The Degree, the Job, the Marriage and the Kids; Can We Have It All? I Sh Dr Haifaa Younis on OnePath 

Same mene aj dekhi h or ab full mind bn rha hy krny ka ALLAH help kry k me apny dil ko mar sako

@@malaikaijaz-jt3hd ,yes my dear ek baar shuru karke dekho,you will feel so much connected to Allahtaala.

Masha allah🎉🎉🎉❤

Allah guides whoever he wills

Alhamdulillah!Happy for you!May Allah be pleased with us, ameen

she is a practicing doctor too so I love that she is practicing what she preaches

yes but we need to realize a man's jihad is to get income, while woman's jihad taking care of children and husband then she keeps what income she gets, so dont forget your priorities,

"Paradise is under the feet of the mother" Your choice may not be valuable to people, but it has an extremely high value in the eyes of Allah sw. May Allah sw reward you inshallah.

My dear sister you have made the right choice as a wimpy that currently doing her master degree. I always look at young mothers who have their kids around them and they look healthy and happy. I won't lie I feel jealous and so lonely I return to an empty house and the silence is becoming deadly. I pray for my sisters to pray that my parents can understand that education is not everything and won't hinder my wish in getting married. Allahuma Ameen keep me in your duaas please 💙

May Allah sw grant you a spouse and children that give you joy and may He reward you for your education too...all our efforts are valued by Allah sw​@ghufranbakier9922

you must have been more beautiful, ugly women need to marry younger, still divorced and still ugly and still have a terrible job but alhamdulillah I don't have burden due to my family that helps me

You're right, we can't have it all at the same time. Add in the fact that Islam encourages Muslims to have as many children as possible, it's not feasible nor recommended to delay childbearing, especially when in the modern day so many struggle with infertility. I'm glad you found something that works for you, but really women should be prioritizing family and homemaking, this is coming from someone who had to choose education and career due to familial and societal pressure and wish more than anything that I could be a homemaker.

Young mothers also don't realise how fast their children will grow inshallah, and soon will not be as dependent on them. That is the time where it becomes easier for a woman to fulfil her goals, do further study, work etc. So don't think you are stuck carrying little ones forever, your circumstances change and you will have time for yourself in the future inshallah.

Yes but that's if we're reducing motherhood to simply physically taking care of babies til they're independent enough to do things on their own. Motherhood however involves raising and nurturing young souls with the knowledge of the Deen and of the world and that extends far beyond toddlerhood. This is also a rewarding task and not a burden or obstacle towards doing more "important" things, nor would I classify it as being stuck carrying them. The whole issue is that motherhood and homemaking has been so devalued that women no longer feel important or valued unless they get a job outside the house. But no one can put a price on happy, healthy kids, a clean, warm home and healthy home-cooked meals. In fact if more families prioritized those, the entire society would be both physically and spiritually healthier and better off. It's a shame so many of us are forced to work because of the dire economic state of the world.

​@@fatimahammoud9942alhamdulillah for this comment, currently going through this right now.

my love your only support is ALLAH SWT

may Allah help you in your path, may He make it easy for you, may he give you forbearance and patience through all your trials, may he make your heart firm and peaceful through it all🤲. As dr. Haifaa said in this video just focus on pleasing your Lord, everything else is secondary, if they judge you while you are doing something that pleases your Lord then know that you are in the right, no matter what everyone else might say

May Allah reward you sis ❤

It is your efforts and intentions that will be recorded. Allah (swt) knows you and as long as you continue to read the Quran and follow what is Sunnah, you will grow inshallah

I agree with this 100%. We are living in a world where to fulfil the rights of the child and parents a dual income is needed and anything can happen. Couples should keep in mind what to do if one spouse passes away or something happens.

Yes, anything can happen. We have to prepare, it’s a blessing to be able to prepare or try.

Very well explained.....

The objectified part is so true

Hhy7🎉

can I ask you something, what is sufism to you? do u believe in it? generally asking.

@@saffwa. Sufism as an ism not very lovable to me...But if you ask me about the pious Imams from Sayyed Hasan al Basri to Abu Hanifa,Awzai, Az Zuhuri, As Shafei, Ash Shaybani, Abu Yusuf,Abu Abdullah Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, Abdullah Ibnul Mubarak, Fuzail Ibn Ayaz, Maruf Karkhi, Abdul Quader Jilaani, Bishr Al Hafi, Sirr al Saqwati, Junayed Baghdadi Rahimahumullah...They were not only Imams of Tafseer, Fiqh or Hadeeth...They are full of spirituality...The beloved saints and worshippers of Allah...Also did the Jihaad accordingly...

Ameen🤲🏻

Ameen Ameen

She's my great leader