Marriage is the hardest job you’ll ever have, sometimes people get divorced or separated they get with another partner and after two or three years all of the same issues come up I love that you and Justin are realizing the love is deep you can work through this and each time there’s a bump or a mountain there is always a valley no matter what ...... that’s life. And you’re also teaching say that you have to work at everything in life to become successful. Blessings to you and your beautiful family. thank you for being so honest and real! 💐💞☯️💝
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Relationships are hard! 30 years here. First 15 years was getting to really know each other and I asked for a divorce 3 times in those first 15 years! We are rock solid now and are best friends. We raised 3 daughters together, one was not his biologically, but he adopted her when we married. She was 3 at the time. The most important thing I think is letting your partner have his or her own life and interests and vice versa. Be very forgiving and understanding. The grass is not always greener on the other side! And can I add...I don't understand how you guys have stayed at 120k followers for so long and seeing other RU-vid families skyrocket into the 500k and plus subs in a short amount of time. You guys are just as deserving if not more of zillions of followers! ❤️ I've been subbed to you for a few years now! Before Azalea was even born! Fun to watch her grow up!
Thank you for sharing. Your comment helps give me perspective. My husband and I have been together for 10 years. Divorce was put on the table 6 months after our son was born. And here we are 8 months after our second child and divorce is back on. He struggles to stay consistent and is emotionally disconnected from our sons and I. But I do know that with time and some council we could get back on track. Sometimes I have the strongest urge to just start over and find someone who has their poop in a group so I can stop fixing lol
Yes marriage is a ongoing journey of learning and discovering about the other person. Ive been married for 40 years and its hard work, ebbs and flows through the years. I think communication and mutual respect go a long way!!! My husband and I have many different interests but the end goal has always been the same. We give each other the space each of us needs to pursue our own interests, it was much more difficult when our boys were young, they are 21, 32, 35 now so obviously they have their own lives so we have much more time for each other and we are glad that we worked so hard to make it through together.
Sad to see the joy missing in your face, and a heaviness that now seems apparent in the last few talk videos. Marriage is hard, especially when only one set of goals seems to be getting met while the other tries to see where they can fit. I wish you much strength as you navigate this new path. Each of you should make a vision folder or board, see what they both look like. See if you see anything the same in both and see what might be missing. As an artist, seeing it will help guide your new direction.
My husband and myself went through a very long intensive marriage counseling before we got married. 21 years later we still have a wonderful relationship. One of the things we still do is to have a "date night" a few times a month after a lovely dinner we discuss any grief for unhappinesses we have with each other. This has served us well. It sounds like y'all are finding your rhythm. I wish all three of you the best!
Your deep introspective thoughtfulness, your willingness to observe, improve, and enlarge your consciousness is so inspiring. Perspective is everything, learning to evolve instead of dissolve is key to relationships. Love having tea with you! Feel I’m deepening a friendship with you and not just watching the newsreel of your life. Love to you.
It's so easy to get lost in life and forget why you fell in love in the first place! The looks fade, the memories blur, but in the end friendship lasts for lifetime. Rekindling friendship is the first step towards intimacy! Having kids can make that stressful because you become so busy being parents and forget that you two are life partners as well! Best of luck to you both, yall are a beautiful couple and a beautiful family.
It’s so refreshing to hear all of this. My husband and I have a 1.5 year old. It is easy to get trapped in the “Ground Hog Day” of life. What people tend to forget or don’t realize is that even with a child and as exhausting as it can be, that you and your partner HAVE to be a priority. It is a huge part of your foundation. It is hard for everything else and everyone else to be ok when you and your partner are not. How the two do you are, will trickle down to everything else. We are also working on an off type season as well and these are some great ideas to help.
You will make it through this stage! Just remember the ebs and flows right now are totally normal. Once Babe is a bit older things will balance out again for personal and relationship time! 💕 Ours is about to be 3 and it's a completely different ballgame from when he was 1.5. We're able to all play simple bored games together, take longer walks and be out of the house for longer stents. Everyone's freedoms will blossom again soon, hang in there and you're doing great ❤ Edit: Also I know that feels forever away but it will go by so fast! I suggest taking as many photos as you can. You'll look back on them and not remember the temperament of the household, just the sweet sweet smiles.
