THE DARK SIDE OF KINDNESS: 8 SURPRISING WAYS EXCESSIVE GENEROSITY CAN HARM YOU | SCROLLS OF MEMORY 

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I need this vídeo i always offer advices to the people close to me and only receive shouts, criticism and complaint, this people abuse of my confidence even this people mistreat me. Please is posible for you sharing more información of this subject i are grateful. Sorry for my english 🙏.

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Thank u

I loved my grandkids too much. I spent all my income on supporting her lack of working for my 3 grandkids sake (2,6,9). She beat me up, called the police and had me thrown in jail for it. Now I’m in court. She texted me 2 days ago asking if I could help her with her car payment instead of buying fruit for my grandkids and shoes for the little one for her birthday. I didn’t respond. Took shoes to baby and dropped them off at daycare. No car payment from me. She is the only one who took advantage of me besides my last husband. For me it’s those who should love me most who take advantage.

@@deborahsherer1710 - They certainly loved you what you gave them, and not you. So, you should take the text to the court to give them a realistic picture of her

People who lose themselves in others can be jealous too.

People I know help others. So they kind. Yet their kindness turns to resentment, and the rest is history. I have witnessed good people complaining about what they do, yet still do it and never tell the person no. Yet they will be brushing the toilet with your toothbrush cause they can't express anger so they do vengeful shit behide ya back. I can't stand most good people anymore. The best way to fool anyone is pretending your helping them. I stand by a rule, domt trust people who need help or them that want help u

Unfortunately family members seem to be the worse and most certainly the ones who make us suffer more. We choose our friends but not family. Best to cut out those that hurt us. I fully understand you and you are not alone.

Very similar has happened to me this past cpl. Years yes I’ve really had enough of the one sided people now…after 60 years…I never thought I could ever walk away but I have…yes I still love them but just do not have the Energy bcs I’ve had to take care of many other loved ones…they didn’t even ever ask how I was or how things are going for me and my family …just yet again demanded my time and energy …Well I have Peace now. lol

I can relate to this the same thing happened to me always there for other people's wants and needs , but when it was me needing help they were not available time after time the same thing happened until I gave up on selfish people and started looking after myself yes it's been hard as I still miss them but I must stay strong because I don't want to feel so downhearted with their behaviour and Lack of sympathy for others 😢

I totally understand you. I'm 32 yrs old and was treated like a doormat my whole life by almost everyone except a few ... Even close family... Now I cut all connections with people mentally .. and this way I feel better... I think I will forever be a Loner @ heart...

@@remyaccc where do you live?

Make a lot of sense

A fool never learn. 😳

Well put. 😊😊😊😊

...or maybe you're a true Christian.

Give...and that's why the greedy end up with everything, they learned how to take, take, take from givers to get it all and own the lot.

Been a caregiver is the most necessary work, but the most taken advantage off ! Especially the male gender born in the late 1900 s, they feel it is Their right to order around and rarely are grateful instead don't see why you need a break from them!

Now it’s time for us to be a SELF caretaker ❤

Same

Same here but, I was advised early on about sympathy. It's nice to be able to help but, the rules I leaned to apply are: 1) Help them to their feet and walk with them a little while. 2) Do not carry them or do things they can do for themselves. Otherwise, you weaken yourself and stop them from becoming strong.

​@@inmamorales3633that's funny, I have found the opposite to be true. Males are much easier to get along with and they need a lot less "taking care of". Peace😊.

Yep

Agree and disagree

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Right on!!!

I feel sorry this happened to you. I too was raised in the 50s and raised the same way but not Catholic. I think one of my lessons is to exercise more discernment even though in my heart of hearts, I don't agree with it.

Same here. It was only well into my adulthood when I first read David Seabury's book on being selfish which saved my life. Now I only act out of self interest. I need to take care of myself first and foremost. Remember that metaphor of being on an airplane and helping someone with their oxygen mask? You need to put on your oxygen mask first.

