The Man Women Want 

Ladies love confident men because we are for real. If you can't talk to a woman you have a big problem in society. The key is to be that confident that you can make a strong women with beautiful looks look shy around you. I have a phd in that. Guys i give you some advice start learning to move your hips and definly as men you should defend yourself in a fight because you are the provider. I'm not talking about being Bruce lee but be active(mma,boxing,fitness to stay in shape) for yourself. It's not rocket science.

One of the many things I got out of your video was that women are looking for four things: Money, fight, think, sex. And if a man has those things women will approach him. He will not have to approach women unless he wants to. When I think back on my experience I can see where you are right. Although I was pretty much oblivious to it at the time. When I was dating my wife, she knew that I could think and that I had the potential to make money, because we met in college. I was lifting weights and running, so she felt that I could fight. Although at the time, the idea that women would want a man to protect them never entered my mind. I thought that women would not want a man who would be quick to fight. However, many years after we were married, I got my weight down fairly low and my wife told me that I was too skinny -- how could I protect her? That was the first time that I had any idea that that was important to her. My wife said that I was the most exciting guy that she ever dated. She said that she had dated a lot of nice guys who were too boring. I put her arms behind her back and kissed her on our first date, and later did a bunch of other crazy stuff, which she complained about, but loved. And to say again, I had no idea that any of this stuff was attractive to women. In fact I thought that this stuff was unattractive to women, because I had had some girls who never spoke to me again after the first date. But, strangely, some of their girlfriends would come around and talk to me after they found out what I did on the first date. So, it was very confusing. And I had also gotten into the habit of going to a party and just talking to people casually and waiting for a girl to come up and start talking to me. I thought that that's just what a guy did at a party. And after I was married, women continued to approach me, which brought me to Rom's videos, because I was concerned that my wife might be approaching other men, like women were approaching me, a married man. After listening to Rom's videos and reading his books, I think that he pretty much has it nailed. I certainly couldn't figure it out. But it all makes sense now. And I know that I would have never figured it out on my own.

woman wanna nice guy who looks like a bad boy, who has money

I've been this guy, (The man women want ). A lot of it is animal magnatism as a result of self confidence and being physically fit and well groomed. Being well read and educated allows a brotha to get all kinds of honeys. When these factors line up with money in your pocket and in your accounts - look out! Because your life will be a big ray of sunshine every where. Nothing lasts forever though. We all grow older. I had a good long run being: " The man women want".

Men have a chance with any woman they can make laugh

True game takes much time, patience, and discipline. As a young man, I wonder what is the age when men typically reach their peak of game? Now, it seems it takes much longer for a man to become established or find his purpose/mission in life...

Cool(thorough) people don't have to be cool(thorough) they are cool(thorough). Why? They are deemed as cool(thorough) through actions. If you are doing the things you need to do, taking care of your body, your mind and your business you will receive what you deserve. You may not get what you want when you want it, stay strong because it will be there when the time is right. "If you build it they will come."

Some women can't stand a man who's too manly. Smh

Thank u so much Rom Mills! Hailing from Nassau, Bahamas..I appreciate ur realness, insightfulness,rawness,wisdom and pure masculine vibe u putting out there! Blessings on and ur family.. Getting really pumped up and enlightened from ur wisdom..thanks a whole lot!!!

A man firing on all cylinders can acquire many women. But is there a reasonable percentage of comparable women? I see that Westernized nations focus too much on women. But it's the men who are the creators, protectors, and providers. Focus on being the best man you can be. Because you are the prize! And don't waste more than a few seconds on any woman who isn't up to par! A woman should be ADDING more so than she TAKES from you! Thanks for another good vid! I can't wait for spring in the DMV. The women out and about on Tuesday... man listen lol!

Rom said you can't be Flickted. You know that's ole school. You right brothers back in the day needed to either hoop, run dat Rock, or Throw them Hands. This was way back in Elementary school I noticed this.

Simple but full of ambitions for his life and for his future family are example for a man that a woman want.

I'm still watching 2021. Good info lives on.

Hit it on The Head with this one Big Brotha Rom. Very Thorough Discussion.

Only the Perfected Man can reflect the image of God & no woman have ever been able to withstand such Dominance!. #SUPERIORMAN

I can concede that you are right about the man women want, and have always wanted. I will also admit that few men are able to encompass all the attributes you have listed. Even if they tried as hard as they could, very few men can achieve that level of accomplishment in all those spheres. I also agree that no matter what a man should try to be the best man he can be, but that is nothing new and men specifically black men have been told this for some time now. We have two problems that come into play, the first being as I said not all men can achieve it and are reminded of it by women on all levels. I am not only talking about the 8's, 9's, and 10's, but those as low as 3's and even 2's, have got it in their heads that their value is so high that they can look down on any man that is less than, " the Ideal", yet they see nothing wrong with telling men that should not have similar standards for women, with thing like fat acceptance, and trying to manipulate mens ideas of attractiveness. The second problem is there is no female counterpart to this, or maybe it is best to say, men are no longer allowed to demand a female counterpart. Black men are told to look at all black women as equals, and if they need to lower their standards to do so, that is what they have to do. If men are not willing to lower their standards then the men no only hates black women but he hates himself. Just look at what is going on with RU-vid. We should tell black men to be the best men they can and always try to lean more and improve themselves for their own sake, but we should also be able to say that they should expect no less from women.

