This is the worst kind of heartbreak, where no matter how much you're convinced that you're at peace with it, or that you move on, there's still hope. Stupid, pointless hope.
but isn't there something kinda beautiful in that? having so much love and appreciation for someone that you don't care if they reciprocate your feelings is sorta a nice feeling
@periodicwastaken5636 you know what, yeah. I can agree to that. It's bittersweet, and maybe dash of purposeful blissful ignorance for some of us. But respecting the joy in the feelings despite all that is something to be admired. Perhaps there is something to be learned from this perspective..
Literally me and my best friend, we're at different colleges but I still talk to him for hours sometimes. Tried giving him so much signals but he never reciprocated, still tho I love him so much, hes kind, sweet, smart, and just the best person ive ever met. Im living off the chance maybe one day he'll feel the same, a guy can dream lol, currently motivated to do well in school too so I can take care of him when he takes a gap year for med school, will prob drift apart by then, but still. Gosh im so hopeless lol
*Random **_suggestion_** from a random internet stranger with a random set of personal experiences coming up;* I think if you mean "Tried giving him so much signals but he never reciprocated" as in: he hasn't figured out what you mean clearly enough. You should probably try to say it clearly and all at once, by doing it through messages or anything that works if you're too nervous to do it in person. You might never get the chance again, and if you never ask, you likely never even give yourself a chance to see if they do really reciprocate. [TLDR: He might not have understood what you tried to say] *If you actually meant* that as in he knows very clearly but doesn't have the same feelings as you do, well I don't think there is much to do except let him make up his mind on what he thinks of you. I know how it probably just feels so demoralizing to think that most of what he thinks, from now on, is out of your control, and that's a reasonable reaction that a lot of people have. ... But... if that second meaning I mentioned is the one you meant And if it doesn't work out And if 'this' and if 'that'... (Which, I truly believe this can work, not trying to be pessimistic) It doesn't mean you have to cut all ties with him, and I hope you can find some peace in that. Anyway, again, I am a random internet stranger who hasn't gotten much experience even in socializing, this isn't some magical guidebook because there is none. It's complicated, and it's alright to acknowledge that it is. I wish you luck, wherever you are, I hope I helped even a little :>
Bro, me too. 😂😂😂 I gives him signals but also in a joking liked manners. I'm the type to know what I can get or not, so I'm just stopped the feeling at crushing and not allowed it to develops more, that risks a lot of things.
Someone with so much hope in his heart can't be hopeless Push thing forward, do what you guts tell you, and let life move on, no matter if it doesn't end as well as you wish Push forward no matter what, have hope, and get no regrets. Then one day life will smile open you
A good time spent with the person you love is never a waste even if they don't reciprocate romantically. Your feelings for them allowed you to grow as a person, and isn't that just life? That we should be grateful for them being a wonderful experience.
The problem is while there may be times you're at peace with it, after an emotional day, a hard night or a few drinks it can easily turn into ever repeating heartbreak. Not to mention its a totally unequal relationship so if the other person is empathetic, they'll understand those feelings and they'll want to distance. If they're not empathetic, and instead selfish, they'll abuse it. Especially when it comes to how financially generous people are when it comes to love. If you truly love someone romantically, and they're married or don't swing your way, and you can't ever view them as just a close friend, then the best thing you can do is distance, see other people, maybe still hangout everyone once in a while. The worst thing you can do is try to hang around them 24/7.
@@ritorules1442 Me coming down here to say exactly this sentence lmao In all sincerity, OP, you might want to look into what being aromantic is. Worst case scenario, the term doesn't resonate with you and nothing happens.
i keep watching this over and over again. no one's ever gonna match that energy.. no one loves me enough to want to be with me all the time and every time i express feelings i get pushed away
That's good! It means that you don't have to waste energy, love or time on them! You get to save those precious energies for the person who will come around one day and wants nothing else but to be with you ;)
That's what I told my boyfriend "It doesn't matter if you don't love me, I will help you and take care of you" and then we became a couple. I told him if he loved someone else or didn't like being with me, I would be happy knowing that he was happy......Sounds weird but well that's how we are.
It's strange to say this (or would be better to say, "to hear this"?), but I am happy that at least you're able to be with him, making memories with him together like that. Even if you don't know how much time you will be able to do them, at least you have made good memories, instead of no memories.
I just recently had a break up with my ldr partner because this past year has no significant difference and our meetup plan crumbles apart, they felt that we've been rushing it too much; they're the one who started it all and also ended it. But I still love them regardless of the distance that made us apart, perhaps one day our path will cross again; even that chance is low; I'll cherish every moment of it.
If someone I couldn’t love said they loved me the way it’s shown in this animation, I would feel terrible and guilty and not know what to do. The only thing I can think of would be to ask what they liked so much and help them find someone else like that.