Hi, my mother went to a catholic school and on her death bed the biggest fear she had was that she was going to hell after the nuns that treated her very badly and told her she was an evil little sinner and going to hell. She has faith in God yet at the age of 74 all those years later she still carried that burden. My mum passed away in 2013 and now exactly 10 years after the fact and my sister kicking me to the curb while at the time i was waiting for an operation on my spine which helped me not and i know have cervical spondylosis with bad nerve damage in my lower and upper spine my sister, after rejecting me for 10 years now gets in touch to tell me she has only months to live at most through cancer and i just can't cope with getting involved after 10 years of no contact she now expects me to simply forget that she treated me so cruel. Even to the point that at our sweet mothers funeral my older sister arranged for my ex wife of years to jump into the family hearse just as we were getting into the car which was more than disrespectful considering the fact that my ex wife and me do not speak at all. I have very bad health myself and this is just to much for me. So after telling her how i felt which she freaked out about i have told her i simply cannot involve myself again in any way. Although this only further breaks my already very well trodden on heart. And i make no claim to be totally correct but i am very honest to a fault about how i feel. I wish you all the best.

Stumbled across this video and your comments here. I attend Mass in a catholic catherdal every Sunday. And serve as an acolyte, Taught to love thy neighbour. The amount of people that I have come to know in the congregation that are condescending is unbelievable. You go to church for worship and to find peace, but no.. Sacristan think they are above everyone else. You think you can meet kind loving people there? They compare who has more wealth. Even when you know you've work hard for what you have, they have to one up you to make themselves feel better. Love thy neighbour? Lord tell me how? I feel more at peace when I'm far away from these negative people. Help others? Lord you help me first.

Sometimes we give to others because we want people to like us, it works great but it isn’t real. I myself consider all interactions as “transactional”. In other words there’s something in it for both sides. Otherwise it’s not sustainable. I don’t do business deals without a knowledge that it’s good for the other party. With all that being said, I believe as you reach a certain level of prosperity, you have no option but to give back to those who have fallen on hard times. We should be humble and realize how lucky we really are.

That is what we do ,I love animals much more than people .

Definitely. Always give someone a chance, but once.

So wrong! I have experienced SEVERAL people who put on their "nice" mask for many months before cracking and showing their true colours. Some are just so nasty that they cannot hide it, but some actually have a deliberate PLAN to entangle you then to rip you off. Be very wary of new people. Baby steps people.😢

All you have to do is be aware of the credit flags

That's what I done I walked away

I do empathise with your words and experience. You get to really know who your friends are when you are in need.

Don't change, you just need to find the people that is going to stay by your side when you are down, those are the true ones. Also you need to evaluate who should have your kindness, never give more than you should to a person you just met. In the end you don't need to change who you really are, you just have to change the way you approach life and the ones that start to take more than they should are to be set on boundaries

@@zanryoshin nah, fuck the parasites

Drop the mic!

Yes you are Right.

Beautiful❤

I believe in being kind and helpful to people. I don't expect anything back. When I need help, it seems to come out of nowhere. And I'm grateful.

Truth.

Sounds like an opportunity to learn how to better communicate your needs

Your last sentence would make a great quote. May I borrow ?

I stopped before Becoming a doormat.

The people that have helped me. Through my life i'm Grateful

I've had a lot of Downs and ups in my Life I started with down. From there It was Ups and downs I think mostly about the ups I enjoyed my life. It's been a wonderful journey. At 73 years old. And pray I end my life up.

well, then you must be aware of being too egoistic leads you to being a twat that shits on other people doing nothing for others. that in turn leads to being alone ˋcos nobody will do anything for you in return. you must be aware in life that not everyone you do something good to is able to give you something back, but the likelyhood of receiving something is much bigger if you help others. but as you like, you can go that path down of being most efficient with your feelings towards others. nothing for a community or living in social environment. a life worth living? rather not, i guess.

