Thai wife took the house, car and all possessions.. this has to stop! 

I have lived in SE Asia for over 10 years, I’ve been back in Australia for five years, after having two relationships, one was an Isaan lady (she was 25 and I was 38), I’m now single again living in Australia and mid 40s. I have basically been ostracised by the naive Iess travelled here and while getting sober in AA where I was open and honest about my drinking adventures in Thailand, I was labelled a sex predator and worse, I was physically threatened in AA and harassed by uneducated untraveled envious white Aussies . I had to leave AA. (3 years sober and going strong) I appreciate this explanation of how single men devoid of love and action for so many years are not the PREDATOR , they are the PREY! Having said that, some of the Thai Girls have been conditioned to learn how to get money from travellers and have multiple short term relationships. They think it’s normal and don’t fully understand that they could be much better off in a relationship which is based on love rather than money. They like to show bank deposit receipts on social media, showing off the huge amounts of money travellers send them after they go back home and this encourages more Thai girls to take advantage of more lonely men coming to Thailand genuinely looking for love. In my opinion Thai women are mostly a lot more genuine and honest than western women. A Thai girl will ask for money (all the time 😂❤) but most would never steal it from you. Can’t wait to get back to SE Asia, the food and services is disgusting here and so are a lot of the people. 😊 Bring it On !

glad your of the alcohol. me too 14 years. i left AA cause it was a cult!!@@danielthomas5844

That's a beautiful story and so good to hear

That's a good lady right there. 👏

good women are rare.. there are a lot more bad than good in the world unfortunately. Great however you met a good one.

​@@marcussmith4913I think there are a lot more good woman than bad. It depends on the place, don't expect a lot of good woman from a bar or casino though. Overall I do believe that there're more good people than bad people in the world.

Brilliant story am happy for you best wishes take care .

🙏🙏🙏

Your not the predator your the pray ❤ it.

I seems weirdly crappy if I would say to you "oh.. welp, you took the risk and you paid the price". you have a criminal mentality.

Same here 20 years wasted with women in Australia I think it’s called life don’t get jaded Don’t be scared look for happiness There are ways to move forward

Thai law favours the Thai national in every way . Just rent in Thailand .

I left out detail but yeah we have a good friendship....never sexual. I think we are both a bit jaded but we get along. She's never asked me for a penny. In fact her family has put me up. I was so impressed with the hospitality. It was an amazing experience. More to come even as friends. @@satianable

Sounds like you’ve found a keeper!

gay

​@@MrAuswillowwho? You?

​@@MrAuswillow: love your response.. but what the guy means is he wants to make sure things are right first before jumping in a Mary boat..

Brilliant to hear this John & I know others in the same position. It's a shame the often bad press many Thai women get, especially when it's usually down to the foreigner not meeting the right types. All the best

Thais are mostly conservative people/culture. We do not make out and do tongue hockey in public with our mate. Holding hands is okay. Being overtly affectionately is usually seen as someone trying to trap foreigners for a leg up for them. Usually in the night life industry. Thailand is a Bhudist country and conservative.

The exception is never the rule. You are lucky to have found the exception.

Thanks guys!

@@thenakedguru The information about scammers is on the internet. People complain about not knowing the warning signs and lose their bank deposits, house and condos. I can only say ..... sorry. Think with your brain not the twig.

Very appropriately said.

I think your comment has much to do with the bandwagon type of thinking. I agree that they are not thinking with the brain in their head.

what suggestions would you give to a 25 yo guy to have success dating (and i mean dating not F around) in thailand? i’ve seen a lot of thai/westerner couple, and although they work out, i see a lot of lacking of true love/emotion in those relationships. i don’t want to judge how they meet, but turns out most of them came from Isaan. And let’s be honest, I don’t think every western is good at talking thai, so i’ve my own idea about they met, and that’s all fine. But I don’t like how the relationship turn out, where the women cares more about hanging out more with their thai friends and kids without truly caring about the husband. Maybe I’ve a romantic idea of love and relationships, cause I don’t think that give a beer, preparing food and “take care” means love. Maybe it’s me, or maybe something is wrong in one of them, or maybe it’s just all down to cultural differences and how different nations show love. Hope to hear from you, wish you all the best! 🤙🏼

Keep everything in your name. Always keep an eye on the 💸 💰. Always. Ways around this issue.

