Shortcut links to each rule below, with full description of the rule. Visit TheRationalMale.com or buy Rollo's books here: amzn.to/2i9dfjW If you want access to my premium Patreon only perks & content, pledge here: www.patreon.com/EntrepreneursinCars ===================================================================================================== Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 4:00 Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 13:40 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 20:45 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 30:25 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 45:49 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 52:35 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment. Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 1:03:47 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 1:12:07 Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her. An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy. Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 1:16:34 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.
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I added another one. #10: Never apologise to a woman. It's a sign of weakness and will result in disrespect and contempt as you. If you apologise to clear the air or as an olive branch, this won't work. An apology is no less than an admission of total guilt and is just blood in the water. [Edit] I have a feeling you've said this on a previous video anyway :)
Thanks Rich. Good to hear from the legend himself.
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Daniel come to think of it, I think it's just another shit test. As you say fishing for an apology to get you to bend to her... or to see if you will do that. She wants to find out if you're a guy who sticks to his guns, if you are a guy who will back down just to keep the peace with her... Hence the loss of respect, when as men we would assume that apologising is a sign of maturity and humility and gain respect for each other from it.
Quite true, never self deprecate. I should add it also turns off men. A girl I was fucking self-deprecated, joking about her belly. That turned me off so badly that after that, I was unable to touch her again and I ghosted her.
Dishonest women who make the good guy wait so she can trick him into thinking she's a "nice girl", meanwhile does whatever with some loser on the 1st meeting..pathetic.
Polygamy is men's natural desire to mate with MORE women whereas hypergamy is women's natural desire to mate with QUALITY men. Polygamy demands quantity whereas hypergamy demands quality
(To the OP) Yea, this is basically why when asked for advice, I tell guys that anything a woman says she doesn't or won't do, carries the silent caveat at the end "...With you." Being that every woman does those things, it's just a question that if she says that she won't, it's obviously not happening with/to/for you. Kind of like "I'd never do anything on the first night... (Silently) with you." Being that if the star quarterback of whatever university is the main one in said city walked in, am I to believe she WOULDN'T be on her knees in the restroom with him if given the chance? Or the "I'm just not the settle down type" only to be married to some other guy within eighteen months of saying that to a guy she's dating. +Pa Go Been there. Much to the confusion of many friends. "Wait, you're still dating and going out and hooking up? But... you don't have a job, live in a small apartment and your power's been off for a month, how???" My simple answer to that was "Because I can." Not in some way where I tooted my own horn or anything, but I took the chance of still going out and meeting people. Whereas I'm going to go off on a limb and say that almost all guys in the aforementioned conditions would stay at home, confining themselves under the assumed perspective that they don't "Deserve" attention from women, due to them having so little to offer. No lie, even during those tiems, I was STILL bringing a lot more to the table than said women in question.
@@yourmainful TRUTH!!! Same situation for me. I am now 51 and I was a Sickening Beta til about 49 as that is how society teaches us we should be and I had not discovered the manosphere.
my partner caught me listening to this video and instantly got offended saying it's not true. That reaction just made me believe in it ten fold more than I already do. Thanks Rich for the clarity that I have needed for a long time.
my dad always told me "your mom is lucky to have me" and when we have a meal together the atmosphere always feels like he is the boss around the house, its not like he was a tyrant or anything he is married with mom for 35 years and my mom when ever she tells me about their past she always talks with joy and enthusiasm
Men need to understand the science behind women’s love for men. There is a saying that goes, “A woman loves her children, a man loves his wife and children” Women don’t love men the way men think they do. A woman admires a man, a man adores a woman, a woman adores her kids. I hope you can see what I’m getting at. It’s not in a woman’s nature to love a man the way she loves her kids but it’s in a mans nature to love and die for his wife and kids. Her love for you comes down to what you can do for her and her kids and once again it’s not the same type of love you would feel. Her love for her kids can be unwavering but not for you. Women are emotional creatures and they are also extremely fickle to the point of severe immaturity no matter how intelligent they may seem, they are, once again, emotional creatures. I’m not saying women are bad. I’m saying this is nature. When a woman is hung on a man you may think that she truly loves him, in her own way yes I suppose she does. However, that “love” is really just the adventure of being with that man and how he made her feel when they were together. Women will often say, “he made me feel safe” but let me tell you that if he were to get his ass kicked severely by a smaller dude than him in front of her.... that would all change. It’s not up to her, this is how she feels. Same way a man can get hung up on a woman without even knowing her but just because of her looks he’s willing to cross oceans and do god knows what for her and her attention.
