This was so sweet!! I don't have kids and don't plan on ever having them either but this was so cute. I've raised my nephew since the day he was born and had to step in and help my sister because the dad was a POS and I never knew what love was until he was born it's crazy how much you can love someone and it just be so unconditional and pure. My 4 yr old nephew is hands down the best thing that has ever happened in my life and I will go to the ends of the earth for him. A child's love for you is the best kind of love.
I just find it funny how some say, "oh gosh thank god I don't have a kid they r so annoying them smelly dipers, and waking up at 3am. lol it's all on YOU. on how YOU raise them! and the dipers & the 3am's? it's all worth it!
True, but I don't believe they scream for attention, is the emotion that comes with their opinions. The other segments where they laugh are great too, but I see what u r saying about segments like these
Can we just say how we love Tamera speach is always addicted to hear like the way she expresses her love is just full of happiness and that simile she make is the real so I just wanna put it out there that she always have a powerful speech to bring to the real so 😘
+jake bobs They know she's a germaphobe, lol. In the midst of the emotions they just forgot, I guess. Tamera was just like my tears aren't dirty, wipe girl.
And for those of you who are always harping on Tamera for being dramatic and crying all the time...she's not acting, IT'S WHO SHE IS! You can tell she tries to fight it but the tears just flow. If you watched Tia & Tamera you'd know that both of them cry at almost anything that makes them happy (or sad), especially their families! It's the same with complains of Tamar being loud and sassy, if you watch her reality shows, you'd know that that's who she is! Let them be!
Loni is a really good host/mc in these moments. She's a really strong moderator. (I know that's really random and unrelated but I felt Loni also deserved a shout-out)
+Jordan Taylor That's interesting. I was feeling differently. I actually thought that at certain emotional moments, she could've just let it be emotional and not fill it with words or extraneous comments. It was a little distracting.
Asjah M I agree that this is true at times. Maybe it's natural comedic character coming forth. Maybe it's nerves or awkwardness when the other ladies are sharing stuff she hasn't experienced (or experienced as deep). Who knows. But Loni is Loni.
Y'all seriously need to stop messing with Jeannie. A woman can decide to do more with her life then just become a mom. And there's nothing wrong with that.
How insulting. What you mean more than just a mom. Being a big executive is not more of an accomplishment that being a great mother. There's nothing wrong with choosing not to have kids, but there's absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to have kids and it does not mean it's any less special or fulfilling than any career out there... Even though in our day an age, women can do both.
+Jay Garcia I think she meant now that women are taking a different path away from the stereotypical and traditional role given to woman,there should be nothing wrong with that. It's not insulting at all as women have always been given the label or there has always been a connection or association made of women being mothers,settling in a domestic role,and that being their ultimate goal and optimum reason they achieve a blissful life. There's so much stigma even today surrounding women that can't have children,or choose not to especially in the Asian community. I think the fact a woman can say that she wants to do more with her life than being a mum is not insulting or degrading to the role of being a mother - which is huge and beautiful, I'm sure! It's just different,and I don't think people are used to hearing that yet.
Jay Garcia I actually said nothing against mothers. But if a woman decides against it she shouldn't have all these people trying to "convert" her to motherhood.
ndewitt98 I totally agree. Men can be a dad or not be and it doesn't have the same stigma, that women receive when they choose the same path. Its unfair and we should treat people equally. I think though that women who choose not to have kids sometimes have a distain towards motherhood and view it as less than. Elle Plow Plow said "more with her life, than JUST becoming a mom". I was referencing that its insinuating that being a mom is not enough. Its insinuating if a woman is a stay at home mom, and another is a CEO, the CEO has accomplished more with her life. It sounded really demeaning but I think you didn't mean it that way now that you explain yourself some more.
I feel like Tamar visualize life in a different way since her health scare. Not saying that she wasn't grateful before but I love seeing the mellow and humbleness side of her on top of her fun and "turn up" side.
+Aljazih AlHayal you're literally in every video talking crap about Tamera. You seem butt hurt and really jealous. Lmao take a chill pill and calm down
I'm 11 seconds into the video and I just had to pause it to acknowledge how amazing Tamar looks in this episode. The hair, the outfit, I love EVERYTHING she's rocking today!
+Classy Carma Yes!!! I agree. I just commented on that. She looks better with kinky extension. If she does the straight weave/wigs, I love when they are dark, one time she had pitch black weave, and I loved it. FYI, I am a natural sista with a big chop and was still like "Wowwwww!" when I saw her. She looks better and her features show. The blonde stuff for her, to me, isn't flattering.
Tamar made me cry. But y'all crazy talking about Jeannie in these comments lol. Leave her alone. Everybody's always saying "you'll change your mind." But maybe she won't. Being a mother is one of the most beautiful things in the world but so is happiness and everyone is not about that life. It's really sad that in this society we pressure people (women especially) so hard to get married and have kids. There is no right or wrong way to live *your* life.
This is sooo off topic but whenever Tamar starts to cry like this, I always laugh.. It makes me think back to that episode where Vince revealed to her that she had to speak at a women's empowerment convention, at last minute, right when they arrived at the event. She got on stage and didn't have much to say, so she made herself cry so that everyone could be in awe and that would give her a few minutes to come up with something and then she starts talking about mighty mouse lmfaooo I get weak every time!
I'm with Tamar when she said, " That got me. That was a lot." The moment Tamera started giving love to her siblings, I started crying myself. Lol I love my siblings and I love this show. Everyone on the panel is an amazing woman in many different ways.