I've always given what I was able to give, and never expected anything in return. The key is being 'able'. If I don't have the time/ money/energy to help someone, then I am not 'able' to do so. If I do have those things, then I am 'able', and I can and will help. I expect nothing in return, other than respect. There are however many people who are always looking for others to give them everything they want, and to do everything they they want. I now avoid these people, wherever possible. I also pull back from those who ask directly and specifically for help. I dont immediately say yes or no, I may or may not help them, depending on whether I am actually 'able' or not, but I think about it first, and I always ensure that it does not, in any way, become habitual. I learned that lesson when I was a young mum, and regularly took all the children in my cul de sac to school and then collected them and brought them home afterwards. I didn't mind the walk, and it saved them having to do it. One afternoon, I broke my ankle falling down the stairs, and was obviously unable to collect them. I was also unable to collect my own children, so telephoned each family, whose children I was expected to collect, explaining the situation, and asking them, in turn, if they could possibly bring my children back to my house for me. I would arrange for someone to be there to take care of them. There were 7 families involved and not one would agree to bring my children home. 2 were actually angry that they would now have to collect their own children, one complained that I had ruined their plans, they had hoped I would babysit for them after school so that they could go shopping, 3 suddenly had other arrangements after school, so they would 'not be coming back', and the last one said she'd find someone else to bring her children home, but she couldn't do anything about collecting mine. My last telephone call was to the school. They arranged to keep them for an hour after school so that a teacher could bring them back after the staff meeting. I never did a school run for anyone ever again.

Totally 💯

At 61 years old, I am just coming to grips with that. Moving forward Self is where my Heart is. Loving self. ❤️

56, just done with folks.

We are the same age, and this is also very relevant to me too.

@@paulettescott9042you’re not alone.

Yes! Walk away from their ignorance because that is what they are. Anyone who favors a narcissist over a kind person is ignorant and there are a lot of them out there!!!

I get it. My mother is a taker and self-absorbed. It's so draining. i just have to set really firm boundaries with her.

Good you figured that out unbequest anything to them in your will if you have something that's what I am doing. I have learned this hard lesson from selfish family members one of the most selfish family member I have is a Jehovah witness, so I don't care to much for such people as they are always on the reviving side and forget that they need to practice what they preach.

Truely walk away that works for sure, I know….

I cut off all ties with my toxic siblings after both parents passed. It's been great...

When I was training as an acupuncturist, we had a swami as a patient. He had chronic diarrhea. It seemed obvious that he listened to so much of people's garbage that his body turned to chronic purge mode. Garbage in, garbage out. Don't do it. People can journal or find other ways of processing their garbage.

It's easier to say no than yes, it's less letters so therefore a shorter word. That's what my father used to say when I couldn't say no to people who wanted things.

So true. I imagine it as if they are vomiting all over me. 🤮Euw. No.

I am the rubbish bag for my daughter.I don't know what I should do.I don't want to lose her.

@@PeCo333make her find artistic creative ways to transmute the energy. make her take really nice photos and tell her to edit them to the color and vibe she feels. It might help her release some pain and odd feelings. Also tell her some things only she will have the answers to. She could be a little sad if you want to take mental breaks from her but she will get over it I’m sure you won’t lose her as you do seem caring but family doesn’t have to always see eye to eye good luck

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Truth!!

So why are good deeds punished? If it’s the right thing to do, why be punished for it?

Or is this the reason why we are seeing this in society today, where wrong is right and right is wrong…….. maybe a lot of people are trying to find their place in this world.

Maybe we are taking away there punishment.👽💀👻🎃🌞🔥💨so then u get punished.??

I just wish Karma happened with more force more quickly and I got a front row seat

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Well said and so true

Thank you for sharing. I am also in my 70’s and relate deeply. ❤

Thank you so much for that. I allowed others to drain my 2 separate inheritance and when it ran out my 2 husbands did not reciprocate leaving me penniless. I was valued only for what I could give and it's been a bitter pill.

Thanks for your advice😘 sending love vibes 🙏

I was always honest from my childhood because of believing in religion way of life but now i see it differently

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It took me a lifetime to get there

I’m in the process of learning this lesson now. Recharging my spirit in nature atm. Honing my intuition. Much love to all and a bit extra to the kind hearted among us. ❤

@@WaveformV1.0 Youll do it. Even in total darkness, be the only star in the dark and just luminate your purity. Dazzle the bad with your light by being assertive. Sending you and anyone else respect and love. Trust in God the almighty.

Julius Ceaser of the Roman Empire turned to his good friend while he was stabbed by his enemies. His last word was.... You too, Brutus. 😢

I so relate to you. I just came to this realization about myself. I give to help others even if I feel I am being used. But just not to disappoint or cause conflict. I give in. I also realized showing too much empathy, people will always take advantage of me because “I’ll understand.” Ive been beating myself up lately realizing how foolish I am. I matter too but back then, I didnt matter to myself and thats the worse we could do to ourselves. Put others before our needs and desires. But I also realized, those that used me and took advantage of my kindness. Over the years, they are not too well. Its a learning process and we’re getting through it. I wish you all the best ❤

You are not alone..... it happened to me .... now I don't even know who am l...... Am fighting it and I must win

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@@deidrataylor1360 this is me....... here.....