So basically dont have kids, don't get married, let the women suffer when they are in their 40s (their wall) while men still enjoy life and saved all that money from having kids, and divorce, now the 40 year old man with all that money can do whatever he wants to enjoy life. He can have his nice car, jet skis, hell i just bought a Terminator 2 pinball machine for my man-cave this week haha. Nobody can stop me ! My mother divorced my father and took him to the cleaners ! Yet in some sick twisted way she always said she loves her kids first, but she did that to us and wrecked our family.
I’ve been the quick lay guy allot. Glad to see this chick logic. Don’t hate. When you get laid right away these chicks won’t respect any kind of connection with you. They do box you in as a fuck boy. They will cheat to do this with you. As a dude you don’t always want new women. Especially spiritual guys enjoy balance and steadiness. Lol, chicks can be profoundly superficial. It’s all about the fair fit-
I only learned this when I moved to Hawaii age 26. 2 years and many women later, this stuff gets internalized. It makes me smile to hear this because experience is the only way.
I have known this since my early 20s, believe me, only helps you to date more, but i had my heart broken like anyone else even tho i prevented all the beta behavours...
Nailed it. And this is why I'll never bother being in a relationship with a woman ever again (or interact with women for anything other than just sex). MGTOW all the way.
Honestly this is the most depressing one to accept. Things like sincerity, integrity, and honesty are secondary luxuries to status, popularity, and financial security. In other words, women stop maturing at 17.
I’m watching this at 20 and I can tell you that y’all have taught me so much. My father kicked me out at 16 and I’ve never have a good relationship with my parents who are both in miserable states in life. I can not thank you guys enough. Love watching these podcast
I'm 38 and just learning it. I got taken off the market at 24 and at 38 I'm back on it as or 10 months ago. Did the family man thing / step dad role. Broke all my rules bc her and I got along really well. Don't do it man. They cleaned me out and took the family car. First time in 20 yrs I been car-less. Feels weird. Never attach never marry never have children with them. Glad I stuck to atleast TWO of those fn rules. I'd have been off even worse if I married and had children w her. Late lesson in life but hey at least I'm learning it. They all do the SAME THING they just go about it differently. If in run over your foot, it don't matter if I went forward or went backwards over it, at the end of the day, it was ran over. Don't make excuses for them bc ur scared to be alone and lose some p$$y. There's pleanty more out there
@@daviedood2503 there is something very vicious about this world. Nice loyal people with good intentions are scammed, vicious ones exploiting good ones by manipulating their feelings....
Everytime I think about my Ex. I always Read Iron Rule Tomassi #7. Thanks you Soo much Rollo and Richard for setting up this interview. Keep doing what your doing guys.
I have never understood “oneitis”. Girls from Western Countries are nearly identical when it comes to personality, the next 10 girls will be similar to your ex.
I can. it happens when a guy is taught from an early age that women are more valuable than he is and that his entire validation as a man rests with him being able to say that he has one. If he lacks the LMS (Looks/$$$/Social Status) or game to get one in his teenage years as most young boys (see 80/20 rule), an artificial scarcity effect can occur (see male thirst) which will have the guy 'lock in' on one particular female and throw all caution to the wind in hopes of one day getting her. I personally know guys well into their 30s and 40s who still pine after a chick from high school who have been bent over by numerous dudes (including myself) yet think life isn't complete without having that girl in their lives. And try as you might, they still will not be convinced that she's God's gift to him and that she can do no wrong...
WTF are you talking about, of course there are different women with different personalities. Yes some of biological behaviors are similar/identical, and sticking around is based on 'what' you are rather than 'who' you are is one of them, but beyond these base things, they are still people with various interests, personalities, and all that... I'm sorry you met women with such terrible and/or lack of personality... I've dated very different women. They have things in common, and very different others...
