Jammidodger I LOVE YOU YOU HELPED ME SO MUCH WITH MY TRANS LIFE I FINALLY GOT TO GET TESTOSTERONE YOU HELPED ME WITH MY DEPRESSION I LOVE YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH !
i want a relationship like this when i’m older. you two literally make me feel so warm inside. the love blossoms and it makes me so happy. you two are so cute and i really hope your future together is beautiful (which i’m sure it will be)
These two are always so damn adorable together. I love how they look at each other like they're on a first date every time they see each other even though they live together.
Your relationship makes me believe in true love. Not like those stupid movies with the abusive dynamics. This is what a real healthy relationship should be :) you guys are great and I wish you the best!
It’s so cute!!! I stumbled upon this video while watching the most recent one of yours, Jamie. And I must say - you were so cute and so freshly in love (seems so fresh still) and now you are more … comfortable and more resting in yourself (I mean you both). It’s so nice to watch this video and the new ones ❤️ thank you both for your content and keep the great work up 💐❤️
You bring me such joy watching your videos! You both have educated and made great normalcy to trans life and relationships! Much love from Florida, USA -Oh, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎈🎁🎈
I like the haircut! It looked good before also but this hairstyle really suits you! Btw love videos with Shaaba (sry if I spelled that incorrectly) in them. She seems like an awesome person! Best of luck to both of you :)
My partner looks similar to you and the comment about your hair ear wings in the intro made me laugh really hard because they're always complaining about their ear-wings.
I have watched too many videos of yours in a row! Do you realize that you have the exact same RPS game in this video as you do in the video "Couple's Trivia - How Well Do We Know Each Other" published 11 Jun 2012. The first round ties with scissors and then Shaaba beats Jamie with paper over rock.
Wow, I didn't even realize Shaaba was that much shorter than Jamie lol In most videos I've seen of them they're both sitting down and they look close to the same height.
I think both of you are brilliant & I think you are very brave Jamie to be public about your transgender. I'm sure you will have a long and happy marriage.......God Bless you both!
You guys are so sweet :D Do you know the channel called the and? They have a card game as well, but that's more serious though. So maybe not video material, but could be fun for you guys :)
I literally spit everywhere when they tried to whistle omfg. Idk why I found that so funny. My shirt is wet from my spit now •-• Now I'm wondering why tf I had so much spit in my mouth in the first place, like actually.
Jaime: I’m still trying to figure out if I’m trans or not and I’m desperate for advice. I live in the US so I know it’s a lot different, but I’m dying inside and I’m scared. I don’t know what to do. How did you really know? Who did you turn to? Did you have to hide it from your parents for long? What is the best way to bind? Is there a way for me to get a binder without my parents finding out? How long should I wait to tell my parents? Should I wait until I’m in college to hardcore start transitioning?
Sam Robertson I’m going through the same thing as you and I always find myself second guessing myself. I have been questioning my gender for around 8 months, so I’m fairly certain that I’m transgender or non-binary.
Dear Sam, Trying to figure yourself out can be very frustrating and a long process. Just know that there's many more people that feel the same way! I realised my "status" when I watched a video of a trans man explaining how he felt before transitioning. I noticed how that exactly matched my own feelings. I finally had a word for all of the things I felt. Luckily, there's a lot more online now that we can use to educate ourselves and those around us. Maybe these pages help you a bit: www.pflag.org/search?keys=transgender&type=resource & www.glaad.org/transgender/resources. Finding a therapist or someone that specialises in gender issues is probably a good idea. They will assist you to overcome any of the obstacles you might face. Are there maybe also any queer cafés or LGBT* youth centers in your area? Try to figure out what makes you (more) comfortable, such as wearing boxer briefs or getting a haircut. Only you know what makes you feel more comfortable and there's no right or wrong way. Please don't get discouraged when you look in the mirror and things aren't immediately "right" in your eyes. It will take a while. But believe in yourself and your feelings, don't give up. In terms of binding: Please bind savely by using a proper binder that fits your body. Maybe ask a supportive friend whether you can use their address for shipping. Otherwise, say it's for cosplay. Layers are your best friend and don't worry if things aren't 100% flat; most cis men aren't either. Your parents aren't entitled to know everything.. but just know that it usually takes a while (in my case about 3 years..) until they fully understand and change pronouns. It might be easier for them to fully support you should you pursue HRT when you give them a bit of time beforehand to get used to it; it's only fair. For a person that has never experienced gender dysphoria it's extremely hard to imagine what that's like. Just know that even if things don't seem that great at first and you feel like your parents' behaviour hurts your feelings, it's often not intentional. They usually want to protect you from any harm and want you to be happy and healthy. Sit down and explain your feelings when you are ready to do so. No pressure! The process of transitioning doesn't start when you begin a HRT or have a surgery; it starts when you firstly decide that you want to change things. It's a long process and sometimes not that easy. But only you know what's right for you and I wish you all the best on this journey of figuring yourself out! :) I hope this helped a little bit. -Chris
Christian Preissner thank you so much. I’m saving this. I live in a small town without any resources so I’m going it alone, but thank you for the help and support.
a good way to get a binder without your parents knowing is saving up enough to buy a gc2b and then buy a prepaid gift card (like a visa card) at a drug store so you can order it online without your parents knowing. If you’re very scared about your parents getting the mail before you, you can send it to a supportive friend’s house.
Sam Robertson some therapists will talk to you online, via phone calls or Skype, it might be worth investigating. It takes a long time to figure yourself out, and no one ever does completely - wishing you strength and courage in your journey x
