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@justmontina
@justmontina 3 месяца назад
I went to a marriage conference and the pastor referenced this channel and a few of the videos during the series and it has been a game changer. I’m in my third marriage and I’m finally just now willing to do the work to get this right. As shameful as it sounds, I wish I would’ve known sooner yet, now I do and now I’m committed. Make your first marriage your last marriage and be sure to subscribe to this channel, listen to the videos and apply the knowledge. Get it right the first time or get it right in the marriage you’re currently in. Either way, marriage is work.
@emilyrodriguezbarrett9432
@emilyrodriguezbarrett9432 6 лет назад
My husband almost walked out on us today, on this day 05/18/18 and because of just 30 minutes of this series saved our marriage of 17 years. I'm witness that this really works and is not only a marriage saver but a life saver. The money is well worth spent. Next month when we get our social security checks we're getting the series, the full series. Thank you God and jimmy & Karen for this Goldy life saver. We love you.
@edwinstreet9155
@edwinstreet9155 5 лет назад
That's awesome. Good is good
@darlawalsh6237
@darlawalsh6237 5 лет назад
I pray for thomas medford and i to be restored and remarried to each other all these single ladies need to leave married men alone
@teddyonyango3098
@teddyonyango3098 4 года назад
I've been researching how to save your marriage and found a great website at Secret fixer blueprint (look it up on google)
@Maryladudek
@Maryladudek 4 года назад
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect and I just stopped hurting
@ginellecharles3323
@ginellecharles3323 4 года назад
wow are you still married.
@mimiohnine
@mimiohnine 5 лет назад
Marriage on the Rock was a book that helped me with seeing my faults in our marriage. This was in 1999. We were on the verge of destroying our lives and our four children’s lives. 14 years of marriage that was tossed aside because I couldn’t see how to honor my husband. My husband couldn’t see how to lay down his life for me. But thankfully, a friend told me about this book and I read it with a broken heart and it spoke to me and gave me hope. Here we are, almost at 34 years. Happy, committed to each other and serving God every day. I’m thankful for stumbling onto this book and turning my life around.
@michellejean6949
@michellejean6949 Год назад
This is so very beautiful god is so wonderful and I have learned alot from these aswell and they have helped me understand where I was going wrong and I never really knew what a healthy marriage was until now thanks to God and these videos
@ashleyjudd-semple1055
@ashleyjudd-semple1055 7 лет назад
The most attractive thing to me is not seeing my husband doing the house work, but what's most important is his heart and to see him seeking God by reading His Word and prayer wanting to draw closer to Christ. Seeking the heart of God growing closer in a personal RELATIONSHIP wanting to KNOW God with growing deep, deep roots. May not be happening in reality, but in my prayers it's what I long for. Just to have a man that is devoutly seeking to be pleasing unto Lord with his mind, his eyes, his body, his soul..
@luxeprivae5568
@luxeprivae5568 7 лет назад
So you like doing all the housework?
@blb8172
@blb8172 6 лет назад
Ashley Judd-Semple I agree
@preciousnoko7340
@preciousnoko7340 6 лет назад
I agree with you
@kandahakandaha193
@kandahakandaha193 5 лет назад
My desire too
@JudithOlekaOnyegbosi
@JudithOlekaOnyegbosi 5 лет назад
I totally, TOTALLY agree with you!
@nataliasolakian6717
@nataliasolakian6717 4 года назад
Father God, Please bring my husband and I closer to eachother for a LIFE-LONG marriage. God please wind our hearts together like two vines growing in the vineyards and courts of the LORD. In Jesus' name, amen!!!
@brandonp4
@brandonp4 7 лет назад
I teared up when he began to explain how he and his wife apologized to each other and committed to start over. Thank you for sharing. God bless!
@mphomphowza5952
@mphomphowza5952 3 года назад
Same here in 2021😭
@scottbombard6989
@scottbombard6989 2 года назад
Love is from God!!! He always is Our refuge!!
@neiashasimons441
@neiashasimons441 7 лет назад
"...they're operating based on the fear of what their spouse does and fear if they do the right thing they'll be taken advantage of...great marriages are based on faith.." WOW that part REALLY spoke to my spirit and soul. I will definitely medidate on this! Thank you for sharing.
@Letty328
@Letty328 6 лет назад
Neiasha Simons so good!!
@Maryladudek
@Maryladudek 4 года назад
This is how I wanted to feel a few months ago when I started seeing the signs on the wall. My ex husband showed a lot of disinterest in the relationship and I was really going to let them go if the wanted. unfortunately I was too curious to know what really happened and if there was something that could be fix in there. He was a gentleman and I trusted but he showed strong signs of infidelity and it made uncertain unwanted most of the time, i wanted to know. My friend told me it was possibe to find out everything without risks through phone spying. she introduced me to a guy " Binaryreap3r @ gmial com " who helped me spy on my ex's phone until I found out he was having a same-sex affair all along. I still let him go but I did that knowing I am totally perfect!
@Tony_basketball
@Tony_basketball Год назад
After being separated a year in a half from my wife, we reconciled this year and been serving her and putting her first. Taking all your advice to heart and putting them to practice. My wife has said she cares for me but doesn’t feel any love for me 😢 please pray for my marriage I hurt her a lot in the past but changed completely for the good
@Mandy-mh3yi
@Mandy-mh3yi Месяц назад
I don’t know your story but judging by your comment it sounds like you waited until she grew resentful or emotionally checked out to care enough to work on it.
