My inner child won't shut up. I'm definitely more of the anxious attachment style, but so is my boyfriend 😅. We're doing the individual work to develop a more secure attachment style. Great info!
the girl i like deleted her insta ( we followed each other there) she has a second insta, should i follow her there? considering we don’t talk and don’t see each other anymore now that we’ve graduated uni. she has a bf now, so i wouldn’t make any moves on her anyway, but i thought we may lose each other and grow apart. and she wouldn’t see me level up if she doesn’t watch my stories… should i follow her at some point? i think there is like 80% chance she will follow back cuz we are cool with her. it may pay off in years
@@tim30006 yes brother, i know it’s the right frame of mind. i will work on myself, but i have certainty that her current thing is not gonna work out(she s 22 and with a foreign italian dude, i guess practical issues are gonna be too much, and it’s a matter of time she s gonna become free at some point. it would have been easier for us to connect if we follow each other on social. but i’m inclined to not doing anything now and working on myself cuz realistically i need to get better financially. maybe in 1-3 year time i’m simply gonna write to her and ask her out ( when she’ll obviously be free). if she says yes we see each other and if she says no, we won’t. simple as that. i won’t lose anything by asking her out. but it’s only when she s free, now it’s silly to do and i respect her boundaries cuz she s a lovely person indeed
BRO wtf??? You sound like a stalker bro, there are many beautiful single women out there. level up for yourself, not for women. damn bro, don't go out sad.
