2 Ways a Narcissist Reacts When You become Silent 

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The silence has been golden. I don't care how he's handling it. lol

Absolutely NO supply!... Not even a drop neither a trickle. ZERO. I AM NOT A SUPPLY.

My silence speaks and I don't care what the think or say. I choose my peace over chaos

When the devil can't get you, he uses a Narcissist 👌

"They are a parasite in need of a host". Best description ever!

Silence is golden. It’s giving you the space to heal. It’s powerful protection.

They only communicate when they need something so I don’t care how they respond to my silence.

the Bible says, "Resist the devil and he will flee from you." GOD said that. So, resist the narcissists and they will flee.

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

Once I got silent it meant I was preparing for a divorce. He thought he trained me to be obedient. The divorce was a shock to him lol. No contact for two years and it was the best decision of my life.

My silence saved me by 99.9%

The silence has been such a blessing I should’ve done this sooner pulled away because now I feel wonderful

My grandfather never spoke. He had a separate bedroom. He took separate vacations. He lived a separate life. Had separate friends that she was not privy to. Yet lived under the same roof. He never spoke to anybody in the family because he knew if he did, my grandmother would screw it all up. Never expressed any emotion. He knew what he was dealing with. So it came as a big shock when he died of natural causes on the couch one night. As a child, I thought it odd. But as an adult, I realize now my grandmother was a narc and that's how he dealt with her. In the end, it was very effective.

I went silent and no contact and now he is trying to get in contact with me I refuse I don't want evil and chaos in my life at all the devils advocate can stay outside he isn't my concern no more

I walked away and went silent on my ex and his family. Blocked them out of my life including the past friends. I am happy and doing what I love. I am really happy that people are being aware of such people thanks to videos like this.

I just went silent to match his silent energy. They don't like it and may post passive aggressive things on the internet. They feel entitled to you always initiating contact to validate their importance.

Even if you go silent, they will someway, somehow cause drama and play the victim. It's as if their life depends on it.

After being texted that I am Medieval, unscientific ,told I need therapy and I'm naive.....I paused,then texted back "text someone who cares." One week silent, so nice, no criticism ❤and sooo peaceful!!!

You are NEVER deleted from the narcissist's mind. They remain stuck with your introject for the rest of their days, no matter how long you've been gone.

I watch these videos because they do help me with my healing but I don’t wish them any harm, karma none of that. In a way I am thankful because this experience has made me look within and realize what I need to work on. Boundaries, self love and awareness. I walk away taking accountability for my part. It doesn’t matter to me if they ever do. I’ve learned the lesson. I’m so ready to heal and move on with my life.

You can't wrestle with pigs 🤣 So very true

Danish make a video on how their voice changes when they want to impress someone.

My evil “meat suit” actually said today, “I thought that’s what you wanted was for me to be silent.” This was after I asked him to stop slinging insults; I am getting out now!

Narc don't like sick people, i underwent surgery...very complicated breakup...he cheated, denied it, came to meet me with a hickey and told me it was a bruise...instead of telling me that he got someone new all he did was to make me understand that i need to go now...he left me into confusion, turned my brain upside down. Im 4 months into it....getting better, listening to music that i used to listen before i met him in my life. Though i still have nightmares...i am getting through it. Im in NC since february...i dont think he will call me since i know that narc does not like sick people. The damage that he caused to me is much more painful than my operation...can you imagine ?. Thanks, i dont want to see him nor hearing his voice....when he comes in my mind my heartbeat races...traumatised

When he discarded me and went silent I went crazy… It hurts so much I couldn’t stop writing him, seeking clarity, empathy, closure… And it bothered him even more

Proverbs 18:1 An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.

Silence is golden, duct tape is silver. I was in a gaming community and after realizing a close friend in that community was abusing me emotionally and showing narcissistic traits, I left that community and have gone "no contact." I'm healing but I've found peace with a lot.

