The Cars--Benjamin Orr's Grave

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Visiting the final reating place of Benjamin Orzechowski who was the bassist and co-singer from the new wakve rock band the cars.
he sadly died of pancreatic canceron October 3rd 2000 in Atlanta at the age of 53
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@brendakrieger7000 Год назад

I remember when he passed away from pancreatic cancer💔 They played his solo song Stay the Night on the radio. I named my son Benjamin in his honor. I loved listening to him and The Cars with my parents. RIP🎸🎶

@veronicareeves2629 Год назад

👍

@brendakrieger7000 Год назад

@@veronicareeves2629 💜

@cherylnelson3554 Год назад

I love Stay the Night.

@brendakrieger7000 Год назад

@@cherylnelson3554 Oh so do I! I can't listen to it anymore without crying😭

@timothyroskie5742 Год назад

Amen that, what a great tribute to him.

@jayrum7303 4 месяца назад

The Cars have "a couple of songs on the radio". That is a gross understatement.

@saraheart2804 3 месяца назад

I about fell over when he said that. 😂

@nehsangbong7259 Год назад

RIP to Benjamin and Ocasek. Two of the leads of The Cars 🙏🏽

@joycebrackbill3577 Год назад

How did Ocesek die?

@nehsangbong7259 Год назад

@@joycebrackbill3577 heart failure or heart disease

@ebrena1876 Год назад

@@joycebrackbill3577 Ocasek died from natural causes. He suffered from both hypertensive heart and coronary artery disease. Died: September 15, 2019 (aged 75); New York ... Occupation(s): Musician; singer-songwriter; re... Genres: Rock; new wave; power pop

@joycebrackbill3577 Год назад

@@ebrena1876 Wow. Okay, thank you!

@pattii55 Год назад

Ben is not buried next to his parents as you mentioned, that is Ben’s older half-brother & wife in the adjacent graves. I visited last year on our way home a day after my husband’s band played for New Waterford OH Beer & Wine Festival. We left one of his guitar picks. Glad you showed that unique Sofa with Pillow & TV Remote gravestone, I thought it was great. A very quiet small cemetery in the middle of nowhere.

@debkski6084 8 месяцев назад

Lamont, Ben's buried next to his half-brother and wife. Those are NOT his parents. Thanks for stopping by Benjamin Orr's grave. He was a terrific bass player and lead singer...and very easy on the eyes! 😎 🎸

@aliyah888777 2 месяца назад

Extremely 🥰

@Jk-xs9tw Год назад

I live close to this cemetery and have visited his grave. It was touching to see all of the tributes left by his fans.

@emmabauer1906 Год назад

Yes. Love the little cars.

@jamesford9811 Год назад

I love the little cars people left

@michellebeadle176 10 месяцев назад

I am planning on coming out there next July. Leave something for both him and his family.

@night5091 Год назад

The Cars were amazing, very talented. They made it look so easy.

@Orange_Storm24 Год назад

A close friend of mine died of stage 4 pancreatic cancer that he never knew he had,it was just before xmas he said to me he didnt feel well at all so i asked him to call doctors by 4am ish the next morning he was in hospital and told he didnt have long to live,i got to see him once he died 4 months later. I miss chatting with him, that was really hard on me losing him that quick 😞

@kittensanddaisies5615 Год назад

I'm so sorry for your loss Sally. I lost my cousin to pancreatic cancer several years ago. It's a very agressive cancer and unfortunately is often stage 3 or stage 4 by the time it is diagnosed. My deepest condolences to you.

@Dollsteak69 Год назад

The Cars are one of the few bands from that Era that didn't go over the top with the drugs or indulgence. Class act!

@chrissyknowsitall5170 Год назад

I loved this band!! Thank you so much for going and visiting him. He was my favorite. 🕊🕊🕊

@Rutabaga64 Год назад

The 80s were my high school and college years, and I loved The Cars. Still do. Drive is by far my favorite song of theirs, and one of my fsvorite songs of all tiime. May Benjamin (and Ric Ocasek) RIP. ♥

@johnlampe3348 Год назад

I went to High school 1080-84, college 84-88, graduate school 88-89, the. Professional school 1989-93, Incan listen to The Cars 🚘 all the time, Timeless Band 🎸🎸

@cynthiashumock4186 Год назад

I cried when I found out that he died just literally pour my heart out he was so damn good looking I love all of his music I am a die hard fan of the cars rest in peace we are going to love and miss you

@elizabethkusce2718 Год назад

I loved him so much he sang so great, I was so sad that he died from cancer. They were one of my favourite bands next to Def Leppard.

