[테일러가 노래에 대해 말한 내용입니다] 'Never Grow Up'라는 곡은 자라는게 어떤 기분인지 그 당시엔 잘 알 수 없다는 것에 대한 노래예요 성장하는건 힘들고, 자라는 건 자신도 알지 못한 채 일어나죠. 자란다는 것은 정말 말도 안 되는 것 같아요 어릴 때 거의 모든 시간동안 빨리 자라고 싶어하며 보낸다는 게 황당하잖아요 전 매일 밤 사람들 속에서 제가 자라면서 겪은 그 모든 것들을 똑같이 겪은 제 나이대의 사람들을 봐요 또 좀 더 어린 7, 8살쯤 된 여자 아이를 보기도 하죠 그리고 저는 이 모든 걸 말해주고 싶어요 그 아이는 자신다운 사람으로 되고 자신만의 생각과 꿈, 의견을 만들어간다고요 이 곡은 그런 작은 아이들을 위해 썼어요 가사 내용만 보면 테일러 자신에게 쓰는것 같기도 하고 남동생한테 쓰는 것 같네요 0:58 it could stay this simple 여기서 simple은 '순수한' 의미로 쓰일 수 있습니다.
만 18살 십대의 끝자락 현 고3으로써 요즘 인간관계도 그렇고 공부하는것도 그렇고 모든게 어려워서 집에 오는 길에 어른이 되는건 정말 어렵다고 생각했는데 집에 와서 이 노래를 들으니까 정말로 눈물이 나네요 점점 어색해지는 아빠와의 사이 뜸해지는 예전 단짝친구들와의 연락들 친구들은 많아지지만 그대로인 그들과의 깊이 쉴틈없이 공부하지만 오르지 않는 성적 다 너무 어렵다고 이 노래처럼 차라리 자라지 않았으면 얼마나 편할까 평생 세상물정 모르고 인생의 쓴맛을 모르고 살면 좀 편할까
현재 스물일곱살인 언니인데 내가 고등학생때 모습같아 괜히 꼰대마냥, 오지랖처럼 댓글 남기고 가요. 진짜그렇죠.. 열아홉살의 세상은 왜이리 힘든건지. 친구도, 10대의 연애도, 공부도, 부모님도, 꿈은 뭔지, 나를 둘러싼 모든것들도... 어른들은 이해해주지 못하는. 그런데 괜찮아요. 인생에 좋은 날들만 있으면 그거는 동화지, 삶이 아니니까... 잘하고 있다고 말해주고 싶어요. 저도 그 시간들을 통해서 20대의 제가 되었고, 힘든만큼 세상을 더 이해하게 되었고 성장한 것 같아요. 힘들다고 주저앉지 않고, 나를 힘들게 하는 그 모든 것들에 부딪히면서 열심히 살고 있는 것 자체가 스스로 기특하다고 칭찬해주세요. :)
아니 어떻게 이런 명곡들만 찾아오시는지........크고싶다는 말은 그만큼 성숙하지 못한 말인거 같기도 해요.크면서 더욱 자신이 책임져야할 것들이 많은데 좋은점만 보고 그렇게 되길 바라는거니까요.사실 그좋은점들은 그만큼의 대가가 따른다는걸 못보는게......그렇지만 그게 나쁘다는건 아녜요.예전을 뒤돌아보면 창피해서 숨겼건 모든 기억들이 소중하고 귀한 추억인걸 이젠 아니까요.저도 언젠간 제 인생이란 은하수에 제가 지금 수놓고 있는 수놓은 인생의 자국을 예쁘게 바라봤으면 좋겠네요.늘 좋은 영상 감사합니다:)
어른이 되면 거대하고?더 단단하고?원하는 것을 쟁취하고 지휘할 수 있어서 어른이 되길 바랐는데, 크고 나니깐 그들도 그냥 묵묵히 견디고 있을 뿐 이란걸 알았어요ㅋㅋ 오히려 겪은 세월만큼 더 많은 상처를 받고 더 무너지고 있다는 거. 진짜 이럴때보면 사람은 몸만 자라는 것 같아요.영원히 뭐 어른이든 아이든 서로가 가진걸 부러워하는거라고 생각해요.시야와 관점을 조금만 뒤집어보면 놓친 것보다 가지고 있는 것에 애정을 주는게 중요하다는 걸 알 수 있음.
One of the best songs of Taylor Swift. I still remember when the first time I listend to it, alone in a big city. Burst into tears and feel sad so much. I miss myself of the past, miss these times but it couldn’t come back..
