The Chemistry Equation: Make Her Attracted in 5 Minutes or Less 

These are things that come naturally when you are comfortable in your own skin and are not nervous or anxious. Just relax and let the conversation flow. Pretend you're talking to a friend instead of someone you are trying to impress.

If a guy simply doesn't care what a woman thinks of him and just speaks naturally, the right ones will be attracted to him

But to be honest, if there's no chemistry, it can also be that the girl is really cute but YOU didn't really feel it. Not every pretty girl creates a spark in you! It goes both ways

Just to say , genuinely , I used your theory and your past videos , got myself a date on ' Match ' , played it cool on the website , not mass messaging and had the ' confidence ' of thinking ' i'm attractive ' and the attitude of plenty of fish in the sea ( take me or leave me ) I also had a wonderful first date at the weekend , 1 hour turned into 7 hours ( we went to a concert that had tickets ) . I also just left a like , and let her come to me - she visited my profile - numerous times before liking me back this Friday , went out on the Saturday . I also just relaxed and told my rehearsed stories and diid the 3 cycles - set up for a dinner date at the weekend - top marks to you , sir THANK YOU Bobby !

This is one of the greatest insightful dating tips on internet

This was huge Bobby!! I would get stuck in the fun topic and found it so hard to transition even when looking back I needed to hit the offramp and transition onto another topic.

We all love Bobby ❤

I feel so sorry for everyone dating in 2020s. God bless the 70s and 80s.

This guy is a genius honestly made me an alpha. Most important thing I’ve learned from him is that women are lead by emotion!!!

Well done. Enjoyable learning.

This is a Master Class

Some of this is genius Bobby. Thank you for what you do to help us.

Thank you

Best video from BR I have seen in that it seems very actionable

Woohoo Bobby I have been on this self development journey but I can definitely see potential ❤❤❤ on working on this pillars for my self I don't feel like I need a woman in my life I got divorced 2 year ago turning the page over and starting fresh on the market 🎉🎉🎉🎉

😁 I have those "connected, extra element" conversations with my friend's girl friend. 😋

“You’re not going to say, I’m going to have to spank you to your female boss” Well, now hang on there Bobby… maybe you’ll get a raise if you do

Hey Barby, hows it hangin? great video!

The lighting makes it look like your hair is purple grayish which is kinda cool 😄

If it's this complicated now I just don't care. I believe the attraction is there or it's not. Every long term girlfriend I have had it just happened with no thought. I'm the same with all my dates. It's just a numbers game is what it appears to be.

Bobbys best...

the fact we have videos like this says alot of about where we are as men and as humans great video Bobby but man you thought this stuff would be more common sense.

Bobby your a great coach but I think if u guys upload examples of guys actually trying this in girls that would help alot sit back and get an idea 💡 and learn by watching the hole scenario in real life

Eating Ben and Jerry's at 2 am dam that's a fine example of an emotional experience.

