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The Ben Franklin Effect 👴🏻 

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@aliabdaal
@aliabdaal Год назад
🎙 If you liked this, you might like my weekly newsletter where I share actionable productivity tips, practical life advice, and high-quality insights from across the web aliabdaal.com/newsletter/
@lightworker6298
@lightworker6298 Год назад
Narcissist use this trick all the time. They hurt you then ask for your help. Our brain get confused and we forget what they have done or atleast lessen our perception of hurt caused by them.
@houriaben2947
@houriaben2947 Год назад
So true
@suomotophoenix3450
@suomotophoenix3450 Год назад
How can someone hurt n asking the help in same time😂😂.....m comfused with ur words now
@MishikiCx
@MishikiCx Год назад
Omg... this makes so much sense now
@brazyuniverse4221
@brazyuniverse4221 Год назад
They never said it is done at the same time.
@nicolashomez
@nicolashomez Год назад
Now, everything is narcissistic, the line between pathology and just an casual action is erased by people that use this so easy (Im mental health professional and it's way beyond complicated than that)
@medsafouanejaada
@medsafouanejaada Год назад
ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ
@theprousteffect9717
@theprousteffect9717 Год назад
We might think the best way to get someone to like us is to do something for them, but really we should get them to do something for us.
@RealRaghu
@RealRaghu Год назад
Exactly. Ask for small help and nobody will say no !!
@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty
So this is how abusers trap people.
@robustanybody5138
@robustanybody5138 Год назад
It's called taking the first step
@damandarin5415
@damandarin5415 Год назад
This is like sayings knives are bad because muggers use them to stab people. Yet, we use knives in our daily kitchen many times
@Gingersnaps_the_pumpkin_kitty
​@@robustanybody5138 nope this is called emotional manipulation. You're not apologizing or talking it out you're just bypassing any growth by trying to make it go away.
@2MinTz2
@2MinTz2 Год назад
Always hated this person asking for my favor. My anger grew every time they asked. But I always feel too obligated not to say no since they're family member. Still hated that person tho.
@danielo2541
@danielo2541 Год назад
If you are interested, the piece playing in the background is the First Movement of Moonlight Sonata by Beethoven.
@PsychologyMadeEasy1
@PsychologyMadeEasy1 Год назад
Great work in explaining this psychological effect! Love how you explained it in such an easy way for viewers to understand :) Keep up the good work Ali!
@Chimera07
@Chimera07 Год назад
I have been using it unknowingly my entire life, this is how I have started almost all of my friendships.
@Riseandshinestories4u
@Riseandshinestories4u Год назад
Can we have one on the Ali Abdaal Effect? 😂
@Quickeasyguitarlessons
@Quickeasyguitarlessons Год назад
“Instead trying to win him over with kindness” Franklin: literally wins him over with kindness 🤦‍♂️
@laibairum5815
@laibairum5815 Год назад
Exactly ! I was thinking same 😂😂
@FunnyAnimatorJimTV
@FunnyAnimatorJimTV Год назад
the rival did the kindness not franklin
@Tiersenhiphop
@Tiersenhiphop Год назад
Yea but he asked for the kindness, that's not how that saying is used.
@ikeepwinning
@ikeepwinning Год назад
​@@FunnyAnimatorJimTV the thank you note definitely helped with it Pretty sure it won't work if you borrow someone's pen, but don't return it
@cyphercollider2824
@cyphercollider2824 Год назад
Gratitude?
@gunagsr1049
@gunagsr1049 Год назад
I have read it in Robert Greene's book
@ReelFusionbySupun
@ReelFusionbySupun Год назад
My enemy: 😡 Me asking for favor: can I get one of your kidneys bruv
@Ari_diwan
@Ari_diwan Год назад
😂
@Deer_baggi360
@Deer_baggi360 Год назад
😂
@nanashi9145
@nanashi9145 Год назад
الرسول قال "تهادو تحابوا " صلي الله عليه وسلم ❤
@hamnakhan9298
@hamnakhan9298 Год назад
I absolutely love your aesthetics and sound effects colour pallete etc 👍🏻👍🏻
@justiceliberty4364
@justiceliberty4364 Год назад
Color? It's a white t-shirt.
@misternoodle1236
@misternoodle1236 Год назад
I am curious if the Ben Franklin Effect explains part of why "people pleasers" tend to like almost everyone they meet.
@alabama.worley
@alabama.worley Год назад
No correlation
@brennanmcdonnell9343
@brennanmcdonnell9343 Год назад
​@@alabama.worley thanks doctor
@gurlinkaur5833
@gurlinkaur5833 11 месяцев назад
I needed this
@RonJohn63
@RonJohn63 Год назад
Rival *legislator?*
@VOIDEARTH_Official
@VOIDEARTH_Official 7 месяцев назад
Was finding this comment💯
@Amy-mo9ki
@Amy-mo9ki Год назад
background music is great!
@AArav0913
@AArav0913 Год назад
All of us have tried it once now or then esp in schools though we didn't knew it's ben frankline effect but honestly the friendship isn't gonna be strong at all
@lujainshade1227
@lujainshade1227 Год назад
Thats intresting .. thank you Ali
@ASHISH-yo2sh
@ASHISH-yo2sh Год назад
Wow really now I'm more interested in story like this than programming 😅
@ATLFosterDogs
@ATLFosterDogs Год назад
LegislatOR!