@David-yw2lv 4 месяца назад

RIP Benjamin Orr and thank you for sensational music you produced.

@alexdeleon7135 Год назад

Thank you for this reckoning of Ben Orr. My favorite Cars song with his vocal is "Let's Go." I can listen to that song no matter how much time passes. He is deserving of this respectful tribute. Thank you very much for posting.

@monkeybusiness1999 Год назад

Yes. And "All Mixed Up" really shows his vocal range & perfection. Dramatic stuff.

@farmersteve661 Год назад

We were at a 3 day outdoor festival where he played solo and also with “Big People” … after his killer set he climbed down off the stage into the crowd and hung out and stayed with us there and watched the next bands who played . I had never seen anybody do that before . What a nice guy ! RIP Ben 🎸❤️😇

@AnnaluisaSocher 9 месяцев назад

He was such a sweetheart 🥰❤️

@soniavidal2881 8 месяцев назад

Beijamim Orr Pura poesia talento Elegância tudo de bom SAUDADES. Que Deus o abençoe onde estiver

@davidherringgo 2 месяца назад

Wow thanks for sharing that story.

@dean828 Год назад

I'm now 53... and a musician... grew up listening to The Cars... still enjoy their music even more than as a younger me... having seen Ben Orr's grave before in pictures and noticing the Christian cross on it, I do hope that he trusted Jesus of Nazareth as Savior and Messiah... he had God given talent and what a beautiful voice...

@joycebrackbill3577 Год назад

Yes, I pray so too! He definitely had a huge gift.

@timothyroskie5742 Год назад

Me to 51 though

@scottmiller8396 Год назад

Stay the night on the lace album was a great song . The band stayed with him after his last show till he died so sad

@peterbilt-bo1vy Год назад

Oh wow, truly kind of them. I'm glad for him that they were there for him. They must have been really good guys. R.I.P. Benjamin Orr. ♥️💔💕. 🎶🎸🎤🎶

@ladystrange7791 5 месяцев назад

That entire album is excellent. I listen several times a month, sometimes several a week. Can't even say that about my other absolute favorites - Foreigner 4 & Def Leppard Hysteria. Absolutely love The Cars albums - but his solo, just an amazing feel to it. Instantly pulls me out of a bad mood, so it's the first thing I go for now. Much as I'd really love to visit there someday, that's most likely never going to be a reality for my own health reasons. So I'm really glad people who do post these videos. I think it says a lot someone w/ that level of talent & fame has a stone/marker as ordinary as any most of us are probably used to seeing. I've heard Benjamin was a very humble person in life, this looks like he was in death as well.

@karenjadiesteinhards Год назад

Drive ,what a beautiful tune I was a young teenager when this came out . Great tune ! Thanks Lamont ☺️

@joycebrackbill3577 Год назад

Same here! 15 in 1978.

@marthafogelin1770 Год назад

My mother died of pancreatic cancer in 1975 at the age 54. It was diagnosed in 1974. She died one year later after being diagnosed. I understand how quickly it can take a life.

@lilchi721 Год назад

My grandmother died of the disease back in the early 90's she was in her early 60's.

@sandradalton1611 Год назад

So very sorry. Pancreatic cancer is so sneaky and deadly.

@glencoe6305 Год назад

So sorry

@RW4X4X3006 Год назад

It spreads into the liver without notice. And there's nothing medicine can do about it.

@ENOUGH_BEST_SONG Год назад

What are symptoms

@toybarons 8 месяцев назад

If ever there was a total package of what a rock musician should be, Benjamin Orr would be right up there. He had the look and the musical skill both in playing ability and vocals. He is still missed and yes, his music both with The Cars and his solo music will always live on. RIP.