I noticed that when I go to a event , party, gathering, whatever it is I always get the ladies interested in me from not talking to any women at all. For some reason the most bullish alpha male always seems to gravitate towards me and strikes conversation. These guys are usually the loudest and most masculine dude in the room bit they gravitate to me and just start asking me questions and comparing views on different matters to the point where I feel like Im just entertaining this dude just so he leaves everyone else alone. This is the point where we are laughing and sharing stories and opinions and Ill look around the room and every attractive woman in the place has eyes on me at one point or another. So when Its time to go home my Wife would always say “Man…..every woman in that place had their eyes on you tonight.” And she would laugh😊 What an angel. I miss her……..she died not two months ago from cancer and here I am watching videos on how to date women when Ive never had any problem getting their attention cause the other guys would do all the work for me……they just gravitated to me. It was always fun thinking about how easy it would have been to take one of those women home but I was married. One time I was at a Christmas party with my Wife for a friend of hers. They had a live cover band that was really really good. The lead singer was a female , a bit chunky but very attractive and had such a good voice. It just so happened that between sets she came back to the bar area to get in line behind me to get a drink so I let her go in front and said “Go ahead in front of me cause I know youre probably thirsty after all those incredible vocals.” She said “Aww thanks.” I told her her band was one if the best Ive ever heard and that her voice was just phenomenal. I was expecting her to say thank you and leaving it at that but she began asking me questions ljke do you know the host and have you knew them long then she looked at me with that look that any man would have to be oblivious not to pick up on and she said “Did you come here alone tonight?” I was totally taken back and pretty shocked because It wasn’t even my intention to flirt with her I was just being nice and wanted to compliment her. So yeah I told her Im here with my lovely Wife and the girl kinda looked embarrassed when I said that and I felt like I didn’t do anything wrong she just read me the wring way. Later my wife told me she saw that singer looking at me like a tiger ready to pounce so I told her what happened. She said “You gotta be careful just being nice to people cause you got it goin on man…..’mmmmm.” Then of course my Wife would attack me in bed cause it turned her on. Now i’m remembering all these stories wondering if I still got what it takes to make women flock to me. My Daughters seem to think Im still pretty dangerous and they keep warning me to beware of young gold diggers and spinsters showing up at my door with casseroles……lol. One of my Daughters is offended I would even think about dating again but my Wife insisted many times that I find another wonderful woman to love when she passes. That was a hard many conversations to have because I never had any desire but after she passed that loneliness set in and that stuff is no joke….I dont wish this on any man foreign or domestic. One of my Daughters told me I just need to get out there and bang as many chicks as possible just to get it out if my system but I told her I don’t move that fast and Im not into STD’s. Im just hoping I CAN find another wonderful Woman at my age that isn’t a freaking mess. Im 53 by the way…..still plenty of mojo left and Im in better shape now than when I was in my 30’s. I just need to give it a try and be myself. Its kind of scary because I still have a pit in my stomach and feel like a magnet that lost its other half when Im in public. Kinda feels like learning to walk all over again.

If it feels easy you got the right girl in front of you. If it feels difficult or awkward then you don’t. As a man your job is to be fun and entertaining. And eventually to rock her in the bedroom. Never express how you feel or help her with anything. It will land you in the friendzone. IF you get ahead of her or make the mistake of opening up then start dating again to keep yourself busy pursuing all the other great women out there - there’s plenty of women looking for a great man. Good luck

How do I do this with a girl from work?

Interesting that all of this comes naturally to me & always works to get with the girl but after 6+ months it’s tough to keep going naturally. Does that mean the relationship is dead? Lol I’m curious but it kinda sucks lmao

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It's more of a continuum than an equation.

Hey Bobby Rio. I hope you're doing great. You're so cute and you speak English beautifully. But I for one believe that masculinity role doesn't necessarily mean that the man should make the first move and experience rejection. I think it's about showing green light. Then either the man or the girl can safely make the first move.

Painting houses can also bring chemistry: Jimmy Hoffa: I heard that you paint houses. Frank Sheeran; I also do the carpeting. From: The Irishman.

Harvard could do a 1 year course on all this stuff

When they find out that I can't physically have sex ,there are no second dates

I practice all this stuff at the cash register as a Trader Joe's. I'll make the girls laugh so loud everyone will look at us 😂

I need help I'm in a bit of a situation. So we used to go to the same school until I moved schools but luckily I got her phone number on the last day. I'm usually the 1st one to text but I kind of say the same thing each time like "hows school going" And I know you shouldn't do the same thing over and over again because it makes you predictable but I have no idea what else to say. So what is a good conversation starter

what about if you are in a relationship that is getting boring for her.... what can be said or done to bring new and more excitement into the relationship?

I thought of a clever name for the triangle diagram. Since it gives you the capacity to get with a woman: "The Fux Capacitor". Doc Brown can sue me. Looks kind of like his invention.

If all else fails guys, just default to the questions Andy asked Beth in the 40 year old virgin: Beth: Can I help you? Andy: I don't know. Can you? Beth: Are you looking for something? Andy: Is there something I should be looking for? Beth: We have a lot of books. So, maybe it depends on what you like. Andy: What do you like? Beth: We have a great section of...do-it-yourself. Andy: Do you like to "do it yourself"? Beth: Sometimes. I mean...if the mood strikes. Andy: How is the mood striking you now? [they both laugh] Beth: What's your name? Andy: What's your name? Beth: I'm Beth. Andy: Andy. Beth: Andy. Don't tell on me, okay, Andy? Andy: I won't. Unless you want to be told on...Beth. LOL What a boring a$$ video this was! 007

It's difficult to create all the three fun, connection & intimacy if you ask me

If the woman and the man has some chemistry going on there, the man should get his test tube out! Great vid here.

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Bobby you are incredible Come here to Ireland I invite you to me - best greetings ❤

Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)

How drained empty each month?