@@slh9246 thank you! We are def living in the moment with her because it already feels like she’s growing fast. And we most definitely are not short on the pictures. I truly appreciate you commenting and uplifting. It’s truly refreshing.
@@julianajubyyasmine I'm so glad to hear that for you all! There's definitely a weird period when you're no longer just feeding the Babe around the clock and you're able to look up and breathe for the first time in a couple years and be like, "whoa... what do we do now?". The abrupt severance of infant to toddler is confusing. And there's definitely some anxiety with figuring out what to do because you haven't been able to think as an individual for long, it's like hive mentality with a fresh babe lol. So once we can come up for air we're aware of the like time portal we went through. Then we feel the need to get all the things that were put on the back burner to the forefront and its exhaustion trying to tell your mind to relax, that you're not lost and there's still plenty of time for all the things. I'm so looking forward to seeing what you cook up personally and as a family! Your honesty is beautiful and inspiring and I will absolutely buy a ticket to a women's weekend! Like a Red Peppa women's campout, yoga, dance party🎉😛
Very insightful. I have always been able to pick up on emotions, vibes, what have you, and for a while I sensed something going on with you guys, nothing bad, just not exactly the same. As a complete homebody who hasn't even in the sense of the word, traveled much, or far, I can't imagine how I would find any sense of stability in it. It has to be taxing in many ways. But you two just seem made for each other, so happy you are working it out, and I will be here for you!
I have been married almost 32 years from.age 17 to now 48. Its ups and downs and a determination to work at it. Love is a verb. An action word. Not a feeling. Its requires a lifetime of unconditional acceptance and knowing that another person can not complete us. Only God can. And having too high of expectations for each other gets us let down so easily. We have to make sure we are each strong individually to he whole as one unit. I lobe your tea times. You are so inspirational. I also live in NC. Love seeing rhe home remodel process.
This is a beautiful post. You could be a therapist...not what you want I'm sure, but I found this very useful and wish I had been able to apply this 20 years ago to my first marriage. But, it can be applied to current relationships. I am one of those creatives that enjoys everything from housework, gardening, sewing, crochet, painting and now venturing into wood working...never bored!
Absolutely love this tea time. It’s so special that you would sit down and share with us and in turn so many of us can relate with you. Thank you Juby.
I think the weekly "Love meeting" is a great idea,it gives you both time to discuss all the issues you have and how to go about fixing them. My hubby and I have a similar thing each week where we discuss things and how to remedy them. I think that a lot more couples would do well to take this on board. I wish you both lots of love and happiness and love and squeezes to Azalea.x BTW,I'm loving that T-shirt you are wearing. Mystical life,love it.
Me and my partner have check-ins quite often. It’s quite important to make sure that you have a strong relationship while maintaining your individuality. I love tea time! Looking for the next one (I had a cup of rose milk tea) And as for me, my creative outlet is card making. Especially for elders in nursing homes 😊
Just wanted to let you know that I'm a couple's therapist and I think that the "love meeting" structure you shared is so on point that I'm saving this video to share with clients who might benefit from trying out something similar. Thanks for this video! x
Me and my boyfriend of 19 years are going through the same sort of thing. We actually broke up for 24 hours and realised that's not what we wanted BUT we needed to make changes. The last few weeks have been amazing as we are so honest with each other and talking about everything. We are making a point to see things from each other's perspective and started couples counselling to ensure we are getting help to make it substainable. Like you said, it is sooooo hard to make relationships work BUT if you are both working together to make it work, it makes the hard times worth it and make you appreciate each other so much more.
I loved Tea Time with you, Juby! Thank you for being so genuine and sharing how you are working together on your marriage. My husband and I have been married for 15 years and it does evolve as we each grow and change. And that’s normal and okay so long as you’re coming back together for a common goal. And it sounds like that’s exactly what you and Justin are doing. Anything worth having is worth working for. Cliche yes, but so true. Sending you love and light🤗💞☀️✌🏻
I'm grateful to find genuine people like you. It's a challenge to find and maintain the balance with being present and grateful and just cognizant of all the details of life while also living in this modern world with modern relationships. Keep it real Juby!