This resonates with me on a level I don't think I could ever accurately describe. But I'll try. Over a year back I was really struggling with my Alexythemia, heitened by my depression and [at-the-time] unresolved trauma I found it really hard to feel more complex emotions such as love. One day, a friend of mine who I was close to told me he loved me. And they kept saying that. Eventually I told him that I didn't want him to continue saying it because I didn't want him to feel upset because I couldn't feel that way towards him. He replied "I'm not saying it because I want to be loved back, I'm saying it because I love you and you deserve to know you're loved. That was, in hindsight, probably the moment I fell in love with him; I just wasn't aware how to process that yet. Cue multiple months of this friend supporting me through a process of trying to understand myself, deconstruct the mental barriers I put in place which served as both a protection and a hinderance, and slowly help me understand how things about me work. I still struggle with the feelings, but thanks to him I was able to properly identify the aspects of love. I could feel it. So I confessed. Now, next month is our 1yr dating anniversary. I'm probably the happiest I've been in 13 years and it's all thanks to someone being willing to show me love when I couldn't. Because of an interaction like this. Love the animation, thank you for the smile! Showing it to my man ^^
Cara.. Eu juro pra você, estou chorando por causa desse vídeo.. Esse sentimento bateu tão forte :/ Dos momentos que eu tive na minha vida com a pessoa que eu mais amo nessa vida, momentos difíceis do relacionamento, depressão, e até mesmo eu ter que ir no Caps, fez eu lembrar disso, só que depois disso, ele finalmente reconheceu meu amor, e já estamos 1 ano e 6 meses, estáveis, sem nenhum problema. E POR INCRÍVEL QUE PAREÇA, eu tbm sou uma hiena hibrida de raposa. Eu te amo Ramon 🧡❤
this kind of love, this kind of relationship, how can it be so filling and beautiful yet so painful? The slight chance that you may, paired with the ominious presence of a 'we can not'.
I have a friend who I don't just love but feel devoted to him. Like I owe him the world, I don't think we'll ever be in a committed relationship together though and I don't know if I even want it. I like him. A lot but I don't think he'd ever returned the same to me so I'll only really keep giving and being there for him no matter what
"We spend so much time, and we do almost nothing, just staring in one place" "I still love you" **Bad ending** "Sorry, but i have to break out with you, i hope one day you will find someone to be like you" "Wait, what? No please, give me a chance..." "Sorry, I dont want to be here with you doing nothing, we barely talk each other."
I mean... atleast they get to hang out with them and can actually commit to confessing their feelings. That's so good for their personal growth, since then - they'll be staying true to themselves. Well, i wish i could too, though i would probably be ostracized and it wouldn't end well, haha. Even though, the future is hopeful and there are many wolves in the forests :]. Wish you all that you remember you got a friend in you, and that's you! Whenever you feel lonely, sad or depressed, they'll be there for you if you let em. Just please ( i do that too btw) don't focus too much on the attention of the media telling you - why are you still alone, you SHOULD be in a relationship now. Take your time loves
Wow this video is extremely relevant to what I’m going through rn. I’m starting to question if I even know HOW TO love because almost every relationship or almost relationship I have or had was with someone that loved me wayyy more than I loved them. And I always felt bad that I didn’t match their level of “obsessive” love. Wish I knew what that was like. To see someone and want to spend every waking moment with them, to light up when you see them, to truly love and not just speak formalities to each other as “boyfriends”. I question every relationship with “are we really in love or are we just lonely and desperate?” Because I feel like I only love the idea of people but not them themselves. And somehow, in my mind, the type of love I THINK I have the capacity to feel is almost the same love they feel towards me. Am I just super picky? Or will I still be the same even if I find “the one.”. Is the reason I’m not as “enthusiastic” and obsessive as the people that like me because I’m depressed? Am I over thinking love? How do I know I TRULY love someone? Well doesn’t that take time? All the relationships I’ve had fell in love immediately but not me. I have to make sure they are “the one”. Maybe I should be content that they aren’t “the one.” Because nobody is perfect. So many doubts :( I’m with someone right now, we’re dating, I like him a lot, and out of all people he really matches me and I genuinely feel like he might be the one if we give this relationship a chance. We have so much in common he’s kind and supports me we’re kinda perfect for each other, but I’m still kinda unsure if this is “real” love. We fell in love so quickly but was that because we truly loved each other for who we were or because we were desperate and lonely? I heard someone once say “true love isn’t something you find, it’s something you make.” I mean at this point, I’m willing to settle down. We kinda talked about getting married and having kids many times 😅 but still. It’s something I think about a lot. On one hand I am perfectly fine with who I’m with and I want it to work, but on the other hand I don’t want to be with someone I don’t TRULY love. And I also don’t want to lead people on. Because this isn’t something that just hurts me, it hurts them too if they found out I got with them but I don’t truly love them and give them their needs. But they love me. I tend to say yes because I’m too excited to think straight. Who knows…
This reminds me of my closest friends. I liked them for the longest time, but I knew they wouldn't feel the same. It didn't matter, I was alright with it. I still wanted to talk to them and spend time with them, though. They moved out a few months ago, and I've felt kinda shitty since they left.
She had feelings for me Or has She just doesnt want them That makes me so deeply sad But i will hang out with her anyway, even if it hurts. Because I love -her-.
