I had a friend who was on his sixth marriage. Recently. We went out drinking and he started moaning about women. I just looked at him and said: "the only thing that has stayed exactly the same through all of your marriages is you". He hasn't spoken to me since then. Take responsibility for your actions and behaviors, people.
Exactly! If you keep having the same problems 80% of the time it's yourself and nobody else. 😮. Seems like he lost some good women and definitely lost a great friend, because only good friends like that will tell you the truth no matter what because they want the best for you
Authorities: She was a brilliant manipulator. Reality: She was incredibly sloppy and left mountains of evidence constantly, but the only thing more consistent than her taking no effort to hide her tracks was the mishandling of every incident.
100%! There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
I've had to deal with someone similar and this doesn't surprise me at all... not only that but I'm sure at the time she had a lot of people close to him convinced of this also
Ex military is the real red flag. They all learn convincing presentations with duplicitous foundations. The ability to strategize and kill is also bestowed on them.
She’s a women women are good at lying and deceiving often times when see doc s and women sadly be victim women be in comments screaming feminism how men are bad In Cases when it the women doing the gruesome actions it’s never said how women are to evil it’s a women world
Wait... so sis set a house on fire, her children are popping up with bruises, people are dying randomly around her and no one did anything? This is wild!
I hate to say this but it's because she's a cute white girl who served in the army. So the police immediately assumed she was sweet and innocent. She fooled those dumbass cops for so long.
@@JellyBeansMystreyMachinetrue because they can’t BELIEVE THAT A CUTE WHITE DONT LOOK LIKE A KILLER it pathetic you not have to look like a devil to be a killer look at Shelia la Barrera Gentre
Well.. All the policing cannot/will not solve human related issues.. Sarah is a person who ought to teach us more about manipulation till the next better manipulator shows up...
The failure of law enforcement to investigate and charge her early on is what allowed her to be brazen. She felt invincible. How evil do you have to be to be willing to burn your brother and his whole family.
She tried to kill her ex husbands wife, and the FBI knew about it and did nothing. I think it's because she was an intelligence analyst and had connections
@@qwertyuiop-ke7fs100%! There is absolutely no other explanation. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
The fact that she actually was ALLOWED to keep on destroying lives shows how corrupt or indifferent or both, ALL relevant authorities are. May the murdered ones rest in peace.
favouritism and leniency towards women. In similar crimes and situations women are generally sentenced to 60% shorter jail terms OR let off with probation.
@@muskokamike127 Be honest she had "White women sympathy" 🙄 I'm sorry but there was a similar situation with a black woman and they caught her while engaged to working her way to hubby #3 and she actually got the death penalty until it was overturned in her state 😂
How was she able to get away with so much evil acts??? I assume her children were grateful that she lost custody but she should come with a warning sign!! Pure evil!!
Just her facebook post alone would have me pointing fingers at her immediately. "He didn't manage it" next one "Years of eating unhealthy, now his family pays the price". No grieving wife would ever say such things.
They aren't trained to recognize or treat people with narcissistic personality disorder / borderline personality disorder, etc.. I dated a woman like Sarah and went to jail because the stupid cops ALWAYS sided with her. Even when she went at me with a kitchen knife, slashing at me and slicing my shirt, the responding officers pointed their guns at ME and yelled at ME. It was insanity. Women like this, and the protection our law enforcement and society affords them, puts a lot of people in danger.
They found a strangled child and the most plausible explanation to them was that he must have fallen down the stairs while the leash caught on to the railing. Done, case closed. Massive yikes.
I mean law enforcement have made conclusions before that people tied themselves up and hung themselves on the balcony or tied themselves up and drowned themselves so... Massive yikes, yes.
