This is one of the quotes that is so on point! "An abuser can seem emotionally needy. You can get caught in a trap of catering to him, trying to fill a bottomless pit. But he’s not so much needy as entitled, so no matter how much you give him, it will never be enough. He will just keep coming up with more demands because he believes his needs are your responsibility, until you feel drained down to nothing." Ponder on this Anna & may you find healing, peace & true happiness. No one has the right to abuse someone!!
The world is in a thunderous uproar and it was just one slap/smack 👋 Will Smith gave to Chris Rock on live TV just because of an unambiguous joke that sounds more like a compliment. Ana Jalandoni, enough is enough. You don’t deserve any of that abuse, fear and pain. Time to take back the love for yourself that you were planning to share to someone who never should deserve it. He deserves hell that he put you through. If he ever fix his anger he should live alone for the rest of his rotten life deprived of sex. 👍👍👍 Cancel culture for these kit kind of monsters 👿
@@desmondmiles1066 We’ll change the pronoun when that story is at hand. In the mean👿time we should focus on the actual victim and criminal and not be derailed by gender issues.
Napakadali lang magsalita ng iba dito na hiwalayan na kaagad when you see red flags or whatsoever. Mind you, when you truly love a person at hindi ka lang naglalaro sa relasyon, whatever his or her worst attitude might be, you will try to understand and give him or her more understanding, patience and endless chances as much as you can bear enough. Napakadali lang humusga at magsalita because you were not on her shoes. As I watched the interview I could feel that Ana is sensible, mature and easy going lang, a light person that can joke and take joke lightly. When you love a person again after failed relationship much more a failed marriage, you will gonna trust again hoping for the best outcome of that relationship. Hiwalay agad is never a solution for sensible people!
When your partner hits you for whatever reasons.. He/she already cut the ties between love and respect. You might still love your partner but the respect is already gone.
Totoo. Kaya nga pinaka delikado yung domestic violence. You are abused in your own personal space where you are supposed to feel safe. Tapos biglang kabaligtaran mangyayari. Walang prepared sa ganun so walang nakakaalam ng dapat gawin. Tapos ikaw lang den at yung taong involve ang witness. Hinde ka makakahingi ng tulong until it's too late kasi your mind is playing tricks on you. You'll start questioning your sanity because of the manipulation. Mas mahirap lalo kapag meron ng buhay na involve like kids kasi you would wish to make things work. Kailangan, your self love is very strong in order to leave the toxicity. You are literally sleeping with the enemy.
I felt like Ana was authentic/honest in sharing her side. Hindi parang yung typical interview vibe na nakukuha ko sa ibang artista na may tinatago for the sake of their image and career. She had “nothing” to lose. I wish her the best and to heal from this. She deserves respect and the space to heal from this. Grabe I wanna hug her.
Her story is scary, she got into a broken marriage and then was abused physically by her next partner and felt she was gonna be killed! 💔 Be thankful if you haven’t experienced what she has gone through. No woman deserves abuse of any kind! Laban lang Ms. Ana! Hoping you will find your forever love someday ❤️🩹
Very well said. Being a man i can't even imagine physically hurting the woman that i love or anyone. Her man is a psycho. Respect is very important in any relationship.
He is a definitely a narcissist psychopath just like my ex husband. They seems very sweet when they want you and became obsessed. Then they turn into an evil person as the relationship progresses. Once you see a sign start packing yourself or start finding ways to cut the relationship while you can. Don’t wait for the relationship to go deeper or you’ll regret it. Read about narcessist psychopath/sociopath. You’ll be able to avoid this type of man in the future. The first sign is they are very fast or seem to rush you get into a relationship, showing you how much they are interested in you instead of just meeting you up without forcing you for meet up. And the rest is history... be careful girls.!
This is typical of a guy who’s abusive , controlling & obsessive. You are a brave woman, Ana- fight for it!!!! You don’t deserve the trauma you got! A wake up call to all of us women to speak up & know the signs of relationships w/ men who gets too clingy , protective & obsessed - they can turn into monsters!!! You can’t be trusting nowadays!!! Go Ana !!! Fight, fight lang!! I know you gave full support from family & friends!!!
Whatever the reason is don’t judge the victim because it is still unacceptable to hit and hurt a partner. Babae man, lalake or bakla - no one is exempted from the rule. Domestic violence/assault is a crime. Mas maganda na alamin ang mga red flags at wag i-ignore para hindi na umabot. Umalis na kaagad sa abusive toxic relationship. Brave of Ana to come out and give a voice to other domestic violence victims.