Where can I learn about keeping long term relationship,sparks ,tensions, romance, and talk thats where I mess up onceI have a relationship 😅

Damn that's alot of effort can't believe women have it much easier on the dating world its ridiculous

Hey Bobby. I have question that screams for an answer. Why is it that it’s all about women not men? Why should we do our best to impress women but they should not do their best to impress us? Shouldn’t it go both ways?

If she's talking about her kid, the only transition to make is a transition to a different woman.

There's a small mistake in the title.

Thanks to you Bobby, girls cant stay off my ----

Too much hard work!! LOL"

Cant i just win the lotto?

Dude do you just randomly make this shit up in your room 😂

If u connect u connect. It's not something u can manufacture.

Write a book

I wish these videos would've been step-by- step instead of too much talking and rambling

How can you listen to this voice for more than 10 seconds without throwing up?

Sure if she makes it easy for u. But 99% don't make it easy. So let's be real !!!

It got to be really complicated if needed 10 different formulas, triangles, phytagoras, loop of that triangle, impress her and to make that happen, make your own greatest jokes every time unique ones to make her laugh, which would then be used as a bridge to be able to flirt in a way the btch doesnt get scared and so on... Maaan... this is fcking mayhem or some...

I have an idea you get a female and you can act it out

Does this work on an ex?

money=chemistry

With that voice….. phew, no way br

18:00 most creepy stuff to bring intimacy into. Its not natural at all

Painting the inside of a closet sounds a lil sus

Is this guy actually in a relationship??

Too complicated for short term relationships.

Best to not study chemistry but accounting. Because alimony is expensive.

The guy who built the wall is not good at this

Why does it take 25 minutes to tell us how to get her attracted in 5 minutes?

childhood story was boring lol

You gone spank her bobby ???😂😂😂😂

If there was something you could say to make 99% of girls feel "chemistry", wouldnt that make "chemistry" meaningless?

Boy, women are so simple, just like 50k years ago. I feel I am watching a training for a dog license. I wish I was gay. Probably the only way to have deep conversations in a relationship.

Its takes forever for him to spit out the info ..fluff video...

So, you think its a good idea to ask a woman how many vibrators she has ????? I'm not sure about that line??????????

Guys listen up, this guy is all about text book hypothesis, not real life. So don't subscribe to his channel unless he can prove real life and not text book hypothesis

And then you get with her then the misery starts.

Ugh. too damned complicated. I am staying single. My last girlfriend fell in love with me and cast her net on me. It was easy.

Chemisty ; the masculine/feminine roles.. ffs. This has been a major piece of what I've been missing.. like forever. Where was this in all of the fking pu crap I've looked at? Sigh. Better later than never but still..

Women don't feel butterflies if you are a ugly guy

Too complicated!! Snap out of it!! I’ll make it easy!! You like me? I like you!!!

Man u not saying anything worth nothing.

PLEASE... STOP saying "Right" after every other or few sentences! MAN! .. lol.. Is this the way you talk to / with women too? and if you do they have to get extremely annoyed at you and have to want to hit you in the mouth and leave /get away from you in just a few minutes! dang! lol

OH MY GOSH!! are you nervous or unsure? .. After all these years. STOP Saying RIGHT after so many sentences?? Why do you need anyone's validation or approval for what YOU the experienced teacher are TEACHING?.. consciously or unconsciously! dang, and "you know" and "like".. man, so annoying and tiring after all these years.

A Total waste of time watching this guy bableing on and on just go see a movie or do something to talk about afterwards and then the ice is broken. All this BS means nothing. You are never going to learn it just do it

Good hypothesis' but all this is text book dude. Get out of the books and talk real life

May be marriage in tr

It comes naturally if you are a man who has confidence in yourself not being afraid of rejection just being you who you are as a person knows how to start a conversation with a wonan of any subject in general gotta know how to get your game on if your shy and dont talk much she knows your a boring person and most woman dont like boring guys or man , me for example i been there done that when i get married have families i retired from it cause your family your kids is your number one priority and if the wife says your boring that her not changing herself to be a grown mature adult woman

Where's your advice on what to do when she's starting to pull away from you or how you get a woman back that you feel that you're losing where's the magical text message?

even when these 3 exist ..how u make move to kiss her lips?long story i know...haha

The chemistry 🧪 is either there or not if you go on a date and you are not fully attracted to her it’s not there