I wonder why women will allow their husbands to be suffer and leave him when he finally get frustrated and they will now Tag him irresponsible YOU ARE A HELPER NOT THE FOOLISH ORIAKU THEY USUALLY CALL YOU
It is not about the numbers of children you can manufactured or bring to this world but it the quality of life you want for each of the children. It's only in Africa that they don't normally practice family planning. As a parent, you will be blamed for your incompetency to provide for the children.
From the comments nigerian women protect your life n sanity by all means. ❤❤❤❤be safe cos these men are not it. OBAMA TWO KIDS,ALABA TRADER 7 KIDS. 🤣😂🤣
Marriages are breaking, children are then apart because of the bad Economic position of the country, how aml wish the Government is watching this program,so that can see what families and the masses is going through. It’s very pathetic.
The guy just dey look for where to deliver his few yrs loads of palp... Even girls nowadays no wan sleep with broke ass guy's. Nigeria wife no dey resist
@@ihemehelen1454 so he should marry her to add a burden to his life? Feed her cloth her, give and money and she don’t nothing? Why then should the man get married? And stick with her?
@@ihemehelen1454 marriage is a duty….. oh you want to be treated like our fore fathers treated a woman? Women then are virgins when they got married, they listen to their husbands, are submissive, obey and never ask for equality with the man!
If only d Court cud allow money donors/Philanthropists to donate money in lieu of d Court to manage to help some of dis poor issues; money in marriages cud b solved. If such happs however, can only advise d court to lend out d money gathered to help dem, sometimes even other litigants dat has nothing to do wit marriage, anyways, both d poor Plantiffs n Defendants: Set up a Buzz wia dey ld work n remit certain amts back to d Court: Daily, Weekly, Bi-weekly or Monthly. D Court In Return .... T/b paying dem accordingly till maybe d buzz bcums theirs. I'm sure none of dis debtors ld try any nonsense, hm 'Default' dey dare not to remit pymts to Court, dodging, hiding, running or whatever with d Court ? Dey already know once dey default, messed up or wateva, once caught 4 wateva reasons 'Na Jail d'dat', Yet Must Pay Full Amount. Bless Up y'all🙏
I know this in Alaba international since 1998 he's really a hustler am really sock to see this and seeing him in this condition, please (judge funmi) I will like to come in and see how I can help, Murphy writing from Sydney Australia thanks and God bless you and keep on the good work maa.
True. I think they r keeping their own laundry a secret. In any case it looks like they will make the marriage work. If i had capital i would give it to the wife so she can be the manager/accountant of his business. For unknown reason i want their marriage to work,
What is love when you are doing what it takes to become parents and you can not afford to be a provider, and choose to marry a woman who is not willing to participate in the provision
Who else watching with me,let's pray for this marriage to work. According to my observation the marriage is still good they love each other, only problem for them is financial crisis but God is always good I hope in his mercy this problem will be solved
If he loved her so much, she wouldn’t have had to resort to leaving the home to see the errors of his ways. Staying out all night as a married person is disgraceful.
It's a great show. One advice please. The producers of this show should try to invite philanthropists into it. Either by initiating a fund where prospective philanthropists would contribute money into it. Then, also setup a panel that would select cases that have to do with financial issues, and the money would be donated to such case. This case is just lack of finance.
@@abdulrasaqoseni6843 Absolutely correct. Can only advise d court to lend out d money gathered to help dem set up a Buzz wia dey ld work n remit certain amts back: Daily, Weekly, Bi-weekly or Monthly pymt, t/b paying dem accordingly till maybe d buzz becomes theirs. Bless Up @Abdulrasaq Oseni.
The guy said he is working ..it's just not enough to financially take care of the family right now & it is always a good thing to pray to God who can change things for you.doesnt sound like he's lazy..he's just fell on hard times.I pray for him & the wife that God shall make His face to shine over them.once you allow time to get in the way of the marriage..devil can take up space ... blessings dear
@@apdwaseb8663My hope is in God for a better tomorrow for this family. God hears & answers prayers period .I am still praying that God will provide whatever means necessary for this family to get back on their feet . Thank you
@@heathergardiner7013 don't know if u r from any where in Africa but what u said is totally unacceptable......reasons being he was not his parent to send himself to school.......if his parent were poor how is it his fault......if u r white privilege plse stop being disrespectful and naive on people culture and educational status......What r u after your big mighty educational background were u not thought to have respect and compassion towards other people, I can clearly see u r one of those trolls on social media and the judge of public opinion. English is not his first language madam English language.