The interview is just very straight forward fair enough to let the subject comfortable yet my heart just stopped when Ana said she was the breadwinner of her family and have had a failed marriage in her past, plus having both parents separated. The worst and sad thing, she deserves to be taken care of by somebody not to be just bitten up just because of so-called anger management disorder and the likes. Again, it breaks my heart knowing her pieces of a story. The way she talks the way she gave her answeres, makikita mo totoong tao sya and sincere na klaseng babae. Ibang klase ka talaga, Boy.. you always hit the spot in the truest sense of every subject na pini featured mo... the BEST!!!
Thats why I salute her.. Ive been with her thru ups and down I know every heartaches and trials she's been through.. And I am grateful for having her as a friend even though we're miles apart now. Still manages to communicate with me every now and then. She's a very strong and independent woman.
Ana's story reminds me so much of the book called 'It Ends With Us'. No one deserves to be treated that way no matter what the circumstances are. So sad that she had to go thru that but I'm glad she was able to get away from that abusive relationship before becoming too invested in him to the point that she could no longer leave him.
This book took away all my prejudice on people in an abusive relationship. I used to low key blame the victims for staying and not leaving after red flags. But colleen hoover changed my mind through this book. I hope anna gets better.
The way Ana deliver every words, sentence and how she tried to bring back all the moments ng pag- aaway nila ramdam na ramdam mo yung trauma. :(( been there..
It’s never easy to let go when you’re in love, more so pag nakita mo din that the other person has a good heart but there’s something they need to work on. And yung mga beggings, cryings after the “incidents” kahit anong tapang mo bibigay ka. Minsan po talaga easier said than done. Pero nakakaalis din po kami, medyo late but never too late. Ana, pray and little by little things will be better din po. This is from someone who also suffered from abuse. Big hug
I had a boyfriend like KT, i forgave him once out-of-love kasi, then the 2nd time he hit me, sinabi ko na lang to myself it's my fault. The 3rd time, i still told myself baka mag bago pa when we get married. umabot ng 12th time....that's the moment I realized im so battered na and there's no chance at all na magbago. Today, I learned that he also did the same act to his 3RD wife. Tama sinabi nila, once a man hits you uulitin at uulitin lang nya yun bec that is character and no woman can ever change that. My life has completely changed, happily living with my one and only daughter, own 3 businesses, i got a home i call my own, a car I drive under my name and lahat nun wala sya until today :) Instead gumanti and make his life miserable, i focused on making the best of myself. manghinayang siya hanggang next life! lols
i really can see that ana is having a hard time telling her story due to the distress caused by kit to her. it is difficult emotionally and mentally to recall your moments with the person who abused you. stay strong ana! 🥺
Hirap siyang magkwento kase di katalinuhan obviously. I feel for her, but lets be honest here. She’s not the sharpest tool in the shed. A relationship between a guy with anger management issues and a lady who can be frustrating to listen to will always end badly. Parang pinagtabi mo ang dinamita at apoy.
I salute you boy for being able to thresh out the deeper issues. Yours is not just a superficial chismis session but rather, being able to understand the real issue.
You can’t fix a broken person. He needed help and Ana was inlove with him and gave him so many chances kasi she believed na pwede pa ma fix but it only hurt her in the end. Hope she recovers from the incident, this is traumatizing. Be strong 💪
I was a victim of physical abused and believe me hindi talaga siya biro, kahit wala na kami nung ex ko na yun nandito parin yung trauma saken may takot padin ako may times na naiiyak padin ako everytime na naalala ko yung sinapit ko sakanya. Pero mabait talaga si lord kasi inilayo nya ako sa tao na yun at ngayon maayos at masaya ako with my live in partner and sa anak namin. Sana Miss Ana maging ok ka at maging mas tatagan mo pa loob mo. God is good everything will be okay. 😊❤
I hope you also seek counseling to help you emotionally and mentally. My daughter went through the same thing and therapy really helped her get through a very traumatic experience. I hope Ana will also seek professional help to get through this 🙏
Narcissist si Kit, I feel really sad for Ana sana maka recover ka agad. Bago ako mag asawa I can still remember nung mag BF pa lang kami sinabi ko na never ako sigawan, murahin at saktan kasi pag mangyari yon tapos na agad kami. Sana someday maka hanap ka Ana ng matino at mag mamahal sayo ng tunay.. etong mga experiences mo sa past and toxic relationships mo will make you wise and even more stronger than ever. God bless you.
I was a victim of emotional and physical abuse so listening to her story makes me remember my ordeal. No woman should undergo that kind of situation, ever.
