Louise is frightened to look horrible in a wedding dress but Jo and Al will try to bring her confidence back. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
@Caffeineoholic Soul just a quick psa that binge eating is a legitimate eating disorder. For some people it is not as simple as “just stop eating lol”. It’s like telling a depressed person to just stop being sad.
@Caffeineoholic Soul but they didn't say she looks good with her weight or that she she should do nothing about it. They only said that she has to accept how she looks in the dresses, because she can't change it in a short time that is left till the wedding. And she said herself that she's working on herself and trying to lose weight.
This is what fat shaming does to people, they are paralyzed with fear. These two ladies are so sweet and encouraging, it just goes to show you how even one little act of kindness can impact someone. Her second trip there she was like a different person.
I am from India. I am 50kgs and am 5’6... i am thin but not sickly thin .... but here evy single day someone body shames me for being thin and asks me to eat more and gain the curves. Its soo painful. Body shaming on obese or thin person are extremely painful and even at times i hate seeing myself in the mirror. The bullying words i heard comes back and haunts me
I am in my 70th year, I have been big all my life, and society still shames people based on their size, it is the last of the jokes comedians can make about people. It is no longer funny to make jokes about the disabled, mothers in law, people of different colour or ethnicity, but people's appearances, especially big people are fair game for being laughed at...and hated. I pray in my lifetime this changes, but I am not holding my breath. Western society, the cult of celebrity, influencers and the medical model have a lot to answer for.
Damn, she wasn’t kidding when she was in abusive relationship, her confidence of her body is the lowest I’ve EVER SEEN. I really hope she gets back her confidence one day
She looks so disappointed every time she looks at herself in the mirror. It just breaks my heart into million pieces. Probably because I can relate to her.
@Julia A she was trying to share her story and show everyone that u can be fat and be beautiful and that u shld not be terrified of Ur mirror image. You don't know her reasons don't judge her choice. Ukw u r not worth typing this for but I am typing this for ppl like u to stop commenting loads of crap without realising the effect on others.
@Julia A my gosh you don't have anything nice to say? 😭 You really asked how is she beautiful? Bro everyone is beautiful in their own way, she looks beautiful and is struggling with accepting herself like anyone would if they gotta hear shit about "how is she beautiful?? Maybe she shouldn't have let it be public." shit she looked beautiful in those dresses and I'm proud of her for feeling happy in her dress
I, as a bigger woman, appreciate so much how they didnt deny it or contradict her when she said “my arms look fat”. It often makes me feel even worse about myself when people object to me commenting on how big i am, because it makes me feel like nobody understands how i feel or that they just want to shove my worries under the rug.. i dont know how it made her feel, but it definitely wouldve comforted me! Shes absolutely gorgeous, and i hope she always feels it! 🥺💕
SO MUCH THIS. Look. There is no denying that I am FAT. What I'm NOT is stupid or blind. The line "You're not fat, you're pretty/beautiful" drives me nuts... because even though they think they're helping, what they're REALLY saying is that being fat and being pretty are mutually exclusive... that it's impossible to be both at the same time. And since I KNOW I'm fat, as an objective fat, the only explanation that makes sense is that they're lying about me being pretty or beautiful to make me feel better. The way these two consultants handled the situation was absolutely perfect... They were real and honest and GENUINE with her. There's a reason why she regained some of her confidence after she had time to process that first appointment. They didn't just help her find a pretty dress. They helped her start healing.
