The best? Not sure. But the worst is definitely online and at home. Go out. Enjoy your own company and take in the scenery. The knockout happens when your not looking for one. Enjoy your life gentlemen. Women come and go.
I tell women ALL THE TIME...if you want to meet a quality man, volunteer at something you are passionate about. It's like it goes right over their heads. 7/10 Men who volunteer are leaders and are used to giving of themselves.
@@mantiilove I’m not really trying to gender bash but in my experience it’s almost always a waste of time. Lots of them don’t mean what they say and are acting like children. Take this for example. One time i was ordering food and the cashier wanted to chit chat with me. She then requested my number and said she wanted to chill with me later on that day. I hadn’t heard from her in 2 weeks. I ran into her and she said “hey we need to chill together. I wanna hook up” I’m like “nah I’m good. You are going to flake on me. Don’t waste my time”. She was like “no I won’t. Please give me your phone. Here I plugged my number into your contact. I get off at 10. Come pick me up after work”. I came up there for her and guess what?” The staff told me “she had to go see her mom because her mom ran over a horse”. You can’t make this stuff up. Another one gave me her number without me even asking for it. I always allow them to use my phone to call themselves. Well anyways she called me later on and said she wants to meet up for coffee the next day. So i texted her if she still was down for it? Hadn’t got a reply from her in 4 days. So I just got rid of her number. She probably found a hotter guy that day or something who knows. I have other experiences but you get the point. They just rather waste your time on purpose. Then they scratch their heads wondering why guys don’t even care anymore lol.
SJWs and modern feminists go to museums too. I think, if they do camouflage and mix with civilized women, better check if they have short and dyed hair with piercings on the most ungodly places (i know, i'm stereotyping, but most of them looks like this). If this doesnt work, allow them to talk and check for the first "woke" thing that she would say. If any of these signs are detected, go look for the George Washington section. That place is like sacred ground from where witches and hags wouldn't cross.
@@mocromo2010 I know it's too risky. But we dont want to assist them in cementing the idea that all men are bigots. We could always run away or play possum if the toxicity levels goes beyond limit.
As a never married 47 year old successful mother of 3 adult college educated children... I really wish I had been provided with his advice years ago. Life has been very good to me but there are lonely years I could have avoided. Much of what he teaches I have been preaching to my children since they were teens. My daughters frequent exactly the places he mentioned and wear the ladies version of these scents, my son wears the YSL... his sisters actually bought it for him... because they know what’s important. Marry young, ladies.. don’t waste time on this hot girl summer/finding yourself/female boss bullshit. Pick a nice man with strong character, start building and don’t look back or sideways. I met my ‘last chance’ in 2004 (30 with 3 young children working for BOA) and I broke up with him because he was a JW and traveled too much. How stupid was I. ✨Plot twist: My love circled back last year and we are marrying and moving to Ghana this summer. ✨ Be smart ladies...Don’t take your chances ladies.
@@AfiaAnigye oh no. I am now in the US but all my family is in Ghana.l came to the US in 2017. Ghana has its issue but I am sure you will enjoy living there. Kumasi has a lot of culture
Amen sister! Great advice. As a young women, we totally don’t want to hear it because we think we’re so liberated and intelligent. Skip ahead 15 years and we’re scraping the bottom of a Tillamook tub crying over Downtown Abbey in our sweatpants with our chihuahua on our lap and no man to speak of. 🙏 Right on and congratulations!
Ok...I have never listened to any of this man's vids/podcasts/ interviews...I just listened to this in its entirety...and 3 out of the 4 suggestions he gives are SPOT ON. As one who has worked in the Arts/library science for a number of yrs I have seen PLENTY of nice, kind, single available women attend charity events!! And they stopped by Target to pick up something to wear/accent what they are wearing to the event!! And they sometimes found out about the event at the independent coffee shop!!! I know b.c I often sent the notices for the charity events to small business owners to invite them to get involved in community events or to do business for the small private events! This vid he made 2 yrs ago...I still help coordinate charity events up & down the east coast...I am here to say 2 things: 1. He's right...the women (quality women) are at 3 of the 4 places...even in this endemic time...they are educated, connected, single, smart, funny, & globally versed 2. While attendance is steadily growing even some past pre-pandemic levels what I'm NOT SEEING THERE is his men followers taking his advice and attending...(the only men I see in Target (on the few occasions I do go) are the staff)...***TSK**TSK** y'all letting this man down in death...!😔
Hahaha there is definitely something going on with Target because I see beautiful women there everytime I go. The thing is, I tend not to approach strangers like that, I don’t want to be creepy, and I know that people generally don’t like to be bothered by strangers and would prefer to go about their day. It’s a tough spot because some women want to be approached while others get very offended so I tend to err on the side of safety and just think in my head “wow she’s gorgeous!”