I am married for 7 years and been together for 11 years with my husband. I'm lucky that he never lay a hand on me. I always recieve respect, kindness and loyalty. We have a simple life and have 2 lovely kids. Marriage is not about money or material things. We started from nothing and helped each other to survive our family. Its really hard to see women being treated like this. This must stop and women deserved love and respect🙌
I feel you Ms. Anna. Same nanyari sa akin. I had 7 years relationship with my ex before, half of those years ay sakitan, bugbugan, etc., hanggang parang mentally unstable kna. Hinahanap2 mo yung sakit ginagawa nya. Parang nagiging psycho kna. I don’t know the medical term, pero traumatised ka na sa ginagawa nya, halos everyday na nagiging numb kna sa mga sakit. The last thing na ginawa nya eh yung hinampas nya ako ng bote sa ulo. Thank God talaga, nakalabas ako sa toxic na relationship na iyon. Ngayon my husband na ako who is waaayyyy different from my ex. ❤️
Kadaming matatalino dito kayo kaya mabugbog kung anong trauma maranasan nyo? Baka nga Hindi na kayo makausap e tulala nalang kayo, napaka brave na babae mo Ana.. Walang sino man ang may karapatan na saktan ka, at kahit sinong babae Hindi dapat tinatrato na basura at bugbugin lang. Nakilala ka nya na malaki kana at pinakikinabangan ka na. Be strong Ana Salamat at Buhay ka pa.. never ever settle for less, Once na murahin ka na ng jowa mo alam mo na dapat mong gawin dahil don Hindi ka nya nirerespeto una Palang.. Hayys God bless girl 😩🙏
@@thelivingrisi7233 Exactly, Recitations nga lang sa klase sobra takot at kaba mo, e Yung mabugbog ka pa kaya? Haha katawa mga tao talaga kadaming demands muntik na nga mamatay tao, dami nyo hanashhhhh pabugbog mo na kayo then after pwede na kayo mag magaling non Hahaha.😵🥴
I feel her kasi me din napagbuhatan din ako ng EX ko buti na lang that time hindi kami natuloy mag pakasal🥺 but GOD is GOOD talaga hiniwalayan ko siya,. Traumatized Kaya un ung gusto mong mag try ulit into a relationship parang nag aalangan kapa kasi baka mngyri ulit ung dati. After 6 years bago lang ako nag attempt sumubok mag boyfriend🥰 and perfect timing din kasi si GOD din mismo ang mag bibigay sa yo ng right guy.
Been there for 9yrs. at sobrang traumatizing ung ganyan. Sobrang naka apekto sa buhay ko at napaka hirap makalimutan. Lagi lang ako nag pra-pray. I hope she will get better and still choose to be a good person kahit na ano pang tingin sakanya ng mga tao at sa traumang dinanas nya. No one deserved to be treated like that. Maging matatag ka ana asia.
@@iiyakmolang9071 Salamat po. Wala ng sasarap sa pakiramdam na wala ng nananakit sakin ngayon. To that panalong panalo na po ako 7yrs ng malaya at di na nasasaktan. Salamat sa dyos.
@@majorieterrazola2842 at the end of the day ung nanakit hindi po yan sila nakakatulog at nakakaharap sa tao ng maayos dahil alam nila kung anong klaseng tao sila. Kaya cheer up po laban po at mag pray ng mag pray. Magugulat nalang po kayo na nakawala na kayo at magiging masaya. God bless po.
It gives me goosebumps to imagine the horrific instances Ana went thru. I hope she recovers from these traumatic experiences, rest muna sa emotional entanglement and find healing. You will find your one true love eventually, but for now, love yourself.
kinikilabutan ako sa mga nakwento ni Ana Jalandoni tungkol ky Kit... grabe, na speechless ako bigla. At the same time, ang tatag ng tingin ko kay Ana. She gained my respect.
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years when I was younger. The moment you see the red flags..you should really leave the relationship as it only gets worse from there. My red flag started from the first date in a mall, when he tried to stop me from browsing the racks in the mall...as he wanted my attention solely for himself. He hit my head in a light slap, telling me ‘matigas ang ulo ko’. At the end of that relationship, It had gotten so bad that I had landed in a hospital with terrible bruises too, and I had filed a restraining order against him. I had no choice but to leave the country for my safety. Girls, you should never allow a man to hit you...it may cost you your life. Much later, I found out he was abusive to an ex-gf as well, forcing her to elope with another man to escape from this guy. There is always a track record...an no man will change easily from being a violent individual because its psychopathy.
@@aurorapaz2003 so true...we need to really learn how to protect and defend ourselves. Teach our daughters self worth so they value themselves enough to be able to walk away from an unsafe relationship.