My creative hobbies include but are not limited to: Playing bass, acoustic guitar and ukulele, painting acrylic and watercolor, sketching, reading, poetry, song writing, gardening, sewing, and dancing
I’ve been married to a merchant marine (sailor) for 10yrs (we are 35) and we have a 5mo old together now; as long as you stay dedicated to growing together & your communication as a couple/family, you’ll be sitting on a porch wrinkly and just as in love as you were when it started. People think happy marriages are lucky or easy; an in some ways that’s true, but what they don’t see is the daily work we put into always dating each other and learning together ♥️
Amazingly good video. So much wisdom here. We've been married 37 years and we both are very independent but we both value our marriage and relationship. We've always been able to do what we love separately with no animosity and we've always strived to spend time together as well. So important to have both independence and dependence in a relationship. Love the mindful mediation technique of the five senses. I'm not very good at many meditation techniques but I'm definitely looking forward to trying this one.
I’m GRATEFUL for your honesty and for your willingness to share your life on RU-vid. I have been watching you and your family for close to two years now. It’s refreshing to hear about how you deal with day to day realities and not paint that picture that everyday is “good” because it can sometimes not be. As humans, we struggle (mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually) and we have to make the most of this life that we have. Change is inevitable from the growth we go through but it’s necessary to become who we are meant to be. I will be joining your patreon soon because I really want to support you, Justin and Azalea. I’ve watched all of your videos and look forward when a new video has been uploaded! Also, I must definitely add that you have a beautiful family and I that I do feel a real kinship with you, Juby. We are very similar since I am artistic, as well. I understand that desire to be creative because it’s simply a part of who you are. God made you and me that way-We must embrace it!!! By the way, I live 15-minutes away from Long Beach-I wish we had met. It would’ve been nice. Anyways, please be safe on your continued travels back East. Sending you and the family a virtual (((HUG))) and positive vibes on the road!!! ❤️🙏🏼
So great to hear from you! We would love to have you as a patreon ~ and perhaps on our next trip out west we will cross paths! Until then - stay well 🌼
There was a point in our journey last year where you guys were traveling west and we were traveling east! We passed one another in so many places 😆 it was an amazing experience traveling across and see you guys go where we had left! We landed here in Pennsylvania and found our forever home. Very excited to know that you guys are coming back to your east coast home base too. I am from Baltimore Maryland and my husband is from Oregon. It is his first experience here and he loves it.
Beautiful Juby: So love your approach to Justin, your marriage, child & careers ... I could listen to you for hours - your voice is warm & calming + the accent is lovely. I could see you picking up a side hustle (ha ha - like you have the time for that currently!) reading audio books 📚 ! Hugs from Southern California 🏖️ P.S. Synchronicity ... I had stopped and made my above comment about your reading audio books (meaning as the reader / story teller) well before you mentioned Audible here at 26:23 mins 😉
Hope things work out well. But being married to the same man for 54 years, I see harder times for you both. Bless your heart, you are really looking at this very positive, and I hope this works out. Some times you can be too close. You have been together 24/7. You can get tired of it and need more space, that doesn’t mean you don’t love each other. I am going there a very hard time. I am 5 years cancer free, hormones everywhere and my 50 year old son is having drug addiction problems. I will say this, it never fails, if he is putting away, he won’t come back. You are a wonderful, beautiful young woman. I admire your outlook. Best of luck sweetheart, Love 💕
I am thoroughly enjoying your tea time talks . It's so important to take time to nurture ourselves and self reflect as well as those we love. I'm coming away asking family and friends what do you need from me to be present with you.
