(01:51) - Marriage brings out the darkest side of you (31:58) - My daughter taught me how to deal with women (37:42) - The armor we use to get through trauma can cripple us (01:02:02) - What are your thoughts on interracial relationships? (01:09:45) - Should I cuff my sneaky link? (01:16:49) - How do I get over my fear of dating?
Wow! I had to comment on this one cause Smuv u a real one💯 speaking the truth about what a GOOD MAN is going to do for his marriage and family. 💕 ima a show u show me woman so I always showed my husband I loved him more than telling him. But listening to the Crew🍁 has shown me how important it is for a man to hear it as well cause my husband wasn't that good with his communication. So when Smuv said even when a GOOD MAN who really truly love u will still stay there even if he wants to leave 🤦🏾♀️🥺😥 that brought tears to my eyes because I knew my husband fell out of love with me but he still stood there and I never knew why but by u (Smuv) saying that.... now I know so thank u💕
This was a dope ass episode! Especially the part about your traumas shielding/protecting you in one season but can hinder you in another season…. I also like the advice column section about being scared to date nothing but GEMS 💎 were dropped!
Mr O we are all entitled to our opinions however I think I should tell u why I know that marriage is covenant not a contract. According to GOD who is the designer of marriage its the oldest Institution extending back to the Garden of Eden according to Gen 2:22 God made man and then God made the woman and subsequently he bought them together. God considers marriage to be a covenant relationship according to mark 8:9 Jesus taught that God himself joins the husband and wife together and the two became one flesh. This has nothing to do with a paper that was signed. A Christian marriage is a covenant between two persons with God at the center of the marriage this means that God pledges to help that couple hold the Covenant together, even when they may feel like giving up. Therefore we shouldn't confuse marriage with prenuptial agreements. A prenup is a contract which does not mean we should treat marriage like a contract. Remember mister-o marriage is a covenant with God. The defention of covenant is a binding agreement and the word covenant derives from the same root word meaning to cut. This means that in the culture of the Bible Covenant carried weight and was often cut or sealed in blood. However this is my opinion
Im kinda confused on why a person in an IR would want to know what others think about it...if youre already in a serious IR. Like TF?? Where dey do dat at?? Lol. You like him...he likes you. Yall together...so whats the problem?? If we say we dont like it...then what?? Like Cmon now. SMH 🤦♂️
1:33:16 Smuv whew! This was a heavy gem! Thought something was wrong with me cause of this feeling. Never had it before but I went with it and didn’t turn back. That feeling saved my life from living in chaos! 🙌🏾
Example. Deval and Kay.... When a lady walks into the room. He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord” Come on OT, Trill and Smuv!!! Wonderful job, fellas!!