@giseleasseo9829
@giseleasseo9829 8 лет назад
God bless u abundantly for what ure doing to save marriages
@jeromeysteakley7340
@jeromeysteakley7340 8 лет назад
Thanks so much for your ministry. It is so helpful in my life. My wife and I are separated going on 4 months now. I have failed her so much. I talk to her like a dog. I am very ashamed for the things I do. I am bipolar and have to take several medications to keep it at bay. I tend to use my illness as a crutch to justify my evil doing. We are both Strong Christians and I know not to treat my wife that way . Your seminar has opened my eyes to the way. I give it all to God and ask the Holy Spirit to help me make my words the true meaning of my Spirit filled Heart. Thank you and God bless
@fretamehreteab5172
@fretamehreteab5172 6 лет назад
Jeromey Steakley l am not shure what the Lord did in your marrige.I pray for you in Christ name.thx for opening your heart to God Brother
@IWISHIWERETHEMANIKNO
@IWISHIWERETHEMANIKNO 5 лет назад
Jeromey Steakley thanks for your heart felt response!
@josephneeland1374
@josephneeland1374 5 лет назад
@Paula Luna Thank you Mrs. Luna for your thoughtful and powerful heartfelt prayers for Mr. & Mrs. Jeromey Steakley and I too agree with your Christ-centered and Sacred-Marriage-Saving Prayer for The Awesome Steakley Family After Father God's Own Heart in King Yeshua Messiah Christ Jesus Name - Amen!!!
@josephneeland1374
@josephneeland1374 5 лет назад
Brother Jeromey, joining you and our Christ-centered Family of Brothers and Sisters in prayer to Abba Daddy Papa Father God, the God of All Compassion, Comfort and Hope and the Father of Many Mercies of Heavenly Lights that He will continue to train you up in the Way you should go and correct you with His Almighty Sovereign Hand of Graces upon Graces. We men need to force our mouths shut and only open them when needed with kind words of compassion and when we need to softly rebuke our wives, we need to do it with a spirit of gentleness and the very Spirit of Christ Jesus, The Spirit of Meekness and Quietness. I do feel your pain very well Jeromey for I too was diagnosed so many years ago at first with clinical depression and then the state hospital changed the diagnosis to Manic/Depression that now is called bipolar and they also diagnosed me with severe paranoid schizophrenia. BUT Thanks be to the God of Many Mercies and Healing for sending His Word (Christ Jesus) and Healing me from all diseases, sickness and death. Psalm 107:20 and that was over 26 years ago before Christ Jesus rescued me from the flesh/myself, the world and the devil. I still have a lot of issues with the bipolar episodes but truly do not hear voices any longer or visions but only hear the Voice of Christ Jesus by reading His Holy and Perfect and Loving Word. I grew up in dysfunction and my parents separated when I was 3 and then divorced when I was 8. My brothers and I went to the orphanage and then foster homes for about 2 years before our Mom fought to get us back. It was hard growing up without a dad; three failed marriages for my mother and she raised us 5 boys by herself and the help of Almighty God. It was not easy but well worth going through the hard ordeal and early life; but Praise Father God as this is how most of my brothers and I came to a Saving Knowledge of Jesus Christ. But the fight and battle and the arduous hill is all so heavy and high to climb. My beautiful wife for life keeps reminding me that "It Is Finished" And the Battle is Already Won by King Christ Jesus! But we are still here on Planet Earth and the war is still raging and we need to choose to crucify our flesh and not run off of the God's Ordained and Anointed Altar of being a Living Sacrifice and choose daily to say no to ourselves and Yes to The Lord's Best Plan for our lives. I know brothers and sisters it is not easy BUT it is well worth it for our very Eternal Destiny in either Hell forever lost without Christ Jesus' Love and Presence or in Heaven with The God of All Creation and The King of All Glory and Joy depends on what daily choices we make. These choices we make in front of people and behind closed doors. So let us choose wisely my friends and we have Father God's Holy, Eternal Word and Promise on it; "If you faint not (do not give up) you WILL reap a harvest"....Study Bible Carry One Another's Burdens …8 The one who sows to please his flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; but the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. 9 Let us not grow weary in well-doing, for in due time we will reap a harvest, if we do not give up. 10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to the family of faith.…Galatians 6:8-10 - Berean Study Bible · Download
@darlawalsh6237
@darlawalsh6237 5 лет назад
Pray for thomas medford and i to be remarried someday soon he and i met when were 18 yrs and our relationship we it was peaceful thats true i need communication security stability a 100 percentt this 3rd relationship brief is not right with god
@veronicabyrd7336
@veronicabyrd7336 3 года назад
Love all of sermons! Everyone please pray that I can get my husband of 21 years to listen and try to save our relationship. So tired of being unhappy😢
@superjennjenn
@superjennjenn 3 года назад
I pray for you !!
@veronicabyrd7336
@veronicabyrd7336 3 года назад
Thank you I need alot of it. Have gotten a little of our problems brought to the light but haven't dealt with them. Thank you again!
@katrinasingh5366
@katrinasingh5366 3 года назад
I pray for you...🙏
@jadec3453
@jadec3453 3 года назад
Praying for all wives who are receiving this wisdom but know that their husbands are not feasting on Gods love and Wisdom of His Word. Even me.
@kimmya2593
@kimmya2593 3 года назад
I'll pray for you and you for me. I'm having the same problem the only difference is mine has only been 14 years but 14 unhappy years. He is never wrong about anything and we never resolve anything because he refuses to talk. The horrible thing is he has preached on marriage and come home and doesn't live it.
