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The Importance Of Being Inauthentic: Mark Bowden at TEDxToronto 

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The fifth annual TEDxToronto conference took place on September 26, 2013 at The Royal Conservatory of Music.
For our 2013 TEDxToronto Conference, all talks, performances and demos were rooted in our selected theme, "The Choices We Make."
About the Speaker:
Mark Bowden is an expert in human behavior and body language, and creator of TRUTHPLANE™, a communication training company and unique methodology for anyone who has to communicate to an audience with impact. Mark gives keynote speeches worldwide on persuasive verbal and nonverbal language and communication structures to stand out, win trust and profit when you speak. Mark's publications are bestselling Winning Body Language (McGraw Hill 2010); Winning Body Language for Sales Professionals (MH 2012); and Tame the Primitive Brain (Wiley 2013).
For more information visit www.tedxtoronto.com
In the spirit of ideas worth spreading, TEDx is a program of local, self-organized events that bring people together to share a TED-like experience. At a TEDx event, TEDTalks video and live speakers combine to spark deep discussion and connection in a small group. These local, self-organized events are branded TEDx, where x = independently organized TED event. The TED Conference provides general guidance for the TEDx program, but individual TEDx events are self-organized.* (*Subject to certain rules and regulations)

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@susanblake9946
@susanblake9946 3 года назад
I've become acquainted via RU-vid with Mark Bowden from his participation on The Behavior Panel. I think he's really smart, funny, and thoughtful. All of these qualities are displayed well in this TEDx Talk.
@Laura-Lee
@Laura-Lee 3 года назад
I find Mark and the Behavior Panel really interesting too. The only problem is that Mark is lying in this speech. One of the things he is forever pointing out on the Panel is when someone is showing a smile that they don't really mean and how it still registers on their face and that we can spot it at an instinctual level. Here (no matter what he states to the contrary) he truly likes people and his smile is authentic. Busted, Mark!
@patriciajorgensen4728
@patriciajorgensen4728 2 года назад
@@Laura-Lee or he did a really good job.
@trialshoppl7203
@trialshoppl7203 2 года назад
Mark is an astonishing communicator. It's almost as if you could switch the sound off and make out what he's saying.
@susanblake9946
@susanblake9946 2 года назад
I also think that Mark's consistent congeniality, his sense of humor, and great listening skills really enhance any dialogue in which he participates, and make for enjoyable listening.
@BenWeeks
@BenWeeks 2 года назад
Same! It's a pleasure to see him moving in a physical space outside zoom. Great talk.
@BluJMuzik
@BluJMuzik 9 лет назад
this is low key one of the best ted talks I've heard
@niceguyy3815
@niceguyy3815 3 года назад
it's wrong though lol all of the neurobioloy is wrong
@carlosalford
@carlosalford 2 года назад
@@niceguyy3815 Could you argue, make a case, or give the sources?
@marthaalexander4441
@marthaalexander4441 10 месяцев назад
Mark is so charismatic, brilliant, and entertaining. Just love him and the rest of the Panel.❤
@cexargzm69
@cexargzm69 8 лет назад
In my opinion... He is right! I used to be authentic and realized that is was taking me nowhere. Being "inauthentic" does not mean being dishonest but changing our mindset for our own betterment.
@lilyofthevalley9819
@lilyofthevalley9819 3 года назад
Cesar.. DITTO... COMPLETELY Agree with your observation
@Laura-Lee
@Laura-Lee 3 года назад
Yes. Your "OWN" betterment. That says volumes about you without seeing your body to interpret it. The greatest advancements made by humans throughout history was, in the overwhelming majority of times, to help someone other than the creator and usually involved them making a huge personal sacrifice. But those who acted for themselves history has recorded as tyrants ... or not at all. When we compare Mark Bowden and Madame Curie in 100 years, which one will people still know about?
@dottie1966
@dottie1966 3 года назад
Wow. Masterful. I'm at 16:15 and watching Marks descension from displaying competence, vulnerability and empathy in body language and facial expressions, to the opposite was awesome. Suddenly, no smile, minimal eye contact, hands down or in pocket, agitation, aggressive stance. Love it.
@yvethemetriccrafter688
@yvethemetriccrafter688 2 года назад
Amazing to watch isn't it .
