7 Ways to Make a Conversation With Anyone | Malavika Varadan | TEDxBITSPilaniDubai 

Hey dear :)

Hiiii

Heyy😛

I'm an ambivert. Hi.

Hi😄

Btw nice question. The end is always remembered weather its good or bad. Things happned before doesn't matter if you have f ed up in end. Lol

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@@TheEnglishOpedia funny isn't it...😆😆

@@farooq5176 yup 🤣😂🤣😂

Appreciate it !

i was gonna watch the whole video again to note the points. You saved my time. Thanks stranger. BTW where are you from, where do you live?

Shukria Bhai

Thanks a lot 👏

​@@happy_biird he's probably from earth

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​@@DJK-cq2uy Wow.. you're smarter than evrybody else 😮😮🎉🎉

@@DVelter 🤡

True 😂😂

Very true

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Honestly it’s more awkward when you don’t look someone I’m the eye when you talk to them

humudu maybe the way you talked with her scared her , because nowadays many terrible things happen and most women don't feel safe

wait... maybe because you didn't smile with the forehead?

now i'm laughing and sad too

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Exactly haha

It’s a warning

how to get someone to like you:

​@@oneandonlysd5061 be real and always have respect for the one you like whenever you have conversations with them

"remember their details" My ADHD: "Allow me to introduce myself".

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Let me know when you ask them.....after then i will ask their atm pin🤣🤣

Me: "abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz. Annnd, what's your social security number?"

dude u just opened my eyes, the part where you said you are what you imagine to be really hit me

I have the same story,too!!!! But the difference is that I haven't yet suceeded in getting back that social ability, but ur comment made me feel that I'm not alone, I'm pretty sure, I'll get that back, soon... thnx, man!!

Yep, you are what you imagine yourself to be. Your mind is very powerful, use it to your advantage! you can be whoever you want to be!

it will come, don't worry. Its also important not to blame social awkwardness only on yourself, it could be the other person who has the social issue and not you. It takes two to have a conversation. Your certainly not alone, every single person alive has had social awkwardness in their lives, everyone, from celebrities to politicians, everyone!

Same!!!

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I say the opposite. It's harder to talk to a stranger at first rather than talking to the same stranger again.

Hahaha. I'm lauhging out loud and I'm in the Library. Eish.

😂😂omg that really made me laugh

so funny

this comment did sweeten up my day, thank you.. so good

@@xhosawithinga 😂😂😂🤦‍♀🤣🤣🤣

meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

OMG I feel the same exact way. Glad to know that I am not alone.

I just say things that I have never say to my friends to someone I met on Internet

Wow I want to develop this skill😂

I can approach strangers and talk to them but I don't know how to approach with acquaintances whom i rarely talk to/didn't have the chance to talk personally, it becomes really awkward

its a speech but yea shes good

How to speak fluently English language

LOL you don't know RADIO CITY 101? she is the radio host she obviuosly sppeaks while in sleep too

bas kar my girl

speaking is a SKILL DURR

i love to make eye contact :)

Me too 😓

Haha damn

Otaku spotted.. Shelter

*Sociopaths have left chat*

Hahaha

lol funny

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Cha Robertson 😂😂😂

what to do when someone have stammer prob... I want to get out of it.... I want to be a artist, public speaker, RJ type. I've all qualities to do everything... but stammer will ruin my life n carrer...

​​​@@beyourself7085simple! Just be confident and BE YOURSELF

Doing gods work!

Thank you!

Thank you!

Your effort it's helped us to understand the content more clearly thanks 🙏

Awesome. Shame they don't put this on every RU-vid list. Thanks for doing the work.

lol

lol

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I love you

to be able to admire something you have to be able to see it first. to be able to see it, you have to know it. to know it, you have to invest time in it. to invest time in it, you have to know its value for your surroundings. if your surroundings value other things, you will not know it, you will not see it, you will not be able to admire it. thats what the culture is for. thats what goes lost today, especially in western society, where only competition is (over)valued. but this overvalue of competition from surroundings is indoctrination, for that people do not work together because that would make them solve their problems in small circle, and they wouldnt need to buy solutions from someone less known to them. that would be bad for busines. so overrating of competition is actually overrating of money and money system. we are ready to suffer just to stick to this system, where the money system should not be ideologically thing for the sake of itself, but should service people more than it burdens them. competition is a good thing, but like everything else, its best if it has own place and time and doesnt occupy place and time of things, which would fit there better. it is really unlikely, that this problem will be solved anytime soon. so we will have to live with the problem, that there is not so much of real admiration seen, felt, lived. and for that time most people will admire more things, you dont want them to admire, like how you can allow yourself to talk from above to a lot of people, because of your position, or admire your money, you got from other people in this sometimes sensless competition.

What is Mee too's

@@codeinout9438 That means when someone says something try to relate to it. For example your friend said I hate coffee and you too actually hate it so you say me too! This can help you be likable too as well as it can start another conversation too like your likes, dislikes, etc

not very helpful without context

Thank you Bro. !