All that, combined with a mother who had "no emotional reaction," is 100% a case of child murder. But they'll say, "everyone deals with grief differently. 😙"
Can’t understand how so many different cops dropped the ball. Even the fire chief who saw she had poison ivy!? wtf! Do background checks on your significant other for the love of god y’all
So sad how these men in abusive relationships dont even realize it and are too embarrassed to ask for help. This man was afraid he was going to die at the hands of his wife. Society needs to do better and realize that women are capable of being physically/mentally abusive and men need more support
Her 3rd husband is as guilty of abuse by keeping his mouth shut and not protecting his kids, "What happens in the housem stays in the house." That's b.s.😠
I grew up with an abusive stepfather, and he always said “what happens between these four walls, stays in these four walls.” You can imagine nothing good happened in that house. The manipulation is real.
He was brainwashed by her too, but when it came to the abuse of the children and then sending to murder someone and it not happening cause the husband answered the door??? He should be in prison too!!
To be honest he had problems with her as well. The news station did a brilliant break down on this case and all her living ex's, their family, her family and kids. Told the whole story about her. Her mom stopped speaking to her once she lost custody of the kids because she knew they were safe 🙏🏾 but the mom said she had of way of manipulating her words and didn't wonder how she didn't get caught sooner 😅
Doesn’t say anything good when your own children hate you. Every single person around her was just someone to use. And every one of them was used up and disposed off. She drove her own children away. The people who came into her orbit that survived to tell the tale are lucky as hell
She was used, abused, and dumped off too. Not defending her, people typically just repeat cycles. But it’s definitely your job to see those patterns, work through them and not repeat them to hurt loved ones. I hope she rots in jail!
Your channel I think is one of my all time favorites. I can tell you put more effort into your episodes than most, which tells me you like making premium content, not just content to make money, but because you love what you do. That speaks volumes. I watched another channel earlier today and it was just thrown together. Title wasn't even accurate. They probably didn't even check their work, just uploaded it for views. Your research and dedications shows, and for that you are one of the best on RU-vid!!
Ummm… ok. Let me just say this as a Public Service Announcement. If someone is on their FIFTH marriage that’s a sign that something is seriously wrong with them. 4 previous spouses can’t all be unjustified in divorcing them so RUN 😅
Thats not true @ all your opinion is crazy 😂 lol now this lady is completely fucking crazy but my grandfather was married 4 times . He was only guilty of loving women nothing else 🎉
I'm always suspicious of people who say they don't like drama or won't tolerate drama. It's been my experience the ones that say thar are the ones creating it.
It’s always good to try and verify. My boyfriend’s ex was found w a need!e in her arm, she had been stealing money, god only knows what else. Thankfully my bf and I have been friends for over a decade when we started dating, and got tested many times after she was escorted out of his house by the police when he found her passed out high, obvs bc hiv and hep is scary. And a year or so later we started dating, he told me all the crazy stories about her. And I already knew it was true bc we share a large friend group. His baby momma, well I’ve gotten to see first hand how accurate he is about her trifling money grubbin a$$. Anyone who has a child, pays no bills and lives an extravagant life thru her husband, yet needs to be paid more and more money just to watch her child any portion of the month (yet won’t buy the child clothes of his own, he wears his much younger brothers clothing when with his mother) or give him his own room in their huge house and he sleeps on a couch for years, is a truly awful person. So sometimes it’s true what they say. But it’s always good to be speculative. And verify. I’m not above talking to the ex myself to get their side 😂 I am not taking chances with my time. Life is too short to waste on a lying ahole!!
exactly what in the actual F**K?? especially knowing who that woman was the whole time and thats the last memory you have of them.. disgusting and repulsive. that should be illegal
Can I just say it’s probably not as bad as it looks? An organ donor is shown incredible respect for their final gift. When I worked at a hospital, we gathered to line the hallway to give our respects in their final journey.
I love the voice of this presenter... .such a lovely tone and without being overly dramatic and unnatural in his commentary....unlike the documentaries on the likes of 48 hours for instance where the reporters over dramatise the whole thing.....I have really become sick of them...
Exactly. And I don't know if you know much about being in the military, but as a veteran, I can 100% confirm that military members, especially enlisted, are ABSOLUTELY held to higher standards across the board, as compared to civilians. I don't see why law enforcement and politicians shouldn't be held at least to the standards of military members.@@ashleyobrien4937
AGREE! I recently saw cop videos where 2 guys were paralyzed from excessive force and one died. The other is living a rough life. So sick of LEO not being held accountable or doing their job to investigate!
