his life n I was like his right hand. He always worked n spent all his money on me. Yet, he was emotionless. he was never loved n didn't know what love was. I told him I loved him n he admitted he didn't know what that meant. However, we had a son n he married me quickly. 21 yrs later with 4 sons He now knows what love is n says he loved me all along. He just didn't know what it meant. But love for him is wanting to be with that person all the time n provide for them. For some it's actions not words ❤
100% agree with this man. I had a friend who said "I love you" after 2 weeks of being my friend and I just kinda stared at her like "girl I don't even know you!"
I met this group at the beginning of uni, nobody knew each other, but 2 weeks later, 4 out of the 6 in the group kept saying "I love you, you're like a family". Me and the other girl looked at each other like wtf and told them that we barely knew each other, we were barely friends at this point
Why? Just because he's honest doesn't mean he's battling demons. She should respect him and not try to force him into reciprocating her feelings. She's trying to pressure him into saying what she wants, and **that** is manipulative. I applaud him for giving meaning to words, especially those words. 👏
@@user-oh9zm8mq2k do you know that for a fact? Regardless of his past, trying to force someone to reciprocate your feelings is wrong. She deserved the humiliation she brought on herself.
20+yrs married/together, and still say it first thing in the morning, and with our good night text (he works night shift), also when he goes out to the shop, and every/anytime he goes out the door:) we always kiss goodbye at the door, and I always stay in the doorway as he pulls away (to go to work), he has his hand out the car window, me waving back, until he turns the corner. Oh, and text when he arrives at work and leaving work:) old fashioned, but part of growing old together is keeping the small things, sweet and simple, because they DO matter:) ❤❤❤
Honesty without compassion is just cruelty sometimes, and this would apply 100%. He knows how she feels yet he insists on letting the relationship go on knowing perfectly well that she wants something more.
@@tsukimaru131 Sure but if you can make that argument from him you can make that argument for her. He is openly and honestly telling her that he does not feel the same way, it makes more sense for her to walk away than him. He never said he didn't want to be with her he just says he does not love her, and that he won't lie and say he does to make her happy.
I personally think they’re being harsh to HIM, not the other way around. Publicly shaming someone into saying I love you is never going to go well. He looks like he feels frustrated and cornered.
@@DannyD-lr5yg that's a good point also. Her trying to trick him into saying it seems very childish and counter productive. What kind of person would even be satisfied with him saying that under those conditions?
I dated someone for 4 years who had a very traumatic dating history. His brother told me the full story after dating him for 2 years and it broke my heart. I understood why he couldn’t tell me he loved me. On our 4th year he told me that he wouldn’t be able to ever tell me that he loves me. I had to make the decision whether I wanted to continue in a relationship where we couldn’t tell each other we loved each other. I ended up leaving & now in a relationship where I’m verbally told everyday that I am loved. I didn’t think I needed to hear it but it does feel so good now that I have it
Bro was a l0ser and needed to go to therapy. Men are so weak, they one hurt dictate their relationships with ppl for the rest of your life. Mfers be 40 talking aboit the girl in middle school who broke their heart
Do you know what happened to him or do you still see him around? That is so sad I hope one day he will be able to say it. He needs therapy and faith to heal himself.
That's precisely why he wouldn't say it. That was his test of unconditional love and you failed. Shouldve seen it through. He would have said it. And it would have meant that much more
My favorite thing is the first time my fiancee said it. He kissed me on the forehead and told me he loved me while I was asleep before he took off to work.
Thays so sweet. My boyfriend wanted to say it first when we were building up the furniture in his new apartment (i was just helping, not moving in) and he looked at me and thought "wow i love her" but he didnt say it then but waited for when we were going to sleep. I would have prefered his first thought lol. But i still wont ever forget it.
How did you hear him if you were asleep? Lol we're you faking sleeping ? Not gunns lie I've dinr that before just so I get a few extra minutes rest in before I get up to make breakfast for everyone somedays lol!
When a man says he doesn't love you, believe him. I am a man, and I would never say it if I didn't mean it. I love one woman romantically only, and that's my wife. Before her, I never told another woman I loved her because I simply just did not!! I would never give that false hope to a woman. So again, when a man says he doesn't love you please believe it and stop wasting your time with him if you are looking for the real deal with real love because he will not change his mind until he truly finds the one woman he falls in love with. You only have heartbreak coming if you stay and try to continue to change his mind. I promise you will not ever change his mind when it comes to love.