I had oneitis. It's called falling in love. I fell very badly for a woman, and I fell because she was one of the few that met all my ideal requirements in a woman: beautiful, as tall as me, intelligent, cultured but not prissy, with real sense of humor which means being able to entertain you and tell jokes, etc etc, so I fell very hard for her, which made me lose frame and attitude, unknowingly started to change my behaviour, she felt it and was turned off, and left to ride the carrousel. That led me to the worst depression of my life, which nearly destroyed me, it was very hard to recover from. When you are deeply in love, you can't stop thinking about that woman the whole time, you idealize her, and have strong feelings of attachment to her, and you actually feel the famous butterflies in your stomach, your pulse rate going faster when you are with her, and you feel she's the best woman in the whole world, everything from her becomes so important, and you feel ready to go to hell and back for her. You stop caring about any other woman because you only want her and no one else, you feel she's the one. The one to live a life with, to grow old with, raise a family, etc. So the day she left, I felt as if a giant axe had been plunged into my heart. I was much happier being alpha and spinning many plates and going on my purpose, so I strongly agree that love isn't a very good thing. It makes you lose focus. Love made me turn from being her master, which she loved, to become a weak beta. So there's your explanation. An addendum: a friend of mine suffered something similar. He dated a high school companion, and while he treated her as shit she loved him quite a lot and chased him relentlessly, so he could do with her as he pleased, she was his little bitch, so she was his side girl while he banged other girls. Until one day he started to have feelings for her, and began to treat her good and be nice to her, and dedicate more of his time to her. Then she left him. Another addendum: an acquaintance of mine, a girl, was dating this guy long ago. She felt bored so she left him. He reacted sending her an audio in which he told her what an asshole she was, how ugly and stupid. Her reaction? She chased him for months until she got him back, and married him.
Stay fit and keep on career track at 27 years old you are just hitting your prime. You are the prize. All those years of being passed over by attractive women is winding down. The 18-22 year olds are checking you out. If you are just screwing around, be very careful. If you are looking for wife material, well then better be choosy due to the huge risks.
@@princeofpersiaxxi4604 Well i discovered Stephiscold who lead me to MJ, then Entrepreneurs IC and then the godfather Tomassi I strongly recommend Stephiscold he speaks with no filters at all he is great for motivation
I’ve been a fan of the manosphere for about 3 months now I’m only 21 and I can’t even express the gratitude I have for men making content like this free! You guys are of great service to all men in this world
@@Johnny-Cage From a young age I was always able to see the code in the matrix but that was thanks to my father he always taught me through demonstration not explanation I was fortunate enough to be raised by an alpha father & when I came across Rich and Rollo’s content I was instantly glued to it because they were so helpful in connecting all the dots I saw growing up & most importantly they made me feel sane because the way I was raised was certainly not common amongst the majority of the people I went to school with including the teachers & staff so I have massive respect for Rich and Rollo they speak the truth
@@xavierhernandez7809 that's dope man. You definitely got lucky having an alpha dad. I struggle saying it but my dad wasn't an alpha. He never strived to be the best version of himself and allowed my mom to be the breadwinner while constantly being pissed off at her because of it (whether he'd admit it to himself or not) I'm happy to have found the manosphere now but wish I did 10 years ago when I was your age. And remember, don't get into a relationship in your 20s! Work on your purpose! Coming from a guy who didn't try hard enough in his, and is now having to play catch-up. Best wishes brother
@@Johnny-Cage much appreciated John thanks for the kind words & it’s not your fault you understand more then ever the systems designed to oppress & I’m certain the new found knowledge will serve you well best of luck!
Pure genius : "A woman will break rules for an Alpha and make more rules for a Beta". Literally so true. Rollo, you've done it again. Made me understand myself a little better...wow. Mind blown. :P
Quote from Rollo Tomassi’s Rational Male: “I can remember becoming aware the first time I watched a popular sitcom on TV with a critical eye. There were simply no positive masculine actors or characters on any show, rather every male was ridiculed for his masculinity.” I observed that even before reading Rational Male but when I brought it up in public I was ridiculed and told it’s my closed-minded chauvinism. Unplugging from “the matrix” is NOT looked upon well by society 🥺
interesting. i watched the famous talked about series Stranger Things, and one of the protagonists, Hopper, became my favorite character immediately. Looking back it’s because for the first time in forever, I had seen a character who embraced his masculinity and acted like an actual, real man, just an observation.
Go do your research. There are stories of the Prophet also called Hadiths and Quranic verses and scholars who can speak on it. I'm not here to argue and debate over the internet with people who haven't done the proper research.
"Irrational self confidence is a virtue for a lot of guys". I loved that. It's so true. Women respond more to how you see yourself than they do how THEY see you because their hypergamous filters are based on context clues.
As always Rich you and Rollo are the one two punch my generation 50 + and the younger men in this world need to listen too. Read all 3 of Rollos books. Keep spreading the word/Red Pill. Peace brother's
Hearing the actual man speak about the topic felt invigorating. He has everything controlled from head to toe, you can feel the roots of his knowledge and experience. This video is one of the best in your channel, Rich. Amazing work.