Hindi naman ako intentionally sinaktan pero i was grabbed by hand harshly kaya nagkabruises. I dont think it was an abuse. Abusive lang sa feelings ko. Very bad experience
Praying for your recovery both physically and mentally. Alam ko mas mahirap ma overcome ang trauma, goodluck sa processing, don't hold it back in, talk to anyone whenever something triggers you. Mas madaling magtago minsan pag natritrigger pero one step at a time, hinga malalim. You are not a victim, yòu are a survivor, brave and a woman of courage. ❤❤❤
I agree. Sabi q sa husband q, the moment na saktan mo ako physically, hinding hindi ako magdadalawang isip na iwanan sya. Baka nga ma patay q pa siya. Lumaki kaming hindi nakitang nag aaway ang parents q so it's a big no to me.
When i learn in my Nursing Assistant class The Cycle of abuse they way you explain the scenario of your experienced about your ex-boyfriend.Ganyan ang gawa ng Tao .Sasaktan ka emotionally ,physically then magsososorry, susuyuin ka magpapakabait,very sweet of words and action .Then uulitin uli ang abuse .Then as usual magsosorry magiging sweet na naman .Because of control sa partner kaya maging maeducate tayong mga spouse,girlfriend,friends .etc. Kung alamin ang Cycle of abuse ganyan .Pero alalahanin natin we have to Love ourselves bago iba and yong self worth natin.. Don't let them to abuse you or us ...I pray for your healing ang naging bad experience mo sa lovelife mo Ms.Ana Jalandoni..May God give you the strength to give justice sa pangaabuso saiyo.Be strong you are smart,intelligent independent,beautiful woman. So much life ahead of youGod bless you dear.I'm a mother nararamdaman ko ang nararamdaman mo kahit di mo ako kilala.My heart goes out to you.. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖
Yeah, we really should not. However, psychologists explained that those who are the closest to red flags are the ones to recognize it. Due to trust, trust and comfort that those you love will protect you. This is always the case in domestic violence within couples and families. And yeah I too am praying for her recovery. And I encourage everyone that we look after our own friends and families, that we investigate when we recognize red flags. That is all stay safe everyone.
This is so true. First day of red flag alis na agad if possible. Ako nahintay ko pa dati nh 3 years. Muntik lang matulad kay Ana. I'm so thankful my husband saved me but until now yung trauma andun padin.
No one deserves to be treated that way. Praying for you Ms Anna every thing will be okay your such a strong woman God bless u stay safe and healthy always God bless you
It’s so interesting how there’s so much fuss about this incident. This happens to wives, girlfriends and partners everyday. It should not happen regardless of status in life.
Grabe the way sya magkwento talagang detalyado talagang naiimagine ko yung eksena nila ni Kit 😭😭😭 grabe grabe sana maging okay na sya kahit mahirap kasi "TRAUMA" natalaga inabot niya ganyan din kasi papa ko may SALTIK konting ano lang eh nagagalit kaagad, nakakatakot yung mga ganysng tao juskooo juskooo sana maging okay kana Ate Anna🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
To the ENABLERS/VICTIM BLAMERS in the comment section: NOTHING JUSTIFIES ABUSE!!!! Abuse is abuse, period! Whether or not someone cheated or is flirty, it does not give the other person the right to lay a hand on someone else. IN SHORT, WALANG MAG JUJUSTIFY SA ABUSE, verbal, emotional or physical. Also, Ana’s reluctance to divulge information especially sensitive ones might be attributable to the fact that there is an on-going legal action. Wag kayong mema. Upgrade your mindset, 2022 na po.
@@arvinsheet sige ipagpalagay na nagcheat. Mali den yun. Pero hinde pa rin dapat nananakit yung lalake ng mas mahina sa kanya. Logic behind that is iba ang physical makeup ng lalake sa babae. So kahit bugbugin mo yan, malamang di naman yan makakalaban. Point is, hinde ka dapat nananakit period. Lalo pag alam mong wala naman laban sayo yung tao kasi kaduwagan yon. Kaya nga may batas dyan, kasi the law were created for those who are weak and cannot protect themselves. Not just women. kids, matanda, disabled etc. If i-allow mo ang sarili mo sa ganyang reasoning... maraming pwedeng mamatay or makapatay. Physical violence is violence. Hinde dapat yan jinajustify kasi it will just encourage others to the same that's why it should be condemned.
Mabait si Ana. Kung alam nyo lang sakripisyo nya para maiayos buhay ng pamilya nya. Sumalo ng responsibility sa mga anak ng kapatid nya na hanggang ngaun di pa din nila nakikita. Tulungan member ng family nya na nalulong sa bisyo. Bata pa lang sya naging breadwinner na sya. Kung anu man narating nya anu man meron sya ngaun, naniniwala aku pinag trabahuan nya yun, pinag paguran nya. Kung pangit man nakaraan nya hindi kayo na perwisyo ng mga actions nya sa buhay. Ang issue dito ay si Kit, sya ang nanakit at nang bugbog. Maswerte si Ana naka survived sya sa brutal na pang bubugbog sa kanya na pwede sana nya kinamatay. I hope hindi nya iuurong ang kaso. You deserve to be happy and be loved truly.
