@@GodrickTheGrafted123u can change but this can only happen if You want to change, you've already achieved the first step of changing by being honest to yourself, now you just have to take action. Don't give up and strive everyday to be a better person, and i hope one day you'll be able to get rid of this.
I had an encounter with a Christian who judged someone's personal behavior as wrong and thought she had the right to tell them they needed to change it. When confronted with what she had done, she claimed she was trying to protect God's reputation! I just about fell over when I heard that. I was completely unaware that the Creator of the Universe even had a reputation. If my God was that small, He wouldn't be worth worshiping.
That my own family! I would tell my friend about my problems and helped me out. My friends will never spread bullshit and respect others. But my family does the opposite and making me hell. I mind my own business but my family never does. They keeps making me like a piece of trash and making them perfect to others and gossip and keeps gossip me to other peoples. My family has all the topic here.
I’ve known my roommate for years (family friend) but as soon as we moved in together, I could tell their real side. They gossip consistently about others but act like their best friend when they come over. Tells me to stop leaving dirty dishes (I did), but they end up leaving their’s out too. Accidentally stepped on their cat’s toy, and put the blame on me saying you should have seen a bright colored ball in the dark 👀 lol WHAT?!??
Ime in my late 40s and I just discovered over last several yrs several yrs that I have been raised by a covert narcisstic mother and did not realize it and see the signs as a kid, teen etc. Not all, but most of the traits described in this video describes her although she does not consciously think she is that way
A Coworker of mine is like THE Hypocrite. This guy would step in shit, walk it over a carpet while you are watching and then try to blame it on others with an excuse like "Who the fuck lets their dog shit in a place like that"
The second red flag describes my former housemate to a T. She was a rude, irresponsible and hypocritical 20 something who didn't even have a full time job, but had so much of arrogance in her. Before she came along, my other housemates and I used to be so friendly and tolerant. When this woman arrived, everything was totally blown out of proportion. When she never bothered with her chores or never bothered to take out the trash, it was OK. But woe betide, if someone else failed to do their household chores. As soon as she got wind of anyone else slackening in their household duties, she used to send rude and aggressive texts virtually abusing the guilty party. If she didn't pay her share of the electricity bill, it was perfectly OK. But, if the electricity metre ran out of money, she wouldn't hesitate to send rude and aggressive texts at 2 in the morning, demanding to know who used the heating a bit too much! Oh and she also uses people left, right and centre. After trying to pit me against the other housemates in her classic style of passive aggressive driven manipulation, she actually had the gall to call me on Whatsapp a couple of weeks after she moved out to ask for a personal favour! I not only didn't pick up, but I blocked her, as despicable people such as this deserve only this kind of treatment!
THANK YOU.this has given me some good insight on this subject beyond what I was able to come up with on my own. I have been talking about this with my youth and this is really helpful. Greg Youth Pastor.
Wait a minute... i just realized i am the hypocrite! 😮 i gotta change a few things about myself. i wasn't expecting this. i am glad i watched the video.
I have an acquaintance that always makes me feel inferior yet she pretends to be a friend. If I fail in front of people she’s the first person to mock me. I give people many opportunities to show they aren’t evil but honestly I’m done with that person.
It is nice to hear these things when dealing with difficult people so we can all avoid hypocrisy ourselves, trying not to imitate the weak around us even though it can tempting!
Everyone is going to contradict themselves. It's just a question of who's honest about it. If someone tries to avoid being called out then they're a coward. Let alone a hypocrite.
There's nothing hypocritical about being a gossip. That's not a logical, rational, or actionable assertion, because they're not related. They might overlap a lot, but one is not a requisite for the other.
Well, someone would be a huge hypocrite if they actually engaged in the behaviour that they were tearing somebody else down for (behind their backs no less). Also, it's pretty unevolved social behaviour in general and very passive aggressive and nasty. In these circustances, it's just best to ignore the person engaging in the gossip.
@@suzannehydes8843 true. If someone were to engage in the behavior they were condemning, they'd be a hypocrite. It's also true that someone killing a person out of pure maliciousness would be committing murder. Neither of those things apply here. I agree that gossiping is very petty and immature. It's not always passive aggressive, but I think you're right that sometimes it can be. _None_ of that makes a gossiping person a hypocrite.
@@suzannehydes8843 gossiping may or may not be a sign that someone is a hypocrite, but even if true, that does not mean they _are_ a hypocrite. Jumping to conclusions and painting with an overly broad brush could also be signs that someone is more likely to be a hypocrite, as are any number of other traits. None of that means that they _are_ hypocrites. I'm not sure what's so difficult about acknowledging that.
