The 3 Biggest Mistakes on NoFap 

Remember this is not a destination Its a way of life

@@fayzaansayed3898 wow, that is a really nice way of putting it!

no replies let's fix that :)

Nice

Thx for the advice bro

That's exactly the mentality you need to have when you struggling with addiction. Last week I quit smoking (for the 4th time) using this mentality, tomorrow sober October baby, no fap, let's see where it goes with this.

@@ovymeme Well done, I also quit smoking about 2 months ago but it was easy since I've only smoked for like 3 years, so I wasn't really addicted. Still struggling with PMO a bit though.. I'm going to try this advice, not count the days just act as a person who isn't addicted just be present, go with the flow and shift my energy to greater things.

Great point! I forget the exact Buddhist saying but something that always resonated me was attachment, and to avoid a habit like this but countdown the last time you've done it is a form of attachment.

@@robtallini1346 its actually part of the reset proccess. the brain learns through comparison. you gotta prove your own brain that those old neuronal networks aren't optimal anymore. relapse is a main part of this. every time you relapse and feel bad about it you're telling your brain "see, using these networks has negative consequences", thus reinforcing the fact that those networks aren't optimal, therefore should be recicled

HALT is trigger

And bored

High, drunk etc

+internet(instagram) +sugar

"Halt" means Stop in german that’s so fitting ^^

And he recently made a video about the meaning of 1111 and other multi digit numbers with the same digits. I don't know if that's already what you mean.

11:10 for me

@@yourbrain8700 yes but it shows 1111 on the thumbnail

Andreway and you think that’s a coincidence...?

@@yourbrain8700 thumbnail

I feel lonely and I have no idea how to fix it.

Imma get a dog

Thanks mate!

@@bugrilyus I hope all is well a year after!

@@mikekappasmd not with that attitude 😹

Even me, exactly felt the same, that line hit me on target. Really it shows his dedication.

Did you experience depression and anxiety?

👍

Jesus there are some old dudes on RU-vid

Keyboard Warrior Old studs 😎

Gj boomer

Drinking alcohol fucked up my kundalini awakening. I had powerfull awakening I felt like on drugs, overhelming power. Few days in this god mode I drank 2,5 beers and all was gone. Flatline "normal" almost like on relapse state. No more drinking!

0_o alcohol also makes a lot of folks relapse on the next day during their hangover. I guess it’s because a hangover is pretty much a self-induced H.A.L.T. state. When I’m on a hangover, I crave all kinds of greasy unhealthy food, I’m extremely irritable, I’m lonely / alone, and I’m tired / exhausted af. So many people think alcohol makes you relapse on the day of consumption, but it actually creeps in through the backdoor the day after.

can't agree most philosophers valued a good wine cup. you can't be always top-performing with your brain a day will come, and it will break hard. gotta play with your brain, be flexible. otherwise when no results, it's misery.

I think 2-3 beers don't do much harm.

@@Avrelivs_Gold recall Plato's Symposium, it was only Socrates who could drink everyone under the table. So all subsequent philosophers drank too but were never up to par, minus Spinoza. Just because a western philosopher drank some does not sanction a thing.

What is the diference between monk and hard mode??

I swear I had an urge as well

@@simonmontoya5655 I'm new to this so don't quote me but MONK MODE is no thoughts no videos pictures of any sort that will promote lust. Hard mode is still having sex but not ejaculating I believe.

@@Stichting_NoFap I haven't had any urges, I just feel aggresively angry 😠

@@simonmontoya5655 Hard mode means no PMO at all (no porn, no masturbation, no orgasm) while Monk Mode is a full discipline state when you only focus on the things you want to achieve leaving all the noise behind (videogames, junk food, alcohol, porn, time consuming friends and relationships, etc.), the two "modes" can go hand in hand so you get better results, this link may be insightful to you: thequintessentialmind.com/quintessential-guide-monk-mode/#easy-footnote-bottom-1

exactly! People always asking "how i can get these urges go away?" And that is totally wrong mindset. Instead you have to embrace the urges and use the energy from the urges by transmuting it and not fight against the urges. I fucking love the feeling when i'm horny as fuck, it feels like natural ecstasy

@@ollvican you tell how to transform those urges ?

@@Srk7028 lifting weights (which is my favorite), learning new skills, like playing instrument or martial arts or as simple as socialize. Just basically use that energy to do things

Damn, that's an enpowering concept

Maybe he felt that way cause he had extra energy since he wasnt gyming

@Gregory Roman awesome great advice man, so far ive gone 4 days without pmo, I've been going outside a lot to resist urges.

I've officially gone 8 days no pmo, I'm struggling pretty hard but I downloaded some ads to block any inappropriate sites.

Паркур Канал You still resisted till today?

How u doing ?

we checking in boss dont beat it

It happens 🙂 Once in 6 mnths is better than everyday and multiple times 😌

Weak little pussie

lol same i broke my 180 day streak kinda intentionally back at it. 8 days of no fap!

Jun Kim have you even ever hit 6 months? Lmao

@@menace2societies did relapsing drastically affect. Thr. Benifits of no. Fap?

How?

Dude even i relapsed on day 9 lol. 3 days in now second try

How was the week ? 🙂

Don't worry u will succeed and believe it Iam on that path tooo

I once did for 365 days just with one trick... whenever I had thought to do it....5 pushups....and the mind distracts with that punishment.....Good luck try unique ways to be strong in will

U can't fight something in your mind , I mean quite as nothing happened as the last day in highschool 😉

I don't think he wants to be in that cult lol.

get back on it!

@@CaptainSinbad Yes I will.