@tdreamgmail
@tdreamgmail 9 лет назад
I can't believe this hasn't made it onto the TED director channel. This is utterly amazing and groundbreaking, completely against the grain thinking and a revelation to me personally.
@wlkf.727
@wlkf.727 9 лет назад
tdreamgmail I totally agree with you. Mark Bowden's presentation is one of the BEST I have seen on TEDx youtube videos. The mere 46,000 view is even more shocking! Mark is absolutely spot-on about how us humans act "indifferently" most of the time to protect ourselves; yet Mark effortlessly breaks our barriers and lets us into his big ideas. What a great presenter, even better message... (he should try out acting career too!)
@SokaMagic
@SokaMagic 7 лет назад
I totally agree with you! Everyone has to see this. His presentation inspires me everytime when i see this TEDxTalk
@albertoamendola2853
@albertoamendola2853 6 лет назад
ahhah exactly!
@leegreen159
@leegreen159 3 года назад
@@wlkf.727 He already did a stint as an actor. He now trains people how to speak in public, including G7 leaders.
@mtthomason
@mtthomason 9 месяцев назад
I LOVE the head nod without the usual “Thank you” at the end. It gives off “magician after he nails his magic trick” vibes (and so do the arms he uses as he walks off the stage). I love it! He is as much a performer as he is an intellectual, or at the very least, he has most definitely chosen to appear that way to us. Bravo.
@saviplays6739
@saviplays6739 3 года назад
The more views this video gets, the more brilliant the world becomes.
@celebrity_rooster7488
@celebrity_rooster7488 3 года назад
Stay away from anyone who tells you "to succeed, you have to be fake".
@GlenOrsak
@GlenOrsak 5 лет назад
This is a great counter-balance to the conventional messages of this era that being authentic and real is a one-way ticket to betterment. As with all betterment ideas, balance and intention is the often the best approach. Perhaps being inauthentic - but with good intentions - can become our authentic self with practice.
@MrCostaC
@MrCostaC Год назад
Not a good comparison. He is not talking about being authentic in the same way.
@aizareptails7038
@aizareptails7038 Год назад
mark Bowden is amazing. one of the best ted talk ever for me
@kanajingly8957
@kanajingly8957 8 месяцев назад
Mark Bowden? I thought it was Colin Cowherd
@valaries.5944
@valaries.5944 3 года назад
This speech made, me want to be a better human.
@Irish__Clan
@Irish__Clan 2 месяца назад
Given that mankind is the most dangerous beast, Mark’s message of inauthenticity is a good one.
@tomcherryhomes3914
@tomcherryhomes3914 8 лет назад
June 2016: 98K views? This should have 98 Million views - it's brilliant!
@RhiannonBell252
@RhiannonBell252 6 месяцев назад
Mark has wonderful charisma, definitely friend category 😁
@marinvanz.1924
@marinvanz.1924 6 месяцев назад
Totally agree with you 😃
@teresev1435
@teresev1435 2 месяца назад
Ditto Love mark! ❤❤❤
@gailolson7801
@gailolson7801 3 года назад
His work on the RU-vid Behavior Panel is interesting and fascinating as well!
@helenmacdonald8406
@helenmacdonald8406 6 месяцев назад
Mark! I think you are wonderful! ❤
@redelfshotthefood8213
@redelfshotthefood8213 2 года назад
If you broadcast friendliness, you will find the world a much richer and beautiful place. I broadcast happiness when I visited places and found the locals to be absolutely charming. I’ve also been places where I’ve been more guarded and found it indifferent. Mark is so right. Doors will open for the friendly that don’t exist for the indifferent.
@criticalmass5402
@criticalmass5402 2 года назад
Mark trained as an actor. It tells. He knows how to manipulate and play an audience. He proved this when he did the Nike super bowl streaker advert. Can't be unseen.
@neurosentience5150
@neurosentience5150 7 месяцев назад
Did this guy become my new hero?
@k3vl4r
@k3vl4r 4 месяца назад
My teacher forced me to watch it
@sunshinemagicalrainbowunic4004
@sunshinemagicalrainbowunic4004 Месяц назад
Your teacher is great
@eltrippy3988
@eltrippy3988 Месяц назад
What course ? Let me guess psychology ? Or sociology?
@twirlingparasol_
@twirlingparasol_ 7 месяцев назад
I love Mark so much. He has a brilliant mind and way of communication. This was a great speech!
