(02:05) - Man cries about getting stood up on a date (20:47) - Black men fear reaching out and asking for help (45:19) - Women have to speak to the KING in their man at all times (01:02:10) - Bud Crawford vs Errol Spence predictions (01:03:59) - A woman being treated right is BLIND to other men (01:18:28) - How do I make my man feel more like a leader? (01:26:00) - Should I let my crush go? (01:32:26) - I’m finally ready to be faithful and she’s done with me
That first dude look like one of them virgin dudes who listen to FRESH & FIT he gives off future public shooter vibes look like a Lifetime movie stocker/villian LOL
Also, just so you’re aware, all women don’t have a list of fallback guys. Some women, including myself take breaks between dating/relationships and don’t hop from man to man. The problem is so many women and men haven’t mastered solitude.
I looked at the guys profile who got stood he might have disability which is sad that woman who stood him lead him on for 2 weeks knowing she was not going to actually date him Smh He seems really nice and I hope he does find his person I know she’s out there
When you’re pouring into a woman that wants you, values the relationship and values herself, she sees other men if she isn’t blind, but she isn’t moved because she’s good where she is, with You.
Kenny said rip me out the plastic I'm acting brand new😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅not the eyes Kenny... he could have made this up to start getting dates.. . Great show 👏 👍 👌 🙌🏽 ❤️
I love this show. You guys keep me laughing between the messages. Keep doing what you do. Kenny T you so wrong for that! Talking about that man’s eye😂😂😂
54:24 you wrong Smuv 100. A man or woman who cheats on their spouse threw away a happy home for a side piece and puts their kid at every statistical disadvantage. 56:38 alright he recovered
I speak for the loyal women when i say yes we see men when are in a relationship we have eyes but we do not entertain it. I was in my past relationship almost 2 years. Any dude that hit my dms if i responded i let him know i was in a relationship and after that if he said anything else hes blocked 🅿️ i dont keep options so when i leave I start over new and thats okay with me gives me time to heal and etc before I embark on something else.
Depending on his level of crazy for you...any response is a gateway. He knows that so just replying is triggering because it translate to entertaining...so if a bad day happens...you may ask him for advice and D. Lol. Men are crazy like that. No response is the response unless it's related to business...which he should be able to openly see the dialog.
A mistake is unintentional. A poor choice is intentional. Betting on someone is a choice. Not a mistake because the intent is present. Cheating is a choice because of intent
The last situation with the man who broke the woman that loved him, she gone, it’s been 3 years and she got someone else, she not coming back. Dude might as well hang that up, she left and moved on for herself, she not coming back to him
I super struggle with asking for help. But I do be...well used to ask for support every once n a blue moon. Once right as the pandemic hit..and earlier this year...this Spring. Both times, Everybody dubbed me....included some of the Krew ppl. I didn't even get a fake like from ppl like they usually do. But they don't know me personally, so I can't be mad at them. But my so called "friends", I was very disappointed in. That's why I'm not talking to Anybody anymore. I used to be that guy that Always supports Everybody. Anything somebody needs, I'm there for them. Reaching out to ppl during the pandemic when nigs was going through it. I used to be sooo selfless that I used to post other ppl stuff on my feed...but let's not talk about social media, cause that's a whole other thing. But yeah, I just stay to myself nowadays...build myself up. Anybody comes along that wants to support, I got them forever. Anybody else, it's whatever. Edit: But Shout Out to Smuv, cause he was down to support me in my entertainment career though. I didn't send him any I was promoting though, cause I was rejecting by everybody...so that takes a toll on you personally. But he just genuinely seem interested in the thing I got coming up in the future....so I will send that to him soon when we're ready.
I went out my way to help a man who didn’t want to help himself and he cussed me out for all my efforts in trying to get him help and not me breaking myself to help him financially.
28:00 O said something that made me see how women have adopted our stubborn nature & how we as men have our own “strong independent & don’t need anyone for nuthin’!!!”. It’s unfortunate that we are like that but that’s how many of us are smh.