@@layneparker3087 YES!!! I’m glad I’m not the only one who thought this 🥺🥺 Its like society has drilled it into everyone that being bigger is a bad and ugly thing... it’s NOT! you can be *beautiful AND big!!!*
@@layneparker3087 so you’d be happier if ur friends call your gut and arms fat and beautiful??? I’m just curious and trying to understand how to deal with such people. Would it be better if they said “so what you still look beautiful”
@@rordongamsey3057 That's... definitely a bit of an over simplification. But yes - "So what, you still look beautiful" is ABSOLUTELY an awesome response! You're not challenging their thought or what they see as truth - You're simply stating YOUR opinion (you're beautiful) while also making it clear that their weight doesn't equal worth or beauty. Again, lying is just NOT helpful and I sincerely doubt many people (myself included) would find my gut and arms beautiful, lmao. But here's the thing... being HONEST doesn't have to mean being rude and mean. Tactfulness IS AN ART... and it's one that people seem to be letting die. You can be both critical and civil at the same time. A few sample responses... "I'm fat." --> acceptable responses --> You're beautiful. Now tell me something you like about yourself. "I hate my (insert body part here)" --> Acceptable responses --> So let's show off what you DO like. If it's making you feel insecure, let's figure out how to downplay it. (insert months or years of complaining/negative self-talk here) --> acceptable responses --> (Continuing letting it go). Okay, so you've been saying this for awhile... I'm struggling too! Do you want to do something about it together? How can I help. , You say these things a lot and it's really hurtful to both of us... we need to change this habit of self-deprecating behavior because It's not helpful and it's toxic. In exactly ZERO of those responses are you VALIDATING their self-deprecating statements. You're not saying "Yeah, ya are fat. Ya are ugly. Ya are (whatever the issue is)." But you're not lying to them either... Nor are you directly CHALLENGING something they believe is a fact. You're redirecting the self-hate into a more constructive area of thought while also being supportive. You're not denying they feel that way or that what they're saying isn't true. Fat people KNOW we're fat. We're not blind or stupid. But every person on this planet has some redeeming qualities, no matter who they are. Having your friend or family member counter negative self-talk with positive self-talk without focusing on arguing the validity of their feelings is a great way to tactfully redirect the conversation AND be supportive AND not engage in toxic positivity AND not get sucked into a conversation that is completely non-constructive. And it needs to be said, too, that engaging in conversation with someone who's CONSTANTLY engaging in negative self-talk IS EXHAUSTING and draining and can even be damaging to YOUR OWN mental well being and self esteem. So countering with a "Tell me something you like now" is a nifty way to put a little armor on YOURSELF so you don't get sucked in to the same toxic thinking. The responses of "Show off what you do like." and "If it's making you feel insecure, let's figure out how to downplay it," imply that even if that's how your friend feels, it's fixable. That there's an ACTION they can take to address it. Getting them engaged in problem solving things they don't like about themselves is empowering and offering to help them through it by using "we" and "us" type wording is HUGELY supportive. It implies you're there to help, you're paying attention, and you care. Same with the final example. By offering to go through it WITH them, you're not only encouraging them to do something about how they feel, but you're also making it pretty darn clear that whatever it is they don't like, it isn't permanent. And obviously, even if they're not down with it, you've still made it clear that you're there for them and willing to stick by them.
Sure is, just got out of a abusive relationship got serve depression and lost a lot of weight so I’m currently going through this but I’m trying to make a change.
Well i mean,it really depends on your past,if you had toxic people in your childhood,you’d probably feel hated.But i do agree with your second statement,it’s really ironic how adults know so many things about the world,so many things about other people and other celebrities,yet,they barely know anything about themselves. It feels like beauty takes such a big part in our self esteem.😖
@@ahisha_plays_lifethe_game3429 I agree with everything else but the past thing, no. Well, maybe for me. Our class did a survery on how many girl were insecure when i say every girl put her hand u. They explained one by ome their insecurities. As well as the pyschological side is the brain develops more anixety as a teen and that may have an effect as adults. SORRY FOR THE LONG WRITING
@@octopus8978 I guess you have a point. At some point in life, your brain forces you to mature (I think it's mostly because of Puberty), it either depends on how you react to that severe change, so while some people really care about how their body looks (Face,Hips etc..) Some of my reasoning is because either you haven't been taught Emotional Control Properly (Too much reaction can cause stress,anxiety,Depression etc...) or maybe because of your surroundings and the current situation that you're living in ( like Having Family Problems in your teenage years) and others don't. This is why teaching kids on how to handle their emotions properly really matters. Our brain is a really complicated thing, even scientists don't know much about it, so forgive me if i'm wrong about this, i'm not really smart lol.Also sorry for the long writing too XD
@The Thinker I've heard/read many great remarks said to rude individuals after they've shown an ugly side of themselves, but this, my friend, has got to be my favorite.