This video made me sad because I know what it’s like not to feel 100% secure in a relationship it messes with your head so much and knowing you love that person with all your being and having that big question wondering if that person is still in love with you and if they still want the same in life as you like having more kids. I wish you all the best 🤍
I haven't watched a video of yours in awhile due to my also crazy life lol. But this was definitely one of my favorites 🥰. So much of what you said resignated with me on so many levels. Keeping relationships healthy, communication, problem solving and planning. I too crave and thrive off of creation, artwork and a home base. I feel like so much of what you said touched a special place in my heart. I am wired very much the same way as you and respect all of your words and wisdom fully. 🥰❤️✌️
I have just seen your video and it has so much resonance for me right now, I'm having a hard time with my partner and your words are really helping, such great ideas. I'm glad your relationship is going well and growing stronger. Thank you so much xx
As a mom of 2 kids who's been traveling for the past 2 years without a fixed address, I can only imagine what you've been through. I always had the impression that it is taff to raise a child without any support system (aka school and neighbors or friends who can look after the child for a few times). This kind of life might seem attractive, but I think that as the kids grow older it is not easy to keep on moving every week. I believe that this ki d of lifestyle is not as heavy for man, even for the ones that are very involved parents. They just take longer to realize it. Wish you guys all good. I realized that I needed to settle for me and for the kids, they were just craving stability. Hope Zea is fine as well
Your NC neighbor here 👋🏼 I picked up your emotions right through the video. You’re such an evolved soul… never dull your light and I’m happy that you’re working on yourself and your marriage. NC welcomes you back with open arms, mind and heart ♥️
This was wonderful advice. Like really good relationship advice. I also love the talking of your 5 senses put to such beautiful family videos. It truly was beautifully creative.
I think Justin needs to get over it and split his time between what he likes and the RU-vid Channel. It is that chemistry between you two in the channel that makes it work. I think you are extremely creative and are the backbone of the channel, but he still needs to be present since he completes the circle which makes the channel work! 🤪
Juby Thank you for being real as I listened to your pod cast I found tears rolling down my cheeks and felt like somehow you were describing me and where I’ve been stuck for many years. You are an incredible woman and Mom and wife. I have been enjoying watching your videos and all the love that always shows between you and your family. How much Azalea has grown and what a lovely little girl you are raising. You are for me an inspiration and would truly love to meet you someday..🌷💫☀️
The way you are situated in that room with the orange and blue colour blocking, the squares, the balance with that and the stuff on the other side - it is simple but remarkable. Nice job!
Appreciate this real talk. It's hard to allow ourselves to be vulnerable with ourselves and others. I struggle in winter with SAD and it's hard to be in a marriage when things feel darker. My passions are making assemblages, collage, miniatures, and writing (poems and other things).
Your family is so super sweet. It's so wonderful to have someone to go through the hills and valleys with together. God bless you all and welcome back to NC!
I love creating things. I find it difficult to find the time to keep creating. I agree with you it is important to honor the creative side because for some of us it's just who we are. We have an innate need to create. Never stop.
what an amazing talk :) thank you so much! I do recognize myself so much in what you say about yourself. Being an artist (all the same media you mentioned, so funny) , surching for timeless moments to connect with who I actualy am. But also relationship wise. Very nice to hear you perspective on it and how you two work on it. We did do kind of the same love-talk years ago befor we got kids, but in the years we kinda stoped with that. Also lost a lot of our connection. I'm definatly going to suggest bringing our talks back and see what it will bring us. Thank you
My creative passions are everywhere!! I never want to give one up. Finding the balance between mastery and pure enjoyment.. IS at times hard... But also, feel very lucky to enjoy them all!
My partner and I bicker so much…..over rediculous things. We both need to have the last word. It’s so very childish. I really want that to stop. Thank you for the very informative talk….Good luck to both of us!
Love your tea time with all of us! I've been with my husband for 20 years now and still so in love! Marriage is a great part of life. I love watching and listening to your videos when I'm doing paper or preparing for next few days of school. I'm a stay at home, homeschooling mom to 2 boys. 11 years and 6 years old.