Me too. Did some Yoga and got back into meditation this morning after a couple days of slacking off

4 days and relapsed dem I'm shit

that's an interesting insight

@@PCH5 couple things come to mind. Either can be done individually to good effect, yet would be most powerful in sequence. 1.) Smudging with sage. It helps scrub and purify the air, and 'airs' of mind in the space, vibrationally. You may notice a very light clarity in the space afterwards. This can be very beneficial in setting local conditions for etheric energy work. 2.) Sit and connect to your heart with your hands in prayer 🙏 position. Breathe deeply and center and align in your spine. Feel into your heart and bring that energy in connection with your head, then prayerfully begin to think and feel of clearing and blessing the energy of the place with your heart-mind, as if it were already real, and so it is, vibrationally, harmonically, within yourself from the inside out. For example, the mental intent to feeling within your mind may be, "I am clearing and purifying the energy and residual thoughtforms of this space from within myself". The key is feeling it strongly and in coherence , head to heart, heart to head. You may feel a warm ascendent energy and enter a blissful feeling state, as the heart energy opens and rises like a flame, and your brain shifts into different bands of ordinary awareness. The Divine energy is working through you with the power of unconditional love. Our hearts are immensely powerful, in general by nature, and in good condition. You can powerfully impact your time-space matrix in working through this portal. See for yourself. It's a "lost" mode of prayer that directly communes with the field, as Gregg Braden, Joe Dispenza, etc., teaches it. I've practiced this to effect my entire local time-space zone, visualizing and connecting to work with the light all around, of what crosses into my field, by virtue of power of vibrational harmonics, experiencing and observing how it changed the vibration of others on the street, in a busy, gentrified downtown neighborhood, where often people yell and are under the influence, that shortly after and for days later, almost all of the passing sounds and expressions were resonant with the light and love I brought in via the light through the heart, as it is a powerful electromagnatic and scalar gate, literally the ground generator and gate of our consciousness, from source. The stronger energy field will influence and uplift in resonance lower energy fields. Right outside my space, I would hear people whistling pleasant sounds, men singing, people laughing, people expressing peacefully, and a calm clarity. It was a stark contrast to note, and was no mere "coincidence", due to understanding harmonics. Imagine how collective intentional induction of such practices could benefit our worlds. There are monestaries in Asia, etc, where for millennia monks have always occupied and worked in this way.

My thoughts/opinions on this: That hotel rooms might make you feel horny imo is because sex happens often in a place like that, but not because sex actually happened a lot there. Its a difference. If a place is designed for an activity to happen there, then it could be normal to then feel things related to that activity. I mean, if people would make a brand new hotel on the beach, then it could be entirely normal to feel horny in that brand new hotelroom as well, even though no one actually had sex in there yet! Similarly it could very well be that some people have made some secret meeting place in a forrest where they meet for sex, but if you as an ignorant person would walk there, and you totally would not know, it could be you don' t feel horny. I agree certain places could make you feel a certain way, but it's more because of the design of the place of the vibe it gives off to you, not because people actually did certain things there in the past. Of course there is a correlation between the 2 in that because a place has a certain vibe, the chance is high, people before you have behaved in line with that vibe. But it' s a leap in thought imo to state the place gained a certain vibe just because people did things in the place. Ofc also if you are made aware of the fact people did things in a place, it then automatically as well affect you. lets say you know people were murdered in your house, you might not feel all that nice there anymore. But if you were ignorant of that fact it simply does not affect that much. I had a bridge near my town where the nazi' s entered to invade, but before I knew that, I simply never had any special feeling with that bridge, but when made aware of the history , yes I have a different feeling everytime when I pass.

@@tchoco Right, it's all about awareness. People are very prone to suggestion, after all.

every withdraw is more depressive, but the gains are faster to comeback

@@matheusalvezz That statement goes both ways. For some, once you withdraw, pornography becomes a full-blown addiction again and thus, they will fail to realize that once you get back into doing something you were addicted on, it's actually harder than one might think to get out of it.

@@BottleDeopt i relapsed due to wet dreams.any advice to avoid wet dream ?

@@Srk7028 This thread explains your concerns in detail. www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/70mdgq/wet_dream_reset/ Although just double check to see if you feel any different today in comparison to yesterday (before the dream). After post-nutting you're going to feel as though there is a rush of negative feelings creeping up to you about a day after the nut (as well as you feeling slightly more relaxed compared to before), so if you notice any of the two things I mentioned, then you might as well reset the NoFap counter.

Low blood suger has been a trigger for me, I have taken cinnamon supplements to help with LBS. But a clean diet definitely helps.

Do you have any wet dreams in these days ?

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really? why I never find any woman that has sexual urges?

@@codewizard5327 it's true, just before periods, every month, hormones take over.

@Gregory Roman thanks!

Baby Myron Moved from home? How was your experience bro?

suppeboy saaid not negative but the urges oddly went sky high. I presume it's some confusion going in the background or some shit

Ella Klyashitsky so true hotels have some terrible energy sometimes you just walk in and feel it

It's real,but very few people realise that,in INDIA it's common to have special rituals when we firstly enter in our new house or in work places.rituals may vary according to individuals belif and places

Cut out meat and eggs.

I think it is a great strategy man! Thanks :)

Wanish u quiter

It's the mercury in retrograde!

Thanks man, I will eventually make a video on the timeline of benefits and such.

yeah I should do some bodyweight stuff!

But.what about wet dreams ?

@@Srk7028 I have seen that if u use your physical, mental and spiritual energy in the right direction the whole day in your disciplines, good habits, goals,, it won't happen because your sexual energy will be transmuted...

@@ktpeace6877 everyone saying transmuting.unfortunately nobody says how to transmute.

@@Srk7028 check his videos u will find