Yeah funny that. What could possibly be the cause? Oh that's right, he spends his nights counselling carbon copied women, most of whom are from his own demographic hahaha
2:55 I smiled so big when u mentioned cologne and I grabbed my Tom ford oud wood and sprayed it on me and then it was the first cologne you mentioned!!! I love that cologne!
RIP SMH. You were misunderstood but I got you. You never bashed back women. You championed being at a certain status before dating. You were golden dude
he’s being specific and also is aiming for areas with single friendly women. anywhere is too broad as places like walmart probably don’t compare to places he mentioned lol. but i agree the first step is just to talk.
For me I love museums, farmer markets, for big metropolitan cities. In a smaller city or more rural area, I'd go for the local pizza joint, trivia night to be exact.
upscale hotel lounges are great places to meet women. Women that you immediately have to pay for, or women who the morning after you wake up in a bed of ice missing two kidneys.
Had Real Men Style on autoplay after watching this where he lists well dressed men. Some you tubers made the cut and was waiting for the impeccably dressed Mr. Samuels himself but never happened. Had me feeling some kinda way. That ain't cool seeing that you always mention them. You deliver great content and think it's time to make it hard for the competition to ignore you in my opinion.
Kevin, Kevin, Kevin... love your channel, love your takes, but, what's with the fragrance recommendations!?! PLEASE tell gentlemen to graduate from the common fragrances to the unique. It pays to stand out from the crowd! May I humbly recommend the Claude Marsal Parfum line of fragrances? Osmium Noir for fall/winter months and La Noche for spring/summer months. Once you try the line, I'll be shocked if you ever use anything else. You're welcome in advance, and keep it up with the great content!
Let's not forget the local weekly farmer's market. I happen to live near one that's sandwiched between a yoga/pilates studio and a spin studio. ( Yoga pants as far as the eye can see. ) Shop, or for the entrepreneurs reading this, setup a booth promoting your product or service. The rest should run like clockwork.
Dancing classes tango and salsa for example. Great community and culture and of course no shortage of women. Naturally it’s gonna take practice and money. But in my experience very much so worth it. Been dancing Tango for about 2 years and just started salsa.
@@robi6317 I hear you the music isn’t for everyone. Most who attend Tango and Salsa classes, practice socials and formal events go because they love dance, want to improve and enjoy the social experience.The dating and hooking up while definitely a possibility. It’s ultimately secondary. There are plenty of other options to meet women though and less pricey ones at that. For me Latin dance is probably always gonna be my go to.
@@Icecat21 Geriatric Salsa lol. Yeah there definitely some older folks in there as well. Depends on the studio. I got to paradise tango in Hawaii. It’s definitely tailors to a younger audience.
@@deauxburns6566 ohh boy, I always tought about joining the local music classes, once this pandemic is cooled down, Im going for it! I see that specially in gyms there are a lot of young women who do dance classes too
As a Christian I recommend to find them in your local church, if not, christian camps or concerts ;) but you have to know that not all women in church are quality women ;) keep that in mind.
And especially if you work together in the same departement (e.g church protocol, logistics, evangelisation, children service, integration of newcomers etc.) that's a plus, to assess the way she respond to different situations and critiques from her leader and spot red flags if needed.
whats your opinion of Polo cologne... I remember that from high school and ive been meaning to get some... btw target is definitely a good pick up spot especially late night..
@@DIDDYTBABY ill check those out but question: is it the actual smell of those or the brand that might be detected and respected? I guess once I do the smell test ill tell for myself.