This is true. my narcissistic relative lashed out at me one day in front of the family and instead of feeding into it, I looked at them and walked away. When I tell you the scream they hollered out when I walked out could heard a block away😂. They started screaming and crying like a toddler. At the time, I didn’t know they had narcissistic personality disorder but I knew something wasn’t right. And honestly after finding it out, it’s so much easier to deal with them….They are very predictable. But Now it’s the flying monkeys that annoy me 🤦🏽‍♀️

In order to be able to meet them with geniun silence, you have to heal! Cause they see if you are doing this for real or not. When it is genuine it is not about punishing them, it is about they really don’t mean a thing. For real! Your genuine healed silence take ALL their weapons away from them

Narcissist hate silence it eats away at their soul when they don't know what you doing? Or worst their mind starts wondering maybe you moved on found someone new they are longer your main focus or prioriy they have been replaced ouch..

Eid Mubarak Danish and everyone who read this. 🎉❤

Silence is meaningless and useless without the accompanying lack of emotional response.

I believe in writing dull stuff back. One guy went on a rant about my age and weight. So I said, " 9:43 I got your text. I'm not doing anything interesting, just paperwork, why don't you do something good for your mum. Occupy yourself, read a book." Then I left my phone off. And blocked him etc. He drove around my neighbourhood so I parked my car out of sight for a bit, caught the bus and kept a low profile.

I am like a lioness with my silence. 😂 thank you.

Total silence

I don't fight at all. Ever. Because that person isn't worth it. I stay silent and if I MUST address the person, it's on MY terms, and whatever that person says or the reaction is, that's totally irrelevant to me.

One gave me the silent treatment for the second time after I paid for an all expense trip🤔 I responded with NO CONTACT😂 ✌🏾✌🏾 Two years later, many lies later, smear campaigns and everyone still hearing about how I'm horrible for walking away and never speaking to her and flying monkeys again. But my life is extra beautiful absent of her in it💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️💃🏿💯❤️

The narcissist is the lowest life form.

I started setting boundaries after the children moved out. I didn't care anymore. He burned the house down. Greatest gift I got. Nothing holding me to him or ou4 possessions. I am free✊👑👏⚡

Danish, thank you, this is so very helpful! Broke up with a narc acquaintance recently. He respected my silence from January until Easter, then dropped a greeting card for Easter and some chocolate into my postbox = his way to hoover! I said thx by calling him. That's what he was waiting for. He called me yesterday to remind me to stay in contact with him - which I don't want! This time I ignore his call and stay silent, hopefully forever. He lives in my neighborhood. Next thing he will do is stalking me by watching my place from out the street or try to meet me somewhere in person. I know bc. it's about the third or fourth term of me trying to separate and to get rid of the lonely 79 year old widower. Grhh! - He's pushing my compassion buttons and if nothing else works he's playing the victim bc of various reasons: I'm ill; I lost my dog; I need some body-touch; I am so depressed and so lonely etc.! He is very sly/cunning in getting the supply he is needy for! You bet! 😢 But I learn to sly back! 😂❤🎉

They get dirty, try to be heard and same time command you to answer.

the peace is incredible! period.

My sister "banished" me from the family, her silient treatment for something I never said hurt the first 9 months, but as time passed, the healing began and I see her casting me out as a blessing. No more mooching, no more lies, no more drama, just pure peace within my life. ❤

They are failures

Danish! Thank you for all of your contributions, and your willingness to share details of what you have survived. I am so sorry you went through all of that, and it makes me even more grateful for what you did to overcome it well enough to be able to talk about it. Your father and my mother were very similar in how they managed, only your father sounds more calculated, whereas my mother was just pure nutso control at all costs chaos. My grandmother told me, 'Your mother lacks ruth, and it's my fault for spoiling her rotten'. I hope your life is better now. You are worthy of wonderful things. I bless you.

My mom gets angry if I don't keep up giving info to her or othewise give massive input to her existence or just keep up the convo that she can then judge, criticize and reject or treat like it was her input and she who said it. She might belittle what I say, my ideas and next moment present them as her own. She's like a parrot. I have learned that I have to push myself to limits to keep up with content to others or otherwise they'll get volatile, angry and explosive 😢

Some of the worst narcissists I've known of have been step children, especially as they get older and become adults. You're their childhood trauma because you're the new partner.