Not to be that person but that’s not true just three comments up from yours a man said when his old girlfriends would say I love you he’d just say it back out of compassion so not all men will tell the truth about that
I don’t think you’re quiet right here. I don’t think we love only one person. I think you can love several times but not every person you date is one you love too
I'm gonna sound horrible AF, but is that why he's gone then? Because I believed he didn't love me when he said it, and I moved on and he killed himself when I refused to take him back 🤷
When my girlfriend's told me I love you I use to say it back out of compassion. One day I started dating this wonderful woman and one day she said I think I'm falling in love with you. I paused, hesitated and said thank you. About a month later she started telling me I love you and I would not say it back. Why? I knew there was something special and different about her and I didn't want to lie. After about 2 months of this I finally said it back. 25 years later and we are still going strong and happily married. To this day she appreciates I didn't just say it back.
@@uxooohe didn't know if he LOVED her yet. Think for two seconds my guy. He wasn't lying. Your statement about lying is so irrelevant it's obvious why you don't understand what was said. You didn't listen.
As a lady my rule has always been, the man should tell you he loves you first. It doesn't matter how I feel. When he says it, then I will consider saying it back. I refuse to look stupid and important steps like saying I love you, are like proposing marriage. Men would rather do it first and I am going to let them do as their nature dictates. A man like this dude who told me he didn't love me wouldn't ever have found out I loved him. Bc no matter how much I cared I would have dumped him long ago. "Tolerate", no. I won't ever be tolerated, I WILL be loved. And so can she be.
Lmao exactly the same with me and my hubby and I said “no you don’t, you barely even know me!” lol long story short we’ve been married 13 yrs and 3 kids….i guess he DID love me after all 😂😂
It’s really not that serious. I tell my friends I love them, they aren’t family and we aren’t in intimate relationships but I still love them. Love is pretty broad. You can love your friends it’s pretty normal
exactly, i hated being told by other that they love me when in fact it was just said to make me feel like they cared, it’s a hard thing for me to say that i even love someone because the people who i would say it to would never really mean it
I would just like to tell you that this made my GF laugh just enough for me to finally lose my V card because I made.her laugh with your joke so thank you a lot really I appreciate it
@jelly_vanny they're joking around for fuck sake , watch the podcast. She's not saying it romantically either, they're friends who flirt for fun and all they kids are getting pressed about it
He's someone who actually believes that word has value. Rather than carelessly throwing it out there like it's just 4 simple letters. That's how it should be
Nah, its that love is easier for lots of people than it is for others. People have different definitions. In my experience, I've found, the ones who find it easier have had more platonic love, and love from their family friends and community in ways that have taught them love is deeper and more varied than just relationship type love. The ones that find it harder, have had less people in their life show them love without conditions or lust being part of it. Just my opinion though 😅👀👌 34 yo woman with trauma 😅💀👌
@@steph0xGx you are 100% right, i think saying i love you to someone is super hard, because i have never ever heard it from someone, i havent got a I love you in 15 years.
I’ve done the same with my relationships. I always tell them, I love you is a big word for me, and I won’t be able to say it so easily. I love you is commitment, and while dating, you’re still figuring each other out. That’s my opinion though.
The first time I told my husband I loved him his response was “Oh thank god, I’ve been wanting to tell you I’m madly in love with you 2 weeks into us officially dating” we knew each other for about 4 years before that. We dated for 3 years until he proposed almost 4 years ago and we’ll be celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in July🥰 aside from all of that, saying I love you is a HUGE thing. You gotta make sure you are positive. He might not love her right now but that’s not to say he won’t ever love her!