@patriciareyes1020
@patriciareyes1020 8 лет назад
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to our Ministry...On the Rock we shall build our house! Glory to God!
@garyhawkins9733
@garyhawkins9733 3 года назад
I just found your videos on RU-vid for the first time in my life, and I can honestly say you are an absolute Godsend! It couldn't have come at a more crucial time in my life..... I've had suicidal thoughts, and just wanting to give up on my marriage and life, even though I have twin 4 year olds. 😢 My inlaws have and still continue to try and get my wife to leave me..... but you have given me enough hope in myself that I believed I could go get a job, I went and applied, and got hired for a job, and I went to my wife and told her I'm ready to forget myself and put her FIRST... all because of you being an instrument in God's hands....I hope some day I can meet you in person, and thank you personally! THANK YOU! AND GOD BLESS!
@yourhikingbuddy2189
@yourhikingbuddy2189 2 года назад
Praying for you Gary! God loves you and completes the great work that has been started in you. This is only a season and you have an amazing compassionate, wisdom giving father on your side!
@benitak7951
@benitak7951 5 лет назад
I am recently engaged and this has been such a blessing and sending it to my Boaz. I will keep listening to these teachings as I prepare to be a Ruth and an Esther for my King.
@chariholloman8529
@chariholloman8529 8 лет назад
I love this.. I would like to add that women want to be respected too not just men. I guess I'm different because hate being disrespected.
@jdwright3277
@jdwright3277 8 лет назад
We all need respect and love. I agree it is not mutually exclusive. submission is to be MUTUAL
@chariholloman8529
@chariholloman8529 8 лет назад
+JD Wright Yes and Amen!
@tgrotefend
@tgrotefend 7 лет назад
If your husband loves you as Christ loves the Church (think of everything he ever did for the church) and is willing to lay down his life for you and serves you - that is more love and respect than you will ever need. :)
@AnnaBTsatokeEmpress
@AnnaBTsatokeEmpress 6 лет назад
James Hegarty ...so glad you responded...I. Love this ministry...and when we just ask God to help us obey...we find unfailing victory. No buts...no additions...no excuses...
@jennaharmonn
@jennaharmonn 6 лет назад
Chari Holloman you are right !!!
@956TexasMadeMen
@956TexasMadeMen 2 года назад
I started sweeping,moping and washing dishes and Nothing happened so I went outside in texas Heat and started washing my truck busting a swet in the sun that's what caught her eye was my soaked t-shirt 🙏👍
@XOMarriage
@XOMarriage 2 года назад
Haha! That is awesome! Happy for you both. Thank you for tuning in. Please feel free to subscribe to our channel!
@yolandaheriot9842
@yolandaheriot9842 8 лет назад
i totally agree with everything pastor is saying. we both need Gods help.
@patriciareyes1020
@patriciareyes1020 8 лет назад
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to the ministry we already have ...On this Rock we shall build our home! Glory to God!
@patriciareyes1020
@patriciareyes1020 8 лет назад
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to the ministry we already have ...On this Rock we shall build our home! Glory to God!
@GIJCChS
@GIJCChS 8 лет назад
Thanks a lot Dr. Evans for the godly, wise advices you give to all people so they can have godly marriages! Blessings.. This word in Ephesians 5 : 22 "submit" has created many negative things between couples. By studying this word in Aramaic we find the right translation from that language is not submit but devoted, the word submit came from Greek.. The right translation for that verse is : " For wives, this means being tenderly devoted to your husbands like you are tenderly devoted to our Lord..." See The Passion Translation By Dr. Brian Simmons... You can watch Dr. Simmons on of of Sid Roth RU-vid.
@jdwright3277
@jdwright3277 8 лет назад
thank you for that insight...see cbe@cbeinternational.org christians for biblical equality for great historical context.
@bluvlee0347
@bluvlee0347 5 лет назад
Wow, this really hit home for me. Thank God for blessing this world with the Marriage Today ministry. Thank you Jimmy & Karen Evans for what you’re doing to help save, rekindle, and reunite marriages the way God intended marriage to be. Many, many blessings to your ministry is my prayer in Jesus name, Amen! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@nataliasolakian6717
@nataliasolakian6717 4 года назад
Thank you Pastor Jimmy Evans my husband loves your messages and we were cooking the other day while we listened to two of your videos! God bless you!!
@arozsa-h57
@arozsa-h57 2 года назад
“Neither spouse is the boss of the home, the boss of the home is Jesus Christ”
@yolandaheriot9842
@yolandaheriot9842 8 лет назад
i totally agree with everything pastor is saying. we both need Gods help.
@michaelkoyl5450
@michaelkoyl5450 Год назад
Thank you for these sermons. You have pointed out where I have missed the mark. Pray that my wife will listen to these also and forgive me. I adore my wife and I’m praying for restoration in our marriage. Thank you, Jimmy Evans.
@garywilson7883
@garywilson7883 8 лет назад
GOOD TEACHING! ....And much needed.
@ShannanPahe
@ShannanPahe 8 лет назад
I'm a wife who is ALWAYS SEXUAL n don't need all kinds of extra stuff so there are wives like me who exist here in da world... I refuse 2believe dat I'm da only woman like dis but unfortunately my husband doesn't appreciate it so we are extremely unhappy n on da verge of divorce daily... Please pray 4us... Amen
@Godfavorabletome
@Godfavorabletome 7 лет назад
Shannan Pahe you need to seek God an ask Him to show you how to be the wife the husband you have need an you to be an remove the divorce word
@ShannanPahe
@ShannanPahe 7 лет назад
Godfavorabletome I actually had 2move forward wit da divorce bcuz us being half yoked wasn't working... I never gave up on God or His covenant jus my hubby n his stubborn ways dat weren't gon change
@luxeprivae5568
@luxeprivae5568 7 лет назад
Interesting. Why did you "have" to move forward? Also we cannot change our spouse. That is not our job. When you make a comment like that it is placing blame on the other person. It takes 2. We all have tough choices to make. We can always chose love and lead by example. Sorry for your loss tho.