Yes mabait yan. At napakasipag. Labas na tayo dyan Kung ano pa man naging diskarte nya sa buhay para maging successful. Mahalaga Wala syang natapakan sa pag angat nya. Napakasinop sa Pera kaya nakaipon at nagkaroon ng mga business. Pinaka gusto ko sa taong yan napaka humble.
sa mga kabataan, focus muna kayo sa career... right ones will come... pray to God everyday to preserve that one person who's going to take care of you...
This reminds me of Colleen Hoover’s It Ends with Us 💔 Ang heartbreaking 🥺 “Naked truths aren’t always pretty. Sometimes it’s the one who loves you that hurts you the most.” -CoHo
Hindi mo mababago ang past ng isang lalake, babaero man, bugbugero, sugarol o ano pa mang bisyo. Nasa sistema na yan, magiging minimal pero it wont change. Pag may red flag na sa una ekis na agad yon. Malabo na mabago. Get Well soon Ana. Stay Strong. Laban.
Hays this is very true. Kaya I'm so grateful and I can say that I am so lucky right now that I finally found the man whose totally opposite from my ex.
Glad you got out of that toxic relationship before it’s too late. You deserve better. I’ve been through there, not once but 2x. People say, get out, those are just words, not easy to do. So hard to phantom that alcoholic men thinks it’s okay to hurt their women and in 5 minutes or next day, expects them to forget everything they did or have said, and also to forgive all the physical, mental, verbal, emotional and hurtful they’ve caused. Sure, forgiveness is easy but never forgotten. You take that to your grave. Hope you find peace, love and comfort through God’s love and grace. Take care and be safe. 🎈🎈🎈
Wow, some of the people in the comment section are disgusting. You never condone violence! I cant believe some are defending Kit. Violence is violence. Regardless of whatever the reason is. IT ISNT ACCEPTABLE! Period!
Tama halos mga babae pa nag cocoment na si girl daw di nagsabi ng totoo kaya binugbog jusko anong klaseng mga babae ang ganon mag comment ganon ba basihan kapag di nagsabi ng totoo dapag bugbugin e seloso nga si boy natural hindi ganon kadali e open ni girl kong meron man saan nila nakita na nag lie si girl sa.interview dahil ba di sya ganon kagaling mag explain mga abnormal mga ganon babae na mas kakampihan pa ung veolenteng lalakeng yun..kaloka tong mga girl sa comment ..
Walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni kit sa kapatid ko na kamuntik na mamatay ng dahil sa bugbug! 😢 magaling si lord at alam nya kung sino ang tutulungan nya kaya maraming salamat po lord sa pag gising sa kapatid ko na muntik na mamatay....
Facts as per this interview 1) Relationship started with an Emoji DMs 2) She was previously married to Renan Morales , who cheated on her, also he is running for Vice Mayor . ( you have been given clues, you VOTER) 3) She got married when she was 25 yrs old in 2017. 4) Her Relationship with KIT was in a span of 4 months (Started in October 2021) 5) The signs of negative /toxic relationships to watch out for are scattered in this interview.
A lot of people will never understand what it's like to have a good heart. Being a person who believes in goodness no matter what the situation may be is something you cannot just command to leave something behind. Ana had hopes for Kit because of love and she stayed despite having small doubts because love forgives and it understands. Ana knew what was going on but she also knew that she wanted to help Kit. It is just unfortunate that she had to go through this even when we as the audience knew from the beginning of the story that it did sound really weird and odd how everything went too fast and a lot of red flags were already shown. We will never know what she really feels inside and the trauma that she experienced so please everyone, be careful with your words and take care of yourselves. Never tolerate abuse and while you still have a chance, never tolerate the slightest abuse one can give you.
Come on, Boy. Kit is your talent. Conflict of interest itong interview na ito. Full disclosure dapat kayo ng agency. Prayers for Ana, her continued safety, and safe recovery.
Idk if mababasa 'to ni Ana, I' ve check her natal chart and oh boy, you're a magnet of people that has a lot of tendency na mag turn into obsession. Moon and Venus is in 8th house Scorpio. You're a magnet of ppl who has a lot of baggages. Until you learn to execute and listen to your intuition you'll keep on attracting them like moth. I am sorry for a lot of things na you've been through. I know its not easy to be there but I hope, I really hope na you'll get through this. I hope you heal and heal for real. May the star guide you to find your power back. You're a powerful soul Ms. Ana you'll get through this💖
Girls, sa una pa lang na itini-treat ka ng lalaki ng walang respeto. Huwag nyo na ituloy ang relationship. Learn from Ana. Hindi ikaw ang magfi-fix sa tao, ang tao mismo ang magche-change sa sarili nila.