Thanks

I was searching for it..thanks bro

Thnx

True

u are shutup

@@preetpatel2186 woah

Well, that is in fact true, when you happen to be a highly attractive woman.

@@connorfrankston5548 that's what i was thinking: how these techniques would go for other demographics...

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Admit it you just fancy her! :)

nigefal Yea well, that too.

i agree

i agree

I'm from the same galaxy dude!

Me too from same earth👍😀

And that's how I met your mother kids.. 🤣🤣😂

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sumit mirpuri 💀💀💀

Simply Sookie 😂😂

Simply Sookie Haha

Simply Sooki

Simply Sookie my little pony

Simply Sookie Bhimrao

I like this metaphor

man

not true. I cannot flip to my favourite chapter and not olways I can read as long as I want

Lol @@KlauduniaL07

the taxi conversation is exactly what i try to avoid. sounds horrific

Yeah you're right

Thank you for this-- I needed a summary

Thank you for the summary!

Thanks for the summary! Now I don't really have to watch the video haha

i think this very important

You're the hero that RU-vid needs.

Right

yes

Fr

That's exactly what the TEDx organizers teach you, if you want to give a talk.

@@amigalemming their thoughts are amazing! they are really helping us.

When you have 0 existing ones 😔

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Or... Your... Next victim....

@@ipapergrey6654 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈

if he/she's a friend so how he/she is a stranger??

@@ipapergrey6654 😂😂

@Joey M true😂👀

damarh walk to the next one

thats really awful, but i think thats a good reason forma not to go ahead with that person, i think that means she lets her boyfrien to control her or that she is egocentric

damarha6 may be with "you need a better one"

Say its ok i am not the jealous type

+L CC lol

Thanks a lot for writing this amazing conclusion, you made for this loving TED Talk! God Bless You because no one like you on this planet Earth!

Wow, probably the best Comment Bot ever on youtube!

Thank you So MuCh Harpa AI! :)

Yup that's an accurate summary.

psycho Hahah she bored me a lot. This comment saved my 15 minutes. Thank you so much.

+Kashish Shah ... lolzz that was spot on. ..(y)

psycho thank you... because she was going on and on and on and oooooon.

Wish I had seen this 14 minutes earlier :/

确实

@@shikang6525 Do you know Hbomberguy, i wonder?

My parents r now deceased and my 3 siblings r now my enemies

@@belindajardim3145 first of all I seriously hope you're not serious, also I have to ask are you Portuguese? Cause your name looks very Portuguese to me.

Exactly

same problem is with me

that too easily

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"Me too" so let's start a conversation 🙂😂

Me2

@@uniqueandspecial Okay, what do you want to talk about?

Yes indeed 😍a beautiful person in and out

Thats no indian accent you should listen what they actually sound like, this is a normal and 100 times better accent plus nobody that i have seen is being racist infact everyone is saying she is soo hot, she is sexy, she looks cute etc etc.

you are right...

Lovely is the least. I fell in love with her voice and accent.

truth

+Anonymous User Lol you sound ignorant ! I am indian and that is an indian accent

I am 😊

Me

Me

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Me, very useful

Man you are just nailed it. Had the same note.

was going to write the exact same comment

my point exactly

Bubbly personality? I would love to see how she respond to someone who she runs into who is really boring and always complains and tells the same story over and over again. I would love to know how she would handle that business. The more attractive and wealthy you become, the harder it gets to have a deep conversation with everybody.

Absolutely right, th more she engages with u th more u like her 🥰

My thoughts exactly. Talking to strangers is more like a sweaty, panic rising and possible bad outcome for an introvert specially.

Small talk is like kryptonite. #IntrovertProblems

can I have a convemesation with you?

Sounds very spot on 😂😂🤣

what is she files a rape case for just started talking to her

Thank you sir, you just save my (un)valuable time

@@sayidrayhan5442 😔

Thank you for summarizing 👍

Thanks man

Her tips on finding common ground and giving real compliments totally make sense. It's a cool reminder to be positive and curious in every convo.

So,the conclusion is we should quite 😜

Came from the same reel ✌️

I know right! I was cracking up!

I instantly went to comments when she said it 😂

that is because they don´t know what the world wide web is

plot twist their aint no crowd

Probably crowd mic is not there

Yeah! Same here 😊

Yoo

That is a very smart move! Keep it up and you will succeed!👍

Same

Gundham's Eyeliner lol same

She's a cool 7

@@alive14ever you're a socially-illiterate 2

I really wish she was my friend. Whatever she taught makes you so loveble as she is

body and face expressions and attitude really enlightens a person

HAHAHA!! I feel you, man.

It's hard, maybe ask better questions or try mediation to quieten your mind

hahahaha, funny

all of us can have a conversation with ourselves. but when ourselves start the conversation we escape by doing any thing or talking with people , because we did`t have enough bravery to face ourselves!

+liffeyb im liking that .