Absolutely, thank you for seeing that. It's so hurtful when people make judgments and nasty comments about you for your size without ever considering the psychological factors that affect weight, without accepting that there ARE psychological factors that affect weight. People always want to talk about how it's unhealthy to be fat but a person doesn't get fat unless they're already unhealthy, either physically OR mentally. To act like someone gets to that weight because they're "just lazy" is so incredibly ignorant & mean-spirited. I wish more people would try to see the pain underneath that we're self-medicating with food.
@@ncisept5900 I've had both. Anxiety is a horrible empty feeling and the only time it got a bit better was when I ate something filling. The problem was that I was permanently hungry and because I was so anxious I couldn't stand and cook for 30 minutes when even two minutes out of bed was bad enough. But of course I became depressed because of my anxiety as well. I went up to 11st something and a size 16 before two ladies on the bus offered me a seat on a hot day because I looked pregnant in a dress and then a member of my family made a comment about my fitness. Today I am 9st 8.5 and a 12-14 after going on a diet. I still don't like what I see in the mirror, but I never will as I never have.
She had a complete 180 from her appointment to her fitting. Whatever happened to her or whatever she did in that lapse of time was truly life saving. Her standing in front of that mirror with all that power saying "This is me frock"... goosebumps!
Man I don't remember which episode it was but I remember an episode of say yes to the dress (I think) where the dude kicked out the girls mom for fat shaming her.
Nayelli Hernandez the shaking, avoiding eye contact with strangers, the excessive fear over something that shouldn’t induce fear, the downplaying of just how bad the relationship was (when her loved one spoke so openly), the looking immediately to Mum when in distress, the “need to get out” comment and the slowly taking steps back (that’s a low level panic attack tbh), the looking down when paid compliments.
Nayelli Hernandez also the shoulders, all arched up like a threatened animal. Idk to me I was like “she has been through some shit”. It could also be projection on my behalf but I dunno I just got a feeling.
I just feel so much for her. The image you have of yourself and how you see yourself in a mirror just makes it so difficult to see through your body and focus on clothes you’ve always wanted. And It sucks.
That’s horribly true. I struggle to even walk in front of a mirror because I feel ugly when looking at myself. I really don’t want anyone to be feeling like this. EVER. Not accepting yourself, is the worst feeling in the world.
Oh yes the whole of Europe starts to talk in English when buying a wedding dress, it’s quite magical (sorry for the sarcasm, this generalization is just a pet peeve of mine 🙈) On another note: I wonder if ‘Say Yes to the Dress’ is copyrighted? Perhaps they have to phrase it differently because of that?
Yes! Also love how they don't sugar coat it. Like when they said that they could put lace on her arms but they'll still be fat arms. It's about accepting who you are and finding the dress to go with your body
"You can't hate yourself into a version of yourself that you can love" - everyone deserves to feel beautiful no matter what they look like, what stage they're in, and ESPECIALLY as part of recovery
Kate BL Thankyou for your wise comment...I am looking for help for my daughter on here. She seems to be eating herself to death. She also scratches the heck out of her arms. She is very generous, courageous thoughtful and hardworking. She has suffered so much, physical wounds and other trauma, in life already, I wish I could help her to take better care of her self. I would appreciate any advice you could offer, on top of your already helpful comment. Thankyou.
@@granmabern5283 I am so sorry to hear that your daughter is going through this. I highly recommend finding a therapist who specializes in eating disorders. It sounds like she is trying to numb and heal her pain through food. Food often does have a calming and energizing effect because hunger is stressful and tiring. The most important thing is not to shame her, but to say I see your pain and I want to help you (in ways that don't harm her health). Finding a therapist is a journey in and of itself, so please keep encouraging her even if the first one is not a good fit. Psychologytoday dot com has a "therapist finder" reference that is a good place to start. Lots of prayers for your family!