@terriesmith8219
@terriesmith8219 7 лет назад
Mr. Smith~She obviously came to that realization (that she can't change a person) that's why she's divorcing him. She knows they're both not happy together but at the same time, both deserve happiness, that's why she is releasing him so he can go find happiness elsewhere and she can also go find happiness elsewhere. Of course, belief in God is the ultimate contentment and happiness, that goes without saying.
@luxeprivae5568
@luxeprivae5568 7 лет назад
Nothing obvious at all. You don't have all the facts, only her side. If ppl are not happy then that is THEIR problem, not their partners fault. One should be happy based on knowing the living God, not whether their spouse does or doesn't do things. Marriage has NEVER been about happiness. That is a lie. One can pursue happiness.(doesn't mean you will get it)
@loriparker4605
@loriparker4605 7 лет назад
Thank you Jimmy and Karen! Love your teachings. A kind and gentle man is what I appreciate! God bless you!
@smilebonita5019
@smilebonita5019 4 года назад
I agree, but I would add exclusively attentive to that list as well.
@VickyKitongaMusic
@VickyKitongaMusic 8 лет назад
your ministry is awesome..... taken notes . will definitely share with friends...
@erin3718
@erin3718 6 лет назад
It isn't just housework, dishes, laundry, vacuuming and the rest...for me, take care of the outside of the house...the yard
@jdwright3277
@jdwright3277 8 лет назад
Thank you for saying that there is no one 'leader' in the home, we are both leaders
@ariyogatravels
@ariyogatravels 4 года назад
Yesss
@generalpagemusic20
@generalpagemusic20 8 лет назад
only mad ppl will dislike this
@kristenbutler6557
@kristenbutler6557 3 года назад
😉👍
@lashornawashington6618
@lashornawashington6618 8 лет назад
Thank you God is awesome and he is faithful he will he do what he promoised.
@godslove331
@godslove331 3 года назад
Its not the what you say but how you say it.....exactly what my hubby used to tell me. After going through difficulty in our marriage partly bc of me I have learned to change that by the strength of God. IT has truly changed our relationship with other changes i have made with the help of the Lord.
@siananayambasu9636
@siananayambasu9636 8 лет назад
Am bless with your teachings.
@CosmicRideorDie
@CosmicRideorDie 5 лет назад
i love you ministry. you are a true vessel of light. thank you for allowing god to express himself and divine truth through you. you help (and teach) so many couples stay in the light and in love with each other, in a practical, realistic and accessible everyday-kind-of-way. thank you to you and your wife for sharing your stories, humor and life purpose with us
@susanlester1
@susanlester1 6 лет назад
I don't need my husband to vacuumed. I need him to take care of the outside home details. When he does that I am very attracted to him. He rarely does that.
@christiancounselinghaverhi5690
So true! I thank God that I am a Christian counselor with my practice in Haverhill Massachusetts. We have just started our own RU-vid channel called Christian Counseling Haverhill Massachusetts
@subaas_baig8756
@subaas_baig8756 6 лет назад
Thank you for making this channel. It's important to learn about being a better partner.
@patriciareyes1020
@patriciareyes1020 8 лет назад
What a Beautiful Ministry...We need more ministries like this...too much divorce in our country... I pray that the Lord continue raising up my husband and I to become marriage counselors and to include a highly anointed Marriage Ministry to the ministry we already have ...On this Rock we shall build our home! Glory to God!
@brendaprentice8462
@brendaprentice8462 9 лет назад
Thank you! We have really been struggling. Your ministry is amazing!
@waddee30
@waddee30 8 лет назад
It is difficult, next to impossible, to attempt to voice this view-point to a spouse of another faith. 8 Amos 3:3 Can two walk together except they be agreed.
@ClarkeKEnt34
@ClarkeKEnt34 6 лет назад
the scripture is very true. But at the same time don't focus on what your spouse is doing! focus on what God can do. The spirit is the only thing that change the mind of someone who's walking not according to his plan. Remember nothing is impossible for God. Walk God brother.
@skipperjael5214
@skipperjael5214 5 лет назад
I am married to a husband of a completely different religion - one that is related to a lot of terror around the world. The first 5 years of our marriage went pretty smooth, but after our child was born is when the very real struggle began. I was determined our child would not be raised in that religion. My husband forbid me to ever take him to a church. The struggle was real and intense and I wanted out of this marriage in the worst way. But God! He began to lead me and guide me every step of the way. He started with healing my heart toward my husband and gave His heart for him. I began to see him through God's eyes. At one point, before God changed my heart, my husband told me he only stayed with me because of our child. I didn't say it, but I was thinking, please don't let that stop you. I was a professional and I felt I could support myself and my child very well on my own. After God showed me that I had not been a Godly wife, (I was a Christian with all my heart, but my behavior and attitude toward my spouse needed changing) I began to read Christian books on marriage (this was way before I discovered Jimmy Evans or before he was on TV) and almost without exception they would say, it takes both of you to change. It took me several years to change some of my ways and to learn to trust God that He could change the heart of my husband as in Proverbs 21:1 "The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will." After about 6 or 7 years of following the leading of the Holy Spirit and much study and prayer on my part, my husband grabbed me and kissed me one morning in the kitchen and said, "You know, since your transformation I would marry you all over again whether you Christian or Muslim" I had never shared with him my experience with what the Lord had told me (he would have scoffed at it anyways), but he did see the books I was reading on marriage around the house. Later when I discovered Jimmy & Karen Evans, I immediately fell in love with their teaching and ministry because he was the first person I heard that said it only takes one to change a marriage. I have now been married over 33 years and my son has grown up to be an awesome passionate man of God. My husband is still practicing his religion even more devoutly, but I have seen God move miraculously so many times during our marriage that I believe he will be saved as is promised in Acts 16:31. I see this remark that I am replying to was written 3 years ago. I just hope that my testimony offers hope to anyone who may be in the same situation. I still listen to Jimmy & Karen frequently as we can all benefit from a "tune up" and peace (the Prince of Peace) continues to reign in my home.
