Hindi mo kasalanan kung saang pamilya ka nanggaling, pero kasalanan mo if maling partner ang mapili mong makasama habang buhay. We need to invest in experience.. time.. good memories. Agree, BE PRESENT AS A PARENT. Regardless kung mayaman kayo pero wala na kayong time sa anak nuo. It’s nothing. A child appreciates when he’s / she’s being taken care of..
I agree with Dani when it comes to apologizing to your kids. I do the same with my son. I think each generation will try to correct or cut the bad patterns of the previous ones. For us Millenial parents, I think we are doing great. We are trying to raise children who will hopefully grow up to be empathetic, vulnerable, responsible, and kind.
❤❤❤❤❤ You and Xavi are absolutely great wonderful loving and caring parents, no question about that… Another interesting video to watch, very genuine..
Hi Dani! This is Nurse Tad from BIS. I love your podcast and it's really worth listening. Both your thoughts were relevant and no filters. Keep it up. I am proud of you.
Dani and Xavi, in your future episode, can you please tackle and share your experiences regarding setting healthy boundaries when it comes to friends, officemates, family etc. to avoid jealousy, misunderstandings, trust issues, question of priorities etc. not only for a husband and wife but for a committed romantic relationship as well. Thanks in advance! 😊
Grabe ka ms.dani tagos na tagos lahat ng mga sinsabi mo as a parent as a first time mama gusto ko dun na lagi ako nasa ng tabi ng anak ko pag need nya ko... Super worth it makinig sa inyo❤❤❤👏
Another worth to hear ❤ please continue doing this. Petition to have Xavi every week. Grabe pareha kayong malalim. Please know na ang daming nag aabang sa podcast niyo every week.
I really enjoyed everytime you talk with all the wisdom and experiences being shared. Kayong dalawa ng husband mo deserve this kind of platform. Grabe talaga.
Hello ms. Dan and xavi, isa din po akong young single parent of two and one of them is a special child and im away from them because i need to work para maibigay ko ang kailangan nila na everyday need. Masaya lang ako everytime makita every vlog niyo or podcast. Sana po mapansin😊.
This brought me to tears. My parents were so busy working that they didn’t have much time to bond with me. Now that my father is gone, I still find myself longing for a father’s care, even though I am a mother and a parent myself. It’s a deep ache that never fully fades, and no matter how much time passes, I wish I could have experienced that closeness with him. Napakahonest mo Dani. Thank you for sharing this.
I'm teary eyed sa part ni Millie doing speech therapy. Hits me hard cause I'm a praning mom and everyone tells us na just wait, magsasalita din yan. Kaya I feel it's us against everyone when it comes to speech delay thing. Sana you could share with us din yung speech therapy journey ni Millie. Thank you very much!
Growing up, i always find it hard communicating my feelings to my mom because she will scold me, so I had to lie all the time just to make her calm. Now that I'm a mom, I make sure I ask my daughter how she feels and be there weather it's bad or good. And yes, we heal from our childhood traumas by being our best in the present. Thanks for this podcast. All the best to the Famlilios. ✨❤
Omg! You two are young yet you both act more matured and wise of your age probably because you had been exposed to life. But I pray that you both do what is righteous at all times! Love each other and follow God’s commandments. Parenting is the presence of father and mother committed to each other and their children.
Yes..as a first time parent...you will learn talaga to take good care of youself more coz may dependent ka na...you become selfish and selfless at the same time...selfish in the sense na you take good care of yourself so that you could take good care of your child..selfless coz you could give it all for your child...
No dull moment listening to this podcast, very intelligently at galing sa puso lahat ng sinasabi nila as a young parent. Kahil old mom na na ako relate talaga ako sa topic nila, so much realization for me as a single mom. More power to you Dani, Im fan a here 🫶🏼😘
As a single mom & a young mom of two , eto talaga need ko na topic. I can relate to u guys (as always naman sa lahat ng topic nyo😊) having a 2nd child na my special needs. My daughter diagnosed having asperger syndrome, at first it was so difficult but thankfully with my support system my family and to my few real friends, dko talaga nafeel na prang magigive up na ako at some point. Tuloy lang ang laban. Just wanna thank u for this topic. God bless to d both of u❤
Ang sarap niyong pakinggan. Ughhhh bat ako naiiyak habang nagsasalita ka Dani. Idol talaga kita since style is eternal days!!! Anlayo mo na. You've matured and grown so much Ang dami kong natutunan sayo. Such an inspiration❤ Love u and ur family so much. Always a fan🤗😘 Ps. Can I Just say nag GANDA GANDA MO!!!!
Super informative ang topic hindi boring. I enjoyed it 😊 parent for 6yrs pero maganda pa ring nakikinig ng mga topic na ganito to learn or to reinforce what you've already know that might you forget sometimes 😁
nakaka bwiset tlga to si dani evry episode pinpapaiyak ako!!!! lalo na s abandonment issue. 😢 pls do ung episode how to heal from abandoment because at 28 years old now lumalabas ung depression anxiety simula nung bata :(
These are things that I never thought I needed to hear! Sobrang nakaka relieve Ng feeling na there's someone having the same thoughts like mine when it comes to saying sorry to your kid when you know that you hurt them. It will never ever make you a lesser parent if you are the one saying sorry. ❤
Hay... Iba talaga itong podcast na ito kaya lagi kong inaabangan. My daughter who is now 17 ay may speech apraxia, akala ko delay "lang" gaya ng sabi ng mga matatanda. Ngayon grabe kadaldal nya it seems walang pinag daanang ganung sitwasyon. She starting talking at 9 as I remember. Nauna syang matutong mag basa on her mind lang no verbal kesa sa mag salita ng diretso, weird pero true promise! Then minsan I asked her kung ano nasa isip nya noon na hindi nya ma verbalise yung gusto nyang sabihin, sqbi nya alam nya lahat ng nangyayari sa paligid nya kasi she understands the words she just can't verbalise it. May sinabi sya saakin na saktan ako ng sobra. Nung bata daw sya may kamag anak kami close namin. Pag sila daw naiiwan sakanila she always hear na pinag chichismisan sya na tinatawag syang "abnormal" and when she learns about the word she doesn't trust the person anymore . **kaya pag may kamag anak tayong may speech impediment don't under estimate them, it doesn't mean they can't speak yet they don't understand you. Someday mag sasalita yan at matatandaam nila sinasabi sakinila.
I really liked what Xavi said at 14:46 about the way parents react is why kids do not find comfort in them. It can seem so simple but it’s a BIG thing. It can manifest in little habits when we are kids to now like I have big dreams but once my dad said that mayabang ako to say I wanted a higher paying job and that I should be grateful I realized his advice was rooted in judgement not from compassion.
Ilan n lng kau s mga kabataan n alam ang responsibility as a person, couple and parents to millie... kapag ganyan ang couple yan ang mga nagtatagal hanggang s pagtanda... keep it up xavie and dani.... Godbless u both❤.❤❤
Another enjoyable yet informative, in depth discussion about parenting which is an eye opener to parents and singles as well who will eventually become parents themselves. Kudos to Dani and Xavi!❤
Grabe walang tapon lahat ng conversation dito ❤ pag nagsalita na si Ms. Dani hindi mo na papakawalan yung mga sasabihin niya .. Hindi na to pang youtube lang eh .. pang tv network na to .. ❤
As a working mother, sarap makinig sa inyo.. naremind ako kung ano yung mga dapat kong iprioritize and kung ano ang mas importante para sa mga anak ko..thanks for this..marami akong natutunan kahit mas matanda ako sa inyo. 😊❤
