There’s something to be said about putting things in perspective remembering that literally everything is temporary. Life’s heaviness becomes a little less weighted when we remember that even the hard times will pass and feeling stuck is just as much a part of our healing as anything else. It’s our bodies way of telling us we need to lean into our emotions and become more introspective. The answers will come when they’re meant to
Precious. Thanks, Ash. I practice this too, of looking at my situation in a positive light as much as possible. Sometimes life really beats it out of you though and it's hard to find the light in anything. Thank you for this.There is always hope, even if it is simply the presence of another person who understands. Best wishes to you, you are on the right path too.
you're very welcome and i totally hear you. life can be relentless in getting us to grow and change. glad you're here and hope to meet you in the masterclass! it's free and we're doing some super cool stuff to support the brain / heart. take good care of yourself ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024
I’ve been feeling stuck in my life for the past couple of years. What you say in this video really helped me put things in a better perspective . I stumbled across your channel a few months ago and I’m always intrigued by your videos. Thank you 🙏
today has been tough especially. i find myself very frustrated as im struggling financially and in other ways but i feel like i am running around like a chicken with its head cut off. im working to change and grow which has been very terrifying. im scared and im frustrated, but i dont want to stay the same. im doing so great and im proud of myself, but it feels like im never doing enough and it feels like im not moving, like im not on the right path. it's hard to know that's not true when that's all those thoughts are leading me to feel. thank you for all you do and im proud of you for exploring these feelings to be able to speak about them to help people like myself. much love!
you're very welcome and i hear you. we've got to just be honest about all this as that will help get on the other side. you're working to change and grow and that takes a lot of stamina or courage so well done. please join the masterclass if you're called. we'll do some really cool stuff to support your brain / heart. my best - a
you're going through this for incredibly valuable reasons that haven't been revealed yet. i promise you. please join the masterclass if you're called to! we'll do some cool things to help you along the way x
i wish! it's online. i love that you'd drive up! info is below for the masterclass. i do run retreats around the world and Portugal + the Rockies (in the USA) are on dock for 2025. maybe you'll like that too ,) free masterclass: ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024
Totally isolated, empty, pain, rejected, and lonely. The external continues to perpetuate these feelings, no matter how brave i try to feel and push through this it has persisted for years. I cant get out of it no matter whar i do. I just want it all to end. Tired of trying to fix it this is dumb life is dumb it is a cruel joke of torchure and suffering for no apparent reason. Even worse is i know it is supposed to be better but i is not obtainable. I am awesome which makes it even worse that i am being a resentful looser.
i hear you. and i have been there myself. i do believe there are tools and resources to help move the needle in the way that's good now. please join the masterclass if you're called to. we'll be doing some cool exercises to support the brain (so you don't have to work so hard). hand in there. you are awesome. regardless of your emotional state
I have been there too. I know it's rough, but you got this. I have found in my own experience that when I am stuck there is one big glaring thing that I don't want to look at. As soon as a certain emotion or thought comes up my first instinct is to distract myself or numb myself with something that makes me feel good. The trick is to pause when you start to feel bad, and look at what thoughts came up during that time. If there are any statements that have the word "I" in them it is an egoic statement. It is a belief that is in place to try and keep you safe. Usually we pick up these statements as a result of someone teaching it to us, or more commonly as a result of some past pain we had to endure. To become unstuck, you find the pain that's hidden behind all your "I" statements and reframe those events from a healthier perspective. Sometimes the pain is very hidden. It can be something that started all the way back in childhood at your youngest years. Unpacking what you can will eventually lead to finding what you need to become unstuck. I hope this helps.
please join the masterclass if you're called to. i'm teaching some really cool stuff that marries the science mind / heart. our brains have some really outdated wiring and that doesn't update on its own, but we've got tools to help. hang in there and i feel you
I got it .. But i Just cant seem to reconnect to My self again... Maybe because i am Not the Same Person anymore, But ITS all Just so draining and i feel Like burning and Fading Into nothing.
why is that a bad thing? said with all sincerity. i'm not being an ass. "Maybe because i am Not the Same Person anymore". sounds like you know what's going on. and the burning and fading into nothing (although feels like hot garbage) is actually the ego being integrated back into its highest form of consciousness. i want to say well done. life does this for us, not to us so just keep going on step at a time. i have been there myself maybe 100000 times so i feel you. and come to the masterclass ,). - a
they're free if you join live, and then for 3 days after for the replay. after that, they're added to the soon-to-be live shop page on the website for sale. join here: ashleypaquin.com/masterclass2024 ☀️☀️ being stuck sucks. that i know!
i learned how to be with myself through all of it. or how to just know deep down that it was happening for me, not to me. i can't say this is easy, but there's an understanding as to how life works for me, not against me. i don't have to like any of it, but there's some higher meaning to it all. my best -a
My nervous system are in fight flight because of nervous system, im not safe .., brainfog, lightsensitive, Fatigue , i been swollen in my face .. I Think it because of greif not been adressen
all of that sounds like symptoms of true growth and ascension. it may not feel good at all, but just keep breathing and one step at a time. this video might help explain what could be going on: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-mwNiBDCKKcA.html
I think my issue isn't that I'm stuck, just that I have no agency to improve my situation. For example, I've been stuck waiting for the past two weeks to see if I can get a job that I imagine I would start at the beginning of next week. I feel I have zero control over whether or not I get this job, and then there's the issue that I know I'm not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to my incompetence. How can I reclaim the feeling that I have agency when it seems the universe is telling me to sit back and enjoy the ride?
You do have agency and you do have control! If you think/believe you are 'not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to incompetence' then that is very likely to happen. Change your belief/conviction in this and see what happens. You probably have heard of the placebo effect: patients get a sugar pill and are told it will make them recover. A significant percentage does recover just because of their belief in this sugar pill. The reverse is also true: the nocebo effect. If you believe the medicine you are given will not help you, it probably won't. Your current conviction sounds like: nocebo. Change your belief/conviction to placebo, really feel it all day long and see what happens. See life as a dream: you are not just a person but consciousness projecting the dream in which you appear as a person. As in any dream.
that's a great question. a dear mentor would always say to me, "sometimes you have to slow down to speed up". if the job is taking a reallllly long time, what other things in your life will help fulfill the experience of agency? once you have a sense, go do that. wishing you lots of luck on the job.
@@ourdivinemouseoverlord3308 You DO have agency but if you believe you don't you won't. If you are convinced you are 'not a very good/desirable worker and might get let go in the first week due to incompetence' that is likely to happen. But if you change your belief/conviction, the outcome will also change. Please google Neville Goddard, he wrote lots of books on this subject. An example is the placebo effect: patients are given a sugar pill and are told it will heal them. Many do recover not because of the pill but because of their belief in it. The reverse is also true: the nocebo effect. If you are convinced the future will bring you more suffering it probably will.