@@missNCW if that's how you view it - my wife was the first person in my life EVER I've told I have loved her and yk why? Cuz idfk wtf was love before I met and spent time with her wym love less bro... I was alone in myself for so many years thinking that I'm just goin to pass by and support everyone I know for whatever they need without needing it myself and then she showed me what actual Love from my perspective is never say such words as love less or love more we each have different understandings on what is love so many people have felt pain more than love by,, loving more or less,, it is what it iss it takes time patience struggles and communication and so much more all together... It's hard sadly at least for me it was hard for a few years to accept that I can allow myself to love someone or allow someone to love me and not reject them. 🕤🤯
I was in a similar situation with my wife I fell in love with her so fast it’s not even funny I knew I loved her the first day we hung out together it was all day I had other girlfriends before her but they weren’t her I knew she was different and she was the only one for me and about a couple months in she said if she told me she loved me before 6 months that she was lying and it hurt me so bad because I knew I never wanted to lose her but shortly after that she told me first that she didn’t mean that and she loved me and my gosh it was a relief cause I was so scared to tell her how I felt and lose her and now she’s my wife thank God I can’t see my life without her
This runs deep in his heart...the way he said.."I never wanted to be a lier in my life" Is a sentiment of hurt and betrayal that hes never let go of. Someone damaged his heart😢
@@josephseashock1650 Seriously? It shouldn't matter...but English is my second language...AND I actually didn't take notice because if I did I would have corrected it. But good for you for pointing it out! Hope it makes you feel superior
I knew I loved my wife 2 weeks into us dating told her mother I was gonna marry her and everything that night. We been married 10 years now and still madly in love shes my everything ❤
wtf? there’s a woman saying the exact same thing in this comment section . 2 weeks in the boyfriend said she loves her and they’ve been together 10 years.
My husband told me he was going to marry me about a week into our relationship. I was 16 he was 18 . We were together for 32 years. Even after 12 years I still miss him every day
Didn’t something come up that she’s manipulative or something? Lol I don’t know much about the two but I remember seeing something about her and it wasn’t good
I mean you either love them or you don't. There's no in-between. You either always say "I love you" and mean it. Or just don't be in a relationship where your partner is doing their best and you're just backing off just because you "dOnT fEel lIkE iT"
@@Tsuki-Sii so what I am hearing is you would rather have a girl lie to you in response to when you say I love you? I think it means more if they wait till they Fr can tell you it’s the truth and you don’t have to question it, however it does suck if they just say like thanks when you say I love you
And this is where most women miss the mark, myself included! He is telling you up front how he feels, she doesn’t believe him, he stays for convenience, she stays hoping he’ll change, 5-10 years later it dissolves, she is crushed and he walks away. WOMEN, if he loves you HE WILL SAY IT, HE WILL SHOW IT, HE WILL LIVE IT! Stop loving a MANS POTENTIAL, take off those rose colored glasses and you will be able to see clearly! MEN KEEP BEING HONEST!!! You aren’t wrong for being honest. Women stop blaming men for a situation, you created in your head. They were the HARDEST LESSONS FOR ME TO LEARN- but in doing so, I was able to heal and when my husband did finally enter my life, I was able to witness my husband for WHO HE WAS and NOT WHO I WANTED HIM TO BE and I have NEVER been so loved and adored in my life!
I don't think they're dating...which is why he doesn't tell her he loves her. He probably has a girlfriend who he loves, and telling another woman who is just a friend something so personal might make his girlfriend feel less.
What's the timeline on these 2? Because typically , men take six months to a year and women are usually around three months 26 months, At least that's what I've seen in general, and that's what I've read.
The first time my husband told me he was madly in love with me , I responded with “No fuckin way cus me too 😂” and then we seen a shooting star and we’ve been together for 12 years. She definitely deserves better.
We don't exactly know their situation though. Saying I love you can actually be worse than just showing love. Imagine her saying I love you to him a bunch of times but also isn't entirely genuine or someone who uses I love you in a manipulative way...
She isn't really a victim here. She's the one pushing so hard when he's been clear that he doesn't feel the same. She's hurting herself AND HIM by pushing so hard. You can see it in his face that he's uncomfortable
She's clearly pushing it, he's obviously given her many hints (and by the sounds of it just flat out saying it) and the fact she went on the podcast to announce it to try to get him to say it is insanely entitled. He was honest in a nice way, but he sounded tired of it. I don't know the whole story but from this clip alone it's clear he's honest and she hasn't accepted it, she needs to move on
That’s so fucking cute 😍 With my fella, we’d just had sex, been together a few weeks, as we were cuddling he said “oh I love you”. Then sat bolt upright in bed, slapped his hand over his mouth and just looked at me with pure fear in his eyes. 😂😂😂
I feel him tho. That word has so much weight and value, and it takes a lot to even say it to friends. I’ve said it a few times before and had my trust broken, heart broken, so it’s not a word I use lightly either.
