Yep, run away while you still can. This lady didn't do anything to deserve this. Life is too short, it's not your fault he's broken. Someone else broke him, let them take care of him because they were the one that reaps the rewards.
The reason this man kneeled down and begged you he his manhood was gone and no other women will take him. Hey sis if you still need man in your life go with your heart
Koj yuav tau nug cov kwv tij ntawd seb lawv puas kam yoo pojniam. Qhia kiag rau lawv tias koj tsis kam yoo txiv neej. Kom cov kwv tij ntawd pab yuav kom tau ib tug txiv yau rau koj mas thiaj yog.
totally agree!! do what makes you happy! you don't owe anyone anything to lived in a miserable life. the kneeling and the dowry part is only to pay respect to the elders not the bride. duh
That's right!! BS excuses, when someone no longer loves you, they will use every excuse in the book to cheat. In this example, until he's completely broken he no longer use that BS excuse.
Because he went to get his little brother enlarged for other women, you have every right to leave him. That was karma doing its job. He’s only begging for forgiveness because he is useless and other women do not want him. Your kids are 💯 right!
I despise how hmong people expects the wives to stay with their husband's if he didn't love her and isn't working no more. If it was the wives the relatives of the husband would be taking him to find another one. Do what you want, no one cares about your needs except what benefits them.
I don't know about other Hmong women but I make my own choices. If he and I are no longer happy together, even the higher power can't make me stay. Hmong women need to put their foot down and make their own decisions. These relatives will not do sh*t for you when sh*t hit the fan. Leave and run away while you still can.
Koj tus txiv ko ces zamtxim rau qhov nws ua tiam sis tso nws mus nws os koj tseem hluas tseem xav tau txivneej lub xub ntiag thiab , koj ua yog lawm os tus muam.
Why is it that a lot of the Hmong men who cheated always guilt trip and contradict?? People, men and women, when you're in a situation like this one, LEAVE!! Your spouse didn't care about you when he/she did it, so why should you care when something goes wrong with him/her?? Only reason why he/she is not willing to leave is because no one wants his/her sorry ass anymore. I don't know about anyone, but I will not stay and take care of him. He did it to himself; let him take care of it.
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If you listen carefully, May is not saying that covid vaccine will help prevent individual from getting covid. She says , if you are fully vaccinated you can be out in the public without mask. She describe the vaccine as protection from the virus, but thats just the descriptions words in Hmong. This is stated by the government/ CDC guidlines.
Leave him choose you! You deserve better. Go find your peace. He only beg you to stay because he know he won't get anyone else. You don't owe him anything.
EeW that is just nasty 🤢 lol 😂 🤣 Seek another guy not his relatives, they’ll only use you because they know about him now. 🤣🤣 I say do the right thing so she don’t get karma, divorce him and find a new husband. 😁
Girl, by listening to this story I feel you are still young. Before kicking him off the curb, let him watch you sleep with another man then kick him out. He don’t deserve you and don’t listen to those mans. They not the one the that sleep with you at night. You are in the United States now, your right are the same as him. Go find a man that love you and won’t cheat on you. He did it to himself so let him suffer. Best of luck.
Do what's best for you not what's best for others and what makes them look good. Others will tell you to stay because they aren't the one's living in those conditions.
Tej tus txiv dev coj zoo li no koj ua yog lawm os me viv ncaus aw, cov niag txiv neej hmoob ces lub siab yog ib lub xwb os mog, tsis hais yog koj cov neej tsa los yog cov kwv tij li yog koj yog tus liam ces tas nro neej tsa nrog kwv tij cem thiab txub koj hos yog koj tus txiv ces tas nro lawv nias thiab yuam koj, hmoob lub siab yeej ib txwm lim hiam zoo li no os peb ib tsoom poj niam hmoob.
Sister aw, tso koj tus txiv mus zoo dua os mog. Koj tus txiv lub siab twb khiav ntawm koj mus hnub uas nws mus nrog lwm tus pw lawm os mog. Txhob nyob tu niag txiv neej siab phem ko lawm os mog. Txhob ntseeg kwv tij, neej tsa os mog. Mus nrhiav ib tug los hlub koj os mog.
Peb cov poj niam txob ruam2 es ntseeg tias txiv neej t hiaj ua tau poj niam tsis muaj cai no nws tsis tseeb mog poj niam txiv neej Los txua tus uas muaj neej lawn yeej tsis muaj cai ib yam Klaus nawj
Yog yus hlub tus ces txhob cia luag tswj yus xwb...lub neej tsaus ntuj yus tib leeg thiaj li mob xwb ...pheej yuav quav ntsej txog neeg lub qhov ncauj ua dabtsi ...qhov loj ces tsuav yog koj cov me nyuam to Taub koj xwb ok.kawg li lawm...tus tus tsis tseem ceeb dabtsi hauv koj lub neej na poj hmoob e
Women have feelings too. Women are human too and have the same urges. It’s time these men learn to appreciate what they have at home. You’re not doing anything wrong.