Never slander your name like this you couldn't act any different because you did not know I take and remix a quote from Jesus "Father forgive them for they know not what they do, and allow me to forgive myself for I know my good is good enough and I am for from a fool" you can only keep your head held hight pride intact and push forward and make those boundaries it's never too late... Peace be upon you and God be with you on this journey of life 🙏🏾

One phrase that helped me get sober, was the question "What would you do if you didn't drink?" The answer is not as important as asking yourself that question.

Yes, "the accuser projecting their own nature" says it in a nutshell. Their IS hope, Belle.

Agree

Totally agree ❤️. I read somewhere that to NOT look after yourself is a form of self-harm. I’ve now become what I considered before as selfish and I love it 😂👍. I’m very happy with my lot 🥂.

wished I had heard this earlier to, always wondered why I felt bad after giving

Belle, I’m listening to you. I’m almost 40 and I feel like you’re talking to me before I get old to cut that habit of helping ppl too much.

What does this mean?

​@@jeynjohnston8085Means they always want more

​@@jeynjohnston8085meaning they will take advantage of you and exploit and manipulate it. Life is a war. Be wary. Be wise

I'm amazed how many times a "good deed" actually brought harm and dismay to the receiver. It's almost as if they wanted me to say, "I trust you can handle this without my help," and when I didn't, they assumed I thought they were incompetent and behaved resentfully.

@@jeynjohnston8085 There are those who will only take, and then abandon you when you and your resource are exhausted.

Giving is more joyful than getting when you do not expect anything in return but for the greater good . Nevertheless discernment is necessary for the few advantage takers , selfish ones . Close them out !

For God sees the heart of a person, bless you 🙏🏻🌹

@@mariethompson7701 Thank you. I knew that but seeing someone else believe it is comforting. You know the giving isn’t hard but the negative results it sometimes causes are hurtful. God Bless you. Amen. ✝️🙏🏻💖🌹

@@marthaanderson2967 It has been said, 'It is more blessed to give than to receive.' If you find it hard not to always be a giver - remember that by accepting another's 'gift,' whether it be an actual object or help - you are bestowing a blessing on them.

I like that

Don't let her use you anymore. You deserve better

Absolutely understand. Had a van once and the same happened.

Spot on. I’d rather pay for outside services than get a free or discounted service from a relative or friend.

Very interesting, as I was thinking of getting a pickup truck but thought about this possibility. Then I thought about getting a stick shift - but then everyone would ask me to drive it instead of just borrowing it...

@@cnam1258 I wouldn’t let that deter you from getting a truck. I’ve always had them because I do carpentry. Just say no if you don’t want to do it or don’t want to lend it out. Home Depot has cheap rentals if people need trucks.

​@@cnam1258Tell them u don't know how to drive your stick shift 😅

Stop doing things for everyone. Put yourself first. It's like this: Suffering should be experienced by humans at some part of life.. it keeps us stronger and motivated to improve and be better. If you remove it from people, you're only teaching them to be lazy physically and mentally. Just my 2 cents.

It’s called divorce. You’ll be glad you dropped that trash on the curb

Don't expect the respect of people you give to much of your self to. Tighten you belt and dismisse them and treat your self before treating anyone else. They will expect you to buy their energy and leave you flat and broke .

anything anytime always.. advertise your kindness. Kindness is not to be owned. Simply stop owing it, of course use it, but try not to own. A humble cent from me too. You may find fault with me, for masquerading something in Yepic My intention was to catch attention and do kindness through Yoga English Personality Improvement Coach or Class. Even if anything is good, it may come good or not.❤

。@anythinganytimealways Train yourself to not do what you have been doing. TRAIN YOUSELF. She will not change by the way. Since you two are married, I don't know how you can be at peace since she will continue to gaslight you. Wish you luck. Take care. She would

@lodel323 You are so strong by giving that you will be killed literally by the receivers.