@@Isthisjoebidenif she is just a friend then it's ok and words won't have power I you won't let them is bs say someone I love you 5 times in one sentence and you will know their power
Yes so true... I did that with my first boyfriend and later found out he was a damn cheater.... My first "I love you" wasted on a piece of trash and the second time I said it, was to my second boyfriend who was I will not lie was a good guy was a total sex addict... It lasted 18 days but I dated him because I was hurting from my first but realised soon enough that it was not worth it and now I am with my third boyfriend.... He is so special and such a beautiful person "I love him" and he does too... He is a great person but hurting inside as much and it is hard for him to even trust that someone can even love him and even he can be for someone... He has a superstition that if I am with him then I will get hurt so he broke up with me(just in name) but still gives me all his damn time so I don't want to give up on him. I feel like he is worth fighting for. From inside I can feel he loves me and treats me like something precious. We are in a kind of "situationship" but more on the exclusive side and I am ok with it because I don't feel insecure in this relationship.... Please don't just find a bf or husband... Find someone that makes you feel happy and secure and confident... Labels don't matter when your "Bf" or "husband" beats you up or cheats on you or treats you like a sex object... Just find someone you can be yourself with and feel like life is good with them... Then you will feel like labels don't matter.... But I am not saying it to everyone... It is possible to find a bf or husband who is the best soul ever too so find your person guys❤️ don't keep on saying "I love you" so cheaply that's a deep phrase... If someone doesn't reciprocate your feelings at first it's ok to try once twice as much as you can but don't wait for them forever because at one point you get obsessed don't be that. "Your happiness comes first"
My grandad is the same way, he can’t give me a hug or say “I love you” back, my mom addressed him about it and he said “I only say that to the women I’m lying too” so I accepted that sentiment 😂
Say Love you Grandma, F*** you Grandpa with a smile. If he was in the military use an appropriate slang for his branch such as squid, jarhead, zoomie, coastie, Joe (army) or grunt (infantry) It’s how men who can’t say I love you without a sexual implication say I love you to each other. F*** all you guys!
I think it's a product of how that generation was raised. My parents made it a point to always say it to us & still do. I helped my Dad raise my siblings so they always heard it from me & my Mom as well as Dad. (I'm my Dad's oldest, my Mom's only & my Mom loves my siblings like they are her own. Their Mom was in and out of their life.) I say all this to circle back to what you said about your Grandpa... My Dad & his siblings said their Dad never said it. My Mom's Mom would often say it & mean it, other times she used it as a manipulation. She had a horrendous upbringing. My Grandpa told me he loved me when I was 17...weeks before he passed away. None of us saw it coming. In my life that's the only time I remember him saying it. I think so often the older generation especially don't know how to love or say it because they were never taught or told. My parents broke many a generational cycle. Some people can show it and not people can say it or not show it.
@@justsomeguy919is that sarcasm? Genuinely asking. So often the emotional pain women experience is laughed off as no big deal. Her gpa is admitting to lying to women that he loved them. I can just inagine all the heartache that came from those lies. Did he use them for their bodies then ghost? Seems like something a bad person would do.
I appreciate this level of honesty. I don’t believe in reciprocating those words out of guilt or a feeling of obligation. I think that when someone feels it you will know that there is a difference in how those words hit different when they come out of someone because they mean them and want you to feel their love.
yes but he is being so cold-hearted about. there is so many forms of loving someone..he could have love for her as a friend yet he isn't even saying that! it's hurtful how he is doing it,not reciprocating anything!
It actually not honesty it’s control he set up the I am honest thing to control the relationship l. It’s toxic behavior. She is in love and does not see the put down the lack of value for her feelings.
Not the same thing. She meant as a friend clearly. Plus tara and jake belong together not this loser. (Will forever ship) i got people so mad how embarrassing. 💀
He answered her “but I don’t”. without hesitation he said he doesn’t love her. This is the problem with most women, and I include myself in that. Men are giving you the truth, you just don’t want to hear it. If someone says to you they don’t care about you, if they treat you like they don’t care about you, believe them!
Humans in general are usually the problem. We either can't handle the truth or we hurt the people who were "too honest" by punishing them in some way/making them feel bad for it. The gender is pretty irrelevant.