@jetpetty1613 Год назад

Benjamin Orr - Benny eleven letters. Understated with immense talent

@jetpetty1613 Год назад

Beautiful graveyard

@marcostelles8507 Год назад

The Cars was very successful here in Brazil in the 80s

@pilarsires663 Год назад

I lost my Mum to Pancreatic cancer in 2016. Such a horrible quick moving disease. The Cars were one of my family's favorite bands. I had such a huge crush on Benjamin. My love and prayers for everyone who has lost a love one to, or is fighting pancreatic cancer. Be safe Lamont 😘.

@kittensanddaisies5615 Год назад

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have lost two family members to pancreatic cancer and a dear friend of mine lost her mom to pancreatic cancer. It truly is a horrible disease. I was so saddened to hear of Benjamin's passing in 2000. I miss him so much and listen to his beautiful voice every day.

@nickcef Год назад

I remember seeing them live back in 1984 at an outdoor venue in Harrisburg, PA. One of the best concerts I've ever experienced. RIP, Ben!

@conservativehippie9736 Год назад

I use to have their poster on my wall starting in 80, until I moved in 92. I loved Benjamin!!! ❤️‍🔥

@CMFL77 Год назад

There are not many guys in rock music with a better voice than Ben had. Hell, in any genre for that matter. He could gravel it up but when he wanted to just sing clean it was perfection. Multi-instrumentalist as well. Very sad that he went so young, the last interview he did with The Cars shows just how ravaged his body was - hardly recognizable :(

@greigallan5845 Год назад

The Cars wrote lots of great songs. Ben was stunningly handsome. Terribly sad he died so young.

@wendydebois1685 9 месяцев назад

Rest in Paradise Ben Orr❤You were a beautifull singer! Sing up in Heaven🌹🌈😂❤🎸🌞

@jon2849 9 месяцев назад

He died 23 years ago. He's not singing. Trust me. 😮😮

@carolcraig2580 Год назад

I thought he was so handsome. Love the Cars...

@KT-ln8em Год назад

Luv the cars

@robinshepard4571 11 месяцев назад

I ❤. Benjamin Orr 🌹🙏 RIP ⭐🕶️🎸 Beautiful MAN 💪🎸👊🇺🇸

@LousFool Год назад

Thanks for doing this one Lamont. Benjamin just had THAT voice. And he was so gorgeous. I was always amazed at his courage and strength to get on stage when he was so sick. Miss you Benjamin.

@GabriellahItaly Год назад

My favorite song by The Cars is "Drive". I loved listening to it while going on road trips. Benjamin's singing was perfect for that song. May he rest in peace.

@monkeybusiness1999 Год назад

Such a humble grave for such a talented & loved musician. It's almost a little sad. But at least he's with his parents. My first 8 track tape was their first album, "The Cars". So mind-blowing, I rushed out & bought, "Candy O". Still listen to both of these albums today & they're so good & unique that I never get bored listening. Easily Top 10 desert island survival stuff :)

@debkski6084 8 месяцев назад

He's buried next to his half-brother and wife, not parents.

@ponylovermadden4560 Год назад

Saw them in concert in the 80's. My fave song has always been Moving in Stereo/All Mixed Up. Rest in Peace Rick O'Casik also. If their is a Rock N Roll heaven they've got one HELL of a band.

@youaskedtarot 7 месяцев назад

Best singer of The Cars and would have been the best writer if Rick had ever let him write for the band.

@rsmith8434 2 месяца назад

He did say in an interview that lyrics were not his strong point.

@laurastrobel718 Год назад

Graveyard kareoke with Lamont! 🤩 The Cars were great. Cancer sucks 😔 Thanks for taking us here, hope your trailer gets fixed soon. RIP Benjamin 💓🌄💐🕊️🌈🎼🎵🎶

@staceeAB Год назад

The Cars are awesome! 🎶🎶

@MG-jp5ij Год назад

"Bye Bye Love" sung by Orr is one of my all time favorite songs.

@margopaton3240 Год назад

Benjamin Orr was very handsome! The Cars were around in my era. Great band.

@natechenry Год назад

I died when you started singing 😅 RIP to the cars artists

@m.d.m.c.150 Год назад

THE CARS ..ONE OF MY FAVORITE BANDS ..RIP ...MY CONDOLENCES TO HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY 👪🙏😢💔

@atiffany83 Год назад

He was awesome in The Cars, but I love his song Stay the Night. One of my favorite 80s hits ❤

@Sheilamarie2 Год назад

I love The Cars, Rest In Peace Benjamin... it's so kind all these later, how many still remember and visit his grave. So nice to see... Stay safe...

