The Biggest ENTOURAGE NO NO'S | Say Yes To The Dress US 

That's more than jealousy, it's hate. Get rid of her. Now.

Unless you’re paying for my dress 1. Dont try to sway my decision 2. Don’t make me go over my budget. If you want something different then give me the money to pay for it.

That last one with the best friend seems like the beginning of a horror film. "It should be me..." giiiiirrrrrlllll get your s--t together and focus on your FRIEND'S happiness. Jealousy is such an ugly color on you!

The fact the mothers were pressuring their daughters to nearly doubling there budget and not even willing to chip in was horrible. It's one thing to give an opinion, and another to say "spend more even though you can't afford it and take care of it later". That's just plain bad financial advice!

This "best friend" will be killing you one day

That girl is not a true friend.. she was so jealous that is was SCARY!😯

I honestly adore Randy. He gives the brides so much respect. He respects their wishes and their budgets and works to keep the family in check while trying to make the bride feel as calm, happy and comfortable as possible.

I loved when Randy called out the second brides mom "I work for your daughter" lmao 🤣👌😂

That second bride's mother is... kinda mean. Like if she picked a $6000 dress which is triple the bride's budget, then she should pay if she so desperately wants her daughter to wear it.

I don't know about y'all but my mother would NEVER encourage me to go over budget on ANYTHING, whether it be groceries or wedding dresses.

6:15-6:23 really like are you a friend ?? Like what do you mean look at her she is getting married not you so obviously look at yourself again girl. 😑😑

guurrl, that there is a TOXIC friend, get rid of her she will only lead you astray in your life. also, that mother, Jesus! if you're going to suggest a dress wayyy over the bride's budget then you should at least offer to pay for the extra. dayymn.

omg what the hell is with the jealous friend

Eww. I hope the last bride finds less jealous envious friends.

That girl Vanessa has the guts to go on camera and say that about her best friend and to her fiancée clearly proves she has no shame or respect for anyone

You could tell the middle woman was so used to dealing with her mom. She handled it really well, I don't think I could've!

The last girl is not a true friend at all!!! If it was my bestfriend, id be very happy for them!!

Honestly, that $5600 dress didn't look even a $1000. And why was the mother wanting her to get such an expensive dress? Nobody at the wedding is going to care how much the dress costed. Lol as long as the bride and groom are happy

That last “friend” is low key a snake, talking about her body like that. I used to have fake friends like that that were never happy for me and only thought about how jealous they were whenever anything good happened to me, they would even try to talk me out of it or tell me it wasn’t as good as I thought it was. GET RID, the girl deserves better.

Jealous Friend: "Look at her and then look at me" Me: and look who got the ring, not you.

That girl who thought “I should get married first” Well to bad, you didn’t find the right one. You shouldn’t rush into marriage to be first anyhow. You would probably get divorced anyhow

That first group pissed me off. The guy didn't approve of the brides budget but he sure the heck wasn't willing to pitch in to make it happen. Now Mommy dearest for the second bride I would have been telling her that when figures out how to put on her makeup correctly then and only then can she try to tell me how to dress. And don't get me started on the last bride's so called best friend.

That "best friend" knew she was being filmed and that the bride would see it sooner or later and she still said those nasty things. Can you imagine what she could say in private?!?

I died when he asked "so you guys are going to chip in?" 😂

Oh when that "friend" started talking shade I almost fell out me chair I was so mad

If that was my best friend, our friendship would've ended When my fitting was over.

No wonder Vanessa isn’t the one getting married lol.

The actress girl just got pressured by her entourage and they straight up said they weren't paying for jack. All of those are toxic people. Jealous friend, get rid of her ass. She feels her friend is less deserving than her. Made me so mad.

That girl who was jealous. She’s needs to shutup she ain’t getting married 😂😂

What is wrong with that friend??? Jesus Could you be any more jealous??? 😡

The mom who was telling the girl to put on the dress she wants even tho she already said yes, that mom said that she supports her daughters decision only because she realized that it's actually really ugly 😂😂😂

Love Randy he is incredibly talented as a designer and respectful as a consultant.