Rule #6 (A woman can never love a man the way he loves her) is a lesson I've learned first-hand over the years, and is the primary reason I choose to be alone. While it's true that most relationships take work...a relationship shouldn't feel like a job. Women can take their hypergamy to the grave with them. At 40, I've lost interest in the games.
@@mrfaith7467 ...I'm 38 and feel exactly the same. I haven't risked my heart or my livelihood in a couple of years now and I'm glad I've dodged the bullets I have
@H D Did you mean to leave this comment on another thread? Not sure what the gym has to do with anything I said. I've played sports all my life and am good shape to this day.
Very glad to be here at 20 years old. Thank you Rich & Rollo, this unequivocally altered my perspective on women, love and life. Up until two days ago I was a blue pill beta, doing everything my girlfriend asked of me. May the gods be with you both.
I actually had a girl 6 months or so ago tell me she would have slept with me, at the end of our first dste, if I was a douchebag. I'm still trying to kill the beta.
Charles, I disagree. The OP should have said, "If you had slept with me on the first date, I would actually have tried to start a relationship with you to explore what value you'd bring to the table. Too bad though, you exhibited a poor level of enthusiasm, so now you gotta leave. Bye" If the OP actually said, what you're saying, then the OP would be actually giving positive affirmation to the lack of enthusiasm she exhibited for the OP. You kill the beta by not giving a fuck and exhibiting solid frame in a manner that's as natural as breathing.
Scott Stewart haha, always watch a women, never listen to what they say. I had a women that would tell me the entire time on the first date it was not going to happen yet she was touching all the time. I ended up fucking on the first date.
here is another iron rule i would add: even if you fully absorb all those other rules, the final rule is: "familiarity breeds contempt". so you could be the hottest richest guy in the world with unshakable frame control, but as rollo alludes to, even that gets comfortable, because it gets used to. that seems to be life itself, just like the most fun video games eventually get boring, our brains are wired to get adjusted to things and eventually seeks some new stimulus. sex, love, drugs, music, food, when you can have all of these things, the curse of life is a conundrum where those things eventually stop fulfilling you like they once did. this basically explains evolution as well- sometime in the past some organism adapted to the environment and tried to go above and beyond to attain more food or resources or living space or mates or whatever, so the goalposts keep moving, always
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K0ntakt5 Very true. All LTRs have a shelf life of a handful of years. After that, the work becomes just too much to justify diminishing returns. Or the juice ain't worth the squeeze any more as our man up top likes to say.
In respect to Goal Posts keep moving. Keeping that in mind, you better be growing. She better be growing. When I see peoples relationships implode it is because one of the partners is stuck in life. Stuck on something. What I have seen in many of the married men stop influencing their wives. Men need to stand firm and change her mind or at least keep bringing her around to your direction. Eventually with enough intelligence and such either she will go nuts or come around. If she goes nuts because of the truth, well then she is nuts and there was nothing logical to do to stay together. Cause living in misery is not logical and it will not be tolerated by me!
Charles, Agreed. "Keeping that in mind, you better be growing." "at least keep bringing her around to your direction." Pretty much. And this is doable.
You are having red pill rage. It's part of detox. Understand that you have been sold a lie. Taking the red pill means unplugging from the matrix. Anger is a legitimate emotion. However, when you get through it, you will have a super power of understanding women's true motives. You cannot unsee it. To repeat, anger is part of detox. Don't get stuck there.
I have immense respect for men who are paying the price in time and nerves to endure and experience all of this and then go let the younger men learn about it in the most detached and pragmatic way. Thank you both.
I’m nearly finished The Rational Male audio book and will definitely listen to it again to make sure I didn’t miss anything. I really like the book and the information it provided was very worthwhile to me. I have also started “A tactical guide to women” which I am liking so far from what I’m hearing. After that I will likely read another one of your recommended books for all men as from what you’ve recommended me I believe you have good taste.
Now I understand why all my relationships were crap! WOW! I can't even blame my father, he also was manipulated...thank you SO MUCH Mr. Tomasi and Cooper for the great quality and Must Needed Content. It's sad that I do not have friends who speaks English, they are loosing a great bunch.
New to this, just mind blowing, picked up the rational male too. While reading it was like one of those films like Memento or something where all the pieces of your life flash before your eyes and it all makes sense. All those experiences with ex girlfriends or even your buddies troubles are finally seen with clarity. Thank you.