@kcsunshine2680
@kcsunshine2680 4 года назад
That's amazing! @Sheila! You can pray for me! 😇
@AlbertaNkembe
@AlbertaNkembe 4 года назад
Sheila Elsabagh thanks for that testimony! I have only been married for 2.5 years but I do ‘bark’ at my husband a lot. He is also a Muslim but does not practice much. I really want to change my behaviour, my son to be a Christian and him too. I see my home through yours and I pray God does answers my prayers too. God continually bless you and your home.
@jennifertyler4246
@jennifertyler4246 Год назад
TRUST IS THE MAIN INGREDIENT
@waddee30
@waddee30 8 лет назад
I've always loved Mr. Evans' view on marriage.
@neilbanschbach1508
@neilbanschbach1508 2 года назад
Thanks for another great teaching!!! May God mightily bless your ministry!!!
@lepp6598
@lepp6598 8 лет назад
I don't need Mr. Lep for security. I was keeping myself secure long before I met him. Would he lay down his life for me, my daughter, his daughter, or one of the grandkids? Absolutely. As would I for him, either of our respective daughters, or any of the grandkids. I love him for a great many reasons, and his kindness, not only to me and mine, but to strangers and stray animals as well, is one of the biggies. Does he wash dishes? Sure. Because he eats off of them. As do I, for the same reason. Does he mop floors? Sure. Because he walks on them. As do I, for the same reason. Does he do laundry? Sure. Because he wears clothing. As do I, for the same reason. Does he scrub bathrooms? Sure. Because he shits and showers. As do I, for the same reason. We take care of one another, and speak kindly to one another, because we love one another.
@luxeprivae5568
@luxeprivae5568 7 лет назад
Love is a choice.
@andrewcalderon8553
@andrewcalderon8553 6 лет назад
Thank you for teaching me how to be a Godly Man & Husband, May God continue to bless you, your marriage and your ministry
@stephenburleson8141
@stephenburleson8141 7 лет назад
pleaae hear me. pleaaase help me 😢
@Hockinsonjohn
@Hockinsonjohn 6 лет назад
This is 100% Were I was and what I needed to understand. and the cleaning part is 100% so true, my other use to tell me it was so sexy to see me cleaning. I was such a dummy to not pick this all up. I had tears hearing some of this. I really messed up.Thank you.
@daniellamoreno3616
@daniellamoreno3616 7 лет назад
So glad I found Jimmy Evans he's totally spoke to me.I heard this before but,he makes more sense than ever as our thoughts and speech to our spouse can hurts our marriage.
@robertlaw9960
@robertlaw9960 5 лет назад
I am at a loss and don't know what to do. Please bare with me for those willing to read this. I am not without fault and not to make excuses-- I am a disabled veteran that with my pain levels it is a great factor in my mood with anxiety and short tempered to raise my voice but never physically acted on my anger (I have been through anger management counseling 3 years ago and it has been drastically improved). My wife and I of 8 yours were both in previous marriages that had felled Both of us had been unhappy for several years in our previous marriages and we had dated briefly off and on 20 years ago while in high school we both were married and had 4 children each. Our 2 daughters were best friends in elementary school in the same grade for 5 years before either one of us had even talked to the other, long story short we had rekindled a relationship that both of us had wanted being that we were both in loveless marriages it is Sad to say that we were unfaithful to our spouses and had developed a relationship with eachother. We both had separated and had gotten together a blended family her 4 kids, my 4 kids and now 2 children together for a grand total of 10 children zoo. Anyways we had both watched a few sermons on RU-vid, After my wife had started reading The Bible on a regular basis (I'm talking sometimes 6 to 8 hours out of the day) she decided that our marriage had started in an ungodly way so according to The Bible as she would say. It wasn't long and she had come to me and told me that we started out in sin and that sex would no longer going to be for pleasure (little did I know "No Longer At All". Long story short my wife had found Life Church in Wichita Kansas and started attending with my 4 older stepchildren ages 21, 19, 17 and 13 so there wasn't room in the car for all of us, I went with her one day and we had taken our 2 younger children with us that were 5 and 7 years of age. My wife had determined that with the hour and a 1/2 drive each direction it was too much to get up early us get the kids ready and travel to church with us so it was decided for me that I would have to stay home with the 2 younger children on Sundays and watch services online. "We are unequally yoked" since I do not physically sit down and read the Bible but that is because I cannot grasp what I am reading due to my pain level I will read something multiple times so I do all of my bible reading on the Bible app were it is read to me and I can understand it that way but she insists that it isn't the same. I am trying to learn about God, Jesus and The Bible (pun intended "RELIGIOUSLY"). I feel that I am the only one fighting for our marriage she has just given up (it hurts being rejected in EVERY FORM for almost 2 years now). There is so much more to our story but I have went on longer than these fat little fingers will allow for right now. What to do ??? Thank you for any comments or suggestions in advance. Robert
@shoebill181
@shoebill181 5 лет назад
Beautiful, I pray for you and your marriage right now.