Met Zach about 3 months ago, we chatted abt content stuff for like 10 minutes, SUPER friendly and down to earth dude and honestly seems like he has a great heart
@@limitlessunknown8676 I met him on WebSummit in Lisbon! He was at a panel where he talked about advertising and content monetization and after it was over and he left the stage I saw him and went over to chat!
I’m the same way, I can’t say “love you, or I love you” to a women I don’t love. It would mess with my feelings to much after being lied and manipulated to much by the word. Now the homies on the other hand 🤚🏼 I love them
I'm definitely more willing to say "love you" because it feels more casual. "I love you" is more serious and really means something. But otherwise, I agree.
I think it takes decades of being with someone to find the meaning of true love, people are ever changing, the world around us is always changing, true love is growing and changing together, going through the seasons of life, the good, the bad, the down right miserable and coming out of it side by side having learned and survived together. I have loved a few girls before I met my wife, my love for her when we first met was really not difference than my first love or my second, I chose my wife not because of my feelings but my respect for her, she was dedicated, worked hard, reasonable and not prone to being overly emotional, she was and I'd, the embodiment of what a strong woman actually is... So while my feelings in the beginning felt no different than past loves, as time went on from being a couple in our early 20s to now being in our late and mid 40s, my love for her has grown into something much deeper and meaningful than "puppy love", we've traveled the world together, survived life and death situations together, she stood by my side while I battled cancer, I stood by her side when she suffered a mental illness after the birth of our first son, she became the mother of my children and I the father to hers, she helped me learn to walk again after i was in an accident, we made a life choice and I quit my high paying aerospace job to go and raise our children in the country, we started a business and built our lives up from scratch... I could go on but the point is, no matter how bad or miserable things were in life, we faced then together, we made a choice in our late 20s, we agreed that it was us against the world and any problems we have in life, we will face them together, far to many people get mad at the ones they love because of things going on thier side of things, we made a pact that wouldn't be us. We just fit well together and her being who she is, a kind, loving, reasonable woman who knows how to be both soft and nurturing but also has the inner strength to be steadfast and push through both mental and physical adversity...I will die for this woman and I have more respect for her than anyone else on this planet and I will work myself into the grave if that means she will be comfortable and taken care of, she does the same for me as we always have and always will share the burdens of life together. I know this is a small novel at this point, but hopefully you can see why the meaning of true love takes the better part of a lifetime to truly understand, waiting to able to see of you even lobe them, is a bad sign, I accidentally told my wife I loved her on our 3rd date and had to hide it because that would be wierd. Lol....he should dump her if he's not joking and move on, life is short and you maybe passing your future wife on the street as we speak but you're already predisposed so you never even see her...just my 20 cents of thoughts on the matter, take care and much love, lol
@@rantional8180Thank you for sharing your story. Woah, you’ve been through your fair shares of ups and downs in life but I’m glad you have a loyal companion beside you. You definitely married right. I wish more people had your same perspective/insight.
The true meaning of love is when Jesus died on the cross for us, and he paid the ultimate price to make a way to heaven. Jesus loves you. I love you and he’s waiting for you to answer the door.❤👈🏽 he died on the cross and rose on the third day. He was born of a virgin, but he loves us so much that he had die to pay a price to get rid of all those sins and set the captives free he is calling everyone of us. Jesus loves you and I love you
My first boyfriend pushed me to say "I love you." He said it to me. I told him that I don't know if I love him. Two weeks later, "you love me. You know it. You wouldn't give me a kiss if you didn't love me." Which, he forced me to kiss him. And, unfortunately, he convinced me. My second boyfriend is now my husband of 7 years. And yeah, I never loved my first boyfriend. Because upon getting to know my hubby, I realized what it felt to love someone. That being said, I'll say I love you to whoever I genuinely love. Could be family or friendship love. I never expect them to say it back to me in return. If they dont, cool. If they do, I'm happy.
I say "I platonically love you" to ALL my friends, and after several weeks/days, a male friend of mine that was newer to the group actually said it back once 😄
@@RenyxGhoul it was my friend who was all "my bf won't like that, you should stop it" and told him though. But that was a long time ago, i was like 15.
I usually tell my friends 'love you' and save the 'I love you' for my partner. It is important to show and tell your friends you love them, we know its platonic we don't need to specifically tell them that 😅