@@ashleyobrien4937 Same as celebs. I just found out today that the principal from Ferris Bueller was arrested 4x for felony charges regarding SA on a minor. Community service all times.
Beating a child so bad he's out of school for a week and NOTHING was done about her? She did so many horrible things and got away with it. I hope she rots in prison. What an evil person.
I grew up in the 80's in a relatively small town, so times were very different. There are many hundreds of times growing up no one helped me, but one example was when I was 10, My mother in one of her "DID states" beat me so bad I missed almost a week of school. When the police finally showed up because the school became concerned, they looked at me, saw my black eyes and busted nose, and asked her what happened. She told them I swung at her and she KO'd me to teach me a lesson; just popped me right in the nose. She also claimed to have kept me home so no one would talk, as it was a private matter between her and I and she was protecting me from embarrassment. The cops told me I hope I learned to never put hands on my mom again, thanked my mom for her time, apologized for intruding, and left. They told the school they handled it and I would be back the following week. Nothing being done happened quite a bit to a great many people, I am sure....
My ex wife is an ICU nurse at a large children’s hospital. She told me that Munchausen by proxy cases have gone up exponentially as a result of social media. It is crime that is incredibly difficult to prove without a confession. Sadly, even when these mothers are found guilty and convicted, they almost always receive ridiculously light sentences for the horrible crimes they committed against their own children. I agree with you; she is pure evil and definitely seems to be completely void of compassion, empathy, or remorse.
@@Mordranethshe must’ve felt really powerful when she got away with that. How was your relationship after that and how is it now, if you don’t mind me asking
@@MordranethI’m so sorry that happened tonight you! Wtf!! How could any mom do that to their child. Hard times or not, there’s no need for that! I’m sorry 😢
What infuriates me about stories like this is that so many people let her get away with it. If someone would have stood up to her in any meaningful way, a ton of this could have been avoided.
It infuriates me how she got away with so much. And my blood boils when I hear about the things children are made to experience. I wish the Universe gave children only to those with good hearts and deprive evil ones.
I listen to a lot of true crime and haven't came across this case before so it was nice to see a new to story. With that being said this lady has to be one of the worse people I have come across, my mouth dropped more than once as I listened. Great work as always
I had a supervisor who was on husband #3, she always tried to give me relationship advice and I would tell her ma’am you can’t even stay married long enough to give advice
@le_parsdon I'm torn about that. I think she is intelligent however all the incompetence makes her appear that she is simply because she got away with it for so long. I think it was definitely more incompetence than any intelligence on her part, it wasn't hard to see what was going on so they really shouldn't have missed it for so long. Her life must have been a tangled nightmare!
I've seen and heard enough about crazy people but it beats my mind every time how evil people can be. This is really beyond evil and batshit crazy. Humans are the scariest of all creatures
@@sdraulitolito44 a polar bear don’t deceive u, u know exactly what the polar bear want so u are able to take precautions to avoid it, u can’t avoid manipulative lying, deceitful people who hide their intentions
This is a first for me. I saw her picture in the thumbnail, and she looked sooooo familiar. I grew up and lived around Fort Hood, and I've actually met her! In those brief instances, she was friendly and nice, but I absolutely believe she's a psychopathic murderer. People in the military tend to have multiple marriages and crazy exes, but she definitely takes the cake! WOW 😳 It's just insane that I've actually met this lady!!!
Yes relationships do not last for service members. My GF left me while she was pregnant when I deployed to Afghanistan in 2008. Blamed me for not being there lol. Some people do not even deserve love.
My 1000 comment! I have to catch up with all the videos I didn't saw (took a break from True crime) but I'm on it because this one of my fave channel with my fave voice narrator and fave legendary closing line.. stay safe and keep your eyes peeled you never know what's lurking... in the shadows!
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
Okay, I have just started watching but it took 5 husbands before something seemed off. Oh my gosh ! 2 fires, bruised and battered children, dead father and numerous restraining orders! How the hell !!! Unbelievable!!!
