As a woman, this was freshing advice to see given to men. It's solid advice. The worst mistake you can make and can rarely come back from, is coming off as a creep. Creeps don't get second dates, or even last the first hour of the first date with a quality woman. Also, learn to read the difference between a lady being interested vs her just being polite. Don't mistake politeness for romantic interest. I've been on a few dates where the guy did not look like his profile photos and/or no chemistry at all, I just went along with the date to be nice so the guy wouldn't feel immediately rejected.
Tab Bee you must be some prize to be won! You talk about creeps well some guys don't have a clue how to speak to women because women never actually give them pointers or give them advice to correct the creepy approach. Your out right rejection of them comes from a place of entitlement. I know this because men can be taught how to correct certain behaviors. All the while with women very few of them even truly knows about what accountability actually means.
Why is that only men can be creeps? What if you are acting like a creep? Your comments make me think you are and I wouldn't touch you with a barge pole.
its good having this information out there for free, this is the first video ive clicked on with a how to actually do this, instead of a you need to make it happen.
Dude, my wife just out of nowhere left me after 10 years and 4 kids. I bought the scrambler a little too late. But I just want to thank you for doing what you do. I have been self gratifying myself for being the nice guy. Before I started watching your videos, I was totally convinced that I didn’t deserve this. But I actually have been doing EVERYTHING wrong. I’ve failed every test when she started to pull away. And I just want to thank you for opening my eyes to where I went wrong
Hello Bobby Rio, To be able to make an emotional connection is very good for the relationship and is spot on. Having fun, going back to the playground illustration is outstanding. Intimacy is another key part of developing a strong friendship and relationship. Thank you for sharing this insight in men women relationships.
Thanks bobby. I really am glad I signed up for the scrambler and love the stuff I learned and how it has changed my life. Watching your videos now just adds to the knowledge. 😈
Especially when you’re out with a pretty woman, why WOULDN’T you hold eye contact. I had a woman ask, “Why are you’re staring at me?” While she blushed. I said, with a surprise look of ‘why not?’ “I’m not staring, but you have beautiful eyes.” Five minutes later she came in for our first kiss. We were the awkward couple making out at the end of the bar. I suppose that could have gone weird real quick but it worked.
Just started watching your videos, this is really good advice an is helping me with not only with talk to women but my mental wellbeing as well. Thank you.
Again, you are spot on. What you are saying in this video, when looking back, came naturally with some girls and maybe sometimes lesser so with the ones I was REALLY crazy about. You are spot on!!!!
The best connections I’ve had is starting with, “is pineapple an acceptable pizza topping?” No matter what she says, I say, “oh we might be doomed before we even start.”
The advice here is fine...it's important to be yourself and not someone else. touching and intimacy are crucial , but with Covid 19 around, it gets to be more of an issue if the woman doesn't want to be touched because of fear of contracting it... however, having fun and making that connection are valid points too. Not being always available , creating mystery about oneself, not being a "yes" person always, are other ingredients for success. In some situations, after having sex with that women you so much chase after and desire, you won't want her anymore because the thrill of the chase and hunt are over and it's time to start anew with someone else. Good luck everyone.
John Clark, thanks for sharing. I want to tell you if you have applied to scramble just want a few days and she will get back to you. I am not shy to say that alone a few weeks ago I was crying for a girl that we slipping off my finger... I sent here one line and today she seeks my approval on everything... Give me a shout if you need some more wisdom for you to land your special lady. Regards
Supposed to say "spoiler alert" before you drop the Santa bomb... Thanks dude, you just destroyed Christmas for me. Thsnk God the Easter bunny is real... What?
Hi, Rio man it's so cool... but how do I go abt it wiz agal who is trying to reverse phycology d emotional things back to me... Guess she seemly doing the same dude...
21:00 if you're only being fun... you'll be viewed as a clown. If you only trying to make connection... you'll be viewed as needy not having options. If you only being intimate, you'll be viewed as a creep. ALL 3 are important in the same dosage all at the same time, and all should be subtle and only increase the dosage over dates AND PULL BACK ALWAYS. How you get friend zoned? Being fun & establish connection WITHOUT INTIMACY.