@nitekat007
@nitekat007 8 лет назад
holy moly! I totally just stumbled across this one when looking for body language videos! He is amazing! and that was brilliant! and ive watched Ted talks for years. its also ironic how many teachers, lecturers, politicians and even public speakers have the body language that Mark intentionally adopted half way through the talk, and don't realise why nobody listens to them!!
@danielastockfleth-menis8786
I guess we shouldn't go around letting people know how authentic we are. Excellent TEDx Talk.
@mightytinwhistler
@mightytinwhistler 9 лет назад
Just finished reading his book and already using these techniques with great success. I am a corporate trainer and am always speaking to people.
@bruceshuler524
@bruceshuler524 6 лет назад
When he was doing the predator bit towards the end, I could tell that I was on alert. I could tell what he was doing, but It was still working on me lol
@chantellorimer-george2342
@chantellorimer-george2342 9 лет назад
Wow I remember him in our middle school play...always was destination ed for the stage 😉
@stevegwizzle3560
@stevegwizzle3560 8 лет назад
Wow..................MIND BLOWN.....I can already see me applying this to my life and making a big change in it.
@JimLovell-np4pv
@JimLovell-np4pv 8 месяцев назад
i should watch this every day before i go teach
@teresev1435
@teresev1435 2 месяца назад
I watch it every once in a while
@moh_Alashwal
@moh_Alashwal 5 лет назад
When he said "so..." in 16:03 I immediately burst with laughter and clapped for him while I'm watching on my laptop!!! He's brilliant in acting being authentic ''a predator''..
@derkgerk2045
@derkgerk2045 4 года назад
@gerald geriaafter he said he was manipulating us and he went straight to the aggressive tone saying that was his authentic behavior, I was like "hes about to pull the o'l switch-o-dic ko on us.
@Unkn0wn1133
@Unkn0wn1133 Год назад
Hes got all the mannerisms of a magician and a hypnotist I dont trust him. Havent even got to the part where he switches in the video.
@lifesab470
@lifesab470 7 лет назад
That was brilliant!! ate it up!! loved it! and thank you Mark Bowden
@AllABoardYouth
@AllABoardYouth 10 лет назад
Great way to demonstrate the paradox and bring us back to our choices. We all yearn for connection but wait for others to start it or notice us. This brings home the profound effect of reaching out to the person near us. Well said
@MattysModernLife
@MattysModernLife 9 лет назад
A brilliant talk, implemented in my every day life and it's amazing the difference it makes.
@tanatunya8124
@tanatunya8124 3 года назад
He kinda authentically just spoke to my soul. A life lesson for me.
@DENNSWJ
@DENNSWJ 5 месяцев назад
great speech, just great
@missjanecocaine
@missjanecocaine Год назад
You legend Mark. This speech literally saved my life ❤️
@allysonogston522
@allysonogston522 2 года назад
Brilliant. I normally don't get through the first 5 minutes of any TED talk......bravo. And thanks.
@JoanOfArgghh
@JoanOfArgghh Год назад
I always joke that sincerity is the main thing: if you can fake that, you've got it made.
@StephRae
@StephRae Год назад
Mark, Thank you very much for this insightful and intelligent talk. This is something I have been trying to explain but of course, I have never been able to explain with articulation and expertise. There are so many times when we must be a bit fake to become a better community and become closer. I have a very dominant and aggressive personality but I am also very caring and loving. They can appear to be contradictory so I must do exactly what you did in the video just to make sure that the listener feels safe receiving my message. It does work. As I am developing my business I will make sure that this TedTalk is required watching. You are brilliant and I am thrilled I found you and all of the group through The Behaviour Panel whom I found through Spidey. This kind of information is life-changing.
@MaxCollingetheking
@MaxCollingetheking 9 лет назад
Wonderful talk; I just read his book "winning body language" and Vloged about it.It was worth the time it took to read it! Thank you for all the great content Mark!
@julesfairfax5623
@julesfairfax5623 4 года назад
I don't agree that I am indifferent, but I DO agree that talking to everyone changes your day.
@chianismo5938
@chianismo5938 Год назад
This is a TEDx Talk, that doesn't only speak to those searching for authenticity, but also to the people who have seemingly found it. What a perfect guide to self reflection. Knowledge, humor, and charisma. Thank you, Mark.