What an insane monster!! Glad she was finally charged and hope more charges will be forthcoming & that the victims and their families will get justice. Anyhow, thanks for the upload!
So shocked how many states she moved too with so many dumb cops falling for her victim trap. She must of used Yelp to find which state to go too. Also just Subscribed!!! Great vid.
I do not comment much, if at all but this was so totally mind boggling how she got away with so much and so long! You would think her "hoo hah" was lined in gold or something (sorry, just an old saying my granny would say). I'm so glad her gig is finally up and she was caught! I hope they are able to prove her guilty on Everything she's ever done. I pray it all comes to the light, it's been in the dark wayyy too long! My heart goes out to her children, her victims, the victim's families. I think I'm still in shock , like you really can't make this crap up! Thank you to the channel for the upload, this was one hella video, well done guys! Much Love from NC
The damage that humans can cause to others when their childhood is filled with abuse is so sad. Much love to all the people who experienced it yet broke the mould.
Yeah, just one simple database like every other country will help xD. USA tends to act like they are the best but just some of you policies are so brainless. No free healthcare and justice system is a clown show.
As a person with hypoglycemia, I can tell you that having low glucose levels is dangerous. There’s 3 different types of glucose “illnesses,” which are: diabetes, hyperglycemia, and hypoglycemia. Of course, diabetes is when the body doesn’t produce enough of the body’s natural insulin to control glucose levels. Hyperglycemia is when the glucose levels can go either too high (diabetes), or too low (hypoglycemic). Hypoglycemia is when the body produces too much insulin and not enough glucose. This was the way that it was described to me back in 1993, because I had passed out while going to work. I was halfway in a train, and halfway out of the train. I wasn’t aware of what was going on, of course. By the time that I had woken up, it was 8 hours later. I was completely confused that I was in the hospital, and I was hooked up to a heart monitor, and 2 IVs. The doctor informed me that my glucose level dropped down to a 38. I could’ve died, and I almost had. I know, now, the warning signs that my glucose levels are dropping, and I take care of it before it gets too bad. I educated my husband to watch out for the signs that my glucose levels are dropping. My heart goes out to the victims of this demonic creature! May they all rest peacefully in their eternal slumbers!
My mom is hypoglycemic. She tends to carry snacks with her to eat between meals if she feels her sugar is dropping. If she doesn't, she'll begin shaking from low sugar levels like it's a seizure. The worst part is that doctors refused to believe her hypoglycemia was real for years and years, until she had an episode in the doctor's office. Unreal.
First red flag is that she spent 20 years in the military. Most people have no idea how sick military culture is. Only the demoralized or extremely moral survive. The former seems to be more common!
This is what it looks like when society is gassed for generations to see women as a graceful underclass held down by men, who shouldn't reasonably be expected to live to the same standards and expectations, while men are assumed to be the problem, and literally all systems are tilted away from applying reason and accountability equally to women.
I love that sentence" What happens in the house stays at the house." I grew up tyranised by an authoritarianism in our home. The day my parents divorced was the day I finally could breathe... Couldn't have been happier. I never used that phrase and it's not always Im too happy about that, but it does put the responsibility back in your court to acknowledge the wrongs you did. And I honestly can think of anything better than holding a mirror up to your own bad behaviour.
@@HeatherHolt My mother has thrown me out of the house because she was mad at me for something, can't even remember what, and I finally, after seating on stairs for 10 minutes mustered up enough courage to express my anger (all this happened not long ago, I'm a grown woman) and I banged on a door for her to let me back in. We live in a block. She ushered me in with a hushed voice and told me I'm "humiliating her" and then hasn't talked to me for a week. Abusers are just something else man.
