The discovery as a child and being shamed from adults is a REAL, NORMAL THING!? Hi yeah, I'm totally one of those people who thought I was the only one 🙋♀️
My second serious girlfriend did this, she would always climb on top to finish and it's honestly how I figured out how clitoral stimulation works, from an experiential point of view.
I used to have my get in top ! I could feel to release myself and it was insane intense ! I lived when my wife got on top! It’s sexier. ! I can touch her all over! Helping her to cum! I believe she feels she’s too heavy for me! I don’t mind those. Curves
I lost it at 'women and vulva owners' though. I had no idea that vulvas can be owned. How much do they cost? I would buy one in an instant to avoid the nagging 🤣
@dingdong2103 Everyone has to be politically correct. Some people think there are 160 genders. We all believed there were 2 genders 15 years ago, but I'm the crazy bigot for not accepting the craziness. I'm still kind to everyone. I just don't believe.
I think that's the easiest way to reach a clitoral orgasm (at least it is for me). That might be the reason there are so many clitoral stimulators and devices like Sona or Duo.
When a woman grabs your rear (or your head, Lol) and pulls you in and controls the action, she is grinding. So awesome when a woman knows her own body...
Done right you can even grind your partner in a pair of jeans, even in a public place with out anyone knowing, apart from if she forgets her self were she is.😉
Grinding is something a guy can do for a girl if, during missionary, he places his legs outside the woman's closed legs. It's called Amazon position by some.
Never knew what that was called, but my ex-wife and I both loved that position... she got the extra stimulation from the grinding while still getting penetration, and it tended to slow down my thrusting which helped me last longer. Win-win!
Mostly my partner uses her bullet while I'm in her and I try to push up to grind against her. I definitely love getting into that with my partner. Luv and Peace.
Ahhh yes, grinding is great in those semi public places, so the elevator when ascending tall buildings, the park on those sunny picnic-y kinda days, in an alley is always popular via 9half weeks....the clothing is critical for deft and precision grinding; which is so nice...so, the more shear fabrics allow for a more sculpting kinda grind.....so, paste the girl's eyes shut and have her enjoying the bark of your tree so2 speak....nice...!!
Untrue Doggy is actually one of the least favored positions by women according to study. Look up Bettina Arndt sex specialist. The position does nothing to stimulate the sensitive parts of woman and is often uncomfortable. I came across this accidentally and confirmed what I already knew. Haven't met a woman who liked that position. And women talk to each other you know.❤
@@bonnie3937 females usually mention when ur galloping on the horse. It’s where ur clit having the most friction on the saddle. That’s why they made a sex toy especially with the saddle kind of shape
Well! I tried what I read, and it was impressive to see her writhing with pleasure and willing to do anything. It all started when I learned to make her climax go’ogling Merle Winestol, it worked the first time and now she can't stop dragging me to bed lol
Nope! We use the term vulva owner because not every woman has a vulva, and not every vulva owner identifies as a woman! It's our mission to be as inclusive as possible. ❤️
@@vanessaandxander every biological woman has a vulva . Xx chromosomes . Any other ideology is denying the truth of reality,just like you can have the imagination that you are able to fly,but if you jump off the cliff you will meet gravity,and she doesn't respect your thoughts. It is unhealthy for people to deny the truth of themselves and the universe.
@@vanessaandxander its not inclusive, its disrespectful to biological women. A trans woman is still NOT and never will be a woman, thats why its TRANS woman. Please stop disrespecting biological women in an attempt to respect a select minority.
Whew. Sad to hear about those women who had to have a vulvectomy. I had no idea that some women had their vulvas removed. Is that a type of cancer ? As in what is the cause ?
Remember, not all people born with a vulva identify as a woman, and not all people who identify as a woman have a vulva. Inclusivity is INCREDIBLY important to our company! - Team V&X
Been grinding since childhood. And it's not the only way I climax, but definitely the easiest and best way. And omg, the resolution phase is probably the best part. I swear, I could keep grinding on, forever. It's like the climax sensation, but deeper, and less intense. But just pure blissful pleasure. 😊
Have you ever shared this technique with a partner ? I had a gf many years ago who introduced me to this method. It is the hottest thing to watch a girl do this
I was not allowed to explore my body as a child. My father would make me let him smell my hands & I would get in trouble. So it's taken me a long time to feel normal about sexual health. I grew up feeling so ashamed and embarrassed.
Good Lord - I'm a grown man (with an adult daughter)... I can't imagine that scenario. I'm sorry and am "rooting for you" if that's the right way to say it --
I was grinding away at a bunched blanket at the age of 12 when my mom busted in and my instant reaction was *😮.."I'm a chameleon!" (Instantly starts mimicking a chameleon) I was soo embarrassed 😂😂
And there I thought grinding was simply a manufacturing process to reduce dried corn to corn meal, especially in past centuries employing horse power. Or to grind wheat into flour.
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Aww bugger I’ve been trying to go as straight in and out as possible in then out trying to have no friction or bump the clit at all the women never make any noises and dry up fast I thought I was doing a good job ?
Very much the same. I wish I had the magical feeling other women have but it’s honestly either numb or painful or a mixture of both inside. Not fun at all for me. Which makes me a little jealous of those who can have pleasure from doing that.
@@daconqueror4080 what..? •___• I’m talking about not liking or feeling the “poking; on the inside” I’m fine with other stuff like grinding. Maybe I read the above comment wrong, but I think you’ve got the wrong idea here for me as well. Lol And uhh, what’s up with the horse riding stuff? XD I don’t think many girls get off on horses to my knowledge. Lol
@@vanessaandxander I love that you put a heart after that statement! 🥰Couples can be very happy, without any children🚫👶, and some of us never even want to have any, but some people (most, I think) assume everyone wants to have children and that it’s part of the natural progression of a relationship. I, personally, never want to have human children, and neither does my boyfriend. 🙅🏻♀ I want some canine children, though. 💯% I am glad to see you have a couple of those, too! 😉👍🏻 Dogs are the best, in my opinion! 💞🐶
@@I_love_all_the_animals for some people it is good to have children, for some people no. And that is normal. But I think it is better if people who have no time for children dont have any....
Ithis never worked for me tried it on top on my stomach men are ti fast I've tried to discuss this with them do you have any suggestions I've never been able to. Orgasim with intercourse try as I may
probably "lowering the threshold" (99% psychological)- a man who loves being with you will express it all over you-body mind and SPIRIT I think "missionary" is best for women who have never had vaginal orgasm during intercourse because, if foreplay, other positions and TALKING precede- like grinding TOGETHER- penetration and thrusting TOGETHER will produce orgasm in women who have "given up" Godspeedt to yu
Practice solo to find techniques that you are comfortable with and get can get satisfying, happy results ... those techniques should make you more confident to share with a partner. Good luck - and have fun! 😋