You need keep you eye s and ears open they have boy friends. Thai woman are birch s they will steal everything 😢. Stay Way from Thai land. They Are sex worker.they Rubbish

They have skill in screw you

They are rubbish thai woman

That's the truth the Thai woman are skilful

Moreover, the superficies right can be terminated by either one of the parties. A note has to be sent to the other party within a reasonable period of time.

Is this also known as Usufruct?

​@@steveallen7063was going to ask exactly the same question 😊

It's weird that you believe you're being asked to give sympathy. what's up with that?

I like your comment. We're men and we have to be fair. If that's the case, how do you explain it?

What are American women expats love experience in Thailand? Have any of them married Thai men and what was the outcome?

No thats not something that happens.@@cathylake9072

Absolutely 🙏

Why did you need to make sure you tell us that it happens everywhere in the world?

@@topsuperseven7910 To stop the false narrative of some who seem to think that some countries and people are superior to others. They aren’t 😘

@@macks573 so this is a fascinating in sight into the mind of a wokey leftist and how you see the world and how it works. You start by seeing a points system and then strange beliefs about how every nation and people are neither inferior or superior in any ways. and of course its about 'narratives and power to stop narratives. It's disgusting but its a fascinating little look into your cult's mentality.

I think you might be right my friend!

Sounds like you got a good one 🙏👍

@@thenakedguru so have you my friend. Big ocean out there watch out for the sharks. Great video.

I agree with your approach

Lol. That warning thing never works. His head is in the clouds and he'll resent you. Sad but true.

you mean the friends of your thai wife and her alcohol abuse of your thai wife run your family? i wish all the best for you mate

I think mine was 50 baht at the amphur

And you better look twice at the suit also. Lol

Where do you get the 90% figure from?

👍👍👍 I think many think we are morons haha

I too have been happily married for 12 years to a woman closer to my age and have never been happier. However, you say you own your house, on paper you might but in reality I think you will find that the house belongs to the landowner if everything goes tits up.

True, unless he can hire someone to tow away his whole house, but that probably isn't practical.@@AllAboutLifeInThailand

Just imagining my ugly mug on every flight coming into Thailand 🤣🤣

Quick heads up…the wife’s 4 year old nephew just got out of a local government hospital after 4 weeks in Khao Wong, Kalasin. He’s a very lucky young man: Glanders and Melioidosis. I had never heard of it…very high mortality stats…inhalation of bacteria in soil, water or eating freshwater fish from bacteria infected water…swift diagnosis essential followed by the correct antimicrobial…he was on the relevant antibiotic in saline for 4 weeks now continued orally for 6 months to avoid bounce-back…it can even survive in distilled water…a second kid in the same school just came down with it…amazing how a local G hospital identified it…Dr’s said it was rare though no longer..leave you google it!

@@MarkDaviesThailand Hope the nephew is doing well now. Wikipedia seems to have comprehensive information, and it appears to be worthwhile reading wherever one might live.

@@wiv2631 Thanks Ryan. A lot better now thanks and very happy to be out of hospital, even though he will be on antibiotics for 6 months and it can reoccur throughout life. Couple of interesting points…Hospital forms have a category called: Glanders and Melioidosis - Glanders is a close-relative of Melioidosis and is irrelevant. Melioidosis is the soil dwelling bacteria thats the real killer and it gets a lot of rice-farmers once its washed out by the rains. Turns out the local government hospital actually missed it completely…he was going down hill so they took him to a small government hospital in a local town…they had the experience to recognise it and start immediate antibiotic via IV, while waiting for the culture test that confirmed Melioidosis. I don’t think he would have survived in the village hospital. Couple of quick points. They think it was probably acquired playing by a river with his dad after heavy rain…the symptoms in kids would be easily confused with meningitis so a blood culture-test is essential to eliminate or confirm…it gets a lot of rice-farmers throughout the tropics, and a key mortality indicator is diabetes or pre-existing heart/lung/kidney issues. Its sheer chance if its in nearby land or not and hence contamination in local-water tables. 🙏

Glad you enjoyed it!