Kate BL Thankyou. She’s been going to therapy for years, just doesn’t seem to get better enough for my hopes! She’s an adult and I have to respect her privacy, but sometimes I wish I could intervene...fix... I keep loving her and praying for her, and try to be a good example. I wrote on here because it seemed like the big brides were all on the road to love... my daughter’s true love died... I am grateful that she survived that loss and still does good and interesting things.
@@granmabern5283 your a good parent, I'm younger and I'm very very depressed and I know that having a mother that never gives up and keeps supporting us is an amazing feeling, good on you !!!
*No.* I strongly dislike people like you. Caring about your significant other's health and well being DOES NOT have anything to do with loving them less or some sort of abuse. Her husband just wants her to feel comfortable and her best self and KNOWS her and KNOWS what would make her happy. Someone like you who doesn't know a fucking thing about their relationship ought to talk, making such an ignorant comment. Tell me something, you're probably against smoking. You probably hate the act. I do too. If your spouse is an addict and you tell them they need to stop because that addiction is going to be the cause of their death. Is that sickening to you? Does that make you an abuser? Does that make you love them any less? No, it does not. It's called love. And sometimes caring about someone, sometimes loving someone with all you have is telling your spouse, gf/bf, that what they are doing isn't okay because your looking out for them, because you want to, because you love them.
Chichi Oko A.) Calm down a tad mate B.) I think they meant more of helping them get better like you mentioned instead of putting them down like the woman in the videos ex had done. Caring about your significant other is important but dont make them feel worse if you do really love them (on purpose anyhow)
@@jswaggamingcool Yup, that's what I said about the spouse helping the other live a healthier lifestyle leading to a happier lifestyle. And the part about not making your partner feel bad is literally what I said is mostly the case in my initial comment. You probably didn't read my whole comment, so you should do that and then we can talk if you want
@@francy9585 the fact that the woman in the video is trying her hardest to lose weight and be healthier and all you're doing is bringing her down ! Kudos to her for having more confidence and caring for herself more .
Yea. I´m a finn and I´d just stand there like "mom, dad, all u fuckers. this is my dress, bye girl". Also seeing her feeling bad about her looks breaks my heart, bc i can relate so much to that. it´s the worst feeling to have
@Caffeineoholic Soul Actually it does not quite work this way. If you took weight (as she said) due to bad environment, you need to be and feel safe again before anything. Losing weight/stay healthy is not an easy thing to do in that case. You need strength, determination and support. And if you just feel miserable and not loving yourself, where are you going to find that mental health you need? Body positivty should be not hating yourself and others on physical specifities. So yes it should include people of any weight. Which does not mean, as (apparently) most of the "body positivity" influencers say, that you can be overweight and healthy. Same as for underweight, you need the right amount of fat and muscles to function at your best as a human being. But you shouldn't hate yourself because one way or another you hurt yourself. You should be able to seek for help to heal with no judgement as to how you look, just looking forward to see how you will feel.
@Caffeineoholic Soul I never said being overweight was not an issue. Regarding "the excuse" you think is wrong, I'll say: Food is a drug. Eating disorders are real illnesses linked to addiction mechanisms. You don't tell an addict to just quit right? You know that a lot of addicts need to go through a specific therapy to quit I guess. It's exctly the same with food. Would be great if it was indeed as simple as you imply. What I said was that to seek this medical help, you often need to love yourself enough, you need to not be depressed, to not hate yourself. Because a lot of persons are not super strong mentally due to their childhood/close family/work environment... Some situation can drain your energy and it's unfair to say people are just weak. They are just human. So *my* definition for body positivity (which is in fact the one said by several others) is that you should love yourself enough and thus the others should not judge/disrespect you whatever you look like. This is *not* encouraging obesity. Or of course it can be if you just lool at the fact I say you can't just tell someone JUST STOP EATING. But that would be taking my whole point out of context. And I hate that just for that sake you hurt people who just need a little mental uplift to actually go back on the health road. Sorry for the long comment but I hate when people put things in my mouth I did not say. If it was simple misreading/misunderstanding, I hope this helps to clarify my view.