I do enjoy this time, I settle and listen. Listening to eachother is the springboard forward in every area of our lives. I'm 58 and my whole life has been about listening in love and work. Listening can be frustrating, it can be calming , it can be irrelevant, it can be sad, it can be joyous, it can be shocking , exhausting, a revelation, a grateful opportunity. We can all take something from it and today , I was able to take certain aspects from listening and I also shared your chat with my 21 yr old daughter. Who can become like us all stressed and sometimes anxious, loving life but confused by it too sometimes and she will listen to how she listens and take from it what might help, enable, comfort, support or just help recognize moments of her here and now. It will be different to my Listening because we are at different stages in our lives but back to my point ...there is something that someone will hear. Thanks Juby wise and beautiful in the nicest possible way x
I really like this new Tea Time segment as you're able to sit down and share these little updates with us. That way you don't always have to record everyone for each upload. Perhaps it gives more moments of privacy for your loved ones and feels less invasive. That's how I see it and I honestly find it refreshing. Of course I love that you share what you experience during your travels but this is just as nice too.
Love Tea Time with you! My coffee in hand, it's like just chatting w a friend and always a great time with you Juby! Sending lots of love from California
I been married for 20 yrs. We have a child. We did everything you guys have done. I'm a new yorker so I'm a bit blunt in my response. Time to get a side hustle. Stay out of each other's way like normal people do with a 9 to 5 job. Do your own shit, he does his own shit and your daughter mingles with other children while you're all doing your shit. Time away throughout the day makes your relationship A-OK. ✌
I’m loving these tea time with Juby. Feels like I’m sitting down and catching up with a gf . I’m grabbing a hot drink now 😁*cheers I’d also like to add I live on east coast with my husband so there’s always a place for you guys to park your red peppa if you ever around Boston Ma!
Love these tea time videos. Appreciate your candid words and your open & honest attitude. You should be an online life coach. ✨❤️🙌 RU-vid couples who only share the exciting and perfect parts of their lives are boring and transparent. Thank you for this. 😘💕
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate it. It’s easy to loose track of each other and yourself in a marriage. Time passes and day to day just becomes routine and little thought goes into our actions. It’s very easy to get stuck in autopilot. Sending all of you love.
You guys are wonderful many many lovely stories many beautiful places.....many beautiful people......just want to suggest as a me a woman whom has been married 35 years and going......can I kindly suggest maybe planting some roots in a home .......a house is nice but a home is a home of paradise while planting some deep roots....you can all can still enjoy all your passions . I can totally see you all living in a old home a vintage hippy artistic home and planting every veggie and fruit you can and also having some chickens for eggs......just some thoughts .....and maybe maybe living in a place where you can experience all four seasons god bless and peace xoxo
Thank you Juby for sharing your heart in your Tea ☕️ time with us 😀 Yes I agree , you definitely have to work on a marriage as the years go by - I can relate to that 💕 Every day is an opportunity to improve and not let things get stagnant . Love your creativity 🦋 My passions are writing , photography , poetry , drawing , painting . Keep the Tea ☕️Time Going . Sending you ♥️🌻🦋
I can definitely see the downfalls in past relationships regarding everything you spoke on here. In a much better space in life and with myself and my incredible relationship now. Thank you for talking about the not so easy things sometimes. I appreciate when people just keep it real. ✌️ and 💗
i just loved this !!! such wonderful insight , the love meeting ...wonderful, the little tidbits, meditations , breathwork and the quote ..loved it all thankyou!!!
Loved listening to your advice found your channel through my husband. He’s actually in California (maybe he saw you). He would tell me how he loves your channel. I’m hopeful for a reconciliation we’re separated. I see mistakes i made and i want to make fruitful love with him. Maybe it’ll work maybe it won’t but i am definitely all in if he allows us to work. Seeing your videos bring happy memories. Thank you for your advice. Wish the best for your family!
Well said Juby….. Always a work in progress.. Renegotiate roles often, and always remember that Before ZEE came along it was just the two of you … Just a couple, don’t ever forget that.. Children grow up and leave , if you don’t continue to be friends with Your partner then bad stuff can happen….. When we know better , you do better 🥰❤️🙏🏻💕🇺🇸
Your family inspires me to explore more and be a better human ❤️ I just love your videos so much even if I’m having a terrible day I watch your videos and it makes me happy! Thanks Justin and juby! If your ever in Redding ca i would love to me you guys!
We were in Long Beach too on a surf road trip in our VW from Nor CA. We wanted to go to Cali Vibes fest but then thought it might be too hot on pavement & no picnic blankets with our 4 year old daughter. Would have loved to see you all there & have our daughters play! 💛
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