Don't let them get you with the okie doke fellas. End up out of the John Henry archetype and into John Henry 2.0. He does emotional labor instead of physical. Stay vigilant.
This is why I put myself and my needs first and I have a son , if I’m not good , he ain’t good so it all starts with me and I don’t even care what women think
My 1 thought: That woman only became invested once she had a stake in the game. Does she want this environment to do to her sons, that she's seen it done to other Black men?
2 THOUGHTS: 1) FINALLY, a Black woman with a Ph.D. who actually gets it! 2) A Black Intersectional Feminist can sugar coat her words and I might agree with her? WHAT KIND OF BLUE SIMP SHOE WEARING EDUCATED LAME AM I? My Black Manosphere training is NOT complete!
"Well, I have two sons, so I GUESS I better start speaking on this?🤷🏿♀️" She also said that, too. As I see BW starting to 'get it', I think about the people in the mini submarine with the Xbox controller that imploded a month ago. I bet when the walls were closing in, those people would have said or done ANYTHING to not be in that sub, yet, for them to be in the very submarine that was about to collapse around them they had to purposely ignore a ton of obvious issues. The most obvious is that it had an Xbox controller steering it. I see her and other BW as no different. It's only an issue because it's about to be an issue for HER. It's been an issue for BM since we got here. I'm so glad she reminded herself not to forget to advocate for her sons. Mother of the year, this one is...
Many have gotten it but chose to ignore it. Women are survivors by nature so they see the writing on the wall. Decent men are not playing the game anymore. Until the laws completely change, opt out, have your standards and principles and don't save em.
I have to say this.... There's no maybe anymore. The men are done!!✌🏾✌🏾 We've been beaten up mentally for too long and it's time to find happiness elsewhere. Not all of the black women will be left but the majority will have to understand that THIS is what they asked for. Now they can go try to find the men they say they want ✌🏾✌🏾
It will change. It's changing. Not because the scorpion decided to be less vicious or the frog has become more shrewd. It's that the water is rising onto the banks, and the scorpion cannot reach the frog in time to convince it to carry the scorpion on its back. Never forget, in the original tale, the frog died because it was STUNG, not because it couldn't SWIM. It was the scorpion who drowned. Take from that what you will.
Never forget, in Aesop's tale of the scorpion and the frog, the frog died because it was STUNG, not because it couldn't SWIM. It was the scorpion who drowned. And the water is rising onto banks faster than the scorpion can get to the frog and convince it to take the scorpion on its back. Take from that what you will.
I knew it was officially over when they celebrated the death of our brother, Kevin Samuels. They spoke about his passing with glee, as if it would relieve them of the responsibility of being women and as if the spell they imagined he'd placed us under would break. They thought so little of our intelligence as to believe that the brother MUST have been telling us what to think, and now that he was gone, we'd fall back in line because we couldn't think for ourselves.
@@jaybrick8973 Amen to that. I'd also add that he would often say it wasn't about him, it was about the message. He acknowledged that he didn't create a lot of the concepts that he presented, so the idea that they thought him passing would change anything, as if they could put Pandora back in the box, is laughable.
You do know that Kevin Samuels message was a combination of the works of other men through out the manosphere right. I say this as someone that agreed with some of his message. He was the biggest but not the first.
This sudden trend of women saying all the right things and using our talking points is as real as a stripper being interested in you. Its just not convincing me, its too convient, why now all of a sudden women coming out the cut and saying these things we've always said for decades? Seems to me they're finally seeing how hard times are getting and men not wanting to help them, now they call themselves giving a f*ck about what we talk about and the issues we face😒
The thing is... We know they're not sorry. They're just scared. Black men waking up was a none existed concept to them. Now that it's here and they can't shame us into staying in line. NOW they want to say how sorry they are 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ no thanks... I'm just going to head out and see what the world has to offer me. It literally can't be any worse than what I've experienced with the women I've grown up with
@@Grizzle-Grizzle I've seen a number of podcasts where black women have openly said "It might be time to start apologizing ladies,lol. The bills are getting crazy and we gotta get these men back on point" 😲 They definitely don't care... They just want to get you back in your simp role.