I'm crying... this is exactly my thoughts right now. Now I'm in this big city, working to pay my bills, doing the seemingly endless work-apartment-work cycle. I miss home I miss my fam wish I never grew up 😭
저희 아들에게 늘 해주던말들이 가사에 있네요 가끔 자는 아이를 보거나 보통 평상시에 안고 있을때 아가 천천히 자라주라 라고 자주 말하는거 같아요 너무 빨리 아쉬운 것도 있고 세상이 이렇게 험난하고 힘든데 이작고 소중한 아이를 사회에 벌써 내보낼 생각을 하니깐 그런생각을 하며 들으니깐 맘이 더 울컥하네요 ㅜㅜ
이노래는 언제 들어도 좋은거 같아요. 천천히 늙어가고 싶지만 시간에 쫒기듣 어른이 되어버렸네요 아직 10대의 상처도 치료받지 못한체로 성인이되었고 그 상처를 안고 살아가다가 대인기피증에 걸려서 숨어서 살고 있었는데 작년에 갑자기 수의사가 되고 싶다는 막연한 꿈이생겨서 하나하나 다시 쫒아가는데 어렸을때 이런 꿈이 있었으면 좋았을까 싶기도 하구 막 후회되는데 이렇게 얼른자라지 마렴 이라는 말을 들으니까 기운이나네요!! :)
노래를 자막으로 다 보며 듣고나서 이 노래를 어떤 마음으로 썼을까? 하는 생각을 가지고 있었는데 댓글에 고정시키신 내용을 읽어보니.. ㅎㅎ 이해가 가네요. 역시 어릴 땐 왜이렇게 빨리 어른이 되고싶어하고 자라고 싶어했는지.. 어릴 땐 걱정없이 모든게 다 좋았으니까요 그때 그 시절, 추억을 소중히, 천천히 자라도 괜찮아 라는 테일러의 마음이 담긴 곡 같네요 ㅎㅎ아흐 좋다
This song brings so much memories. I remember when I finished college and having a hard time to find a job my mom said " its OK I'm here you'll be fine, I will take care of you till you find one" I want to cry cos even tho I'm adult now my mom always ask if I already eat, if I'm fine, if I wash my clothes properly, she still fix my clothes. I am so blessed bcos my mom never get tired loving me when I felt that the whole world doesn't want me anymore.
옛동네에서 친구들이랑 학교끝나고 학교놀이터에서 모여서 그네타고 놀던 기억이 엊그제 같은데 벌써 18살이되어서 문득 돌아보니 하루하루 진로와 성적에 대한 고민들을 하며 현실에 적응해나가려고ㅜ노력하면서 살아가고 있네요... 시간이 정말 빠른거같아요 아직 그때와 지금의 전 변한게 없는거 같은데 말이죠
I hope this song won't be the reason for people to stop and give up just because they are tired with the adults' life💔 But instead.. the meaning of this song can be the reason to throw back to the time with our loves and to work harder so we can make them happy and proud... and go back to their hugs❣ You guys are not alone!!❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤 lots of luvvv from swiftie!
Few days ago I found some files filled with all of my childhood pictures. In there I found moments that I couldn't even remember. Christmas, first birthday party, playing with my older sis in playground, riding a bike with daddy..all of them looks so shine and bright. This song is amazing. It reminds me all of moments that I saw inside of album. Thank U
18살인데 미술을 하고 있어요 2달 전만 해도 한국 대학 디자인 입시를 하고 있었는데 지금은 미국 유학 준비를 하고 있네요 생각보다 준비해야 할 것도 많고 시간은 없고.. 가서 잘할 수 있을 지도 걱정되고 괜히 돈만 쓰다가 오는 건 아닌지 내가 진로를 잘못 정한 건 아닌지.. 한국 대학은 공부 잘하면 준비하기 수월했는데 미국은 그거 말고도 해야 할 게 너무 많네요 미래가 다가오는 게 설레면서도 무서워요 비록 청춘이라지만.. 제 고등학교 시절은 정말 공부했던 기억밖에 없을 거에요 그래도 미래에 대한 도약이라 생각하면 되겠죠 남들과 다른 길을 가려니 두려워요 지금 내가 중요한 인생의 갈림길에 놓여있다는 게 실감이 안나요 그저 대학만 잘 가면 된다고 생각했는데... 앞이 깜깜하고 잘 모르겠고... 나이를 먹으면서 점점 인생에 대해 생각하게 되니 내가 그래도 조금 컸다는 게 느껴져요
Just wanna let this out sorry please ignore me :( My family used to be complete. Happy and close. Or so I thought... My mother moved in Japan to work. My father, whom was left behind, decided to work abroad as well. Back then I never really cried. Whenever my mom would come, she'd stay for 2 weeks. Sometimes one. Both of my parents, missed every birthdays, holidays, mother/father's day. I grew up not knowing their real personality, name, nor their birthdays. But my siblings and I have never thought of betraying them both. We were smart children. We know that they were already separated, they just didn't tell us. The families from both sides doesn't get along very well. So many tears were shed from our tiny hearts. We grew up too early. I still couldn't move on from the happiness of my childhood. Back when we were all complete and just going out to travel as a whole unit. Now, we're all scattered all over the world. It's sad to think that I'll never be able to experience them again. This song reminds mevividly of the smell, the emotions, the joy of the past that I wished I had cherished at the time. Then I remember the joy of highschool. Man I just wished I never had this feeling. This fucking sadness that haunts me and soaks my pillow till I fall asleep. Wished I’d never grown up. The thought keeps pushing me into the edge of depression. I hope that I wont lose to it. Nostalgia is a wild beast when you don't know how to tame it
Sorry I don't think I really obey ...I couldn't ignore ...I just wanted to say that u were not responsible for all that happened in your childhood nor was anything that happened your fault...but now your life is your responsibility and you have the power to bring joy in ur life ..start over again .Don't forget your past just keep it aside while focusing on every tiny detail of ur present that should keep you happy ...best wishes and good day🙂