Tama naman sinabi ni ana.... Ayusin muna ang sarili..... That should be everyone of us... Bago tayo pumasok sa relasyon mahalin.,kilalanin, at ayusin ang sarili...
we have to understand why she needs to be precise and give short answers lang kasi it might affect the investigation so she has to be careful with her statements. I hope she'll get better soon,
Nagpapasalamat pa din ako Kay Lord coz I'm so blessed dun sa mga past relationships ko na never ever Kong natikman yung physically pain. And especially my relationship now. Sobrang thank you Lord.
I was in an abusive relationship for 4yrs. Sobrang nagflash back saken yung time may pinagselosan sya sa trabaho to the point na inaway nya ako sa workplace namin mismo & natrouble kami pareho sa supervisor. So pauwi, I was explaining to him na nagpapatulong LNG yung coworker namin kaya kami nag-usap. He didn’t believe me & binabastos na nya ako. So I slapped him. Sinuntok nya ako 6-7 beses sa braso, iyak ako ng iyak. Sabi ko itigil nya yung sasakyan or tatalon ako. So he parked in an abandoned parking lot, pagkapark nya, takbo ako agad, sumisigaw ng HELP!!! It took us about 30mins bago may nakarinig samen. Everytime na tatakbo ako, nahahabol nya ako, kinakaladkad nya ako pabalik ng kotse. We broke up almost 3yrs ago na, pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya minsan. Nakikipagbalikan. Following me around. Promising me na hindi na nya ako sasaktan. Sobrang nakakatrauma kasi almost 3yrs na kami hiwalay pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya.
She is telling truth. You can see on her body language and eyes. I think she cannot fully talk because the lawyer is besides her. Maybe she was advised not to divulge too much info.
The way she talks, makikita mong totoo sya. Eye to eye contact is there. Sincere bawat salita nya. And habang pinag uusapan past nila ni kit wla na ang kilig at excitement sa mata. Kitang-kita mo na grabe talaga yung trauma na pinagdaanan nya. I hope maging okay ka ulit ana
Haha naniwala ka naman? 🤣 Yung kwento pa lang nya, wala dw signal sa room nila kaya umakyat sya sa 3rd floor at dun nakatulog.. pero nung binugbog na sya ni kit nakapagtxt sya, edi may signal sa kwarto nila
It's difficult to have anger problems because you can't control yourself. I believe Kit has grown too accustomed to verbally harassing Ana to the point that he has already lifted his hand to her. It is important to seek help, even if your anger problems are limited to verbal abuse, because verbal abuse causes a huge amount of damage and trauma, and it is far worse if you physically harm someone. There are many physically abused women out there, and this should serve as encouragement to speak out. If someone genuinely loves you, he or she will not harm you in any manner or place you in a traumatic situation.
Kadiri yung mga enablers sa comment section. I hope di mangyari sa inyo yung nangyari sa kanya kasi baka kainin nyo lahat ng sinabi nyo. Grow up, people, 2022 na.
OMG She looks so nervous during the interview. You can feel her guilt and anger. Imagine the pain she will carry through the years until she forgave his ex-boyfriend.
@@erincrisostomo9357 What are you saying? Nanuod ka bah? Isn't it obvious na may problema c Kit? He admitted it na may anger problem cya. Kahit na ano pa ang ginawa ni Ana, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT SOMEONE!!!
@@erincrisostomo9357 So okay lng manakit para sayo if you discover something na hindi mo gusto ang ginagawa ng partner mo? Kung sino man ang partner mo ngayon, I pity her/him. You must be someone as Kit. Gross!!
You can tell she's an easy target by the way she speaks. I'm not passing judgment, she didn't deserve to be treated the way Kit did, but I hope she grew stronger. Hope she completely recover from pain soon.
@@loombandz6722 You can tell that Ana is a weak minded person by the way she perceives things; she knows that something is wrong but simply ignores it. At the beginning of her story, she stated that things happened so quickly with Kit, and the way she talked about it seems like she knows that's not a good sign but she completely ignores it, and when Kit wants her to meet his parents and she doesn't want to go because they aren't together at that time, pero sumama pa din siya at this point you can clearly tell that she's a "yes person" who always happens to agree to anything even if it does not feel quite right. This type of personality can caught the interest of advantage takers like Kit. You can clearly see na pwede siya maging victim,don't get me wrong, I'm not on Kit's side, I'm a woman, and I know that no one deserves to be treated like that, but having a strong personality is the only way to get rid of someone like Kit, which ana unfortunately didn't have at that time.