The second clip with Busta Rhymes is so on point especially as black men where if you actually try to open and ask for help and then they use it against you or clown you for showing your humanity
Tell him to focus on himself, focus on loving himself and making himself better. Hit the gym, learn a new skill, hell, start a business- and not just to get girls, but so he can have something else in life besides finding love, like life is about more than being in love. He just needa straighten up.
Gotta disagree with Smuv on the cheating and telling your kid "we aint perfect" Because then you teaching them that is the goto excuse. Years later your kid cheat and you repremand them and they say "well i aint perfect" They commit another serious mistake "i aint perfect" It becomes a goto thing.
Enabling is knowing they have not done right and more than likely going to fumble without supervision which takes more of your time and energy to see your ROI. Helping someone requires a plan and talks of what this help will help yield to the person you’re helping. Help me help you.
People have feeling. I agree with O and Smuv. Take your L in silence . He also need someone to poor into him and build him up instead of making fun of him .
Wearing glasses is expensive 🅿️ its unfortunate and expensive 😫 its an unfair disadvantage especially if your prescription is high 😔 one other thing he could do is get contacts I used to wear contacts before I got a career and a child 🤣 now I'm just a bit too lazy or atleast the last few years, but I'm going to get my contacts back now that I'm back into my getting ready routine and have both glasses & contacts as options to wear.
I didn’t have a list. I looked for reasons to try and make it work and stay but soon as I felt unwanted I started putting 5 in rotation. And we get annoyed lol doing that trying to move on
Of course. I want you to speak to me like the Queen I am at all times. Especially when you may feel like using your your grown man strength on me. Self control works both ways at all times.
Love the podcast and conversations. I don't think roasting a guy that may have some other stuff going is the move. I agree, I wouldn't move that way in terms of posting an L like that online however he dod and displayed some vulnerability in doing so. Y'all had some game for him. Dating is rough can't internalize the rejection and perhaps take a break. As people, we should treat people better regardless. Stay up, god bless.
Some women will be disrespectful because they don’t respect the men their with they don’t know how to say they want to be done and it’s easier if they push you out the door and make you want to leave
He did everything right...however, maybe you should have picked her up by calling her in advance and knocking on her door...not, waiting in the car 🚗 blowing the horn or blinking the lights...maybe it would have been better.
I agree. I never have hit below the belt. And I try my best to respect a man I’m with even with those who yell and curse at me I still maintain my tongue because I can’t take words back and I take pride in saying I never have cursed out a man or name called him even when I had all reason too. Most of those women who get to that point of name calling ect they are tired and at the point of exploding beyond restraint most of those women probably wanna hit you so they yell instead
If you live with your brother you go to him and ask wud up tho?! If your friends are close enough to be considered brother then it should receive that type of energy at all times. Loving people in this way is difficult for people because they do not actually understand the actions of love
Everything learned is from the men in our lives🤓😒 but I cannot pour my energy into more than one person at a time. Especially knowing the levels that are to come require more energy from us both. Women want a constant and secure source to pour and receive love from
01:20:00: If/when they get married she can sell her house and buy a house *with* him instead of him moving into *your* house. Or if he pushes it get a pre-nup because if it's a paid off asset (now), you don't want him entitled to it or you see his true colors then he feels like fighting you over the house. Second marriage don't have a high percentage of lasting (65% of it ending in divorce), it's worse. So she needs to be aware of that risk. 01:36:00: He had the world and blew it up. He consistently was cheating and broke her. Now, she's finding her self-respect and wants her space and giving you the same energy you gave her. He didn't even stay faithful enough through the engagement and *marry* her. Ya'll should co-parent because you both cheated now and he should take this as a lesson to treat the one you say you love like💩, you don't.
Also just wanna say something you did on purpose cannot be a mistake. A mistake is a decision you made with a bad or deficit result outside of your control. The investment outcome can be a mistake but cheating can't be
