@@state924don't let them. I understood since forever and it led me to have hatred for them knowing it'll just be temporary and then more abandonment after pouring my love into em. don't make ppl so self aware it doesn't always helps
@@RealRoryannesorry, that's not the way we work. Would you rather not know that your partner was cheating on you and continue to live the lie that they're in love with you, or know and experience the heartbreak but you'll be free of cheaters?
@RealRoryanne I get what you're saying... the next step is learning forgiveness/compassion for those still acting like this. I've been aware but I've started to let go of the hatred... but part of it is not accepting the bs Ex; I feel sorry for my mom isolating herself and pushing everyone away and only attacking when you try to work with her... but I will no longer accept her abuse. Feeling sorry for her and forgiving her for being human has helped me move on. But because her actions are the opposite of her words that she will work with me... I'm now navigating not ever seeing her before she dies. I'm working on accepting that potential reality. But open to speaking if she somehow changed and proved it through ongoing actions. When your awareness leaves you with hate and misery you're not through the other side yet... and its been harmful to me so far but I'm getting better because of this next step
@@RealRoryanne Love and relationships are fleeting. You get what you get, don't have a fit. Be grateful for the time you did get with someone. Ultimately, we do not own our partner. We each are free to stay or free to leave. Anything less is false love or abuse. (IMO, abandonment is only when someone has committed to you and they break that without just cause.)
Congrats on becoming an aunt! I hope my sister gets married and has kids in the next couple of years. She's already 29. I worry I'll never become an aunt because she's so focused on her career (which is a good thing and she's happy), but my younger sister doesn't want to ever have kids, and I cant imagine my younger brother being a dad. . .like I would have to raise his children for him or something. Like, the day he starts dating is the day I start growing gray hair and reminding him to use protection at least 3 times a day. So, realistically my older sister and I are the only two probably having kids. IF she has kids. Its honestly looking bleak lol. She's definitely the embodiment of a good big sister but I wouldn't call her motherly. She doesnt have much of a maternal aura as far as I've seen. So. . .I HOPE I get to be an aunt. I would even settle for being an aunt to my cousins kids later down the line but as we get older I'm less close to them. The toxicity in my family has left its mark on their personalities at this point. Too bad my older sister is the only one to escape this family as of right now 😂😭
@@lynnz7501 if it makes you feel better, my sister is 30! And I felt the exact same way you did! (Even about the maternal aura thing) Life is surprising
That Aunt is a wise woman. If he doesn't have the good sense to like you back, he was definitely not The One. The One will get how amazing you are. If or when things fizzle, just remember that the next One will also get how amazing you are. The non-ones who don't get it? Who has time for that?
I live with 2 old men and I never met my mom, so I really wish I had someone like this. I don’t have family where I live that isn’t a man. You are the only thing keeping me going. Ty for posting.
I'm looking at you doing your makeup and I feel like you are doing some magic, your delicate makeup is my dream makeup, I have to learn how to do it like you