Women got needs too. Even if she doesn't leave today, she'll end up leaving tomorrow. The sooner she leaves the sooner she can move on. Life with a vegetable and a cheater = no future.
Tus me niam laus poj niam tseem zoo los txiv neej g Xav yuav ces lawv lam thuam lam hais kom mob2 peb siab...koj tus txiv twb g hlub koj thiaj ua 100 tsav yam thaum kawg g work tag ma rov los Thov yuav koj dua...yog koj tseem yuav nws vices koj npam lawm tiag2...mus tom ntej nrhiav dua tus tshiab thiaj yog kev kaj siab nawb, leejtwg yuav hais li cas los lawv hais lawv follow your heart..yog nws g zoo li ntawd nws yeej g rov los...put yourself in his shoes and his your and you’ll know the exact right thing to do...said goodbye to his sorry ass....
Cov kev cai lawv hais tias yog "poj ua tseg ywm ua cia" ces zoo rau cov txiv neej xwb... vim twb yog niag txiv neej ua los tshwj kom pojniam swb cai xwb. Poj thiab ywm twb tuag lawm ntev! Tiamsis no ces yog yus lawm xwb lam mam tus me vivncaus aw...
Sister aww kav tsij mus yuav dua tus tshiab los ua rau nws nria lawm xwb os txog caij pauj kua zaub ntsuab lawm nag lau...yog peb cov poj niam ua li ko lawv cov txiv neej yeej tsis zam txim yeej tsis hlub li lawm nawb
Don't forgive him, leave him don't stay with him. I have no sympathy for him, cheater he thinks he's entitled to cheat cause he didn't get to play before marriage lol leave him don't waste your time with him. Don't torture yourself and be his slave, don't stay. He only needs you to take care of him now cause he's disabled. Don't listen to the clan leave him
Haub yau nws phov phov ua rau nws tus me kwv twb lwj kas tas zoo li ko lawm yuav tsis zoo dab tsi lawm os. Nrauj mam mus yuav dua tus tshiab os. Yog peb cov poj niam lwj kas li ko ces ntshe lawv twb muab peb recycle ntxov lawm os. Txhob uv2 kev lwj siab ntxiv lawm thiaj li tsis mob2 siab os
Sister your argument is so correct. Those giving you advices base on situations they've never experienced, they don't know the pain, the anger, etc.. just let him stay useless like that. He's the kind that when healed and back to normal, he'll cheat again. Guaranteed
Sister if u aren't happy then don't focus urself. Other people not in ur shoe to know ur pain. They only enjoy seeing u suffer and laugh behind ur back. U do what make u happy.
tus viv ncaus, tsis hais txiv neej/poj niam, muaj cai yuav ib tug nkaus xwb. leej twg yuav hais li cas los koj yuav tau hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej mus hlub lwm tus. koj yog tus raug mob txhob cia lwm tus txiav txim rau koj. kav tsij cawm koj tus kheej ua ntej txhua yam yuav lig rau koj.
nrauj xwb zoo duas os mog vim peb yog poj niam los peb muaj siab ntsws hlais qaj kuj los ntshav thiab ib tus ua rau ib tus uv xwb uv tsis tau thiab nws ua zoo nyob lhub tus saib tos xwb ces ces kom nws txom nyem thiaj paub
Viv ncaus aw..yog koj tsis happy ces ua qhov kom koj happy xwb mas...hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej tso..koj tsev kwv tij thiab neej tsa tsis pw koj qab txag, lawv tsis paub koj li kev mob siab thiab lawv tsis them koj li nuj nqis es txhob cia lawv ua tus txiav txim rau koj mog.
To be fair and balance for every human whether you're a man or a women we have equal right to be marry with one to one, if one person cheat on you that mean not fair to you. So for your case you have the right to go with your heart that will make you happy for tomorrow. Good luck my lady. Cov lus lawm hais rau koj nws yog lus qub dhau hwv lawm, siv tsis tau rau tiam 21st, txawm koj yuav yog kuv ib tus muam, tus ntxhais, tus nyab, tus niam ntxawm los kuv tsuas hais tias koj xav seb qhov twg yog txoj kev yuav tshaj koj ntuj rau tag kig ces ua mus xwb.