@kokolovitch56 10 месяцев назад

Only people who are music morons do not know The Cars. They are music legends.

@wesbaumguardner8829 2 месяца назад

I can't disagree with you.

@karenh4058 Год назад

The Cars were amazing and a huge part of the late 70s to mid 80s music scene. They had some very cool videos on MTV back then, including Drive, which Ben sang lead on. ❤

@marcstevens8576 Год назад

Oh My God. Back in the early eighties. I remember being in the old Oldsmobile, with the Schlitz cans scattered around the floor, the ashtray full off sniped out cigarettes & the half broken cases of cassette tapes on the dashboard. It was always Aerosmith's Greatest Hits, AC/DC's Highway To Hell, Slade's Smashes & of course, Candy-O. That Let's Go song really brings me back. Hats off to all of The Cars.

@TheNinjaPicker Год назад

I really liked the cars and grew up listening to their music. Orr had such a great voice

@ronboerste1813 Год назад

I don't mind you coming here and wasting all my time cuz when you're standing oh so near I kind of lose my mind yeah it's not the perfume that you wear it's not the ribbons in your hair and I don't mind you coming here wasting all my time I guess you're just what I needed!!!! Man their songs bring back so many good memories may he rock Rock in peace🤘😔👉🍻

@fatimaali8645 Год назад

To the man who died in Iraq thank u for ur service x

@tonybutler8811 Год назад

I remember the cars Lamont. Very sad that he passed, may Ben rest in peace 🙏. 👊👍🇬🇧🇺🇸

@calpolyca Год назад

Those aren't his parents buried next to him. It's his half-brother and half-brother's wife. His mom and dad were previously married to other people and each had children from those marriages. Those kids were roughly 20+ years older than Ben. His mom and dad are buried in a cemetery in Brooklyn, OH (Cleveland area).

@KevinKimmich44024 2 месяца назад

I live about 20 minutes away from Thompson. The fact that Benjamin Orr is buried there is not widely known in the area. I just happened to browse google maps in that area and saw the gravestone somebody posted. The Cars were huge in the 80s when I was in middle and high school. Thanks for posting the video. I'll drive over there sometime and see the place for myself.

@jeffkaufman9875 Год назад

About a twenty-five minute drive from my house: a quiet, peaceful, and very-fittingly humble resting place for a good man and a great musician from a great band!…

@maryannwheeler5403 Год назад

I love the cars. I always listen to their music when I was a teenager. So sad that benjamin orr passed away. He was an amazing guitarist

@nadiacampillo9374 10 месяцев назад

Bajista

@lisaperrin3298 Год назад

I loved their song Drive. That came into the UK charts in 1984. I didn't even know Ben had passed away 😢 RIP Ben xxxx

@sjs2j305 Год назад

The Cars are one of my favorite pop or soft rock groups. And I liked Stay the Night by Benjamin Orr. Thanks Lamont! ❤️ Condolences to the family. 🕊️

@pamelaquander8485 Год назад

Love to hear 🎶 Lamont. You are so soulful.

@suduhm8851 Год назад

Ben’s best vocal was on Moving In Stereo. My most favorite Cars song ever!!! Thank you, Lamont!

@KISSFanBD Год назад

The Cars were a great band. They still get a ton of air play on classic rock stations. It was sad when the band broke up. Ric and Ben had a falling out. Right before Benjamin died they buried the hatchet. There's an interview on youtube that the band did together that was filmed a few months before his death. A year before Ric died, they were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

@clayton6499 Год назад

One of my All time favorite bands right from the beginning album The Cars in 1978 Sad Ben & Ric are gone may they Rest In Peace ☮️

@monicahyland8641 Год назад

Thank you for your service ❤young man, Rest In Peace.

@1MsPaula Месяц назад

Gone way too soon. Love Benjamin, never will forget such an amazing talent. ❤

@VanessaSilva-ue5ll Год назад

I'm Benjamin Orr's fan... I miss him... Thanks for video, Lamont... Kisses from Brazil 🇧🇷

@Cutter-jx3xj Год назад

I graduated in 77 and I did vocals in a band called Cliques. Candy O, by the cars was one of my favorite albums to pull songs off of to sing. Coundnt ever get into bands like Devo.

