The Harsh Reality You're Ignoring | Jordan Peterson Motivation 

I'm usually not into these kinds of compilation video things. But this is actually a very thoughtful distillation of Jordan Peterson's most golden useful philosophies.

Look within and you'll find the answers to a lot of things. Self control makes the person. A person without discipline is someone full of reactions, rather than a person of good actions. No person is free who cannot control themselves.

I keep rewinding this constantly.

I believe i need to play this once in two weeks, every 2 weeks till I'm full of his wisdom and in aliance with his VALID theories.......I love how he kept bringing up God.

I listen to this while I was picking up trash in the town.. there were times I had to stop because I almost cried. Good stuff!

You can't fall if you don't climb. But there's no joy in living your whole life on the ground.

I really am trying to move forward. After 34 years of marriage I found myself divorced. 'He' was having an affair and I, no one, that knew him would have ever imagined he would do this. I am trying hard to move on and be happy. I am reminded once a month, I allowed him to give me the 'settlement'$$ over the course of 10 years in bite size chunks. He married the other woman and they are happy.i just feel stuck in the past, knowing that I must let it go.

How so many people hate this man is beyond me.

Thank you for all of your support for

I've been there, similar to what he said family can push back on changes one wants to make and changes in ourselves. I'm married with kids and I am trying to have myself and family try to be better than we are in doing more things that matter more to have more skills in life, etc. But, trying to have us read more, work on better things in life, etc they dont want to. They are happy how they are and its been a struggle just trying to make it better. I know they enjoy some things that are time wasters, but it would be good to work on skills to learn and do at least a little everyday and they could still do the things they like, but add these new things too. But, I was told I dont do anything with the family because ive had my headphones on listening to learning a language. So, I have my headphones in to much. I didnt want to disturb them with the language so I put headphones in and mostly when they were watching a movie and playing video games. I had even taken my kids to the park twice that weekend to play basket ball with them as they are learning basketball as i went and bought a basketball so we could practice. Something, i thought the kids could enjoy outdoors and some activity and fun. I took them by myself. I was told by my husband I dont watch shows everynight like we have in the past, cause im doing something else like book work, listening on my phone or writing something. After his talk with me about not being there much during the weekend casue i was listening too much on headphones and went outside to the backyard i made sure i watched a movie with him and he was all happy and content agian as doing what we usually have been for years, even though I didnt necessarily feel like a movie that night. I probably would have read more snd listened to my Spanish learning app. Or worked on my next art class onlkne, but I was doing art the night before so anything apparently I do for myself is a no if its not for thr kids or him. I stress a lot, all the time, and my health is not good. I don't like to watch shows much or movies, epscially last couple years. Before kids it was like all we ever did and didnt have the money to so much, and money is kind of tight on money again, but we're introverts My husband doesnt want to really go to parades, but will now kids are a little older as he thinks he better or he will be in trouble or kids upset at him. He doesnt do it to be with the family, more of a chore to him. The fourth of July he doesnt want to even get closer to see the fireworks, but out so far its not as good to see them so far away. I feel its the experience for the kids and he makes it seem great being sonfar away. We went to a hotel and stayed two nights and he was content watching tv and on his phone playing games when my oldest son asked if we could go donsomething and he flipped saying saying this was relaxing and fun, we dont have to be doing soemthing all the time. I was bored as well and told him but of course we had nothing to do but stay bored. So, he kept soing what he usually does at home at the hotel. Kind of pointless to go to the hotel. I've taken them to the park lately and of course I take care of all the household chores, making meals, and watching kids all week while their out of school. Yet, I was told by my husband and one kid that i wasnt there and was moping about last two days and I wasn't as talkative as usual. I feel that im trying to change and work on a language. I dont feel the need to talk as much, and apparently, I can't change for the better. My kids do support me trying to work online, but my husband doesnt as much and he didnt want to even read something I asked him to read that I wrote. He always takes the things and talks we have as a family and talks just as the spouses discussions and he always feels im targeting him to its his fault and goes to the money card. Im trying to figure out a solution but its me always trying to figure it out anyways because he just listens and doesnt say much. He wont give much help on fixing something. He is more content coming home to play video games on his phone all night and he doesnt have any tasks at home for his personal life and he doesnt have any plans of doing anything else as he feels content. He says whatever you plan on or what I'm doing right now is all im planning when I ask him about his plans for the day. Our kids want him to play more, but he will when it comes to playing video games witth them and one time he took us up on coming to the park becuase I asked him if he would join us and he did because he said to me I better or youll be upset with me. I told him its up to you and he went but the mood was a negative vibe and made it ruined when my kids and I trying to enjoy being at the park he is all moody and upset cause he was at the park with his family. Hebdoes work a good job, but he seems to be stuck doing what he always has for the last 30 years. So, like Dr. Peterson said thetr can be lots of push back from families. I deal with it all the time and its a struggle and very tiring. I just plan on trying to make it work and try to add what i want to do here and there daily when i can early in the mroning before everyones day starts and after he goes to work and before kids get up. Like they say choose wisely. So true.

for context this is also the man that unironically argues with Elmo on twitter

20:38 to 27:07 to 29:40

It really doesn't need the music and the echoes behind his voice. They should have just let him speak without this histrionic over-dramatization.

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...one man builds his house up, poisoning the poor, well paid, & puffed up, while another builds his house on a solid foundation, one that never shifts like sand. Keep your sickly, that you breed, & your pocket book, we know how all this will end. "O' brother, where the f*** are you? Have the crosshairs not been left by your mark, having scalped the lofty heads of those without wings to fly now, being that your support plucks them off, for a hefty price?"

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Your not wrong ... its good advice... Limited in the culture you live in . In southern italy its not applicable ...we are doomed ...unless you close in your minimal self ...and find peace ...or become a brigant ....and fight till the last draw...its no joke man .

Having a hard time hearing the message with the constant music in the background.

My man laughed so badly when prof described porn addicts

HE IS HILARIOUS WELLLLLL YOU GOTTA LIVE RIGHT ....... But THAT MIGHT BE SO PAINFUL YOU MIGHT FAIL AND IF YOU FAIL YOUR IN DARKNESS BUT ...... IN THE DARKNESS YOU FIND LIGHT RIGHT ..... SO THIS IS A GOOD THING BUT IF ITS GOOD WERES EVIL RIGHT .... LOOK WITHIN BUT WITHIN IS EVIL SO THE DARKNESS WILL COME TO THE LIGHT .... BUT BECAREFUL TOO MUCH LIGHT BURNS ...... ( u can't win vs him)

Deeply saddened by Jordan schilling for Netanyahu the murderer.

Go save Palestine cause your so well informed or should I say programed

I'm wasting my braincells listening to him