Gentleman... Hear this and hear it well, my own mother rest her loving soul I say again my own mother used to always say "remember Jason, the one in the relationship who needs the other the least and the one in the relationship who cares the least is always going to be the one who has the most control" This hits home, time for us to take our power back and not because we are bitter and spiteful but because we deserve to be as happy and healthy as we can be.
The one that hit me the most was the last one. I've self deprecated myself for so long and I know pretty well some girls lost their interest in me because of that. It took me a while to realize that, but now I have changed it and I feel way better, not only when it comes to women, but also within myself.
This conversation was great, and I'm hella glad I discovered both these men. That being said, now that the "game" has been spelled out to me, I have even less desire to go and play it. I really don't see how any women that throws shit tests at you, and will coldly abandon you when a higher status male comes along, and will never love you in the way you want to be loved, is worth it at all.
Joe Gibbs I’m only 19 but i feel like i’ve been given access to secret information that i should not share with just anyone. The head start i’m getting with this knowledge feels good.
ah. good to see a fellow who is around the same age, i remembered i was 18 at the time when i was drinking while internalizing/swallowing the red pill in. i was getting drunk while 'waking up' and that feeling when you had no one to talk to.. yeah, good times mate.. im 21 now. im grateful for these guys' works. anyway, goodluck to you pal. i can relate to you
I feel the same way, and a have 30 now. It like 15 years of my life doing a lot of effort for nothing. Thank you to Tomassi for doing this for us, at least for me.
For Rule #8, I have a slightly different phrasing. ”A woman does not go home with the best guy. She goes home with the one she picks, and she picks from among the guys she thinks are best.”
the bit on frame, i was experimenting with the concept by taking psychadelics and going to bars or in public places and just trying to passively observe everything going on- my frame, everyone else's frame and so on. it's difficult to describe but you see deeply into people's programming, including your own, and you become so aware- too aware, sensory information overload and you see it's like something like hobbes would describe that life itself is a chess game or a war of everyone against everyone. it make you paranoid and wish you didn't see it. then at that point all you can do other than becoming a hermit is to turn everything off, literally not care- then that introduces more weirdness. you'll get people upset at you for minding your own business, people will think you are haughty and arrogant, they'll start to enter your frame, nudge you, elbow check you, threaten you, throw themselves at you, try and grab you, just about every possible thing that can happen. you see life itself as obviously like a cancer looking for something to tap as an energy or food source. it's like that eurythmics song sweet dreams- everyone is looking for something. some of them want to use you. some of them want to be used by you.
+K0ntakt5 Your comment makes me think you will like the one hour documentary below. Video Title: “The Trap 1 - Fuck you Buddy! - Adam Curtis (subtitulado español) | Documental” Uploader: "Concienciame²" /watch?v=y97Ywl7RtUw The whole documentary is worth your time, especially around 37 minutes where RD Laing talks about how human strategize against each other. Maybe Laing was taking the same psychedelics you were taking.
Watching this at 20. Been redpilled for a couple of months now, it’s crazy how much these rules relate to shortcomings I’ve had in game and LTR’s in general
To Rollo, first off Happy Fifty. Passed that milestone a couple years back and it's a real perspective shift. Devoured the blog starting about 2011 and bought the first book. This is the most important education a man can have; so many giants have been laid low without it! Great show guys!
I found myself listening to the audio books first then reading the books because it's so much valuable information to take in the audio book almost serves as a class with a professor speaking. You have to hear some of this first rather than read it and try to understand it but once you do, you can go back to the book and start taking notes and antidotes. The message from those books should be for you to have a better understanding on how women work, not to hate them. Great vid by the way!!
I am a theologian and a pastor who works with men and women in relationships. What you said about self-deprecation is very accurate in how it breaks the relationship right off the bat. If a guy surrenders his God given strengths before he actually engages his woman and his possible future wife, she will not let him off the hook and their relationship, in a Christian marriage, will suffer for it down the road, but not far down the road. She will always filter his input through his lack of confidence or his reverse game attempt. It will be his identity to her right away if she settles for him. He will have to fight back and then there will be resentment. Getting the right frame when you are already significantly behind is nigh impossible. It is doable however and men should rise to the occasion.