@electrochubb Год назад

Ben was a great vocalist/bassist, I'm sure 'The Cars' music will play well over the years ahead. RIP Ben Orr.

@robertelliott5056 Год назад

I've watched a few videos now and you were in Ohio and I was wondering if you would do a video of Benjamin Orr, he was a multi talented musician and awesome singer, thanks Lamont. Rest in peace Ben you left us all way too soon.

@tossempossum4886 Год назад

Thanks for sharing Lamont. He was very talented. Ric Ocasek wrote a song for him after his passing called "Silver"..

@mdwayne741 Год назад

Great job with this video....I am a huge Benjamin Orr fan. His work with The Cars was great.....his solo album "The Lace" was great as well. "Stay The Night" was a big solo hit for him off of that album....the whole album is superb. It should have been more commercially successful than it was. I really encourage everyone to check out "The Lace." My favorite song off of it is "Skyline."- A masterpiece. Thanks, Lamont....I really appreciate your work.

@chadmears136 Год назад

Thank you for the video. I'm a Cars fan and Ben had a beautiful voice n soul. RIP Ben and Ric. Drive 🚗 was one of my favorite songs he sung.

@Bnat36 Год назад

This one is special to me and on my 50th birthday too! I'm a drummer and I used to jam The Cars with My Uncle and his lifelong friend. RIP to both of them as well. We used to play Bye Bye Love.

@janetwentz3259 Год назад

Happy Birthday 🎁🎈🎂

@Bnat36 Год назад

@@janetwentz3259 Thank you!

@conniedebruyn8045 Год назад

Such a legendary talent taken too soon by pancreatic cancer. You still live on in your music 🎼 and will continue to live on through eternity. RIP Benjamin.

@shawnamcdonald2463 Год назад

Love the cars very talented band with so many hits wish I had seen them live

@madbutler6022 Год назад

Raise your hand for a Cars reunion with Lamont on vocals! 😁

@digidrum2003 Год назад

From Fred Sanford??!!

@shinobiscience3299 Год назад

Thanks Ben for all the great tunes. You and Rick (The Cars) are one of the greats. R.I.P. to Rick also! 👍😎💥

@jenniferasher8807 Год назад

The Cars were one of my faves and “Drive” was my favorite song of theirs.

@nonnayoubuzinnes1669 10 месяцев назад

Really beautiful graveyard and the gentleman who was the veteran has a beautiful grave too.

@michelleleebento1888 Год назад

Awesome!!! He died so fast, so young poor guy

@angelalinderman9985 Год назад

I didn't even know he passed away. I love The Cars Ric is gone now also. RIP talented men. The music lives on 👍💔❤️

@Thedoug369 Год назад

Check out the album Candy O. In the top ten rock albums ever recorded in my humble opinion. RIP Ben, and Rick too, you guys killed it! 🙏

@JCStorm76 Год назад

Almost as good as the debut

@digidrum2003 Год назад

Loved that album...the album cover was sweet too!

@toddhastings3376 Год назад

My favorite album to do mushrooms to

@digidrum2003 Год назад

@@toddhastings3376 With headphones hooked up to your stereo...cranked up!!

@ronlee1949 Год назад

Thank you for showing this video. I’m a huge cars fan. I have everything they ever put out. And yes I am old. I’m 72 years old. Great video.

@cjonesufc Год назад

The Cars’ first album was one of my first favorite albums as a child when it was new. I’ve had it on vinyl, cassette, cd, and digital and I’ve had it with me pretty much at all times for over 40 years. It’s one of the few albums downloaded on this phone I’m typing on. Thank you for putting this up. Such a normal, peaceful resting place for someone so big in the world. RIP Benjamin

@ricardomoyanoparedes6030 Год назад

Extraordinary singer and guitarist... RIP

@lizzieberger1110 Год назад

Before you started singing, I knew which song! I loved them, they were brilliant and I believe hit number 1 in 🇬🇧 charts for a while. And Lamont, you're not old. I'm 60, so when you get to that age you're allowed to have "blonde moments, tropical moments and CRAFT moments (can't remember a f@#£&*g thing". Blessings from London UK xx

@vsanchez7158 Год назад

I was a fan of Benjamin Orr. Thanks for this.