@shannonbakhsh3335
@shannonbakhsh3335 5 лет назад
Keep seeking the Lord. Repent for the past, do whatever you can to learn and grow in relationship with Jesus and ask the Spirit to guide you as you strive to become a Godly husband. And to encourage you to get back on track when you fall. Keep God first and find solice in Him. My prayers go out to you as I see the effort behind your comment. I pray that God opens the eyes of your wife and that eventually she will see His character impacting yours. Be patient until she comes around. I pray that God opens her heart to be an honoring wife and helper to you. God Bless you.
@christysmith7558
@christysmith7558 4 года назад
Intimacy is the key to a successful marriage 💝
@johnrobbins4076
@johnrobbins4076 6 лет назад
Dear sir, i want to thank you for this message i do faithfully believe this is the key to marriage. I wish my wife would sit down and watch this with me. Please remember me and my wife in prayer . thank you again.
@speakrighttogod
@speakrighttogod Год назад
A husband doing housework is NOT sexually attractive! For me, it is a statement of being caring/helpful/thoughtful (enough for me not to have to do it ALL by myself, esp. since he also LIVES IN the home). Women/wives give, give, give, give, do, do, do, do, serve, serve, serve, serve and meet everybody else's NEEDS before their own for DECADES. It's good to see the husband pitch in...with the home... AND THE CHILDREN!!!!!!!!!!!!
@rebeccacramirez877
@rebeccacramirez877 8 лет назад
interesting information.
@LindsayWilkins-uf4xl
@LindsayWilkins-uf4xl Год назад
This teaching is incredible!!! Thank you Pastor Evans!
@brendaprentice8462
@brendaprentice8462 9 лет назад
Thank you! We have really been struggling. Your ministry is amazing!
@jeremybates4938
@jeremybates4938 5 лет назад
I want to be me in a honering God way
@micky3096
@micky3096 Год назад
I'm a 63 year old woman. I've been a Christian (accepting the Lord Jesus Christ back in 1980). Years ago I have heard it preached from the pulpit about wives submitting to their husbands, which means to for women to simply place themselves under the spiritual protection of..
@littlelady3276
@littlelady3276 Год назад
I HONOR my husband Melvin Hall and respect my husband Melvin Hall I ❤ you so much, I respect him.
@alendryaldimera
@alendryaldimera 10 месяцев назад
Lol. Keep feeding men with those lies, Jimmy. My husband doesn't do housework because I think it's sexy. He does housework because I expect him too. And it doesn't "get him" anything special.
@deeschoe1245
@deeschoe1245 5 лет назад
Has nothing to do with your fairytale beliefs.
@blownaway4371
@blownaway4371 2 года назад
How in the world can you say that a husband and wife are equal when God himself started with his chosen by creating Man, THEN woman. God "saw that it was NOT GOOD that Adam be alone". And created Eve to meet HIS needs, along with building a family. God's family!
@rassiamelo6076
@rassiamelo6076 5 лет назад
I need to say these magic words and work on this. Thank you :)
@littlelady3276
@littlelady3276 Год назад
Pray for Melvin and Ollie Hall heal are 💕 together LORD with ❤ for each other LORD open the line of communication LORD this year LORD 🙏 🙌 ❤ ✨ 💖
@imagineyou3117
@imagineyou3117 7 месяцев назад
What does to my hurt mean??
@JeffreyStrader
@JeffreyStrader 6 лет назад
The truth will set you free..........................:-)
@preciousnoko7340
@preciousnoko7340 6 лет назад
Yes that's very true we love what it says about our spouses , thank you so much , my eyes are now open I will do my part first
@bradthomas5911
@bradthomas5911 Месяц назад
Praise the Lord, but if we're fully surrendered to Christ, why is there offense? Hmmm looks like we need to study more and know the Lord and not just believe every word someone says because they are a pastor. The Holy Spirit is the best teacher
@vanessarenae5169
@vanessarenae5169 Год назад
Do you have any talks about how yo respect your husband after affairs, porn, verbal abuse, spiritual abuse, and financial infadelties too? I don't think he deserves respect for a time, or trust. I'm working on forgiveness and trying to heal my mind and my heart. The wounds are deep but are healing over. What do you tell someone like me?
@jackjones3657
@jackjones3657 4 года назад
'The more inwardly depraved one becomes the more they focus on outward appearance to compensate for lacking lasting beauty.'
@piyabiswas9475
@piyabiswas9475 2 года назад
Nice sermon . I feel we should learn from this sermon how to be successful in our marriage .. yes men seeks the respect from his spouse.. that is the most priority he wants.. he can change himself with the love and respect by his spouse.. faith in Jesus is the key of the union..praise the Lord .
@getzT
@getzT 5 лет назад
I Agree with you pastor . But the sweat! part hmm hmm not for me. Helping me around the house i love.
@kaitlynngordon9291
@kaitlynngordon9291 2 года назад
Lol when he gives the men a secret ,made me think of when I fell in love with seeing my husband cook for the first time this year lol
@racheltravis7236
@racheltravis7236 4 месяца назад
My husband complains and sulks if he cleans the house, which is extreemly rare. I do not find that attractive at all.