The last lady had such an inconsiderate and insulting "friend". She looked great in the first dress, who cares if it's not a ball gown?

If I was the bride that had the mom making all the decisions, I would have asked her to shut up and leave.

If my Mom did this to me, I'd tell her to leave and go home until she had RESPECT FOR MY DECISION!!! I CANNOT STAND Mothers who MANIPULATE their daughters Wedding Dress dreams!!! I love how she said "I'm glad she respected me enough to try on the dress" LADY how about YOU SHOWING RESPECT to your daughter and HER DECISION for a dress SHE'S BUYING?! Get the HELL over yourself My daughter is getting married this June and I swear I will respect whatever decision she makes!!

i love how Randy always works for the bride and makes sure she’s happy.

Oh my god that “friend” is such a tool. She needs to just go away and be alone without friends.

Took my Mom with me. Big mistake. After she said a tiara was going to make 5'2" tall me taller than my 6' fiancee, I said Thank You to the consultant, walked out, and shopped for a dress bringing only my best friend with me. Bought the dress--and tiara--of my dreams.You don't need that negativity when bridal gown shopping, and I don't care who that person is, do not bring them along. You are getting married, you are a big girl now. IMHO

Dear Vanessa, I get it. Both of my sisters were married before me. I’ve been in the longest relationship between the three of us. I am jealous because of it. But instead of letting jealousy take control, I learned from it. I learned everything that goes into a wedding so I can get ideas and plan ahead/be ready for when the time actually comes. I wore a pretty bridesmaid dress, then an ugly one that was ordered offline. I smiled and remembered “I will not be the bridezilla” because I watched and learned from their engagements. I think you should do the same.

What a rude woman that Vanessa is 😡

Listen, whoever is reading this, stay away from such a friend. Its better to have a 100 enemies than a friend like that.

I can’t believe that friend was so open about her jealousy. Very petty and un classy lol

I think I see why the “best friend” in the last clip may not be married “yet”....

That mother wanted her to put on the more expensive dress, then everything she said to customize it would make it look more like the dress she picked. I'm glad the bride put her foot down, and got the dress she wanted.

girl, drop vanessa asap

Mom,don’t force your opinions on the bride .Try letting her be in charge. Love that line🥰

6:20 It's bad that her BEST FRIEND Vanessa is talking like that about her, but bro John. You're just as bad for laughing at it and not defending the bride 🤦‍♀️👎

That "best friend" is probably there for the AC

There’s an episode where the bride’s brother wanted her to go over budget and *OFFERED* to pay the difference; that’s the only time you should encourage a bride to go over!

“This is your wedding! It’s a once in a lifetime event.” Yeah, meaning she shouldn’t have to pay $2k more than she wants to for a dress she’s only going to wear once!

"what woman doesn't want her mother's approval?" well if the dress she picks is triple of my budget and if you're not paying for it then no I don't need her approval

I'm so proud of Nicole for sticking to her budget! I hope that last bride kicked her "friend" out of her life!

3:43 so glad she said yes to that dress, it's so gorgeous and flattering for her in every way

Hunny that girl is NOT your best friend if she gets that jealous and doesn't support you because of it.

Randy is a class act all around. Gotta love that guy!!

I love him "it's above 3,500... Them still pushing "Oh so your gonna help buy then" They avoid eye contact Yeah uh huh they need to shut up

Wow that "friend" is such a snake like..... I'm speechless

damamn that best friend was a trip... lol

The last girl, her poor friend john is just so uncomfortable with vanessa, he's just laughing.

That mom needs to flipping chill and that “best friend” needs to go away

when a friend is jealous it's a no no and the way she was acting it's not true friend because in the future when you will be successful and she will not be she will be very jealous and and this is not true friend because friend supposed to be happy when you are happy and supportive of your choices.

I don't understand these mothers with "their" visions for their daughters' wedding gowns. I get it, but You had your day, and your vision should be what your daughter feels beautiful in and what expresses her own taste and personality. It's not about YOU , it's about her, so stop with the power b.s. and get over yourself. My goodness, it's so unnerving to watch these mothers with such derogatory, controlling personalities, especially the ones that use that same manipulative line: "Well if I'm paying for the dress, I have the final say". I think that is awful. Yes, you should have your opinions, and your daughter will take them into consideration, but don't shame them into getting the dress that YOU want. She will regret it in the long run.