Exactly. Tinotolerate nya yung pagiging abusive ni kit at pinapatawad nya agad, walang boundaries. Kung ako sa kanya lalayo na talaga ako kay kit terrifying ganung uri ng tao.
She is very brave and strong, but trauma will stay herself longer.. but trigger be will be there till the wound is not held. Don't give up, Ana; everything will be okay. Love you ..
Sinayang ni Kit ang buhay nya. Nakakaawa nman sinapit ni Ana sana maging ok ka sa lahat ng dinanas mo! Keep praying everything happens for a reason. 🙏🙏🙏
Hearing the progression of her story, regardless, her ex boyfriend has true-blue covert narcissistic behavioral patterns. Coming from a relationship like this, although I wasn’t physically abused, there’s no amount of words to ease the trauma and the lingering misleading effects of the abuse. For some, it can be a lifetime trauma. I didn’t know Ms. Jalandoni until this news but I hope people will stop bashing and attacking her. You have no idea the severity of the damages of experiences like this can cause somebody, whether the victim’s a male or female. Be kind.
true buti di sila ngtagal... pero mukhang si girl naniniwla mahal na mahal sya ni Kit nsa idealize stage pa. kasi sya.. sna dina nya balikan. ang hirap makawala s gnyang relasyon..
I agree. Though it is a choice whether to stay pr leave the kind of relationship, pag andun ka sa sitwasyon ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi how you would manage.
@@s.o.u.l576 and so am I. Emotionally attacked and somehow broken, but I managed to fight back the emotional brokenness and gain strength. I was almost hit as well physically, but I fought back, I vowed to myself that never will I allow that anyone would hit me physically even the tip of my fingers. I gave him that bruises coz of my jumbags. And he didn't do it again. This experience actually made me an even strong person. And learn within the scenario how could you fight back the emotional impact out of it. Maybe other will think martyr or fool or stupid, but they don't know the real score of your relationship, on what's holding you to keep hoping for the best. This made me a training ground for emotion control in some instance. Weird, but that's me. I never condone violence. If really can't manage it, back off and live your life even without a partner. That's up to personal choice and decision.
when there are red flags, kahit gano mo pa kamahal ang tao, LEAVE. i too was in a toxic relationship. not healthy at all. mentally, physically, emotionally drained ka. i was beaten up thrice, the last one was the worst but still forgave him. i thank God for giving me the strength to walk away from him. this happened to me more than a decade ago pero ang lalim ng sugat. kaya LEAVE the guy pag nakikita nyo ng may tendency syang manakit wag ng patagalin at ikaw lang masasaktan in the long run.
I feel for you Ms. Ana. I hope in time you will recover from this naniniwala ako sayo. I'm a mother sana yun iba dito wag manisi buti nga nagsalita yan para wag maulit sa iba
Ang DAMING red flags! Ladies, please heed the warnings. Pag may “manliligaw” na ganyan na ka forceful hindi pa kayo or kasal, RUN! Regardless kung guapo o hindi, maganda o hindi. Ang tunay na love HINDI ka sasaktan physically. God bless Ana and keep her away from evil, in Jesus’ name.
I'm very proud to hear from you dear... Ure brave to tell the truth, and even your expression was real... God had given u chance to breath life in the middle of trials... Very thankful God saves you... Protection and healing for you Ana.. 😘🙏
I also joke around with my husband the way she do about ex , nagseselos din ang asawa ko pero it never and will never came to a point na may verbal or physical abuse xa sa akin. Kit is a narcissist , there's something wrong on his mentality pra mkapanakit ng ganyan n halos patayin na
@@nashtyreynstarosa7437 seems like its not only an anger issues. Switching moods in just a min. , like magagalit after few min. magsosorry , and then another min. magagalit ulit magmamakaawa. He really had a mental issues, like bipolar disorder sakit.ng karamihan ng mga western. Maraming ng mga pilipinang napatay ng husband sa US dahil sa mga husband na my bipolar disorder.
Ive known her for too long na. Shes fun to be with mahilig talaga cia mag joke. Kahit maraming problems kinakaya nia lahat. Super bait nian ni Ana maraming beses tlga cia magbigay ng chances khit sa kaninong tao na nagawan cia ng mali. Stay strong lang mah. Laban lang.
Naka relate ako dto..Gaya ni Ana Isa din ako sa nasaktan nabugbog pero thankful ako Kasi nalampasan ko din un..pinakamasaklap n ngyri sakin Ms.Ana dadating ung time na all the pain ai mawawala na din..good luck sau at Sana bumalik na sa dating ikaw.. Ingat po palage😊
The best talaga si Tito Boy . Maybe next time you can interview Paulo & Janine po. For sure it will be a brilliant conversation❤️❤️❤️Tito Boy is always fair & square sa mga interview nya .
