LADIES.... we live in a FREE WORLD. Those people make money because of our problems, because of our doubts,,, because of our ignorance. I hate it when the guy says: "There are two categories of women, the one you take home and the one who can raise the children" What kinda BULLSHIT is this!!! Women who dont run away from their feelings are the one who can love unconditionally... and yes they can raise children, they can even raise you! Each human being is special. Each woman is UNIQUE. It is not about objects you can put in categories. I think they just want to make us women feel bad about ourselves ... cuz such a weird way of thinking and analysing and waiting and playing games... can never help anybody. LIFE CAN BE TOO SIMPLE. You want something, do it... dont wait. If the guy losts interest so it is all for you good... HE IS NOT THE ONE. It is not about a casting... It is not shopping!!! It is an intimate thing, something sacred, something beautiful... maybe the only beautiful thing left in the world ... So never feel sad about it, at this moment it was you choice. IT IS AN EQUAL WORLD. So why those crazy macacs always say it is the woman who has to wait... she is the one who doesnt have to be so easy...! No, it is about two people who do the same thing so it is unfair to judge only one part! and this thing god dam it is called LOVE. It is a bless so dont make people feel sick about it!! If it will get to a higher level... It is fate! GOOD LUCK LADIES.
O.k I'm a guy, let's just start with number one. I say "I'm not looking for a relationship but would be open to it" all the time. I like the lady to know that I'm not someone desperate who will take whatever comes along. It is also a sign that I "am" open to finding a long-term partner, so the advice in this video is far from accurate. Maybe it applies to a certain "type" of male, but certainly not all.
In regards to the texting thing. He has told me that he stays off his phone for the work day. Has a work phone so most likely won’t hear from him during the day and I think that is acceptable.
that's so weird you should say that, the whole "I'd be OPEN for a relationship" thing, cause that's the way I personally articulate it, and I DO mean it like that. maybe men mean it in a different way... but for me, the reason why I won't say "I'm LOOKING for a relationship" is because a) it has this uptight connotation in my mind, and b) it's really not true. I'm not "looking" for anything proactively, I literally am just OPEN for things. does it make sense? :P
Regarding texting etiquette when getting to know someone/dating, I appreciate directness if the man isn't interested. However, some men can not handle that directness and when you let them know that you are not interested, they begin to verbally berate and belittle you, start an argument, become disrespectful. So I'd rather 'fall back' and not respond to his texts and hope that he gets the hint.
Good material, good interviews. But in this interview, I feel they based women in only two categories and only two types of relationships. The girl he wants to pop out kids with, or the one he wants to go home with. There are plenty of great men and women who want a committed, loving relationship that doesn't include having children. Many are also choosing to be childless, coupled and happy. (Maybe their pets are their "children"). Or they've had children. I think the two categories are more like, a girl he can ONLY have fun with and the girl who can be his best friend, lover and life partner. A side note: just wish Marni would "dial it down a bit" instead of talking loud and fast and being Oh so bubbly and adolescent like. Sometimes I have to turn it off to get a "breather" from her over the top "ON" energy!
My bf told me this coz im asking how he feel about me he never say he love me aside from he really likes me, " Morning babe, hope your finally snoozing now :) I'm just going to work. I like u babe and happy with the ways things are moving for us. I'm not in a rush and I'm not going anywhere so I'm happy to just keep taking it day by day and week by week :) xx " is he really into our relationship? or he just not sure about his feelings for me?
I agree. When a man tells me upfront that he’s looking for a relationship, I’m no longer interested. It takes the mystery and anticipation out of the beginning stages of dating. Even though not knowing if meeting someone new will lead to a relationship and can end up in disappointment, it’s also what makes dating exciting.
Damn I get frustratad with this who seems to me fact. I have never liked beeing single and I am 25 woman...Why do I as a women need to wait so many years to be able to find a guy who want something serious in his life?? I feel so screwed up by guys already..Yey, they are going to make it worse for at least five years more :(
My guy good morning me for 5 months until I came on the scene and saw a young girl rubbing arms with him, we are in our 50's. I made the conclusion that he has too many options now one yr later hes upset with me because I didn't proceed with him and probably he's afraid of rejection as well. I've been by myself for 14 yrs and Its terrifying starting over again. Thank you for your video How to Tell if a Guy Is Interested it help me understand guys a little better and take a little of the fear away.