I hope what I'm about to say doesn't come across and mean or rude because I don't mean it that way. I love the fact that they love being a mom and feel so strongly about it.....however....I feel that they sometimes overlook the fact that some women CAN'T be a mother. As a woman who has no children and has had 3 consecutive miscarriages, I would just love someone to acknowledge that, even though the biggest blessing is to be a mom, not all women get to be blessed with that.
I think that's why Tamera said I'm so happy God chose me to be a mother. I think she's trying to express that not all women have been able to become mothers, no matter how much they crave a child.
sweety, I hope what I'm about to say doesn't sound strange but, I want you to have hope and there is hope! the fact that you had miscarriages means that something did develop just not all the way. Keep trying sweety. My mother had 3 miscarriages before she had me, then a year later she had my sister. She then had a miscarriage again before the third child came along!! so 3 kids!!! you have hope, just always believe it will happen.
Whenever the ladies of The Real talk about babies y'all always mention Jeannie and how she should have kids. If doesn't want to be a mother, then she doesn't. Not everybody had that maternal instinct. I hope she doesn't change her mind especially not for freddie, She'll regret it. This was a beautiful segment btw, i love seeing this side to Tamar! God bless her and Vince.
People need to leave Jeanie alone. It's a woman's choice to have a baby and if she doesn't want one, leave her alone! We aren't in the 50's anymore, us women are MORE than just baby makers. It's better for her not to have one, then have one and nor enjoy it. This is why peoples babies are pawned off on their mothers or end up in a dumpster (not saying Jeanie would ever do that). Women are made to feel like we have to have kids, and that's simply not true!! And if you're the type of woman who believes she has to have kids, I feel sorry for you. Because we are so much more than that. Respect yourselves.
I get what Tamar is saying. My nephew is so much more close to his grandparents than his parents. He would literally cry anytime they leave, even if it is to the bathroom. I think grandparents are more maternal than the first time parents that babies automatically feel comfortable around them. Since Tamar is away from Logan all day and he spends all his time with her mother, the bond is so much stronger. LOVE YA TAMAR!!
I feel the same Tamar and Tamara my baby is the apple of my eye too that's my little muffins love love love my baby wouldn't trade this experience for anything in the world
I just recently started watching these short clips and I love how one minute they can make me laugh till I pee and the next they put me in tears. What an amazing group of women.
Tamera is a mother right down to her soul. That is why she has such poignant descriptions of her experiences. I think some people need to understand one thing: HAVING OR ADOPTING A BABY DOES NOT NECESSARILY MAKE A WOMAN A MOTHER….but Tamera is a mother….her love and appreciation for her children proves it…..What I LOVE is that you can tell she truly ENJOYS HER CHILDREN…they are NOT just a responsibility with which she was saddled, something she has to tolerate. Her children are blessed to have her as a mother….I pray that God teaches them to appreciate her.
Jeannie is probably going to change her mind about motherhood - being around Tamar and Tamera, and seeing that bond with their children - will give her a brand new perspective on extending her own family.
Can we just respect the fact that she says she doesnt want to have kids? Why this constant pressure as if you (not you personaly but the real audience) knew better than her what she wants and what is best for her? There are plenty of women out there who have made that choice and are very happy about it. I understand that motherhood is a beautiful thing but it cannot be forced in s/o throat... I feel like even the ladies at the table are guilty of this... Always bringing up jeannies name whenever they talk about kids... I find it a little insensitive especially when they know that its a touchy subject in her mariage
it's kind of funny how ppl will put that pressure on a woman no matter what, but when it comes to a guy not wanting kids they just accept it. leave that woman and her uterus out of it lol
How about no. I hope for GODS SAKE Jeannie doesn't get pressured and bullied (yes, I said bullied) into having kids she DOESN'T WANT!!! Jeannie being born with a vagina doesn't mean she owns this world any babies. It's HER life and HER body. Stop trying to make her go against her own beliefs! This is 2016 not 1806. As a woman who never wants to have kids either, you people make me sick. You should be ashamed of yourself for putting so much pressure on women and trying to dictate other peoples lives.
Yeah the only reason Jeannie said she didn't want kids was because she was scared (and a lil selfish ha) but Tamar was JUST like that, but Logan is her life. We still of course should leave it up Jeannie since it's her life and body, but she would be a fantastic mother in my opinion.
Tamar, girl, go for baby number two!!!!!! You got this! I remember how Logan came out of the difficult time when Vince was sick. I hope another "joy" comes out of this difficult time you just when through!
I love how raw and real these girls are! It's these type of segments that I really appreciate and how honest they can be in front of the cameras. It makes me want to cry too! Haha 😪
I am so sorry to read this. Please know that you can pray for your mother's eternal happiness; her soul lives on. Be the best that you can be and know that your best looks different every day. Sending you guidance and wishing you a healthful life of abundant joy.
When i tell you having a bond with your baby , or mother of father or any persons within YOUR immediate family cannot compare to when you get marry and have beautiful children!!!
Tamar broke me down lol I usually cry with Tam but I heard this story B4 so I sat this one out. I love seeing women in their 30's have kids/get married, something about their glow and they just look so much more ready. I wanna wait like they did.
Thanks a lot Tamtam and Taytay for having everyone looking at me like I'm crazy for crying in the bank... I shouldn't have watched this the last minute before getting off my lunch break... Now tears are streaming down my cheek on the Teller line and no one knows why.
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I don't get why this is an emotional moment. I understand Tamar coz her husband's parents are died so it's a weird thing for him an her mom has a cute bond with her kid although she already has a crap lord of grandkids. Tamera on the other hand I have no idea why she's crying. She just has a stereotypical family. I see no reason for tears. I guess it's the happy cry thing I dunno