@SheshagiriPai
@SheshagiriPai 8 лет назад
I am surprised this has such less and biased views. Beautifully explained and enacted.
@nv6288
@nv6288 4 года назад
This is like the best Ted Talk i’ve ever watched
@wlkf.727
@wlkf.727 9 лет назад
I have been watching quite a few of Tedx videos today, and I must say Mark Bowden gives me the most pleasant "feel". He comes off as interesting, funny and genuine (even if he pretends to be). I am surprised the views of his video is so low comparing to some of the videos with very mediocre content and communication.
@calemmontiel338
@calemmontiel338 4 года назад
After being in several abusive relationships and friendships because of people who exploited this kind of stuff to deceive me, I feel very weird watching this
@JimLovell-np4pv
@JimLovell-np4pv 8 месяцев назад
the Brits' greatest contribution to humanity: self depreciating humor. thanks.
@VenetianSnus
@VenetianSnus 7 месяцев назад
Deprecating* sorry, I’m a spelling nerd
@alphafemalenetwork3452
@alphafemalenetwork3452 8 лет назад
If you turn the sound down on your tv/hulu/Netflix you will still be able to follow what is going on - even without words. Hollywood and politicians live and breathe this stuff. Body language can even be used for stress relief.
@LuvKumarcanabis
@LuvKumarcanabis 7 лет назад
I study body language for the same purpose you are trying to tell us . Thanks a lot for this . i really get motivated.
@nobleani9177
@nobleani9177 9 лет назад
Honestly, the majority of this I already knew, sorta common sense I suppose, not all of it though. It's just sort of fascinating to hear someone put it all into just 20 minutes. Really good way of presenting too, I really follow it all and will be researching some more of Mark's work. Mark Bowden
@nick31111111
@nick31111111 7 лет назад
bought his book and it's even better!!
@ahmedouajib1228
@ahmedouajib1228 7 лет назад
Tedx Talk is a place of knowledge ForFREE. I was smiling and could not help it! Thank you Mark!
@suzannenorthcutt5100
@suzannenorthcutt5100 6 лет назад
ahmed ouajib Me too!!!☺
@ahmedouajib1228
@ahmedouajib1228 6 лет назад
That's nice, and I am happy to see someone having the same feeling as I have had.
@ahmedouajib1228
@ahmedouajib1228 6 лет назад
That's nice, and I am happy to see someone having the same feeling. Keep it up Suzanne!
@HoneyPresents
@HoneyPresents 5 лет назад
One of the best TED talks I've seen!
@SophieBennettUK
@SophieBennettUK 10 лет назад
Absolutely brilliant talk. Truly inspiring. Thank you to James Lavers for pointing me to this great speaker. A must watch
@01anthonygreysonkingsconsu98
Hi Sophie hope you're okay?
@dewetvanrooyen8458
@dewetvanrooyen8458 2 года назад
How interesting , this is so true I have experiance this so many times . This presenter was extremely entertaining and enlightening at the same time .
@ufolover40
@ufolover40 8 лет назад
the importance of this talk is incredible. thank you for uploading this :)
@pytheas222
@pytheas222 Год назад
I find that simply affirming that someone is my friend dose wonders for how I am perceived in general.
@jenniferdettloff-carter4245
Eye opening and funny! Wow, I never really looked at our "authenticity" that way. 'Loved this. Thanks Mark!
@luisaaraneda1950
@luisaaraneda1950 5 лет назад
This is one of the BEST TED TALKS EVER!!!
@alphajet75
@alphajet75 7 лет назад
This man is so bright and funny ..wow thumbs up i love his work and act !!!
@josienewnham8616
@josienewnham8616 Год назад
I found Mark through The Behaviour Panel on RU-vid. What a Ted. So informative and a comedian too ❤
@amazingsupergirl7125
@amazingsupergirl7125 Год назад
Mark! That’s was FANTASTIC! Obviously love you on TBP and in interviews but wow you’re a wonderful public speaker. ❤🤟🏻
@taravanderveer7842
@taravanderveer7842 9 лет назад
I saw Mark at a recent Conference at Humber College - what an incredible speaker and such interesting content. Loved it then and again watching this today.
@daultonbaird6314
@daultonbaird6314 8 лет назад
An amazing talk , I like the way the first 19 minutes set the framework for the last minute .