Went out to eat and our server was super cute, we talked for a bit and we were vibing, unfortunately towards the end when I was going to get her number I saw a big ol engagement ring, I was like noooo! Lmao oh well, plenty of fish in the sea. 🐳
A nice place to meet some female's is a nice jazz club, a nice drink or an dinner and live music set's the mood for sharing your thoughts with a gorgeous woman who enjoys the same thing as you do.!!! This gives you something you both love to enjoy and can talk about over a nice glass of wine or something else that you both can enjoy as you get to know each other better or set things up for that second date together if you're game is right.!!!
Here's a style tip. Don't have two buttons on a cuff of a shirt (unless both of them have to be used). Find one that provides the right length and cut off the other.
morning, between 6-6:30. The Crafts Saturdays with the single dads. Saturday-Sunday: Garden department. rest of the week, lumber and plumbing department. Or you could have a talk with the ladies a the contractor's desk: usually "They know a guy"
Fit is nine tenths of style. Following that, texture and color that match the wearer complexion. Box fresh, well maintained sneakers, a luxury(but not tacky) watch, thats a comfortable outfit that speaks value and style. Aero joggers are a particular favorite, usually a polo v neck T...and minimal branding (my preference anyway). A man’s well kept physique needs to be complimented by well fitting clothes, all your hard work and good diet deserves highlight.
@@ke0kie Being presentable is enough. I love clothes and fashion but have found that women care far less about aesthetics than we assume they do. Plus, women are attracted to confidence (not arrogance) more than any great suit fit. But, before stressing women, a man should be solid in himself, tailoring notwithstanding.
@@thegodblogger3812 so many great tools available for sorted men, I'm sure you have fine tuned your kit over time as well. I'm biased no lie as having spent time in the fashion industry, but I find style to be easy and my entire wardrobe reflects it. For me it's essentially impossible to be poorly dressed for any errand or occasion, and generally speaking I feel men should invest and pay attention to their style, both for how it make a man feel about his appearance personally, and for how he projects himself outwardly (often rejecting or attracting interactions automatically).
I don’t go to target but every time I have gone there have been good looking women 😂 most married or have kids tho. I don’t feel the bars and lounges are the best places to meet good quality women
What I notice is most women act all weird when you approach. Their energy is..." Oh shit, I got to talk to this guy now to be polite but I hope he goes away soon."
Charity event seems sensible, but if you go there with a selfish impulse to satisfy your own need for self admiration, undermining her self confidence, you only end up with another woman trapped in a man's psycopathic fantasy. Respect for respect is how it works.
I have retinitis pigmentosa , medically blind. The best time for me to meet a woman is when I'm not looking for one...lol! It works! I'm trying to see where I'm going and they're quick to help me. My disability is a conversation starter!
That’s awesome, man. And I will tell you this, you can see- the bright side of life. And that’s better than what a lot of people see who have 20/20 vision.
Have actual interest. Not just working and television. I was part of a chess meetup group and met women through there. I was part of a voice performance group and met women that way.
Ok the bar is the worse place to meet woman flat out it’s like hunting for bear in the ocean. Also in this day and age ppl r less social they want their stuff like their food shipped to them, they want to stay inside and watch movies etc. I look at episodes from friends and Seinfeld and they would be at place like a video rental store meeting sumone. My uncle explained to me that’s what they did in the 80s and half way threw the 90s to meet sumone. All those places r gone. Even at places like the gym ppl just want to do their reps and leave. Bus stops not the best places do to the scum of the earth but even saying hi can lead no where. I had a Conversation with sumone that basically went no where but she the one who started talking to me first the thing was when I talked to her she really wasn’t into talking to me she was more focus on her phone.
things have changed in the last 2 to 3 years but his point was that to check out a new spot in town to meet new faces not just the bar and his main point was think what kind of people will be where your too focused on the bar i bet ur unc said some other stuff you forgot about too
I second that. I literally I random ladies turn back to smell me. They either compliment the smell or ask me random questions just to smell the fragrance
I’m sorry but I heavily disagree about perfumes. I once had a hot girl actually put her nose against me while I was sweating. She inhaled deeply and told me my cologne was intoxicating. I never wear a fragrance and I’ve never seen anyone else get that reaction. The closest thing to a perfume I use are essential oils but I wasn’t at the time. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a hippy. I’m just like wholistic products and fake scents aren’t me.