you can make it up on ur future family....make sure that your future kids will not experience what u've experienced...give them the best childhood experiences and make ur future family different from yours...be strong and just keep on moving forward
Your little hand's wrapped around my finger And it's so quiet in the world tonight Your little eyelids flutter cause you're dreaming So I tuck you in, turn on your favorite night light To you everything's funny, you got nothing to regret I'd give all I have, honey If you could stay like that Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple I won't let nobody hurt you, won't let no one break your heart And no one will desert you Just try to never grow up, never grow up You're in the car on the way to the movies And you're mortified your mom's dropping you off At 14 there's just so much you can't do And you can't wait to move out someday and call your own shots But don't make her drop you off around the block Remember that she's getting older too And don't lose the way that you dance around in your pj's getting ready for school Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple No one's ever burned you, nothing's ever left you scarred And even though you want to, just try to never grow up Take pictures in your mind of your childhood room Memorize what it sounded like when your dad gets home Remember the footsteps, remember the words said And all your little brother's favorite songs I just realized everything I have is someday gonna be gone So here I am in my new apartment In a big city, they just dropped me off It's so much colder that I thought it would be So I tuck myself in and turn my night light on Wish I'd never grown up I wish I'd never grown up Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up I could still be little Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up It could still be simple Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple Won't let nobody hurt you Won't let no one break your heart And even though you want to, please try to never grow up Oh, don't you ever grow up Oh, never grow up, just never grow up
RU-vid recommends me this kind of video and I just realized that I'm in the middle of lady and teen now, not a kid.. And next week I will be moving to another city to study at University so I need to move and go to my dorm.
[Verse 1] Your little hand's wrapped around my finger And it's so quiet in the world tonight Your little eyelids flutter 'cause you're dreaming So I tuck you in, turn on your favourite nightlight [Pre-Chorus] To you, everything's funny You got nothing to regret I'd give all I have, honey If you could stay like that [Chorus] Oh, darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh, darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple I won't let nobody hurt you Won't let no one break your heart And no one will desert you Just try to never grow up [Post-Chorus] Never grow up [Verse 2] You're in the car, on the way to the movies And you're mortified your mom's dropping you off At fourteen, there's just so much you can't do And you can't wait to move out someday and call your own shots [Pre-Chorus] But don't make her drop you off around the block Remember that she's gettin' older, too And don't lose the way that you dance around In your PJs getting ready for school [Chorus] Oh, darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh, darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple No one's ever burned you Nothing's ever left you scarred And even though you want to Just try to never grow up [Bridge] Take pictures in your mind of your childhood room Memorize what it sounded like when your dad gets home Remember the footsteps, remember the words said And all your little brother's favorite songs I just realized everything I have is, someday, gonna be gone [Verse 3] So, here I am in my new apartment In a big city, they just dropped me off It's so much colder than I thought it would be So I tuck myself in and turn my nightlight on [Chorus] Wish I'd never grown up I wish I'd never grown up Oh, I don't wanna grow up Wish I'd never grown up, I could still be little Oh, I don't wanna grow up Wish I'd never grown up, it could still be simple Oh, darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh, darlin', don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple I won't let nobody hurt you (Never grow up) Won't let no one break your heart And even though you want to Please, try to never grow up [Outro] Oh, oh (Never grow up) Don't you ever grow up Oh (Never grow up) Just never grow up
어느 나이가 편한나이라고 말할수없듯이 각 나이대마다의 고민들이 분명히 있고 가끔은 너무 힘들어서 차라리 자라지않았으면 그냥 20살의 어린나로 머물렀으면 좋겠다는 생각도 하죠 지나고보면 생각보다 별일아닌것같지만 그건 이미 지나간일이기에 우리가 덤덤하게 받아들이는것 아닐까요? 가사가 많은생각을 하게 만드네요