10/10 that ‘friend’ already tried some shady sh*t with the fiancée and got rejected. Hard. Bitterness and jealousy ages you.

For the 2nd story, I’m glad the bride chose the gown she wanted and not her mother’s choice. Her choice looked so much better. Shame on mom.

So selfish “I want what she has” oh god I hope she got her out of her life fast before anything horrible happens

6:09 that look tho

"I'm glad she respects me and tried on the dress I wanted despite my not respecting her and her budget"

The first bride is Amy Rutberg, she plays Marci Stahl on Daredevil! She is a fantastic actress with a great attitude. Best of luck in love and life. ❤️🍀

“What woman doesn’t want her mother’s approval” I know I don’t care for it. 😂 I don’t care for anyone’s opinion on my dress but my own.

Girl, you don't need a best friend like that!

5:09 "it makes me feel good that she respects me and tried the dress on" ...lady that's not respect that's getting you to shut the hell up. Respect would have been you listening to what your daughter wanted and not berating her to do something she doesn't want to

They’re the kind of people that think just because it’s expensive it’s better

These people are dreadful - dump them

once in a lifetime event... laughing my a... off !!! Somebody needs to look at divorce numbers lately !

The last jealous friend I wanted to keep asking her “ARE YOU EVEN IN A DAMN RELATIONSHIP?!?!?” Why did she keep saying “I thought I’d be first”

WOW that last one...who needs enemies when you got a "bestfriend" like that

I couldn't stop looking at that lady's lip liner!

Heavens. Don't the friends and family understand the bride has a dress budget because she still has to pay for alterations, a veil, shoes and the proper undergarments for the dress? That extra $1500 would cover that.

Best friend...You can get the ball gown when YOU are married!!!!

I live that the bride finally said she has the final say and that she stuck up for herself

omg the first dress looked perfect on her but i totally agree with what she is saying. its a dress you are only going to wear once so i wouldn't want to spend too much money on it either. but man she looked amazing in that first dress. she should have just taken a picture of it and then tried finding a cheaper version of it (or getting someone to make it for her)

If you pressure a bride into going over her budget, you best help her pay for it 🙄

That wasn't jealousy - that was envy... she needs to ditch that friend ASAP

I love Randy he is always super respectful of the budget. How it should be. "It's your wedding day" people can shut the hell up!

I rent a dress, because wedding dress only once wear

“Respects Me” you mean “obeys.”

Our older daughter is getting married next year and I would never suck the life out of my daughter's sails by crushing her dreams. Mother's should be their daughters biggest supporters and, when it comes to something as important as a wedding gown, support your daughters choices. Dump the friends who are envious. They'll never be happy for you.

Love Randy's response to everything ! That girl at the end is not a good friend. I would NOT want two face fake friend like that. Wow!

It's not their money they are spending. So, they don't make that decision.

What kind of best friend is that?

There was something Randy didn't mention: If you're married but you didn't get the wedding you wanted, don't try to live vicariously through the bride's wedding by trying to project on her what YOU would want to wear. It's her wedding, not yours. If you didn't get the wedding you wanted, too bad. You had your chance; this is hers.

If I had a friend who acted like that last girl, I would immediately cut her out of my life.

Friends never say "It has to be me not her"

I find it odd how the friend knew her friend was very jealous of her, yet brought her along anyway. What did she expect? Just bring that guy along. Or, hell, go alone. That "friend" is very toxic. No wonder she hasn't landed a long lasting relationship. She's full of negativity. :/ Also, that first dress on her friend looked stunning on her. Just... damn.

Randy is the best, he respects the brides and will do pretty much anything to make them happy.

The mom was like "I'm so glad she respects me and tried on the dress for me" well love u sure as heck don't respect her to make her...

Jealousy is horrible

Honestly if I had opinionated people like that, I wouldn't invite them to my dress finding. Rather go alone. And the friend getting all jealous should have stayed home.

This makes me love and appreciate my mom even more.

The last bride should say no to that envious friend of hers