Man your tips are amazing but I’m almost worried I’m getting further away from being myself or worrying about trying too hard to come up with all these elements. I know I’m fucking my shit up and I need help
I can relate what you mean... My honest opinion is, just be yourself man. I 100% understand what he’s saying and all, but don’t act something you’re not. Once you go out with anyone, don’t be a average guy and take them to restaurant date, that’ll just put more pressure/tension on you and you’ll be more nervous as well. Before you go on a date with anyone, you know a little bit about them before hand, so use what you know and go off of that. Let’s say, you asked(Text/Call/in person) her what she like doing out side of work and spending time with friends. Then she said, “I like drawing, rock climbing , and I like walking my dog around the block” You can make a date hiking or walking her dog with her. Even if you never been rock climbing in your life, it shows that you’re taking her out and doing something she likes. Be honest as well... say, “Hey, just to let you know, I never been hiking before, but I’m willing to come out my comfort zone and spent time with you” That alone, shows that you care and listen to her, that’s a plus for you man. That shows, you’re willing to get out your comfort zone, and that means a lot to her. Of course it’s going to be fun for her and you, as well as, shows you’re confident and not afraid doing new things. That shows your adventurous and girls like that a lot. That alone, is fun* and you can easily built a connection* and be intimacy* as well. That’s my advice tho. Of course, other people have there own opinions, that’s ok. Just be you man. Hope that helps.
The fd up part about the game is even when you have nothing to complain about.. which I don’t have w my current gf who’s hot and 10 years younger.. even when she gives you everything she’s able to give due to her schedule life, etc. Number one it’s not enough and number two you still have to play games to keep what you have It’s a daily reprieve You can’t get well I can’t get stuck on my laurels. It’s a lot of work.
@@VeganJutsu swear to god I used to actually do this when I was a kid. There was a giant storm sewer near a river that we'd go into. The things we got away with back in the day.
8:27 eg. first girl i ever dated (she is NOT following me) for past 2-3 days has started to watch my IG stories. She responded to one. She had flew out for Carnival and she brought her backpack with her. So I said, what I'm wondering, is how you did that. She said she checked it in on her flight. My response? So you're a lil smuggler, could have use for that. That was a bingo move.
I agree with everything he’s saying 100% but this is so hard for a mans man. None of that is natural for me and I’m not emotional at all. I know I need to be to be more successful with women but at the end of the day it’s fake and not me.
Bobby Rio it sounds to me like even if a woman has standards (if you're not her type) as long as the man has the right mindset, basically what you're talking about in this video. Any man with the right mindset in place can get just about any woman he wants. Am I onto something here?
You like a nerdy "sciency" guy or gal? When they weave their craft into convo, ask them if they have a wild and messy mad scientist wig that they put on when doing their "science stuff".
Girl with a committed boyfriend challenge... she's been with him for over a year, but I see her more than he does. We do all three of the triangle all the time. In fact, everyone that sees us together thinks we are a couple, but I can't get to the physical intimacy stage because of her morals and commitment. It's like she has this constant battle between the subconscious feelings for me vs conscious decision to stay committed to the boyfriend because that's what she thinks she is thinks she is supposed to do. If I make a physical move it's going to cause a negative reaction. She will feel guilt, no doubt, and probably resentment towards me for do it. So what is the trick?
@@stardusty3781 Hahaha... If that were true we would've been fucking months ago. I've broken down many walls of touching that she had set up in the beginning. I'm not in America right now, this is a korean girl in KOrea, dealing with korean culture. It's a bit of a trip, but a lot of this stuff presented in these videos still work. But no shit, the sex/relationship culture is very traditional on the surface, very loyal females, but males have their covert mistresses all the time. I've played that card with her.. they do it, why don't you. But of course no one thinks their boyfriend will do it to them.
I'm getting 1 on 1 time with a girl I completely told how much I love her when I asked her out. This was 3 years ago. We talk occasionally on social media & in person 1 or 2 times. Could following this help with getting her sexual faster? I feel like I have done steps 1 & 2 of the scrambler but don't feel as though I've had enough in person time to know for sure about step 2.
*"What to say to make a girl chase you"* Me: "Baby, was nice chatting with you, we gotta do this again real soon. I'm going back to my place to do a few lines of blow, let's speak again soon" [I get up and leave] Her: [Gets up and runs after me and comes up with endless excuses to convince me to take her with me...] :)
Hello Bobby I have been watching a lot of your videos and it didn't only improve my way of talking to girls but almost with everyone keep it up BTW how to make intimacy through voice call or messages ?