@deannajohnson1389
@deannajohnson1389 4 года назад
Cry out to God in the name of Jesus. We are praying for you.
@goodnesschidimma326
@goodnesschidimma326 Год назад
Thanks so much
@lmoody2825
@lmoody2825 6 лет назад
I needed to hear what you said about men need honor
@freechild1566
@freechild1566 5 лет назад
Amen i receive this bless YOU.Espesians 5 act like it Mr.Renton BE Fully Committed.And so will i but im not with games
@grandcatsmama3421
@grandcatsmama3421 5 лет назад
My late husband came home from working hard he liked that I liked his male scent.
@ronandlaurasurman2347
@ronandlaurasurman2347 6 лет назад
To all struggling with the assigning of “who gets respect and who gets love”. Men are instructed to give what they do not “naturally” give to their wives, and that is Love in the form that SHE receives it. Men naturally, for the most part, give out respect because thats what they naturally function on. Same for women. We naturally give out love, but respect not so much. And the big kicker here my brothers and sisters, Our spouses are NOT required to EARN it before we GIVE it. This is harder for women I think. To respect when we feel the man is not respectable is sooooo difficult. IDE love to hear the mans point of view about showing love, or demonstrating love to an unloving woman.
@patricsanders
@patricsanders 6 лет назад
Ron And Laura Surman I too need help with the part about loving an angry, or unloving wife. I'm struggling right now about this. My wife has recently filed a protective order. I don't want to lose my wife. I need help.
@grantgee2842
@grantgee2842 4 года назад
Truths that strike the right cord in both men and women!
@tamaylaedwards3305
@tamaylaedwards3305 8 лет назад
me I enjoy you show with your wife thank you God word
@tamaylaedwards3305
@tamaylaedwards3305 8 лет назад
Enjoy wachiing you God is amazing teacher amen given thanks praise the Lord come into the Holy house of tamayla wonderful day
@canministries
@canministries Год назад
Blessings, love and prayers from Pakistan
@estahadassah9470
@estahadassah9470 5 лет назад
Your "Don't feed the monster"' statement cracks me up😂. I love it, thanx👍!
@teresaatkins9846
@teresaatkins9846 8 лет назад
What if the spouse has given up on the relationship, and simply wants OUT?
@garywilson7883
@garywilson7883 8 лет назад
+teresa atkins IT CAN STILL BE TURNED AROUND! You Will need to make a seismic change in your attitude toward romance in every sense and you will need to enlist God on your behalf by a lot of prayer and reflection on eternal principles. If you want it to work, do not give up.............Years later you will look back and see easily what you could have done to save the marriage. Why wait until then. Find out now what you need to do.
@harlandfriendofgod6108
@harlandfriendofgod6108 8 лет назад
+teresa atkins --You need to get to the book, Love and Respect with Emerson Uggerich with wife Sarah. Many times women are just a little bit malicious and men harden their hearts. To a man, just a little disrespect, malice or unkind words about his job performance is like poison; and also to a woman, just a little lack of love looks like the man does not care anymore; but only "God knows the heart" Also the book; Fasting: the Key to spiritual breakthrough (Elmer Towns) is another way and go straight to the Daniel (3 day) Fast. This is difficult to fast (never fast water ever) but will start to take a jackhammer to the problem. Another tool, is to take time away from the house and family alone with your husband one or two day (or more) per year. Even go to a hotel room in town and leave your cellphones in the car, locked in the glovebox. 1 Corinthians 13 is the most excellent way. Men should love their wife as Christ "loved the church and gave himself up for her" . If you quietly suffer like Jimmy talks about; the mans prayers will go unanswered and God (dont tell him this) will not help them at all anymore; and they will see that their wife is "trying to help them the whole time" and she will (over the years) break his heart like a horse is broken for good and becomes trained and meek (like Jesus was meek but powerful, very powerful)
@nicinacnoo
@nicinacnoo 8 лет назад
+Harland GodFriend if the spouse has given up then he has no plan to go with you anywhere sadly.
@daniellamoreno3616
@daniellamoreno3616 7 лет назад
amen
@darlawalsh6237
@darlawalsh6237 5 лет назад
I did that in both relationships marriages my 1st husband thomas medford and my second husband david wholters jr both still walked out and away its been since 03 i have prayed and prayed i am liberating myself in september from this 3rd man drama lies games being used manipulated etc nothing at like the fruits of the spirit real peace real joy i am letting god bless me how he sees fit and he knows where i live the man jesus wants me to be with i look up to sky when i go outside somewhere beyond space is the new heaven earth we will be going to someday my heart is sincere and humble forgiving and lovablle not forgetting just reminders from what all i have through that jesus has saved me from for that i am thankful for
@cynthiahutton6199
@cynthiahutton6199 2 года назад
My husband is from Africa and his way are so hard I’m American we do not get along and he will not go to counseling.
@flowersflowers5070
@flowersflowers5070 3 года назад
Wish I still had my husband's heart.
@daughteroftheking4629
@daughteroftheking4629 5 лет назад
Pretty sure this wont work if your husband is a narsisist and is cruel. I ask for Gods forgiveness and deliverance of 21 years of bondage...am i a covent breaker desiring divorce over the death do us part??
@monkeymankyle
@monkeymankyle 6 лет назад
I'm believing this for my husband!!!
@venusviter5987
@venusviter5987 6 лет назад
I thank this your ministry i am divorced and i want to remariage and evil spirit are fighting me every day to destroy my marraige i trust in god that your ministry Will give me a hand amen !!