Kindness nowadays is a weakness unfortunately

You are absolutely right. If some one's in need be kind but remember kindness can become a habit and you have to remember to restrain your self if the person in need is in the habit of needing to take advantage of your kindness and such people have the least respect for you. They become leaches who think their presence in your life requires you to pay for their mere intitlement. Be careful of wolf's in sheep's clothing. God bless you my dear fellow human being !!!

@@Sally-ih6lsKindness is never a weakness. "The only defense against violent evil people are good people who are more skilled at violence." Just be more skilled in handling bad people, or just cut them from your life yet still be kind to those who deserve it.

Yes, kindness is a trait of being strong. But given to the wrong people and it will make you weak. I found out first hand.

5 STOP BEING KIND nothing good can come from it 6 having a good soul is NOT a strength that is valuable to you unless you hide it from everyone who isn't the same way and don't show them much or they'll change into the opposite way towards you like all those who don't have anything decent about them

So so enlightened, thankful for this video

Thank you!

Thanks for this summary 😊

❤ thank you. God bless you !

I became very ill. Nearly died. Kept giving after that as well. Someone nearly took my life. This pattern continued. Until i was ~ where i am today. Yesterday i was at the pawn shop. I saw an older man that stood next to his bicycle with something far too heavy to balance and carry. I realized he couldnt come that far, and i had s few moments to burn. I asked if i could give him a ride. He gratefully accepted. In the end, only like 1 mile away. He offered me 5 dollars. I said no thats fine, but he insisted...and truthfully....i needed that 5 dollars. Strangers are often the best way of interacting in short, acts of kindness. Not long standing contracts or money or love with people you are completely enmeshed with. Ive been hearing that repeated, not having expectations. I find that very hard. But as i let go of having them....i let go of people who have nothing to give me. (When its my turn in need.)

Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will feed him self for a lifetime.

Thank you so much! I needed to hear this! 🌌

Bingo !

Wooooow…this is me🥹

"Truth is here told,and people recognize themselves through it Since you are here not at all by coincidence Your soul is strong enough to "filter" your day by day routine Even when you do not know it Everything you do is like a boomerang a bad one or is good... Doing to others you doing it to you... Make a difference between those who are bagging for "fun"... And those who are asking or not because of need... You do not see it,the good you create You exalt a heart,you buy a bread ... Life is Just an energy...what you give Is what you get ..." Auffviedersein....

Yep, I have no enemy

I’m 60 next month and I’m finally realising the sad truth about people even some who I loved the most… so at least you haven’t wasted another 20 years. It’s not easy though is it…it hurts so much. Sending love and blessings for you. 💜🕊💜

DON'T WAIT GET RID OF THEM, SLOWLY MAKE AN EXIT, NOW DO IT DON'T ALLOW AN UNWORTHY PERSON TO ENJOY THE GOOD IN YOU. THEY ARE LEECHES AND PARASITIC ORGANISMS

​@@caroleyre9144IM SO SORRY PEOPLE ARE SO DARK AT TIMES IT CAN LITERALLY KILL YOU EVEN WHILE YOUR STILL BREATHING WELL LOVE GET RID OF THE LAST BIT OF NEGATIVITY ASK GOD TO SET YOU FREE SO YOU CAN PREPARE MAKE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE❤

It’s never too late to learn. Life is a journey. You never stop learning

I'm 43 to , smile😊 better late than never. Love and light to you ❤

It's true that as the pendulum swings Catholicism does not teach healthy balanced lifestyles. I. Suffered. In. My. Own. Family. Only. To. Be. Marginalized, then forgotten.

Just make it a rule that you don't give money.. Lots of people will pressure you with guilt but keep your money for when you have your own family and tell other people that the fact they are broke is not your fault.. They HAD money but they spent it on fun things or food they never shared with you so don't feel bad about it..

I never give more than I'm willing to lose. If I loan somebody Money and they don't pay it Back. They're Credit is Bad with me. I forget about them and just go on. I know the difference between giving something and learning something

I know the difference between Giving and no Loaning

Please forgive me. I don't know how to text. Please ignore the no in my Pretty lias comment.

To say no is a kindness, because by saying yes every time stops them from reaching their potential. Killing them softly. They no longer make the effort, so saying no is letting go. That is a true gift.

