Kitu nimelearn kwa social media ni usiwahi cheka mtu wakati ako kwa shida tables turn,nomatter who you are..Leo ni yy kesho inaweza kuwa ni wewe ama your closest family member!pole penny may you heal and find peace
Yes people who never dealt with narcissist men can't understand this type of relationship is had to quit because you trauma bond with the behaviour and you still feel lovin him
Pole peninah .my inlaws waniweelelea mambo when I left their family. They had contributed a lot to me separating to my husband. But God has been faithful .Mungu akuonekanie
Huyu mwanamme he was either abusing bangi ama alikuwa kichaa. Peninah you are a hardworking woman and you shall heal and thank God that this man died . He would have killed you and dinied you a chance to bring up your kids .
Got chills when she said if he didn't die maybe wangekua washarudiana😮😮😮.....i think the guy had an undiagnosed mental illness that went untreated for a long time.....i also hope she and her children heal, this is a lesson for all.....life sends you warnings in whispers, then it becomes an actual voice maybe through other peope....if you still ignore, then life will be very loud and very shocking....you won't be able to be the same again....EVER
Hugs mum it is well take heart may you get healed with your kids . You have spoken well what ever you sow some day you will reap. May the Almighty God strengthen you and your kids and over come
Those who say she should not have worked harder than the husband I am not sure who indoctrinated them to think that a woman's job is to be bare feet and pregnant with an outstretched hand begging for the husband to provide. A secure man is supportive of the wife's hustle and is her greatest cheerleader. I cannot see how her hard work was detrimental to the relationship. It seems like he had a mental health issue which got worse when he was intoxicated. Mental health is a cause of many suicide cases and also those threatening to commit the same. Many countries have suicide helplines toll free. I hope one day Kenya will invest in the service to make it easily available.
The fact that he had multiple suicidal ideations was an indication of a deep rooted mental disorder that was never understood. MH is not well understood sadly he needed to be in a mental institution. Another reason is wicked in-laws the hubby loved his wife too much but wicked in-laws interferences caused his brain to be conflicted and the pain was too much for him to handle. This can cause psychotic incidents which made him want to kill his wife and himself to take away his pain. Mama it’s not not your fault have peace ✌🏾
Sister you're not still Healed kindly sarround yourself with positive attitude people. May God strengthen you and fill you with joy and you got strong sister. You very have strong sisters and young family. After giving your life to JESUS you needs Deliverance from soul ties si that you will be set free to have a new man/Husband. Sister please alway go to God Alter with a sacrifice to be set free from Bondages of living in pain rejection,kunyimwa haki,and children to be set free dreaming with their late Dad. Peninnah kindly be strong to be set free because if the late Husband he is seen visiting spiritually it can make Peninnah not to love anyone man or not to have a man because of spiritual Husband. Peninnah have time to get out sometimes and go meetings like women conferences,church fellowships,go places where there many people like towns to have fresh air,visit other women who lost their Husband and they are Healed. Sister Peninnah love yourself,you're sooo beautiful and a very brave and a strong woman.
Peninsula I can imagine what you went through and how you are hurting after the death of your husband, I went through the same with my in-laws but I have healed and forgiven but Karma does not forget the address of the oppressors .May God heal you mama and your children
This guy had a mental issue or he was doing drugs. This lady looks a happy soul..may she find peace. This was such a toxic relationship. Thank God He saved this lady. This was a psychopath. And this evil lying inlaws are piece of work. And they rem malipo ni hapa hapa. This kenyan cops are sick
This is common when you marry a emotionally insecure person,who becomes excessively jealous to his or her partner to an extend of killing the other partner when they think they are about to be left,they develope narcissist pschotic behaviors, very common to men who are unstable and their partner are stable, they feel insecure In such relationship
Peninah is a great lady that has gone through a lot even after being a very hard working lady and above all very blessed because clearly God loves her, and it is evident that her in laws need to reflect and know that they failed in advising their son, however the truth will always prevail no matter how much they keep lying to themselves. Peninah God loves you and will continue blessing you because you are innocent. The Grace of GOD is sufficient for you. When time allows get some counselling lessons for the young children because it will be helpful for their future.
Lesson: never take over husband duties. Their ego is very ry fragile. Such a man feels very threatened and easily result to abuse and self harm. They feel useless and jealous in equal measure. Ondokea haraka sana. Hugs a lot Penina , a true muranga sister. Every new day will be better ,hang on there. You were too strong for him
I left my husband juu ya hio upuzi ..he used to be insecure hata nikienda msalani...... biashara yoyote ...was a threat to him...I had to call it Quits 🥺🥺🥺
Mental illness is what I can read on every occasion he brought up a fight. The crying he did was a call for help. It saddens that in 2023, Kenya has no Mental health awareness. Some mental health issues are hereditary thus I would advise Pauline to see a Psychiatrist, her children too. Break that chain of untreated mental health in families. You are not alone, in therapy, you will find many people worse than you. You have already been crucified, gossiped about, accused, beaten, cut among others. YOU NEED HELP. Before you reply to this comment, have DSM- 5 TR with you, then we can have a back-and-forth.
Sending love and prayers Peninah. God is the just judge.He knows it all and is your witness. Ensure you and the kids go thru counselling and move on................
Peninah you are strong.hiyo mambo yote imepitishiwa na baba na finally been accuse of killing him..rejection from the community and you are still strong...as peninah said..maa igutura iri maa na kiria wahanda itereria mai maa tondu no ukagetha....
It is all well Pesh, take heart and may you get healed with your kids and just believ that Pesh you shall overcome. Yu love this man tena mumekapitia sana naye behind those curtains and only you and him knows that. No one can understand what you feel coz of loosing him, He was ya man no matter what we say. Allow me to call you “Kihiki understanding” - with goodheart lakini My take gutiri hindi ungikenia andu aathi othe. Maisha ni maku. When death occurs only God knows and allow it. May be if your man never left the game it could have been you and your kids he could have sent them express to tha creator as he used to say. Kihiki understanding you are beautiful still you are young uko na bidii yako. Mytake “usikose kuolewa ati uishi maisha yakunjindanganya, ukijiambia ati watu watesema hivi ama vile” Pple will always talk. Raha njipe. Your joy comes just from you not from any one else. Do gud they will talk do bad they will talk mo. All in all pole sana juu ya watoto kuto zika baba yao
Peninah you are vindicated.It’s unfortunate that our communities are so ignorant of listening and making a sound judgement.From your side of the story it’s crystal clear that you loved your late husband despite his queer unpredictable violent actions.Chronic mental illnesses/conditions are an epidemic that are sweeping across villages,states,towns and nations.Some symptoms show up at a very young age but most of the family members shy from disclosing them to others and Or health professionals.This could have been the case to your late husband but nobody knows.However it is what it is and the best thing is to pray,forgive and move on.
Such a strong woman. Thank God he did not manage to kill her coz oh my God the kids would have been left orphans coz believe you me he would have killed her and still kill himself. Much love Penninah❤
uuuuuii hizo commercials ndizo hufanya tuenjoy this episodes my dea. Ukitaka zitoke kabisa then take NOTE join the squad to sponcer this TV coz we cant afford to lose it. You tube without Kagoni is not you tube. without commercials Kagoni is no more.
the guy was much commited to his family and was soo good but seems to have some mental disorder if not sime spiritual attack of the family failed to address