@jackmilner5033
@jackmilner5033 10 лет назад
Brilliant, dramatic and inspiring - oh yes and funny. You don't want much more in a TED talk do you.
@jacobbailey5498
@jacobbailey5498 7 лет назад
I've needed this video for a while. Completely remarkable. Frees up some cognitive dissonance. Thank you to Mark!
@KaneyoshiSouji
@KaneyoshiSouji 10 лет назад
So talented and I laughed so hard, but even more so, I was moved by the ending. Thank you!
@tylerkolb2277
@tylerkolb2277 2 года назад
This is by far the best performance on Tedx i've ever seen and I have benefited, BY FAR, the most from this particular Ted Talk
@helencampbell
@helencampbell Год назад
This is the best TedTalk I have seen - thank you Mark
@JoeyLevenson
@JoeyLevenson 6 лет назад
Watch the hands. His gestures are all in what he is saying. Good talk.
@amd-137
@amd-137 Год назад
So beautiful! Thank you Mark.
@elenabevzova5465
@elenabevzova5465 5 лет назад
Idea is completely true and performance is just perfect!
@WhiteNorthStar1
@WhiteNorthStar1 10 месяцев назад
One of the greatest presentations I've ever seen 🙏
@ChuckBosse
@ChuckBosse 9 лет назад
Just awesome, thank you Mark.
@victoriaatamansky474
@victoriaatamansky474 9 лет назад
Love this talk. Very informative.
@MyOveralls74
@MyOveralls74 2 года назад
This is beautiful. Thanks Mark!
@niesporczak_magnum
@niesporczak_magnum 6 лет назад
one of best Ted talk i've seen
@digiedit1
@digiedit1 10 лет назад
Wonderful talk. Have shared with my whole team
@nccacanada
@nccacanada 7 лет назад
Excellent topic and delivery!
@Melissa19f
@Melissa19f Год назад
Brilliant message and execution!
@DailyGrindRedefined
@DailyGrindRedefined Год назад
I adore this man! Behavioral panel for the win 👯‍♀️
@trishliving9942
@trishliving9942 11 месяцев назад
Chris Hatfield was your fabulous opening act. You are IMO the greatest speaker on Earth. Well done Mark! I’m going to be less authentic right away. 😅❤
@lorim.1528
@lorim.1528 2 года назад
Wow. Wow. Wow. I love it Mark. Genius! Great talk!
@ginnilou1
@ginnilou1 10 лет назад
Loved your presentation...will implement!
@jasondargonaut
@jasondargonaut 9 месяцев назад
What a genius.
@hendiherawan
@hendiherawan 9 лет назад
Wow! Thank you....
@mrsmacca126
@mrsmacca126 2 года назад
I LOVE LOVE LOVE Mark.
@jamespyle6537
@jamespyle6537 2 года назад
In my feeble teaching of rapport and conversations I've always told my students rapport begins at the speed of sight! With Mark's permission I will include this great Talk in my teaching from here on.
@655Louisa
@655Louisa Год назад
Love this. Thank you.
@CarlSpiessScotiaWealth
@CarlSpiessScotiaWealth 5 лет назад
Great talk! Very insightful.
@downbntout
@downbntout 6 лет назад
Brutal unskippable ad!! Grr!
@hi.moriarty
@hi.moriarty Год назад
Mark! Great talk! Thanks!
@AntonVoronych
@AntonVoronych 7 лет назад
Thanks for this amazing content!
@harrissourapas6840
@harrissourapas6840 7 лет назад
amazing information,this video should be more popular
@lilyofthevalley9819
@lilyofthevalley9819 3 года назад
WONDERFUL... great ideas
@melanycouch9749
@melanycouch9749 3 года назад
Love this guy!
@alen1alen1
@alen1alen1 8 лет назад
This guy is awesome!
@sinnera
@sinnera 2 года назад
Amazing talk - I loved it!
@memeboisvert7907
@memeboisvert7907 3 года назад
Awesome! Learned of this talk from The Behavior Panel and shared.
@freedomofspeech4925
@freedomofspeech4925 5 лет назад
Actually I just heard her right and she seemed solid and down to earth. Keep you doing what u r doing girl. I appreciate ur courage to speak out! Really ! I do girl! Much love!!
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