You're on the right track. Trust me. Much love

Putting yourself first can be a good thing , unless it becomes narcissistic . If one has a spouce or small children , well that's a responsibility that one should put their needs ahead of one's own . There's a meaning in life that's bigger than You , Me or Anyone ! Everyone on a different journey . One doesn't want to put themselves 1st too the point of loosing empathy or compassion for other humans . A person should want to make the world a better place & help other people better themselves . A person should also be brutally honest with themselves & not be 1 of those people who take advantage of kind people . I meet people everyday I could manipulate & use , because of their kindness . One must refrain from such things, because it's not the right thing to do ! Always keep your moral compass, good luck to you on your journey!

goodness isnt deleted by memory of god, the world may ignore you but god reward will remember everything and if we discourage kindness all of us will grow old without kind people around.

Don't be to sad , you helped someone out and that help will return to you some day , just find a balance between helping others and helping yourself which btw is not a selfish act

I agree. True. Will do the same! About da...n time

I have a friend, she's very kind to me! When I do everything, she asks, but when I say, I can't, she shows me, that she's upset, when I do what she wants she tells me I love you you're the best person, but if I say, I can't, she tells me good night, no I love you, because she didn't get what she wanted,, and this makes me feel like I'm being used, she tells me she loves my voice, because I love to sing, people tell me I have a beautiful voice, are used to sing to her till 1230 at night, my mouth is so dry, I kept telling her I'm tired, and she kept telling me or just one more song! Now I realize that when she don't get her way, she gets very angry., I feel bad, because I do not ask nothing from her,

@@user-os4xi3nc7l Big red flag

I swear I’m the same I don’t care about myself I’m way too generous easy way too kind

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THAT SOOO RARE

Nice husband!

You must take care of you first❤ stay strong

Thats terrible ! You should always keep being good Kama eventually will give you all benefits in your life!

We should continue being good just not let anyone harm you , its an balance we most make , but we should be good

Same here But not my husband . My family members

Yes, I’ve had relatives drop off also

@@joethrow889 I had a couple but guess what? They come back around only this time I’m more aware and mindful so I don’t fall back into old habits. It’s a process in figuring out how to deal with them.

Overstood. I helped out a 'dear friend's who was in dire need. After a little while she never appreciated my help. I set boundaries and she went off. She had the audacity to attempt to shame me for helping her while she was in dire need. Never doing that again.

@@desireedesenna9673 don’t ever let one person’s discontent stop you from helping another. You’re always Blessed and rewarded when you give of yourself however not always directly from the person you’ve helped.

Me too you must be a libra ♎️ very true words 🙏

I totally agree with the quality and veracity of your analysis... Kudos for writing an excellent post!!

Agreed! 🙌

Wise words, thank you 🌹

It's easier now that I have kids. If some adult who can work wants my money it's a nope from me. I won't let my kids go hungry to enable a grownup.

@@renskedj hear you on that! Good for you. It’s not just money tho in my experience. Some people will use you for anything and everything if you let them until there is nothing left and then move on to the next. Gotta weed those kind of people out and stay very clear. Saying no (politely yet firmly and not convalescing no matter how many times asked) is the most powerful self defence that kind people have. They should teach it in school.

I love your face

@@postwealth369 thank you 😊.

You're welcome beautiful.. where are you from?

MY WEAKNESS😢

You think your that special?

​@@katinabottenwe're all special.

@@katinabotten yep sure do and for you to think that your not. Is sad🥲

@@katinabotten also for you to come on hear and try and bring someone down. Shows a lot about what kinda person you are and how miserable you must be. Your self esteem needs some work done. There is no such thing as coincidence. The sooner you learn that the better off you will be. God has a plan for all of us. And just because mine is different than yours doesn’t give you the right to be rude. And your God damn right I’m that special. You have no idea. So keep your negative opinions to you miserable self and have a great day. ☮️❤️💡

@@moondancer5115 some are more special than others

My new goal too…no carrying people that will be dragging me behind

Agree 💯 These are exactly the life rules that I set for myself. 'Be True to yourself.'

That is amazing advice😊

@@user-xg4ue5cc2v Thank you.

personally responsible for the improvement my own character and value(c.v)❤.... super