The Biggest Decision of Your Life: What's a Healthy Relationship? How to Know When to Breakup? 

The longer I stayed in a bad relationship, the more it became a part of me. It's important to jump ship as soon as you know. Harper Daniels has a mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome A Toxic Relationship that I liked for healing.

3:45 my ex once said the slur for Japanese people and when I told him I felt uncomfortable with it he tried to justify it (he was Korean American) and basically said I was overreacting. He even told his brother about it and his brother verbatim said to him, "she got upset that you said the word J*p?" and when that happened I was like oh lordddddd I am with... a very, very bad apple

>toxic relationships all through my 20s and I didnt even know it. You knew it. You were attracted to bad men because society kept you protected from consequences. No one wants a leftover woman, no good man wants a woman in her decline. We have time-tested, traditional values for a reason so women dont end up this way. I am thankful for your repentance and I hope you can show younger girls by example what to avoid. Often its the older women with bitter resentment for having had the same experiences as you so they wish to take as many other women down with them so they don't warn them of the dangers, they encourage it.