@Caffeineoholic Soul I can agree to the point where you said that supporting obsecity is bad BUT man somerimes ppl gain weight due to various reasons like depression and bad environment now how are you helping them by making them more depressed and sad....It would make.them even more miserable
@Caffeineoholic Soul I get ur point but some people have health issues like thyroid problems that can result in weight gain over which they have no control...or eating disorders...It's not that easy for them to lose weight... Also u r pointing out the harmful effects of being obese on one's health so that's understandable but sometimes people might not make their intentions clear enough..so people who are told to lose weight might be under the impression that it's because of how they look and not because that person is concerned about their health...
I was over weight on my wedding day and 2 prople at my wedding said, we thought you would have tried to loose the weight before your wedding day. People are cruel
THIS is why we need body positivity! It's not about "promoting obesity": It's about accepting the body you are currently in - whether you want to change it or not, it's about seeing your inner beauty nontheless and it's about knowing that the number on the scale does not define you as a person. You are a wonderful human being and you are worthy of love. No matter your height, or weight, or any other physical characteristics!
Heather Lee apart from the fact that most of it does glorify being overweight - no person is naturally that big , no person is that big without overeating or eating the wrong things unless they have a medical condition. Being this big causes such a large amount of strain and damage to internal organs especially the heart and what you e got to think of is , with the amount of fat on the outside how much fat is inside covering her organs and squeezing her arteries giving her a much higher chance of heart disease and heart attacks. Body positivity is supposed be about accepting different body shapes , heights etc - this right here isn’t a body shape it’s a massive blob of fat and she will regret getting this big , if she get old enough to regret it that is .
@@stopcomparingeverythingtob6378 She already regrets getting this big. She said she in a bad situation and was eating to comfort her. Shes not just a blob of fat. Shes a human being who has feelings. Its sad she wakes up everyday hating herself. People like you just makes it worse.
But end of the day, every bride wants to look their best for the special day. Those wedding dresses don’t usually fit obese women. Being healthy and loosing a few pounds is a way better option. It was obvious the bride here was not happy with her weight.
Yes yes yes. You’re right. If someone can’t change something in 5 minutes, what good will you do pointing it out especially in a mean way?? Obviously obese men and women know they’re obese... but when it comes to fashion and style everyone needs to feel confident and comfortable during their journey on weight loss or just to boost their confidence to hold their head up and begin to get healthy. Whatever they decide to do, body positivity is a necessity. You never know what someone is going through or how they got to that state.
Oh wow… I just want to give her a hug. No one should ever feel the way she feels about herself. There’s not a single worthless aspect of this woman. I can just tell she’s a sweet soul. I personally think that she’s absolutely beautiful with or without the weight.
Louise has a great personality. So glad she found a nice dress to wear. That neckline is so 1950's French Brigitte Bardot look. Very pretty! Hope Louise had a wonderful wedding!
This is me frock - that is awesome. However, I hope she's able to lose some weight for her health. When you get this big it's not about looks, it's about living a full life and being able to have kids if you like.
Empower my ass. It's ridiculous that some people could get so dumb that they encourage others to eath themselves to death. But it's of course much easier to be two-faced, virtue-signaling hypocrite and lie to others that everything is ok while being fit... than push them to face the inconvinient truth. Which could make their lives better.
It breaks my heart so much to see how horrible she feels about her looks. Her weight doesn’t take away from her value as a person or her inner beauty. You shouldn’t be focusing on your weight at your wedding, instead focus on the joy of devoting yourself to someone else and having them devote themselves to you too. I genuinely thought that she looked beautiful in the dresses she was put in, regardless of her weight. I really hope she becomes more confident in herself because everyone, no matter how big or small, deserves confidence and love. Louise, if you ever do see this, you are gorgeous and your weight doesn’t change that.