I find it strange that she said her deceased husband ate too much junk food and now "everyone who loved him was going to pay the price". She also said she lost her husband, "that I LOVED dearly". I find it strange that she put LOVED in past tense. My husband has been dead for almost 16 years and I don't say "I loved him" because I LOVE him. His death did not stop my love for him. But then, unlike Sarah, I didn't marry a half a dozen men and I wasn't responsible for my husband's death. I think Sarah is so incapable of love that she didn't find anything bizarre about what she said. The way she played with people and used people was horrendous even if she had never taken it to the final step of actually taking their lives. Who was it who said, "When someone tells you who they are...LISTEN" and I think we can say of Sarah, "When someone's CHILDREN tell you who she is...LISTEN". She is truly a horrible person and she richly deserves to spend the rest of her life behind bars.
Hell no. My grandma lost her first husband to a car accident at 29 after 7 years of marriage and 3 kids.. then remarried at 40 and 2 years later her husband died from a heart attack. My grandmother had to be hospitalized for a little bit, got out and became an alcoholic and refused to even go on a date ever again. She drank til the day she passed away at 81 last year. Her heart was broken. Twice.
Totally. I mean what a friggin' viper. And they all fell in love immediately! I just imagine Jerry of Tom and Jerry floating in the air to the smell of the cheese.
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Yup, she knew how to manipulate them. It's hard to blame them, we all can be manipulated if someone hits the right notes. It's like it is with scams.
@@argentumsound I agree. I was dating a woman who I knew from college and was a media/Philomena model and broke into small parts in movies etc when we got older and we reconnected. Only I was still attracted to the version of her from 12 years before when she was far more real and had empathy and for the most part....a soul. What I wound up with was a horrific sociopath and I was stupid for not seeing that looks and a body didn't mean anything at that point. What was inside was so horrifying that I literally had to move away and hide my address due to the fact that she could not take that I ended the relationship and apparently you DO NOT do that to her. But I was foolish for not seeing the writing on the wall and not realizing that the person I dated 12 years earlier was way far gone. So I agree, she TOTALLY hit the right notes and was truly a scary person.
@@thomasgagliardi5931 Damn, that is TERRIFYING. You're so strong for actually fighting for yourself and ending it. Just out of curiosity - how long did it take you? I feel like testosterone helps with fighting for yourself a bit haha. Not diminishing your courage but I feel like men are more assertive and have way more chances throughout their life to learn how to use their anger/aggression effectively - to protect themselves. I wish to incorporate that in my personality and managed to do so (with better or worse effects) only after years of therapy. It is insanely freeing though. Anger isn't always bad. I feel it's harder for women since evolution seems to have equipped us with this kind of holy anger only towards people posing a danger to our infants/or anyone we wish to protect in a similar way. So whenever a man has a lot of anger, he goes and kills a bunch of people. And whenever woman does... well, you get THIS.
Black widow is what she is! This story was so convoluted, but thanks for making it make sense and keep it so we can follow and understand, all the people in her life that she destroyed!
Wow! What a case(s)🤯 … we almost need a timeline mapped out for us internet sleuths. So much information to keep up with, arsons, deaths, criminal damage to property, marriages, foster care, 4 abused children, ex-fiancés, etc. I hope there will be updates regarding this Narcissistic Black Widow on BE.
There is absolutely no other explanation than because she had high level connections due to her career. I mean after killing someone in “self defense” being close to another murder, 3 houses she’s connected to burning down, and then planning a hit on her exes wife…. I mean my God, only someone with connections wouldn’t be charged. It’s infuriating how the elite/perceived top ranking class of America cover each other and rarely have to face consequences. Reminds me a lot of hillary clinton
Sarah has to be thee most relentless, conniving, & manipulative person I've heard about in a long time. The way she treated people in her life, even the ones closest to her, is incredible. & I don't mean that positively. Who needs enemies, when people like her exist. The amount of events that she was able to manipulate out of, & get away with is outstanding to me. All of the stalking & harassment, the alleged fires, the insane abuse towards her kids. Not to mention the many murders. I can't even begin to imagine what those poor children had to go through & endure. Thankfully the father ended up with custody of the younger kids. & he got away by the skin of his teeth, let's be honest! She is literally the epitome of what a black widow truly is. Too bad some people had to meet her, & lose their lives. My heart goes out to her children, & to anyone she affected due to run-ins with her. Especially the victims & their families.