qhia rau nej cov pojniam hmooh cas yug yog hmoob es yug tsi coj li hmoob nej pheej kav tias nej txawj nej ntses lawm es nej yuav ua li nej lub siab xav nej yuav tau xav zoo2 vim lawv tseem xav yuav koj lawv tseem saib koj muaj nyuj nqi lawv thiaj li hais koj yog tus zoo ua neeg nyob ces kev sib zam txim thiab sib hlub xwb os nco ntsoov tias twb laus lawm koj mus yuav tus tshiab los tsis muaj qhov zoo lawm
Yog nw hlub2 yu es nw cia li mob xwb ce mam nyob os tab si yog nw mu nrhiav nw txoj kev hlub es mob xwb ce kav tsij mu tom tej tsi tau lwj siab ib sim. Yog nw tsi mob ce nw yeej tsi muaj hnub rov lo hlub koj li lawm
Txiv dev liam txawv Lawv zoo dua Yog Tseem hlub tus sab nraum tshaj koj lawm. 😂 vim me me thiaj xav mus ua kom loj loj na Tseem ua xiam koob khab lamw o.
Haub yaub zaum no ce tau qhov uas yus ntshaw ntshaw lawm lauj ua lub neej nrog qhov ntsuab nrab xwb ce tau kiag li yus lub siab ntshaw lawm tiag tiag li lauj lawv aws
Kuv mas ntxhub cov kwv tij thiab ntsa nees zoo li koj hais no ua luaj li lau yeej tsis muab kev ncaj ncees li os!! Hmoob mas lawv yeej xav kom pojniam phem txiv neej zoo xwb nawb!!!Cov pheej kom yus uv na kom lawv tus txij nkawm mus ua thiab es seb lawv uv puas tau xwb mas!!! 😡😡 kuv kiag na txawm yog ua rau kuv es puas tag los xyov kuv puas tseem xav yuav nws thiab naw! Nrauj mam nrhiav dua os txiv neej zoo tseem muaj os!!
Nrauj kiag xwb os tus me niam tsev aws yog hais tias neg whov khoom ko tsi puas nwg yeej tsi tig los nyoo los hlub koj le os kav tsij muaj nwg pov kiag xwb os mog rusm los cas yuav nyob zov nwg os ua kom nwg paub kiag tsoj kiv mob ua nwg ua rau yug os
Viv ncau aw tam sim no ces tsis ua zoo dab tsi lawm, tsis ntev ces Kawg koj yuav tau pam nws lawm xwb os.Ntxov tso ntxov dim nawb mog. Peb hmoob ces cia poj niam seb xwb yeej hais tias Txiv neej thiaj muaj cai ua xwb. Tam sim Xab no cov hluas tsis ua li ntawm lawm, yog tsis sib hlub lawm ces koj mus koj, kuv mus kuv yam tooj yim lawm xwb os. Pab koj tu siab ua luaj os. Nws ua rau lwm tu zoo es twb tsis yog ua zoo rau koj es txhob cia kom nws ntoog nws mob es thiaj paub tias yus no muaj nqi npaum cas thiab nawb.
Tus txiv neej no ces mus hauv tshuaj ntxuav nyiaj los tau lawm. Yog nws tu poj niam ua ces nws tsis yuav lawm, what goes around....comes around. The husband got exactly what he deserve.
Kev zam txim yog qhov zoo tshaj.koj zam rau nws ces zoo ib yam li koj nrhiav kevkaj siab rau koj. Koj tus txiv twb thov koj npaum li lawm tsim nyog koj zam rau nws lawm vim luag lees luag lub txim tag lawm. You will regret if you decide to move on.
Tus niam tsev cas koj ho tsis haïs rau nws cov kwv tij tias yog koj xav nrog txiv neej pw leej twg puas kam tuaj nrog koj ua txij nkawm no seb nws cov kwv tij ho yuav hais li cas rau koj maj yog kuv ces yeej tsis Zam txim rau li ho txiv neej yog tus poj niam zoo tus txiv tse no lawm lawv yeej tsis yuav txiv neej ces poj niam twb tsis tau tuag twb mus nrhiav tus tshiab lawm niam tais aw yog koj lub neej ces koj txiav txim thiaj tsis muaj teeb meem ov
Listening to your arguments seems like you're very smart and already thought of all the pros and cons but WHY YOU KEPT WAITING FOR OTHER'S APPROVAL? Follow your heart and be happy. Life's too short.
Pov tseg xwb los mas qias neeg zoo li koj ces pov tsiag xwb lawv yuav ntxias kom koj nrog koj niag txiv dev nyob kom lawv tus neeg muaj ib lub neej lawm xwb kwv tij yiav hais li cas los tss tau quav ntsej txog cuam pov tseg koj cov kwv tij yeej tss hlub koj koj cov me nyuav thiaj hlub koj xwb koj mus ua neej nrog leej twg Los koj cov me thiaj li xyuas koj xwb os mog