Thanks ❤️

Thanks man

Just the comment I was looking for

@@sunilalimbu1594 me too

Tq

lmao same 😂😭

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Same. It's a sign. 😂

Ha me too!

Me 2.... And RU-vid is right again... I'm very shy around people and I usually don't know what I'm doing with my hands or feet if someone talks to me or asks me to do something.. I always concentrate on what others are thinking about me and that's a problem... That's why I don't go outside... But after sometime(long time) I adjust to my surroundings... I wonder how Ronaldo plays football while millions of people are watching him... I wonder how talk show hosts get their confidence to speak and act... I wonder how I could be like them.... I really don't know... I just wish my life turned out to be good... I know there are some struggles and I hope I can face it with the help of my dad and mom... ( she says that all this shyness will go away when I get more mature (I'm 14) ).... Anyways if u read till here then please suggest me ways to deal with the above problem... Byeee

The awkward part is step 2, where she is suggesting you just ask people random questions. Do you like lizards!?!??! What's your favorite color??? Dogs or cats? What's your deepest life goal??! That just seems so childish to me. And awkward that they are just fishing for some kind of connection, it's borderline obsessive. Especially if this conversation is happening at the water cooler or printer. There are special situations where interviewing someone is not awkward, but not every day.

You care too much about "awkward". Every new conversation with a stranger is awkward, embrace it.

me irl half an hour later - What is your name? I forgot....

iwdyv

ohh :o

welcome to india

I agree, but u are more beautiful, i guess :)

Zulqarnain sorry? How could you say that or predict that?😉

You are not fascinated from her inner beauty - she did her hair, she doesn't have the indian nose, you probably liked her partial awkwardnes and so on.. What I'm trying to say is that if you are not aware of how judgemental you are naturaly, then you need to investigate the subject.

"fam theres a rapidash like a block north of here"

"You catching that Pikachu?" and then " Damn it! He left me just like my father!"

you just made a LINK

We all laughing

This makes much sense than her speech

Lande Raxial

Bad hairstyle though, covers her beautiful face.

Jay Arfa I love the hair looks so sexy

seriously!? her body isnt even good, its her face and clothes that make up for her "not so good body"

Ali Zein Your body type preference isn't everyone's body type preference

Hey! You could meet a stranger online.. Just like now 🙂

@@gurupriya8726 yes. Internet has made it a cakewalk nowadays. Hi Guru Priya!

@@dt_99 Hello friend!! How are you doing?

@@gurupriya8726 I am doing good. How are you?

@@dt_99 just not as good as i would wish for lol. By the way, idk if this would be too much information, but here you go..i have a similar surname as yours, Gurupriya Takkar is my full name. Haha we got a me too topic here( not exactly me too).

Batool wh- what? wait.. what?? my brain cant process this.

Permission denied :D

I would marry her myself! ...if I wasn't married already :D Such a charming person.

Batool lmaooooooo

wut?..

And looks

She's indian barbie. But honestly at least the first few minutes I think she's talking to an empty room.

Exactly! She was enthusiastic and energetic and actually that looks so cute!! Idk why so many people got bored from that

cheryl sparkz you lucked up shoot your shot 🏀

Exactly

Carlos Jimenez exactly how I feel

Carlos Jimenez everyone here doesn't want to talk to people but they feel it is needed

Dan Jackson

Q\\

Sure i wil be there listening to u

@@pranavdwivedi3962 me too

@@pranavdwivedi3962 me to

The Problem Is That The Stranger Is Not Watching This Video!!

When u were born,even dey wer a stranger 🤔😂

@@gavtipor7394 nah not your mother cause you stayed in her womb for nearly a year so it would be pretty weird to call her a stranger

Except for family ofcourse duhhhh!!!!!

Maybe you're adopted 🙂😂

@@AshutoshPandey-eq9xq 😂😂😂

her entire points were designed around conversation- not looks. anyone can be friendly and open, regardless of physical appearance.

That's true but looks aren't words. You might have a bit more resistance than someone hot but in the end your words are what will stick with them

SecxyBear I know right! Doing small talks to avoid awkward silences just isn't for me.

if you don't care about other people why talk to them in the first place? In fact, why are you even watching the video

I like talking to others and I care about people. I just don't give a shit about small talk or irrelevant personal things.

i feel bad for your future partner

introvert ha

Ampwich 😂😂😂😂😂

Me: wait wait I'll keep you company. Her: (running away now)

LMAO

😂😂😂😂😂😂

That makes her feel weird about me

Hey! just wanted to say you Hiii . See it's hard to speak someone in comments but I tried to make it a try. Can you talk me in comments. I want to make a girl my friend. Are you comfortable.

How can I talk English fluently

Thanh Nhã Nguyễn Lê Thanks presentation is too long this is not engaging omg

Skip small talk by asking a personal question

Thanh Nhã Nguyễn Lê

I love her she's a genius. And very glamorous ayeeeee.

All these attributes make it MUCH easier to start a conversation. 😃