Thank you Danish ❤ Please continue to share your knowledge to help people fight the demons of NPD to keep the struggle and survive. Include my self

I've been married for 16 years, after 14 years of abuse I finally know what he is I thought I was loosing my mind. I finally did some research and know what's been going on. I am now in gray rock been in gray rock for 2 years now, but I'm sick of living and pretending like I don't feel anything. I'm stuck in this marriage financially.

I was there for my narc ex through everything healthwise and helping him with his anxiety. We have been on and off for years but after my divorce he came back again.We were happy for 8 months. One night we had a stupid fight and didnt talk for two days. He invited me over only to tell me he cared about me, still wanted to "check in on me from time to time", and thinks about me all the time but he was NEVER coming back. But the following days he proceeded to message me on and off all day like nothing changed. I finally blocked him on my phone and social media. It's only been a week and im struggling but i know its the right choice.

They only pick fight either by crying or abusing

I'm so out of the loop on this and I love it !!

It's really quite funny.. I started doing this 2 days ago to my horrifically reinforced narcisist parents and then I see this video. This explained what I was doing because, honestly, I'm ready to accept homelessness because i feel powerless to them. I don't want to fight with them, and everything i talk to them about is turned around and used against me in surprising and cruel ways. I'm not even afraid of homelessness anymore because i think about it so often and ive mapped the area very well. So thanks for at least giving me a fighting chance!

Thank you for this information, it was very detailed & spot on. Thank you. 🙏🏼

This is my first time commenting. I have learned so much from your videos. Thank you. When you said, "Silence gives them power" that really hit home with me. My entire life I practiced "gray rock" with my parent. I only recently learned that term. When I was around them it was easier to let them do the talking. It's odd when you come to realize that your parent really doesn't like you or care about with you say. They did like to see/talk to my children. I wouldn't leave them alone with my children and if they spoke on Zoom I made sure to be in the room. I often had to intervene or discuss later with my children that what my parent said was mean or inappropriate. As my children got older and less entertaining to my parent, they started to say mean things about their appearance or tried to guilt trip and manipulate them. I recently went no contact with them and it's the best thing that I've ever done. I survived the abuse. I wasn't going to subject my children to it.

Your videos helped me a lot to heal and come out very confident and strong ❤

This video comprehensive,, in-depth and profound. Thank you so much.

Thankyou, this is extremely helpful 😊❤

Impacted by silence

Finally someone who gives solutions. Thank you.

Brilliant, thanks so much!!

Good job! Love the advice 😊

Your videos are gold …I always prefer listening to you than others psychologist..your storytelling is very strong

Right on time!

Starting from scratch, I spent 4 years working day and night about narcissism, learning all the information and now I have become a professional expert in the field of Narcissism.

This is so spot on Danish 😅 Thanks for sharing 🙏

My silence and all my blocking remains very empowering to me. I cared/care zero whether they were/are reacting or not.

Now I've learned to leave him on his own I just give him his meals and go in my room. Did I mention he does not want to even sleep in the same room? I don't even have conversation with him but I'm enjoying my space and peace❤❤❤

I’m not sure I agree. My silence works perfectly for me. I don’t need to push any buttons. I don’t need to set my boundaries or clarify anything to them. I don’t need to respond or retaliate. This only creates a single response in which you have broken the no contact rule. The golden rule is, ignore the bully and the bullying gradually diminishes. I don’t care what they think. It’s none of my business. My peace and my personal space is, my business. Continually focusing on my peace, indeed and quite possibly enrages them and eats away at them but - most importantly, it helps maintain a healthy and carefree lifestyle for me.

When I went NC with my abusive dad and grandma, they said it was me being VIOLENT

Wow! Thank you for this video

I love to watch your videos.very impressive and actual indeed.

This is so interesting.

Sometimes the truth gets you further abused.