Sorry for your friend Beverly - I actually hope todays message helps others not make the same mistakes but you are right - it happens to many different people. He over now I hope?

@@thenakedguru Fortunately, SOME of his money was saved, but he moved rather quickly to the Phillipines. We were all wondering how he went from "look at my lovely garden and all the vegetables" to ..."now I am living in the Phillipines". Huh??? 555 He carefully provided for his adopted daughter, whom he doted on, and made sure she was okay, then left Thailand forever....!

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Genuinely happy for you brother 🙏

Yeah, Thai court will favor Thai, because it's better for Thailand. For our western minds that might seem unfair, different culture. And let's be honest, most of us have seen immigrants at home get or get away with something a citizen would not get it able to do. And deep inside we wish our countries would be a bit more like Thailand in that matter. Despite the fact that we are the Immigrants here 😅. You don't get fair, you get what is best for Thailand.

Cheers Brandon 🙏👍

Welcome to the channel!

Glad you enjoyed it brother 👍

Bingo my friend 🙏

oof you're going to be in wreckage if and when that all goes sideways and you become the older expat.

@@topsuperseven7910 its all about building a foundation my friend. you see plenty of older expats whove been there for decades who adapted quite well.

@@seekhearts I disagree. Your claim is not verified by pointing to the survivors and I've never seen that be the reason why there are some older expats who have eventually adapted well. Of course, you weren't actually told 'expats don't do well overall' but about women who will wreck them. (you changed it to an overall general commentary). But I disagree with your belief that it's all about the foundation,. One of the main reasons I can disagree is because you're talking to an older expat. I am one of them. You're wrong on a few levels so we have to break those down. - You're deceived by 'survivor bias' where you would also go around pointing out there are plenty of plane crash survivors found doing just fine and adapting well on this island! You don't see that 99% of them didn't survive. You know 10 expats who have adapted after decades and decades still there. Yes, you don't know 3000 others came and went, but wait... - what you don't realize is that the 10 you've seen and think are doing well (don't be so sure) aren't there because they built the strong foundations and the others didn't. nope. While its not 'random' (though, often it is) it will be for 1000 other explanations from health, accidents, an uncountable number of ways visas come and go, change and drop (and some happened to just hit right time in the right place and vice-versa) and let me give you one example: - In Laos, about a dozen expats are well-known to have been so for decades and will be until dying at 72 for sure. Almost all of them inherited money when their parents died and when they (the expat) was around 55-60 too and almost all attained early retirement (58-62 range) for another supplementary guaranteed income. and, ALL of them will tell you horror stories about how when, at age 38 or 42 they first arrived and were WRECKED by a woman. oh.. let's be more clear: that was the FIRST time they were just wrecked. A little more detail on stories you heard about "ive been here 20 years". They often don't tell you that they were there 6 years, then moved back to (home country) with the wife after finally securing visas etc and then 2 years later she divorced him and took half his money and he was ruined but had enough leftover to... move back to Thailand (or Laos or Vietnam or China whereever). however, It will also be true that the survivors (you see plenty of them!) will just as easily be the ones who... did NOT lay any kind of good foundations. (whatever you think that means). it will just as easily be the ones who did NOT lay any kind of foundations but were just wild .. as my dad would say 'flew by the seat of their pants' and nutters and those who just 'winged it' as they went along. Likewise, the most 'foundation building cautious planners' will have been swept away, shipwrecked or just sort of fell apart over time. You're simply not correct in your belief and that just isn't how it's happened over the decades. Now, finally, since what you're replying to is about being wrecked by a woman.. ..if you actually believe men can 'pay a foundation' around making a trustworthy or non-trustworthy woman? As if you can build something in to prevent her from becoming a wacko later? Oh son, ohhhh you poor sweet but dangerously naive soul, that is definitely not possible. you may well get a combination of luck and circumstances and it won't happen but you will just HOPE those things happen and will not build them. and love won't have anything to do with it either.

Glad you enjoyed it!