I wish more people thought this way. Second hand embarrassment is so real💀 your future self will thank you. I can’t even look at pictures from 2012-2015 without shuddering.
@@melarose4498 but the thing is, i want to be confident of myself, and I see so many of my friends who are pretty and whatnot post pictures of themselves and I'm like "I want to do that too" but I'm afraid of being quote on quote "cringe" 💀💀
People will always judge, free yourself from what they think ❤ even if you present as your best version they will hate, because they are full of hate, it's not about you ❤
me too bro. It’s hard for me to enjoy what i’m doing when i just don’t feel like me idk how to explain it. Like my personality is just blank and i don’t feel like myself anymore😒🤷♀️
For all you guys trying to figure out who you are, remember you don’t have to be anyone or have a personality at all you just need to live healthily and look after yourself. Only after you focus on your well-being will you actually start to enjoy things
@@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 I'm 20 and I can relate. I feel like I wasted my teenage years. Becoming an adult is a lonely and boring experience. You barely meet anyone new anymore once you are outside of school. Except if you actively try to meet people through apps or something I guess. But if you didn't fix your social awkwardness as a teen then it's extremely difficult to do stuff like that. In school you think everything will be better once you become an adult but actually things just continue to suck. Now you just work and try to pay off your bills lol
@@juanrico352 Best memories of the sausages as well. Until you get older and realize that all sausages ain’t worth nun. Seems about how it is today lol
You can do it gradually, step by step and get rid of your old clothes in a good way by donating them. A wardrobe change is probably normal as you age and grow to be an adult.
@@labradorsforlife mine are the series of A good girl's guide to murder, Harry potter, Miss Peregrine's special children, and many more Hungarian books
Yeah they never stop, I'm almost 30 and in my "german is the best thing ever" phase, one year ago I was consumed by Venezuelan rap, and I just know that in 1 year something else is going to have all my attention 😂 we all change constantly, it's not wrong ❤
it's true! They don't stop. We seem to think of phases as very temporary and unimportant things. "Oh so that wasn't really me and didn't matter" but phases are just different parts of our lives. They're all equally important because that's what we were feeling and expressing at that point in our lives. It's like laughing at 5 year old me for loving barbie dolls when I don't have them anymore. Doesn't matter, loved em then. Do what makes you happy now, and if it changes later it doesn't change who you were or are
@@inlovewithlife. same im allergic to most sunscreens but the ones i dont react to as bad that i have to use i still get bad redness on my face from so my face always looks like i just ran a marathon it sucks 😭 but i bet u r beautiful!!!!!!
im in my “what has happened these last 4 years, I woke up one day and suddenly I’m almost 16, wasn’t I just a kid yesterday?” Phase Edit: when I mean “kid” I mean my childhood. I’m aware I’m still a child, but what I mean is when I didn’t have to deal with all these mental health issues. Back when I was in 5th grade, and my biggest worry was “I can’t miss an upload from my favorite Minecraft RU-vidrs!!!”
Lol that doesn't really stop. I'm thirty and me and everyone I know keeps feeling like time is just flying right by and we're like wtf. On the one hand it's good cause it means your life must be pretty good and you're enjoying it right. So just enjoy and if you want, you can try to slow life down a bit with mindfulness... 🤗
I understand you but maybe if you give it time you'll get to wear what you'd like to. Plus the most important thing is that you're comfortable in your clothes!
i'm in my "get straight A's or go throw yourself in the garbage " phase "✨i don't need anyone✨" phase and also the "✨ i don't like responsibilities but love to be the responsible one✨" phase i literally have every phase of life in one moment ,im so done💀💀 👽
I’m in my “stagnant” phase where I have no idea what I’m doing and what I want to do in life 😕 Edit: good to see I’m not alone 🥲✊ keep going guys, surely life gets better lmfao
Walk away with your head up high. Go no contact. Know that you deserve someone who is sure about you. Don’t let someone tell you that they don’t want you a second time. Treat yourself to things you love. Try to keep busy with friends, family and hobbies. Cry when you need to.
I’m sorry your going through a hard time you got this remember the hard times will pass even if it does seem like it right now and you have an amazing life ahead of you filled with amazing new memories!! God bless you!!🫶
im in the "what the hell is my style and why don't i feel anything but i'm also somehow too emotional" phase.... also i'm in the "i want miku hatsune to talk to me through my phone and give me my own little sekai" phase lmao
@@jacksonh2083 Maybe cause it's always the girls cheering on other girls for being pretty! If you want to make a comment like that for men then men need to, not just women!
I think that trying to recover just to get revenge is an unhealthy way of coping. Unless he's an obsessive maniac, I doubt he'd care about it, so it would be pretty meaningless. Plus, even if he did care, that would just be momentary satisfaction, and you wouldn't benefit at all from that. On the contrary, you'd waste your time trying to make him care. Do whatever you do for yourself, not for some random guy
You dont have to be in delulu for that you are the best ,if you have never did any crime and don't want to do anything bad to anyone including yourself than its an enough reason to be proud of yourself,,I know teenage sucks but you will survive, convincing ourself the same is hard at times but you will manage don't worry
So why care ?? It seems clique but genuinely just be yourself and communicate .And if people spread or believe rumors they would rather make up fake bullshit or believe it instead of get to know you anyways .So just don’t worry about rumors cuz those people aren’t worth your time anyway
Just get to know people who have good intentions for you as much as possible that’s all you can really do .Also the second you realize rumors are either true in which case why deny it or are made up bullshit you’ll find the humor in them too
It's strange to say but don't take that phase for granted. During that phase of life it's an increased amount of energy due to the amount of testosterone that is being pumped through your blood. So anything that you want to get done at this time of your life do it and you won't have any regrets. Once the acne phase goes away fatigue tends to set in and then you'll have less energy and you'll feel older. It's the worst part about getting old but no one really talks about.
I’m in the “out of high-school…should I continue college…wanna drop out…don’t know what I am doing or what I wanna be…low key jealous of things people I knew from high-school on Instagram are doing…” phase. Welp!! 😂😭