@robbie6905
@robbie6905 Год назад
Good job giving the engagement that mistake was intended for
@robbie6905
@robbie6905 Год назад
But I’m guilty too :(
@nszack4468
@nszack4468 Год назад
very good point, thank you!
@glitchpoop9292
@glitchpoop9292 Год назад
I have no enemies theme of the video
@olek.figiel
@olek.figiel Год назад
What's the app name to automatically detect speech & create animated subtitles for video like that ?
@TheEldestBoyTV
@TheEldestBoyTV Год назад
Can anyone answer this question?! Looks good 👍
@gio3061
@gio3061 Год назад
Make sure you don't forget to give back the pen lol
@TheEldestBoyTV
@TheEldestBoyTV Год назад
What app/software are you using to add captions/subtitles to this video?
@tracyrappo5021
@tracyrappo5021 Год назад
Thats great advice its called killing them with kindness yes thats all it is called!!!!
@AmaanBilwar
@AmaanBilwar Год назад
what if the guy would’ve opposed giving him the book?
@Deer_baggi360
@Deer_baggi360 Год назад
Simple in theoery but not in practice 😢
@burhanshah5855
@burhanshah5855 Год назад
Doesn’t work everywhere
@ThaddyDaddy121
@ThaddyDaddy121 Год назад
I thought I had to invade their palace to change their heart? Damn!
@aster5836
@aster5836 Год назад
I have no enemies
@homemanager1724
@homemanager1724 Год назад
And if you want to avoid those feelings (aka getting hurt), dont engage in this phenomenon.
@shriyagupta9167
@shriyagupta9167 Год назад
The greatest enemies to lovers arc
@UCOhkTb65TIKrKeKufI8K1Eg
@UCOhkTb65TIKrKeKufI8K1Eg Год назад
I just borrowed my enemy's rarest fish
@rdrsaavn4402
@rdrsaavn4402 Год назад
Just dont ask money or its gonna backfire....Ben Franklin side effect ...
@lifelonglearner749
@lifelonglearner749 Год назад
😂😂😂
@angelaaldas5591
@angelaaldas5591 Год назад
I was keep serving him fo 8 months...
@elementkingaming1947
@elementkingaming1947 Год назад
Yea but they don't give the pen back
@edgardanishh
@edgardanishh Год назад
What if they refuse?
@adamlluqman8697
@adamlluqman8697 Год назад
“Kill em with kindness” - Selena Gomez “Literally win em with kindness”- Benjamin Franklin 🔄🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♀️
@stuartkuhan
@stuartkuhan Год назад
Amazing, great tip!
@thistest2001
@thistest2001 7 месяцев назад
hhmmss: cool calm calculated cold cunning
@bhuges6124
@bhuges6124 Год назад
Doesn't work if someone is pity
@shubhrikapansari9458
@shubhrikapansari9458 Год назад
I tried doing this. Sorry didn't work
@shaby_the
@shaby_the Год назад
Try again
@2MinTz2
@2MinTz2 Год назад
@@shaby_the Nah, if you're exposed to enough negative experiences from that person, you just hate them. They constantly ask for my favor though, and I'm obligated to help them (cause its work/family), doesn't mean I will like them.
@hakuei7530
@hakuei7530 Год назад
Lol I think they will just reject the request.
@moradw
@moradw Год назад
I like it ❤
@hamzakhokhar4208
@hamzakhokhar4208 Год назад
Loved the idea. But don't you move your hands too much??
@Get_Set_Mature
@Get_Set_Mature Год назад
Gimme stylus 😢
@Aviator77186
@Aviator77186 Год назад
I've used this without knowing the name of 😂😂effect
@0_o500
@0_o500 Год назад
Good won’t do something now for the people I don’t like I prefer not to like them
@Dr_Doctor_Lee
@Dr_Doctor_Lee Год назад
hmmmm~
@poojadhanuka7148
@poojadhanuka7148 Год назад
Read this in the book thinking fast and slow😮
@petersimon7266
@petersimon7266 Год назад
Take extra care thou
@Uzbek_Student_
@Uzbek_Student_ Год назад
But dont ask for money )
@Ajay140779
@Ajay140779 Год назад
Thus is manipulative
@fhfbjufhwflpkpldxeh6070
@fhfbjufhwflpkpldxeh6070 Год назад
doesn’t work between jews and i though LOL
@allfortv4895
@allfortv4895 Год назад
Why is it people don't want to read the bible and say it's all fake but yet still do things which are in the bible.
@scubatablemallcop3804
@scubatablemallcop3804 Год назад
Nah
@60zar
@60zar Год назад
STOP GIVING OUT MY SECRETS!!!
@Gbzrugs1
@Gbzrugs1 Год назад
Cognitive dissonance 🤔
@Datadopamine24
@Datadopamine24 Год назад
Free Imran Khan
@nobody-rr8gi
@nobody-rr8gi Год назад
Free imran Khan
@sohamkadam5592
@sohamkadam5592 Год назад
bruh
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