I saw this woman on tik tok advocating for Black men’s mental health. A few videos later I see her in a vid drinking from a coffee mug that said “baby daddy tears” and displayed it prominently lmao
They out hear having pickmesha vs leftoveresha wars. As if SYSBM & PPBs gaf. Gynogoons and fencer concuserfs busy pestering each other or cheerleading. Lines have been drawn and chips set
@Ogun59 sorry bro there 12 years too late and fifty bandz to short..... been over sep for simps ruled by the (pussy fairy) possibility of sex from women working their wiles on the good Guy's aka glutens for financial ' emotional and time abuse..fuck outta here Spanish chick's are moving more towards fucking with us if you half-ass got your shit together They'll hear you out they know what is going on with sisters I talk to them about it all the time and they talk about the ramped bisexuality practices of so many there men and a lot of them ain't feeling that shit facts fuck sisters there scrambling trying to figure out how to shape shift into agreeableness 150 bodies later negress please .....
I wouldn’t deal with any western woman when times are bad. They’ll just say you took advantage of them on the other side if there is one. Just like they did with the men before us. Nothing but a bunch of women beating oppressors. Kept them down when all they wanted to be was independent. Well, now’s your time to shine. This is what independence looks like. You figure it in both the good AND bad times. Personally, I don’t care much for people that thought they could do better when things were good. When things get good again, we’ll be right back to this mess.
These type of women always have a lot to say about BM and “dissect” BM. But we never hear them talk about The Daughters of the Trade, criticize hoe phase culture, 304 culture, WAP culture, assclap culture.
It’s always good to see Black women who get it, unfortunately tho women like her are far and few between. The saddest reality is tho BW like her is just one bad relationship with Black man away from being a Cynthia G type
I was dating a woman and she told me after we broke up that, she understood everything I was asking of her, but she just didn’t want to do it although it would’ve been better for the relationship. Fellas don’t fall for it. #SYSBM
The Lucy, Charlie Brown scenario is exactly what's on my mind. You said it perfectly. I rather go with the devil of the unknown, versus the devil of the known.
I truly feel like I’m only a wallet, and unimportant in my last relationship. I almost felt invisible. Only thing I got and not even consistently was sex. I just wanted to feel appreciated for the things I provided.
I left and didn’t turn back. The math is simple: There is no rule and no law that said that we are REQUIRED to take their pshit! Period. So I took my ball and left.
I may be in the minority, but I have no problem with the dynamic of men being measured by what they provide materially. All I ask for is cooperation, appreciation, respect, and sex.
Many Women from other cultures value and seek men that are Responsible,Kind,Hard working,Masculine,Confident,Trustworthy 📣...They value men who want Strong Traditional families.These women are proud to be Mother's and Wives and put Family 1st...✈✈✈🌎🙏
It's never too late, all 20million BM can't leave, many of us are stuck here lets not pretend(dont lie to ourselves). As long as 2 breeding brown people, male and female who can grow kinky hair still live. We all live...
It's WAY too late. The bee dub is about a decade too late (after 50 years of abuse). The disgusting part is that they think that they can turn on a dime and say, "our bad... let's go back to the 70's... hee, hee, hee". Please don't misconstrue my words...I'm not angry....I'm just done!!! Just lije most other b dudes (there will always be S.I.M.P.s. They can have ALL the bee dubs that they can handle - and everything she brings with her. Let the S.I.M.P. deal with her b.s.)
The environment dictates a lot & this cant be reversed, ive observe random regular dudes having these deep black manosphere discussions that have clue about this space escape velocity anoyone 📌.
The Manosphere has been a consistent advocate of attaching a Black man's value to socioeconomics (jobs, income, education, status, etc) and now yall want to take credit for people realizing that crap was wrong?!?!? Either you brothers need to all get on the same page or stop using blanket labels like "Black Manosphere" because I've been in heated arguments on Black Manosphere channels for saying what this woman said. Also i agree with the brothers in the comments that are saying that this woman is only saying this because she has sons. If she is an intersectionalist feminist then she is the problem no matter what she says.
Reminds me of that cartoon, "It's Your First Kiss, Charlie Brown." You can't find it on DVD anymore because it's been banned on network television from the hate mail it received. Charlie Brown didn't trust Lucy to hold the ball, and Lucy straight up lied to him, talking, "I'm not gonna yank the ball in an actual game." Yet she did yank the ball...and then Lucy, and all the girls on the team had the nerve to blame Charlie Brown for losing the game. I wished Charlie Brown would've went HAM on those heffas and played the instant replay tape and straight busted them for lying. It's funny, yet ironic that it was ONLY the girls (and not the guys) who blamed Charlie Brown for losing the game...knowing Lucy was the one who really lost the game, yet somehow the girls on the team, got together with Lucy and form Voltron, and justify Lucy's lie...and Charlie is supposed to put up with Lucy's bull💩, and be cool it and just take it. Nope. Not anymore. C.Brown has left the building and he's not coming back.