Wow, I cant say I'm surprised that this narcissist didn't take responsibility for her crimes. I'm sure she'll play the victim again in trial but hopefully at least one of the investigations and trials result in a guilty verdict. An adulterer, child abuser, murderer and just an overall awful person. I'm glad she finally got caught.
I just want to clear up something. My brother David was NEVER married to this monster. He was ready to leave her ass. He also was an impeccable shot, he would not have missed if her story even had a shred of truth.
I’m truly sorry for you & your family & friends loss. Your brother sounded like an incredibly, sweet person who didn’t deserve to be destroyed like this, murdered & then lied against. :(
If someone abuses you, then tries to cuddle up and be sweet…. Don’t walk, RUN…. Trust me. If you see someone doing like this with their kids, be aware. It may be something simple like a momentary loss of control. However if it is happening over and over again… different story…
As the child of a father clinically diagnosed with ASPD (sociopathy), I can tell you it was customary for him to make us sit on his lap and give HIM affection directly after very severe beatings. It’s the ultimate form of control to force a victim to shower their abuser with affection directly after abuse. The abuser experiences double the power because they get to force their will on victims twice, while causing maximum psychological pain. The abuser is also eliminating any chance for the victim to bring up a grievance, because even manipulated or forced affection eliminates the minds concept of actual wrongdoing. That makes it impossible for the victim to vocalize their feelings about the recent abuse because the abuser had changed the entire situation so abruptly. This type of manipulation ensures victim is made to feel that they are the guilty party because they are unloving, petty and vengeful.
@@emilycarter2492 I had similar experiences with several adults in my family growing up. I think it was a behavior that was passed down, learned as the “norm” for how to treat kids. It’s sad that things like this exist. The more we make people aware, the more we can help break the cycle.
This all is so sad and infuriating, my sympathy to all the victim’s families. It’s even more sickening when I think about the fact that people like Sarah seem to absolutely thrive in prison. She’ll be running the place , wherever she is …… UNLESS she’s put in solitary confinement! Solitary is the only true punishment for a monster like Sarah. She’s a vampire , that will suck the life out of anyone and everyone around her. Confined all alone would be the only real justice, in my opinion.
*Please do not marry after knowing someone for three months* . It's usually around that time that the very first tiny cracks in a facade begin to show- IF you're lucky.
@@That_AboElHamd Victims? They are just blind cows for not seeing the evil in her eyes. Come on man, stop cuddling victims. People need to man up again and be strong, we are at our weakest in the history of humanity.
@@KiesStaminhono person willingly becomes a victim. They didn't ask for it. They cannot be blamed for her narcissism. They may not have known just how dangerous she was even if they knew she was "a bit off". She will have gaslit the bejesus out of them.
Have to watch this one twice… can’t keep track of all the evil stuff she got away with. I have so many friends who walk around thinking people are generally good and this type of stuff doesn’t exist. It does.
She is broken beyond repair and she will always hurt the people she loves most in her life because they are pawns in her life for her to decide what to do with. With military precision she destroyed her family and killed all of her husbands. 😢 She is truly evil in every way possible. 😢
Wow. Wow. This is a story of serious crazy that I haven't heard in a very long time. This woman is absolutely terrifying. Especially from the accounts from her own children.
My favorite thing about your channel and what made the videos stand out was the intro song and the images in splashes of red. It was effectively eerie. That was always a great intro to set the mood
My former boss is a straight up narcissist. I tell people she isn't who she seems to be, but she has people convinced she's wonderful all the while manipulating them without them realizing it. Awful working for her; but she finally moved on to greener pastures; thankfully.
Prayers of healing & community support for the survivors of Sarah’s terror. My deepest hopes & prayers are that her precious children recover from her abuse, understanding that they have control of their lives & futures. She can never harm them or others ever again.
Black widow,thankfully she was finally caught. Condolences to family,friends of those victims that passed away.Hopefully someone is able to act on a class action suit against this monster.Very well produced channel.Thanks