I have enjoyed and benefited from Rollos advise for almost 20 years so its all love, but god bless Rich for keeping him on track. Rollo knows how to talk
Pre selecting by females is definitely real. I was dating a 10 a while back and there was plenty of attention and validation for other hotties. After we broke up a lot of that validation stopped
Read the book, mind blown. I recommend The Rational Male to EVERY man to read. I even bought multiple copies for friends. Love Richard and Rollo. Keep it going men!
It's amazing how good this is just because Rich fucking let's Tomassi talk.. so many interviewers are constantly jutting in etc. which may make conversations feel more natural but is way worse for people watching it
Great stuff...I attribute my Red Pill awakening to a sub-conscience calling. It happened in an instance. I was in the 6th year of a brutal relationship with a single mother of 3. I walked right into a buzz saw, with this woman, ignoring painfully obvious red flags all along. It was so bad, I had red flags waving BEFORE I actually met her, yet I still walked right into it without any reservations....yes embarrassing.. Long story short, I was getting ate the fuck up by that lunatic and one day ( about 3 months ago), It dawned on me that I was paying for the sins of every man that came before me (literally and figuratively) into her life. I started to pay attention to her words and actions more closely. What it revealed was both freeing and crushing. Nothing but Lies, games and cheating. Her defense was projection, double standards, and deflection. ZERO accountability, ZERO conscience. It was absurd. I tried to talk to her a few times, to explain my concerns and position, using real life examples, nothing reliant on perception or opinion. It only made things worse. The look in her eyes that night was very telling, especially after having a red pill awakening. I realized she was really screwed up and I was pretty damaged myself. It all made sense that there was a GOOD reason that this woman was alone and with 3 kids. Guys, be cautious out there, or your relationship story could mirror every nightmare scenario discussed on this great channel. It did for me, at about 80% accuracy. It cost me a lot, I'm drained for sure, but I'm still young and now better equipped to steer clear of those monsters. Good luck to you all. Thanks for the videos, huge help with retroactive perspective.
Once they know , that you know….. Watch out. You can see murder in her eyes. Best to let her think she’s telling the truth. Once you go logical… the worse it gets.
Your story is really encouraging. This channel has really made me turn my life around. I was in a dark place indeed. I dated a single mum for 4 years; she did me dirty but I'm now redpill aware. God bless these two gentlemen and you of course for sharing your story.
This episode has so much more gravity now that Im halfway through listening to The Rational Male. Every guy should have a copy of this book. Read it, and re-read it. This stuff needs to be internalized from early on. Know your worth guys.
So I’m a pretty good looking guy and getting attention from females has always been easy since 18+ (now 28). But I still find myself struggling with starting and maintaining any lasting relationships other than hook ups. Just started watching the entrepreneurs in cars channel yesterday and I’ve already gotten so much insight into my what the issues are.. glad I found this I had no idea how much I needed it. Big wake up call, thank you!
Thank you so much! You guys just saved my life. My father is alpha as fuck, so he doesn't want to teach me anything, because he is afraid that iam better at life than him ( im not bitter about it, it just his alpha nature). Rollo and mr. Entreprener in Car (sorry i dont know you real name) thank you from all my heart , for showing me the right way. I wish you all the best!
I was gonna click off this video cuz it was 1.5 hours long, but read the comments that this video is absolute gold so I actually watched it. And I must say it is absolute gold. I'm 18 and virgin, and I already feel like I know women more than guys who are "experienced" with women. (Hopefully it's not me being delusional and cocky) Thanks for your content mate. As a adolescent who wants to have a good relationship, but still wants his professional career to be his main goal, your channel is gold.
I chat with my wife about women and sex. She says that women BRAG about how many men they have slept with. Today's general woman has no shame to excessive sex partners. Come on, a woman could go out each night and hookup, it is really not difficult or work, but it plays into her ego of doing something when she is really doing nothing! Anyways, about being a Virgin. If girls ask questions on the dorm floor about sex, or how many sex parties, do not straight answer them. Do not say, oh I am a Virgin. Just joke back, say, "Ahh, I am not going to participate in any dorm floor orgies". They will pry, tell them you don't kiss and tell. If they still pry, move in for contact hold their hand etc. As far as being 18 and having an official Girl Friend, really? Why? You gonna marry her at 19? Some on, just go out meet gals, have fun and hook up (using protection of course). BTW, as far as sex partners go, women can easily have way more sexual partners than the average guy because only the top 20% of guys get any sex at all and the top 5% get most of the sex partners. BTW, in my opinion, if a guy has a wet dream, he is no longer a Virgin! Really only women can be Virgins as no such thing as a male hymen!
