i think somebody should show you how to eat using your hands. 1) Wash your hands 2) use only the tip of all your fingers not just 3 fingers try not to let the food go to the palm of your hands or the last digit of your fingers. 3) you cannot eat with your hands if your head is upright, so bow you head down and use can use thumbs to push food into your mouth. 4) lastly enjoy your meal.