Hello Bobby, my name is Darryl Dawes and I am a blind RU-vid if you were. I tried to download your scrambler system but when I made my purchase I was told that item is not available. I used PayPal. Can you tell me how I can be refunded?
Might be an odd question but does this work on strippers? How can one tell if there's any real connection etc if money is the motivating factor for her
As a woman that’s worked at a few strip clubs I can tell you that 99.9999% of the time, the girls don’t give a shit about building a connection with customers- they see it as a business transaction, period. Most of them have boyfriends that pick them up at the end of the night (but they’ll never tell you about that lol). If you want to know if a dancer is really into you, ask her out on a real date. Not in the club, not to take her shopping- just going out to coffee or something like that. If she says yes and seems to genuinely want to hang out with you as two human beings, then you have your answer. If she hems and haws and says “awww baby! That’s so sweet, but I’m not allowed to date customers” or any other excuse to not see you outside of the club, she’s not interested. Remember, it’s the girls job to make you feel special and sell you a fantasy. But it’s usually just … a fantasy. It’s not real.
any advice about a girl who gets violently (passive aggressively) jealous if I talk to a waitstaff or even a female security guard in front of her? Normally she attacks them, now she is starting to attack me too for engaging in friendly conversations with them. Sorry if my questions is a little off topic, it just triggered.
talk to hear about that, worst case is that you dump her but firstly take her out on a bench and talk to HER and explain some things to her what you dont like
Fun ✅ I tease her af all the time, like that grade school kinda boy with girls lol 😂 Connection ✅ we have a amazing emotional connection n even a mind2mind connection kinda Intimacy ✅ does having ‘wet’ dreams bout her n telling her bout them count?😂😝😋
"Tease" someone about their good looks or their degree?? No way... There's nothing more banal/ boring, even disappointing to do! - "It took you 18 hours just to pick out that outfit"... seriously? who would take that as a compliment? looks more like bullying - "A girl so good-looking as you must have many admirers" .. our aunty would say that or other super/boring job-oriented comments... - " So you're a psychiatrist? Are you analyzing me right now?" - "So you're an actress? Can you play me something?" Please, you guys, DON'T!!
Why is it that only men can be creeps? We are just human beings who have many sides to our personality. To me the fact that women can find certain aspects of a man's personality to be creepy is in itself creepy. Men don't view women that way. The only conclusion is that women just do not like men. We have to fit into a narrow mould that that particular woman wants and throw the rest of ourselves away.
Great content. But, it's kinda depressing too. No longer can men just be good providers, we also have to be entertainers, ripped, event planners. What do women have to do? Still the same. Look pretty. I mean what is all that going to matter for raising kids and having a family lol
If this is depressing for you, I got something even more if you're interested. It's called here in the web: Red Pill. It explains how women think based on psychology. Hypergamy is a nice place to start. I follow Better Bachelor and Alexander Grace content about it here in RU-vid, because they are the most down to earth in this topic. Jordan Peterson discuss it a bit about it too. Good luck.
Yeahh I agree with you here, Most women's life runs on a auto pilot mode thorough out their earlu teens to late 30s, they don't have to do much work & all they have to do is put a lot of makeup on their face & look pretty. Its us men who gotta do all the work & apply all these techniques & stuff & to think this much.
Relationships are not created by numbers…………common sense should tell people if they instinctively “Vibe” or not……..Everyone of your videos always end up with the typical “Buy my book” with an implied super successful outcome………..they are “Marketing Click Bait” exercises 😝🥺
Really, it's actually about compatibility in visual attraction, first. A physically fit woman will be looking for a physically fit man. A woman that is a bit overweight, will be more forgiving for compatibility for a man who is a bit overweight. Most people match up with physical compatibilities, then connection and intimacy has a chance. The problem comes from incompatibility in appearance. You can't teach connection to somebody who is looking for a beautiful woman, if that man shows an unhealthy body. Every man wants a beautiful shapely woman with a nicely shaped bum. You're not gonna get what you can't offer. In the same way, It doesn't matter what you teach a woman, nothing is going to help her if there is no compatibility in appearance. Once there is attraction, everything else follows. People that need your help, are looking beyond their physical compatibility.
That's magic, not chemistry, Chemistry is when you mix different elements together. This entire video is the wrong subject! And yet again, have you tried just bloody talking to people?