Bless her..hopefully she finds her reality and way back.. it’s not love .. she’s definitely been hoovering phase , future faking , trauma bond from a narcissistic person… lots of red flags in this stories , people (including me) who experienced in a narcissistic relationship abuse ( phsycological , emotional and even physical abuse ) can see the behavioral patterns in this story!! It’s traumatic , I hope she able to recover and heal and learn to protect her vulnerabilities from predators like that guy she was with!
Girls/ladies when your man started yelling at you shouting and always getting in anger mode specially when he started hitting you ... pls watch out .. you need to open up your senses and be ready .. walk away or leave him totally .. do not wait for the worst thing to happen thatwill throw his fist on you or landing his hands to you .. get away immediately
Maraming nagsasabi dito na hindi daw kapani-paniwala yung mga kinekwento ni Ana. I don’t think so. Kapag nagsisinungaling ang isang tao, halatang halata agad yon based sa pagsasalita at sa tingin ng mata. Pag nagsasalita si Ana, alam agad niya kung anong sasabihin niya. Alam agad niya kung anong ikekwento niya sa bawat tanong ni Boy Abunda. Maraming hindi naniniwala sa kwento ni Ana kasi bakit daw nagstay pa siya kung ginaganon na siya. And I believe Ana’s reason na dahil mahal niya at umiiyak at nagmamakaawa si Kit pag magkaaway sila. Mahirap nga talagang iwanan ang taong mahal mo lalo na’t nagmamakaawang umiiyak sayo. In fact, dinefend pa ni Kit Thompson si Ana sa fake news na pinapakalat ni Xian Gaza. Check Kit’s Facebook for that post. Ibig sabihin, guilty si Kit at nagsasabi talaga nang totoo si Ana. Hindi magpapaka-guilty si Kit kung nagsisinungaling si Ana. At anong purpose ni Ana para magsinungaling nang kwento? Anong makukuha niya sa pagsisinungaling niya? Wala. So I totally believe her.
Finally, may nabasa rin akong may sense. Most of the commenters only criticized her character while being interviewed as basis of the construct of her story. Pero they were not able to discern a notion that opening up about a traumatizing event was very difficult for her as a woman and lying about the event was senseless.
Sa incident palang about the knife sa leeg, I would not hv continued the relationship anymore. It`s too early in tne game to show red flags like that. Ladies, wake up!
Noong boyfriend ko pa dati Ang asawa ko.. may anger issues rin siya pero never Naman ako sinaktan..sinisira Niya lang lahat Ng gamit na nahahawakan Niya.. I think 4 cellphones ung mga nasira nya at marami pa iba.. I was ready to get out on our relationship but he manage to change his attitude along the way. And ngayon asawa ko na siya for 2 years Wala Naman nangyare because lage ko sinasabi na kapag binalikan Niya pa ung pagiging seloso at agresibo iiwan ko siya.... Mas napalapit lang siya sa diyos kaya siya nagbago.. you know when the man really loves you hnd ikaw Ang mag adjust para saknya.. magbabago Yan Kung Mahal ka talaga.
She's very submissive too many red flags but still chose to stay. The fact the He held a knife on her neck as a joke was foreshadowing of worse of the worse in this relationship. It could've been worst. Their physical attraction is exhilarating but deadly. Mabuti nalang she survived.
@@mlgods9727 Kung magrerelease ng public statement si Kit baka my ibang version ng story although Yung ginawa nya kasi imho is criminal act assault talaga sya.. Nakita ng lahat Ang evidence so I guess mananahimik yan ng matagal sa public. Dadaan lahat sa attorney nya for sure
Walang third party dito, walang sponkey issue dito. Si Ana once na pumasok sa isang relasyon yan totoo yan magmahal as in sobra sobra.Totoong tao, loyal ,faithful. Si Kit may Anger issue , yan ang problema. Hindi marunong mag control. Laging gigil , gustong gusto manakit.Hindi na kuntento na maglabas na lang ng masasamang words. Gusto pa yata makapatay.
@@richtan3514 classmate man o hindi, ang point dito is may anger problem si Kit, based sa mga kwento ni Ana, konting biruan lang, pikon agad, nanunutok na ng kutsilyo sa leeg, tama ba yon? Jusko
I’ve been in her shoes before. And I know walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni Kit. But, analysing the story na magkakilala sila at mga exes nila parang may malaking reason talaga kung bakit ganyan ang nangyari. And sobrang tipid magsalita ni Ana. I’m not assuming anything and I’m not siding Kit. But I can smell something deeper talaga.. Marites lang noh??!! Hahaha
not you lowkey justifying an abusive behavior. kahit ano pang dahilan ng pag aaway nila still it doesn't give him a free pass to physically abuse someone.