"That knock her back out thing, that break her back thing" lol.

I am 6'1 225 and a powerlifter who wears gucci glasses lol I kno the feels gotta be dominant

As usual great work bro! very true

Great video Rom wills! 👍🏾

The moment you decide to do change anything to get women, you have sacrificed your soul . Be ambitious for it's own sake , not ! for women.

Damn Rom...you really don't need to make anymore vids now, lol...this is the key that unlocks the whole game

Congrats Brother Rom! You now have over 6,000 subscribers!!!

That’s Boss Game, Uncle Rom 👍🏾

I remember reading the coldest winter ever by sistha soldier and donald goin books. Its very thuro brothers out here fo sure

This is really everything. This is the whole game.

right hand, become the best man u can be (build wealthy and resources). left hand be able to satisfy ur woman in many ways to keep her from cheating. sounds like a lot of dam wrk. men if ur willing to accept this mission, ur out of ur dam mind lmao good luck u brave souls

All thoroughbreds on Deck much love let's get it

I'm glad you use the term "breaking backs" in your video Rom. I believe in breaking that back to make an initial statement after getting to know a woman. At rock bottom a brother should know that to establish himself immediately. You know, just....fuck-a-thon action you understand. Gotta let the woman know what time it is and who she's dealing with.

We had those Main Man clothes here in Dayton Ohio. Great 🎥! 💪✌🔥💯♊

Ghost has the qualities has that women desire but one crucial thing Ghost is runnin in the UnderWorld w/the darkside and could be rubbed out at any moment. Its Risky but it aint the ` kind a character young Bros. need as a Role Model. It seems women attarct to that man runnin in the underworld but break simps who are in the square world.

Dang... That "thorough" guy resonates so much with me...

When women say "you are too good for me" what do they mean?

I feel ya on da negative comments on ur statements. I be laughing when I see ur words play out on a daily. Only in da crib to eat sleep n’ get back to business. No lolly gagging🤣🤣

This a real important video for men and women

Are you up to the Challenge Gentlemen. There is a Big World out here, will you live a Big Life to Match it. Its more about you than the women.

You bring up a most important point, Men should be developing these traits for Themselves above all, and Women will come as a result. The characteristics you describe are what all Men should aspire to, they make you your own Man. That's exactly how we were taught on the Left Coast Back in The Day as well. I'm not sure if it's a Generational thing or Cultural, probably a little of both. Once again your Commentary is on point. I'm wondering if I'll ever disagree with you on this stuff. Probably not.... ;)

I’m not skipping your ads I want you to eat 🙏🏾

Can you talk about the "Knowing of the Game".

You said flickded! I was and still am in some ways the epitome of flickded...

Like mastering masculine archetypes?

Thanks. This helps alot.

Been working on this to see how far I can go.

Indeed you got it,haven't found him yet!

should is a really nice word but not only does the community not work that way but the world doesn't operate on should. Because a woman feel that men should be everything on that ridiculous checklist but low and behold. They have to be realistic just like us. The more game you learn the less delusional you become. No one is perfect, if I see a woman and she look perfect I get suspicious because I know something is wrong.

Brother from the south have the best game.

This sounds like an awful lot of work just to get women, but I can overstand what is being said in the video. It is true that you must be firing on as many cylinders as possible in order to attract the best quality women. I sucked at sports in high school and I can't dance at all so needless to say I didn't attract many women in my high school days. Lol. Smh. Well except for a few here and there, but I was a such a square back then I didn't have much success. I want the women, but I ain't gonna go overboard to impress them because most of em are ungrateful anyway. I've heard many stories from men about that... Oh and by the way if y'all gon talk about game you gotta include Northern California the bay area into the mix. Lol. San Francisco, Oakland, Richmond, Vallejo, San Jose.

U sound like brother Jones , u should check out his channel

Uncle Rom , Oakland Ca , game is the Mecca . The MAC The Gorilla The Urban Intellect The spiritual (panthers) A cosmopolitan of fly Men. All love though.

chicago made the game!!

I was good with Ghost until he popped his YG.

Random, but I was going back over you body game and older videos just about a man hitting on all cylinders. Low-key not trying to start anything. But you were talking about a high value man without the phrase, or over emphasizing on money. You were just talking about a man overall. Another prime example is your through video. You been ahead of time. Keep it up big dog.

Rom D.C. Got the best game come on dogg bmore all day

naw playa.. Midwest n**** got the game on lock real talk

Ah, how ironic... #Rom, you felt inspired to do this video while the sun was in #Aries... ... #Mars rules Aries; and Mars rules Males. *Aries* rules *sports* and it's *the god-of-war* ... Hence, a woman's attraction {to him} in *those* areas---even if she's not conscious of the Y. Moreover, most women want to feel protected, secure---if a man can furnish those items for her---Yes, she's likely to find him very appealing.

man damm you got the hook up like that , I knew some new one like that one phone any can get it .

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I’ve heard that saying before D.C got hella game, though I still think the south run it hahahaha

Blue Rondo A La Turk?

Nah LA got it lol

GHOST