@AussieAngel826 Год назад

I didn’t even know he died til recently may he RIP 🪦 💐

@Natty0975 Год назад

Awesome video Lamont ! I grew up with The Cars in the 80's. My favorites were "Drive", "You might think" and "Magic". The Cars were an awesome group. I lost my father on September 13th 2009 from pancreatic cancer. He was only 70 years old (would be 83 today). May God bless Benjamin Orr and may he rest in peace 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

@JCStorm76 Год назад

Obviously we all know about The Cars and how great they were but his only solo album The Lace is so good, really surprised it wasn’t a bigger success

@thomaswhitten2537 Год назад

The Cars are definitely my most favorite groups. A unique sound that really has yet to be matched.

@prp2 Год назад

Benjamin was a great performer, and his touching voice lent some great weight to tunes like "Drive You Home," a wonderful counterpoint to Ric.

@NathanThurberMusic Год назад

That's crazy. I was just listening to The Cars this morning and playing guitar along with Drive.. Love them! Also has no idea he died in Atlanta. I live just outside of Atlanta. More musician graves please!!

@carlcushmanhybels8159 Год назад

While Rik Ocasik got more attention, and wrote many of the Cars' songs, Benjamin Orr sang lead on most of the Cars' hits: including "Drive" and "Your Just What I Needed"... {The two Lamont sang bits of.} Benjamin had a very emotive, great and flexible voice. Plus, he played bass quite well. And while the Cars were associated with Boston, neither Rik nor Benjamin originally came from there.

@Frazzzld Год назад

I love the Cars! Thank you for honoring Benjamin Orr. I seen them in concert back in the day and they sounded great. One of my favorite bands.

@joanofarcxxi 11 месяцев назад

I never watched a video about graves, but this was actually really nice and interesting. You were kind to mention the gentleman who died in Iraq. Thank you for showing us, fans of The Cars, this special place where Ben is resting. He was so talented. RIP 💖💜💖

@traceymacneill9879 Год назад

Love The Cars and Benjamin Orr, RIP, gone too soon 💔

@dtfg-33 Год назад

He was soo beautiful!

@debers59 Год назад

I graduated high school when they were at their peak very good songs

@MsWDWFAN1 Год назад

Pancreatic cancer is the worst! My mother passed from this terrible disease nine months ago. It was devastating watching her deteriorate and there was nothing I could do to help her. She suffered so badly in the end. It was heartbreaking!

@kittensanddaisies5615 Год назад

I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you, losing a parent is so devastaing. I lost my mom in January and i miss her so very much, as well as my dad who passed 2 years ago. Pancreatic cancer is absolutely the worst and sadly, by the time it is diagnosed it is already stage 4. I have lost 2 family members to pancreatic cancer and a close friend of mine lost her mom to pancreatic cancer. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

@MsWDWFAN1 Год назад

@@kittensanddaisies5615 Thank you. She lived three and a half years. The only sign she showed before diagnosis was weight loss. She went in for gallbladder surgery and discovered the tumor. That was 2018. She moved in with me that year and I took care of her till she passed. My sister helped but the majority of her care was on me. She was still going strong until 2021. She stopped chemo that Summer and her health rapidly deteriorated. Her kidneys started to fail which caused fluid to build up she was bedridden and by December her pain levels were so bad no matter how much pain meds I gave her nothing would help. So she went to a hospice facility and and she was there one week till she passed. My sister and I never left her side. When one of us left the room the other was there. She was never alone. Lost her exactly one week before Christmas. 20 years prior I lost my Poppa to lung cancer the day before Thanksgiving & two days before my Mom's birthday. As you can imagine, November & December aren't my favorite months! My sincere condolences on your losses. 🙏😔💔 My heart goes out to you.

@kittensanddaisies5615 Год назад

@@MsWDWFAN1 thank you. I'm so sorry to hear that your mother suffered so much pain. I think it is wonderful that you took care of your mom after she was diagnosed. It's not easy being a full time caregiver but that's what we do for our loved ones. My sister and i took care of my mom after my dad passed. I understand how you feel about November and December. I feel the same way about January and February.