I love this shop so much. I love how they weren't shaming her or trying to cover in a bad way. I love how empowering they are, the dress was beautiful on her. She is also an amazing person.
I know , I can barely get a text back. I mean I'm happy for her but I wonder sometimes is it just sheer luck why some people find the one and others not. Looks have little to do with it i think sometimes...
Joel 93 because some people have higher standards when they choose partners and some married because it’s only choice they have .... no warranty it would be happy marriage or not.... but take you chance and see
That change in attitude and posture, the sparkles in her eyes. Even in the car you could tell she had worked realy hard on her confidence, standing tall and proud, and daring to try on a compleaty new dress with a diffrent look, and showing off what she before wanted to hide. This is strength and courage. Bravo!
I love the fact that everyone around her genuinely understood how difficult it was and how much she struggled. They genuinely supported her and saw the beauty she is. It made me smile so big to see her just happily twerling in the end of the video.
@Leonie Taylor Not sure what a 'hockney' accent is? Did you mean 'cockney'? Either way, she is deffo from the North East, Newcastle way, not the south.
she looks like an empress 💅🏻 altho I don’t really support plus sized people bocs being unhealthy is obviously bad I feel sympathetic at how insecure she is, someone must have hurt her so much she genuinely seems like a kind person and deserves to be confident in that dress
That is awful, that woman must have been so badly abused in her last marriage to feel so terribly about her body. I'm glad she's obviously healing and I'm hoping her spouse to be supports and encourages her as much and more as these consultants do.
I was crying from the first minute of this one because I know what it's like to look in the mirror and hate what you see. Louise is so honest and relateable, and her mum, Jo and Al are so supportive and loving. This video had such a wonderful ending, and I wish the absolute best for Louise and her lucky future spouse!
Me too! The fear of looking in the mirror and seeing all that you think is wrong with you is all too real. I can have all my friends or an entire room full of people tell me that I look fine but I still won't see it for myself in the mirror 💔
I love her because she isn't one of the people who is overweight and has that arrogant mindset of not caring. She actually wants to lose weight She is strong and deserves more Edit I admire people that try even if it doesn't work. I never intended to bodyshame anyone and I never even did. I know my comment is vague I'm not english so my vocabulary isn't the best and I didn't want to over explain. What I'm trying to tell is what Abhishikta Chakraborty said in the comments. I'm talking about arrogance not confidence. Everyone needs confidence.
You love her because she lacks confidence and high self-esteem? These two qualities equate arrogance to you? I cannot find the words to express how vile your thinking is.
@@siotorres209 Confidence can't hurt I'm talking about the arrogance about overweight people that are fat because they just like food. *Then* call it body shame when someone calls them unhealthy. The girl here could use some confidence, I respect her because she wants to lose weight if she can because it's unhealthy in some cases and I respect her for chasing her goals
Duckingotaku I understand lol you just hate people who are fat and not doing anything to change it. Like they say they love their body but they’re not healthy. Sure they need confidence but Being happy for being fat isn’t good. It’s good to try to lose weight and actually trying. I think that’s what you’re trying to say? Or close to it? But when I read that that’s what I thought what you meant.
Heart breaking how she spoke about herself. She is on a journey and that's amazing! Yes she is a big woman, but she looked beautiful in every dress and there is always an opportunity to improve. It was nice to see her confidence go up towards the end. Self hatred will never help you. Treat yourself kinder
I thought she was beautiful in the dresses, and I didn’t really focus on her weight I mean, the person she was marrying clearly didn’t care about her weight but actually cared about her personality and actually loved her for who she was! She’s beautiful!
I agree. It was a beautiful dress on her and shes very pretty.I'm just so glad there is this wonderful shop with amazing owners. Every woman should feel beautiful.