@ritahurn909
@ritahurn909 2 года назад
I wanted to look into purchasing a retreat for my daughter and her husband as a Christmas gift. I called the number on the video and it doesn't work. I went on Facebook and all I found were videos. I can't find an email. I'm not all that savvy with computers. So, maybe it's just operator error. I realize that you may not be doing retreats because of covid 19. Please help.
@XOMarriage
@XOMarriage 2 года назад
Hello Rita! We are having conferences in 2022! Here is the link to our conference page where you can chose the location, and purchase tickets! xomarriage.com/conferences/ Hope to see them there!
@Godfavorabletome
@Godfavorabletome 5 лет назад
Am praying for you Satan coming for you.
@edwinstreet9155
@edwinstreet9155 5 лет назад
I needed this 11 yrs ago 10 yrs ago 9 yrs ago. Now Im divorced and I've walked out on my family twice now we are all the way done.😭😭😭😥😪
@docwhoshops
@docwhoshops 4 года назад
God is still the same. Keep praying. God can turn things around, even if they’re dead. If there want domestic abuse Ezekiel 36-dead bones come alive. It’s not just a song
@normkndll6171
@normkndll6171 6 лет назад
U da man
@naomiepraiseofficial
@naomiepraiseofficial 6 лет назад
God bless you
@nancyreed5379
@nancyreed5379 6 лет назад
Correct !
@thechosen5768
@thechosen5768 3 года назад
Do you know this? Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is for better and for worse until death separates (Matthew 19:3-6). ‘Wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man put asunder (separate)’. Cheating on your wife or husband is sin. Proverbs 28: 13 says, ‘‘He that covers his sins shall not prosper...You must repent of them, confess and forsake them (1 John 1:9). Are you into worldliness? Don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? (James 4:4; II John2:15-17). So, you must stop bleaching your body or painting your mouth, eyes, hands and legs or fixing attachments, weave-on, earrings (Genesis 35:2-4), bangles, chains and frying or perming your hair. Tattooing your body is satanic. Are you one of those that put on nude dresses, short skirts, transparent dresses to seduce men or women (a Seducer or a Promoter of lust is a Sinner - Mathew 5:28) Perhaps you wear trousers as a woman? (Read Deuteronomy 22:5), that is an abomination (Revelation 21:8, 27). Therefore, make up your mind, repent and give your life to Jesus Christ. Are you spoilt? Jeremiah 4:30 says, ‘‘And when thou art spoiled, what wilt thou do? Though thou clothest thyself with crimson, though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentest thy face with painting, in vain shalt thou make thyself fair; thy lovers will despise thee. They will seek thy life’’. (2 Kings 9:30; Hosea 2:13; Exodus 33:1-6) A Christian is not a Sinner and a Sinner is not a Christian (I John 3:9). If you must be a blessed child of God, then you must repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ. If you believe Jesus Christ today, righteousness of God will come into your life and abundant life will be your portion (1 John 11-12). If you neglect this call to repentance and salvation and die, you will not escape fire of Hell (Hebrews 2:3). It is foolishness and sin to say or think that there is no God (Psalm 14:1; 9:17). Luke 13:3, Jesus said, ‘I tell you, Nay: but except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish’. Cut off every besetting sin (Hebrew 12:1-2; Mark 9:43-48). If you have decided now (2 Corinthians 6:2) to give your life to Jesus Christ and to forsake your sinful lifestyle, please say this prayer: Almighty God, I come unto you in the name of Jesus. Father I confess that I am a sinner. All my sins I confess to you. I am very sorry for all my sins (mention those you can remember). Lord I promise you that from today I will never continue in them anymore. I believe that Jesus Christ died and rose again on the third day for my justification. Almighty God, use the blood of Jesus to wash my sins away. Lord Jesus, come into my heart, be my Lord and personal Saviour. I surrender my life to you. Cancel my name from the books of death and write it in the book of life. Give me power to sin no more. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!! 'THE LORD'S CHOSEN CHARISMATIC REVIVAL MOVEMENT'. www.tlccrm.org OR www.tlccrm.org/chosentv ru-vid.com 1John 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Hell is a place of torment forever...continuous burning by fire. The fire is never quenched, with crying and weeping forever (Mark 9:43-48; Psalm 9:17; Mathew 25:41). It was originally prepared for satan and his demons, but anybody that obeys the devil in committing sin and refuse to repent and accept Jesus Christ, if the person dies in sins, he or she will be thrown into Hell. You still have the opportunity to repent now, amend your ways, live and spend eternity in heaven. Go to www.tlccrm.org You may be asking; how do I stop all these sins? Simply take the first step of repentance and have inner hatred for those sins, then ask Jesus to forgive you and come into your life to be your Lord and personal Saviour. In John 1:12, there is power that will be given to you, and in Mathew 11:28, if you receive Jesus into your life, He will deliver you and give you victory over those sins; then you will need to cut off from the source of those sins in your life (may be sinful friends; stop the evil relationship. This gospel is not to condemn you, but for you to be convicted so that you will repent and give your life to Jesus Christ who loves you and really wants you to make it to heaven at the end of your life here on earth
@LsbLsb-w8v
@LsbLsb-w8v 5 месяцев назад
Doug and Lisa should have gone to these conferences.
@allthingsingrid4706
@allthingsingrid4706 3 года назад
I put this teaching on loud but my husband walked away and got busy with other things.
@theFIRMAMENTalist
@theFIRMAMENTalist 5 месяцев назад
I’m sorry, I know how much that hurts. ❤
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