I get it.one may be down emotionally but turn to each other for comfort which results in baby making ...it's normal.not thinking because the mind is clouded.God help them financially & every other way
Na wa o, you watched but was not attentive to all they said. The man was very okay financial before things turned ugly, it's not about the amount of children they are seriously down financially that he can bare take care of himself now, not to talk of a child.
Eeya....I like the judge on how she handled this couple matter!!!! Love is sweet and it's even sweeter when EGO( money) is involved.... the guy should make effort and I pray things work out for him🙏🙏 Also people shd plan their family as per number of children to have. 👌👌
Nigerians need to start using family planning! Plan your life and how many children you will have. Stop having so many children that you cannot take care of! Women , stop having so many kids. Use family planning.
So the man should stop being responsible. He needs to have eauip her too in business. This is the danger with men who don't want their wife to work. There is nothing to fall back on.
It breaks my heart to hear children are out of school. I hope free education becomes a priority for the Nigerian Government. The woman is so hurt but she still respects him a lot. Men, good women are hard to find!
It actually depends on what you mean by free education. You hardly have public schools paying compulsory fees. People should also be realistic and plan their family well. The couple has 5 kids and the last one is 8 years which means that they had the kid 2 years after he lost his business. When the business was even bouyant, he didn't make effort to plan to build a house for himself. They were just making babies. They had 4 kids before the loss of his business. And they still had another one 2 years after! Some people contribute to their own pressures. People should plan for the rainy days. The man too doesn't seem to be pushing enough about improving his capacity to contribute to caring for the family. He was asked what his plan was and he couldn't articulate anything. And he started keeping late nights. As a responsible man who loves his family, a man should be able to take charge of his life and adjust to life changes. If a business isn't working, a man should luke for alternatives.
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
I love this justice court. Please all our philanthropist should contribute to the progress of this programme. From all the cases, it is very clear that poverty is the genesis of most problems
So your wife run away because there's no money and wants to come back when there's money.you love your wife but your wife don't love you.she don't want to suffer with you but she wants to enjoy with you.Lol some women makes no sense
He has been unemployed for 3 years. His wife has been selling pure water and mineral. So when do you think the guy should go look for job for stability for his 5 kids and wife?
@@NinaAce exactly. With 5 children that I'm quite certain she has sole responsibility of. The effort she's making should be a supplement OR he should handle the household and let her go out to get a full time job.
You guys have forgotten that this man has been taking care of them for like 17years, losing his business to ground zero alone has done something to his psychology as a man. He didn't do well to have not set up a business for the wife too so they can have something to fall back on now.
We will love to have the account details of this couples, they still love each other but poverty is not easy to endure. I believe if they are financially stable, they won’t hv any problem
He is a lazy man instead of him to go look for work he prefer to wake up in the morning go and attach himself with his friends and believing God for a miracle
Problems in Nigeria they can give birth ohhh even tho they’re not working they’ll just give birth any how .. try to get a life with a benefit before just give birth any how don’t let children be part of your suffering pls
The way she shakes her head, you the defendant will think she is your friend but she is playing you to get information from you. I just love the way she penetrates people even without them knowing. Her smile is so infectious, it will put you off balance. She is gifted, trained and experienced. kudos ma!
This one, there is love between the two of them but the problem is money. And the man is not serious. He is not focused and lazy. He needs to find some work to do and look after his family.
@@nanaok8070 he is not lazy. He is just facing financial challenges just like we all do. The problem is that the woman is not working. It is imperative for both couples to work ND contribute financial cuz of situations like this. At least until they are comfortable enough to leave on one person's income.
People are quick to help women but not men I feel sorry for him and you women out there control the no of kids you can handle. Mr I no get strength for more than 3kids abeg
Education is free and a must for all the kids in Europian countries, and nigeria has the money to provide this free education to their young one, but instead, the nigerian politicians continue to loot the money and share among themselves, banking it abroad, buying mantions in dubai, and sponsoring boko haram and their imported foreign fulani jihadist terrorists from all over Africa, please a good samaritan shoud please give him a job and open a business for the wife and send their kids to school, someone can also give them a free appartment if possible.