“You can’t wrestle with pigs.”🤣🤣🤣. I love that!✋🏾

I like that drip supply advice- i had not heard of that before I am currently recovering from having to navigate tolerating the attendance of a sibling plus his family of toxins at our shared mother’s funeral- they previously behaved clearly that i was not any value to them inviting everyone except me to the daughters wedding- i did not care about going to the wedding but the absence of invitation was a glaring obvious statement and hurt a lot but cemented clarity and i in return chose to block them from being a part of my circle as my personal boundary And so here we all were forced into a shared event and i knew they would act fake as if they could act like they could hug me as tho the higher class citizens than i am again It was extremely difficult as i knew any contact towards me was not for my benefit and only to charade themselves in their fake self exalting egos Knowing about this drip supply idea is very helpful as i didn’t want to make a scene so i allowed a half hug from the main predator because she initiated it but I ignored my sibling - but as a Christian thats now tied me into flashbacks like a trauma along with their flying monkeys also making a beeline towards me - Are you able to do a video on how to navigate attending a funeral that you dont want to miss but the loved one is shared with the attendance of toxic family that you went no contact with

I went silent on my mother, who is a narcissist. She has since tried to buy back into my favor, fake nice in front of people with gifts but no real changed behavior or apology. She comes around when it looks good to other for her to do so. I've accepted her gifts, but I've told my husband it doesn't mean she will be able to buy her way back into my life. She has since used other people in the family like my grandmother to guilt trip me and manipulate me to accept her back into my life and her treatment of me. I refuse.

So trying this right now. finding a Narc is an opportunist who will just get on with it. But you totally right in that the unpredictability really rattles them. Will update.

Today I go to my Narssict relative his house is very dirty he barks at me like dog.he barks attack at me he shows to everyone that he is joking but I show no reaction no response...!he became like mad dog attacks me..may GOD curse every narcissist..!

Absolutely right. I learnt many things from your videos. Please suggest some ways that these monsters do not spoil innocent people's life.

I'm moving in a month and it's been 1 week since i went silent and it's so healing and soothing. Not having to deal with them. I haven't told them yet that I found a place to live, keeping that my joyful secret for now.

Danish I am doing xactly wat u said ..silence...cutting off...emotionally physically ...it is working....yaaayy ..the narc is crumbling....can see him falling apart..gone into depression...and I am watching his karma taking over ... ..

The silence treatment is the form of abusive, sign of weakness, And a weapon of people who don't know how to deal with their and others emotions. So sad how social media glorify it. Actually those who use silence treatment in order to "test" or cut of others after initial friendship... They are the Real narcissists who blame others of narcissism. If Iam uncomfortable with someone while I get to know him/her closer, first I tell it to the person, then I explain it what manner I don't like.... All what Is neccessary in communication between friends. Silence treatment is most coward way to end any relationships. Both parties have been involved in building up, breaking up is painful, nothing Fast track and easy.

My silence drives him nuts. He even checks my phone.. he's so insecure and so manipulative. An hour of you not texting or calling telling them you love or miss them is going to be an issue for few days. Its exhausting dealing with this kind of person..what used to piss me off is my silence being seen as stupidity or weeknes. Now that I know what i know...i don't care what he thinks.

After 30 +years and 4 children later. He put my oldest daughter as the mother position. I have lost 3 of my 4 children to parental alienation

I went silent and MIL went ballistic😂

My silence has begun after 21 years and 2 months. He can feel it and see it. He tried to test me but I was assertive. Then he left. He knows now that I am becoming a different person and he can see he is losing me but instead of changing his behaviors he is trying to accuse me.

❤❤❤ Thank you Danish you r truely my savior. Yes I have completely started giving My partner silent treatment and he is driven crazy trying to get out reactions from me. Let see what fate has to bless me 😂❤🎉

An excellent presentation....

This is so on targett!

I have so appreciated your video's. I feel st 56 I'm learning to have real boundaries, healthy boundaries.

Perfect 👌 thank you 🙏

Bring me chaos,bring me spite,I don't CARE,Absolutely ZERO attention,ZERO contact,ZERO hell. All heaven.❤✝️!

I like ur channel. Thank u❤

Excellent video

Your silence makes the narc crazy and ruthless. Be careful!

This true he stalked my every move with an app when started my job..he tought I was cheating meanwhile I was securing my awards at work...and my great performance.🎉

Crazy how we live rent free inside these narcissistic heads.

"You can't wrestle with pigs" LMFAO LOVE IT :)