It's difficult to agree with because I don't agree with it 😂 or your "logic" or arguements. This is a video about "red flags" not absolutes and you seem to be taking it extremely seriously. I'm going to get on with my relaxing Sunday now ☕ It was nice debating with you. Hoping you have a life free of hypocrisy 😁
One of the the topics is me and tried to change it. My family on the hand not to much. They tend to contradict and be a hypocrite without knowing it. I can see it but they can. I can sees mine and under stand so I can tried to fixed it.
It’s a nice video and help us in our inner growth although in some moments I thought that the narrator spoke with a too high speech but I guess maybe make sense considering the content of the subject. I just don’t get this “role model “ idea in my life usually I say I am the perfect example of what you shouldn’t do (Man, so many mistakes!!!) if I can help people to not make the same mistakes I did I am happy. The reality to me is that we all are here learning and growing...
They are like oh sorry but don't worry i will help you through that then you open up your heart😢😢😢😢 after they start but you know......... Bla bla 😮😮😮😮😮 as if they made agreements with God😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
It started Sunday 26 March it was lunch time and i made my self a sandwich and the chairs were stacked on top on the table i didn't bring one down cause i don't want to risk myself and get hurt as i was about to ask kate but I didn't and kate says you shouldn't stand up while eating kate says why did you not ask for help and i said it was busy in the living room while every one playing the wii and went back home from the gym and it was tea time and i was making my wraps it had cheese ham ketchup then i started crying and sobing i want to put it toastie maker but i not allowed to because am in shared lives to be independent but i was crying and standing there in the kitchen for 45minutes and then kate turned around and says how long are you gonna stand there for and she says this was atest you didn't ask for help then i did thow the wraps over table went everywhere and i lashed out i was frustrated and i didn't thow wraps at kate but kate says you threw wraps at me Megan kate accused me for throwing food at her on Monday morning kate said to steve her husband Megan is stubborn showing her stubbornness she can't communicate kate said it behind my back i not stubborn i am lovely person and chatty and the afternoon Steve had to watch me making my pack lunch and i don't like him watching me and steve called me dangerous throwing food isn't dangerous and he took my house key off me Steve and kate are not very nice to me they are terrible shared lives carers kate is in the wrong they are contradict them selves imposing themselves they are a Catholic kate lying to her self she seen me throw food over the table kate making excuses accused me for throwing food at her kate and steve done this to me couple of times now kate and steve are the hypocrites and i need to stand up to my self i got global development delay mild learning difficulties everyone from school is supporting me.
ahem... how many times have you encounter a situation in wich you wanted to insult someone that did something bad to you, but you were too afraid or wanted to avoid a conflict with that person so you instead gossiped about that person to release your hate. Let's face it, we all say things we don't do. Lies? Your biggest lie, that you allways tell is "i love you, i allways will" actualy the truth is "I am attracted by your present self, just be different and i will no longer". Double standards? easy, if you see a woman assaulted by a man you may jump or try to save her or run for yourself, but would you act the same if a man is attacked by a woman or by a child? Let's not forget the most common double standard, we eat animals but we don't humans, or don't eat animals but we eat plants(here we're geneticaly or by universe obliged to have double standards). Judging by the precentage of prisoners who say they are innocent, are we are different? is not easy for 80% of humans to accept fault or mistake, also most people don't want to volunteer and would happily volunteer others. We all as childs changed to suit our parents, and we latter change to suit our "loved" one. Everyone has the desire for approval, at least instinctualy. Would you help someone that you hate? or someone that hurt you terribly? I never imagined a priest(ess) respecting all that (s)he preaches, and that because (s)he is most probably a human not a divine being or some reptilian alien. Last one imagine a hot loking teacher or a ra*ist, at the first one you most probably imagined a woman, and at the second one you imagined a man, congratulation, if you have at least 60% of these things you passed the test, you are a hypocrite. If you didn't pass the test, and have at least 10% you are very emphatetic and altruistic, but if you don't have any of these then the fact that you still survived enough to read this, is dubious, who could live without eating meat and plants?
So if you think every person in the world is a hypocrite, go stand in front of a mirror for 5 minutes pondering this thought as you stare at it. If you don't admit you're a hypocrite after this, there is no chance for you Seek Jesus Christ and God Bless
I now lots of hypocrite .but that's no good but God sees abrithing I hate a hypocrite I can't stand a hypocrite.the good thing that when not alone in this world god is good in the name of Jesus Christ.