@Lauren Wolfe most of the time , it is true , being that fat is the consequence of overeating , low self esteem and laziness. It's bot rocket science unless you're too naive to recognize that.
@@classylassie85well she wasn't in a good place and used eating to cope and I did the same. Best you can do is encourage them, not make them feel bad about themselves. It really leaves people with a bad mindset and can leave some people to eating disorders. I'm not saying it's healthy but I'm saying tearing her down and calling her things isn't going to really help her lose that weight.
I get fat shamed often and the way these two ladies are working to rebuild her confidence is honestly the sweetest thing. I love these women and I wish there were more people like them on earth. Louise is gorgeous and I hope she knows that and feels special on her day.
Louise! I’m 33, skinny, and single!! You have had two men who want to marry you and I have had zero!! You have a husband and love and your mom with you!! That’s so much more than me!! You go girl! You are beautiful and have the things in life that are most important!!! You’re beautiful and lovely!! Congratulations on getting married love!! Xx
My thoughts indeed. If I found the right man, I wouldn't stress about the gown for a minute, someone obviously thinks she's very beautiful and wants to marry her
You ladies are amazing! As a size 24 on my wedding day, I was so anxious about finding a dress that made me feel beautiful. Luckily I found a shop with a woman just as lovely and kind as both of you. You are a blessing from God.
Just now watching this episode, and it’s so beautiful to see her have much more confidence in herself going back a second time to try on dresses. She chose such a gorgeous dress! The lovely ladies that helped her are truly wonderful women, my favorite episode so far ❤️
OMG, love Louise!!! That dress looks stunning on you! The last shot of you swaying was just wow. I hope you had a wonderful day and enjoyed every moment wearing your stunning dress!
I was thrilled when she said "the weight has been just dropping off." She IS a beautiful lady inside and out, and it is criminal what some miserable POS did to ruin her self confidence. I hope they will do a show later down the line to show that she's happier, and how her life has changed.
Her functioning eyeballs are responsible for revealing to her the extent to which she's ruined her body. Stop with the excuses and put in the damned work!
I feel her. The way she feels about her body, is how I feel about mine. It’s hard to love my body especially when trying on beautiful clothes and seeing that it doesn’t look good on me, is so disappointing and hurtful. It frustrates everyone in the end. Especially me.
sadkatt6 If anyone ever told you you don’t look good , tell them to stfu. If it’s that little annoying voice in your head, tell it to stfu. We only feel like this because we were taught to. You’re beautiful hun
If your as big as this women then u shouldn’t love your body.. u shouldn’t hate it either but instead not focus on your body but your health. U cannot be healthy and as big as this women at the same time, at least not if she doesn’t have a medical condition. I don’t judge either way cuz she may be trying to lose weight or have a medical condition but I’d be very scared for her if she didn’t want to change her body..
Is that you on your profile pic? If so, you are stunning! If you are having confidence problems you need to look deeper at yourself and realise you’re gorgeous.
@@mrcleeves7106 words can not express how angry your comment made me. The fact that you straight up told this beautiful woman that she *shouldnt* her body??? nobody. asked. so. fuck. off.
@@mrcleeves7106 She literally said in the video she knew she needed to lose the weight and that she planned to. The weird preoccupation people like you have with being "concerned about their health" is really just excuses to trash someone else's appearance. You're allowed to & SHOULD love the body you are currently in even if you want to change for the better. It's not healthy to promote this self hatred & it's why so many people develop eating disorders and body dysphoria
i love how they were realistic with her instead of lying, and making her realise her own faults in her perception instead of creating a false one :) it is a really great way to make people understand the situation! as it can help them want to change / realise what to do!!
She looked beautiful in all the dresses she put on. It's horrible how her self-confidence and self-esteem was so damaged by a bad relationship that she couldn't see that.
Exactly! That, and our bodies are the meant to be temples of the Most High. I mean, Jesus does not love you any less for excess weight, but if we have the ability, as difficult as it may be, and as much sacrifice it comes with, then to do it for the fact our bodies are not ours but the Lord's.