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
No body is above circumstance, rich or poor, it's not the man's wish to see his family apart and I blame the man for not been open to his wife enough, which lead to her decision of leaving, I pray God open doors of prosperity to this family in need.
@@josramsblue1 No one is above circumstances, very true, But plan acc. Have the amount of children you can afford to cater for and give them the best life possible.
@@Nikkygirlification there is nothing a person will eat and swallow his teeth, it is a fact that they have been married for a whooping 23 years, what acc planning are you talking about? After four grown children? Or are you saying four kids are too much or a poor man should not give birth again until he gets rich? This is a circumstantial situation that came in 3-4 years back.
@@josramsblue1 well obviously we see things differently, the part of the world i am at we plan. I'm not saying things do not happen. How many parents with the situation of things now can pay their kids tuition and fees without getting or asking for help from family members or government organizations? Things are even harder in Nigeria 🇳🇬, so my 2 cents anyways.
Let we Nigerians always learn how to control on how we bear children.everything is not government problem or village people,but common sense matters in Life.is not the number of children you have that guarantees your success. infact the More you have,the More responsibilities you will keep accumulating for yourself. you will see some family will sit down open their eyes and drop up to 5 or 8 children or even more, which they knew they won't be able to cater for.after the children will become wayward due to lack of no proper care from their parents.now their children are at home no school.Hmmm! it is well,I pray God help you people to rise back to your feet again.🙏🙏
Apart from that, nigeria is an entity is a destiny killer. Here where i am, their government give family mortgage and they will be paying little by little until 15 years
Government pls pls!! Nigeria problem is Government as its nw Government should give this family house children free education u ll see this family transformation 👪 💙 ❤
Presently, Lagos provides free education to over One Million pupils/students in 1,010 primary schools with a population of about 497,318 pupils; 670 Junior and Senior Secondary Schools with a population of about 564,758 students and 5 Technical and Vocational Schools across the state.
You have to be a man and be firm in ur decisions. The down fall of a man is not the end of his life. You can still bounce back if only you believe in yourself. My advice for you are - 1- Meet ur good friends and raise funds via them 2- change ur pattern of life style 3- work on your expenditures ( live within your means ) 4- Empower your wife ( women are help meet) 5- Be closer to God ( that's where you draw wisdom, strength & might to be successful)
The truth of the matter is that the man is a broken man because he is not able to take care of his family and this has affected him. Hence, the reason for staying out late. His wife never said he neglected his family when everything was fine. He is facing hard time. The court is putting him under a lot of pressure that can lead to a mental breakdown. This is just not about the man as the Judge said later in this case. The man loves his family and he is in pain that he cannot provide for his family.
@@kalimbaayinde25 you are not being "real", pray that you don't encounter serious challenges in your life. It's easy to criticise until it happens to you. And how are you sure that even his wife will be sympathetic and not put him under more pressure?
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This is avenue where government and blessed people suppose to use as a means of assistance. For instance the Ministry that relate to family affair to safe millions of people so that there children won’t become problem to the nation later in future..!
Awww they obviously still love each them 😂😂😂their case is my favorite. I pray he change and get a stable source of income likewise his wife. Judge Funmi you’re Awesome God bless you ma’am🙏🏽
I dislike this ideas of African women that depends on their husband financially, as soon as the husband habits problem financially boom everything turns upside down.. This rubbish orientation of husband work wife stays at home taking care home 🙄, secondly this mindset of having unnecessary many kids is absurd, but hey this is Africa we attached everything to God, what a nonsense.
The truth be say these days most men for our obodo dey leave women to carry the full responsibilities. The women are suppose to be help mate not carrying the home wahala . Its really frustrating when a woman take both the man and woman responsibllites especially for a long time . The man should be ready to do anything for now to still maintain his role as husband and father not nessecarly eletecal business . I pray for their union and a great financial breakthrough to start their life again .
Too many cases of people not being able to pay their house rents and too many children out of school in these big cities and most jobs don't even pay enough to even afford the rent. There is just too much suffering in Nigeria.
