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Right, agreed, but IF she had needed to "make up" for anything this episode was a perfect choice 😂 Steph needs to take all the guilt-free time she needs but .... I've been waiting for a "ghost doctor" episode 🥹
I had a mandicular advancement jaw surgery in 2005. I told all my friends “im getting the full Kanye.” it was hell. ****trigger warning TMI body horror gore**** my teeth were banded shut but I kept throwing up blood. then I couldn’t keep down the liquid pain meds I had to syringe through a tube (because there was nothing in my stomach) and it had nowhere to go so I had to just stand over the toilet and let a mouth full of vomit slowly leak through my teeth. I kept rejecting the pain meds so I had to keep driving 2 hours for emergency injections. my face was TRIPLE the size and deformed I looked like someone tried to cook me in a microwave. I dreamed of food and lived on gatorade for nearly 3 weeks before I could graduate to smoothies. I lost 30 lbs in a month. I didn’t see my friends or my new boyfriend at the time for a month (we’re still together btw) I was so weak and miserable I fell behind in school and couldn’t work much longer than they said i’d be out. my jaw was congenitally under sized and I was born without several adult teeth. it was broken in pieces and put back together with titanium plates to increase the structure. if you don’t absolutely have to, I don’t recommend it. this poor poor man. thanks I hate it.
Steph: "I don't think you guys realize i went anywhere". meanwhile me everyday from the past two weeks checking the channel again and again cause i thought RU-vid stopped recommending me. WELCOME BACK STEPH!! Edit: Ok guys i now know that everyone missed her sm.. thank you for the likes tho
Mad props to the nurse who went out of her way to explain the body donation, its a traumatizing time, and a truly important decision that deserves to be fully understood.
My mother works in the medical field, and she told me that even when you donate your body for medical research, you're typically cremated after being studied, so if your loved ones don't get your ashes back, there's a problem.
Yes, this! My uncle recently died and donated his body to University of Minnesota, and they will get his ashes back when it's time. I don't know how much they will get to know about how his body gets used though.
As an anesthiologist this cctv footage triggered me. Where was the anesthiologist ???? Just to make it clear, the anesthesiologist MUST remain with the patient throughout the entire surgery and after the surgery until the patient regain consciousness. We are not allowed to leave the patient just with surgeons/nurses/assistents, an anesthiologist has the responsibility to monitor the patient's vital signs, respond immediately to compliactions and adjust anesthesia levels the WHOLE TIME (we would ensure that another anesthesiologist is in the OR if we need to go to the bathroom or have a break).
This is the same with animals as well! The anesthesiologist/ technician should never leave the patient until they are more conscious and reactive to their surroundings before ever even leaving the room or with assistants, even if there’s extra hands or eyes these are people that aren’t trained in what to do completely in certain situations and therefore an anesthesiologist should always be there as that is apart of their job as well…
Also, why was he be looking for a vein at that point? Wouldn't the patient already have an IV line they could hook up to? Or did those butchers take it out as soon as they finished cutting??
its so fascinating to me how anesthesia exist at all, afaik its quite a stress on the body, and despite how its can become dangerous i havent really heard about anything going wrong with anesthesia itself the only problem surgery left me with is weakened sense of balance, but im not sure if its bc of surgery or anesthesia
I sleep very easy , a heavy sleeper , after when I got surgery the anesthiologist said I wouldn't wake up at all , said they been trying to get me up but couldn't , said I should of been awake three hrs before .
@fool4343 a lot of the mom's I met who had a C-section all complain of forgetfulness and poor memory and blame it on the anesthesia There's also a case of an anesthesiologist making a mistake in a general anesthesia wherein the patient should be completelyunconscious. The patient was aware that the surgeons were cutting him and the anesthesiologist realised too late that the patient was awake. The patient was immediately put to sleep and made to forget what happened. The patient did forget but his body or unconscious mind remembered and drove him crazy....after a few months after the surgery he unalived himself
Y’all have no idea how scary surgeons/doctors are when you’re unconscious. I got in an awful wreck and was close to dying, suffering awful injuries, so I was placed in the ICU for a few weeks. In that particular ICU, patients are put in a room with a curtain dividing you and the next patient. This man was in there due to a bad motorcycle crash and was essentially on his death bed. Whilst unconscious, the nurses were joking about how “bikers aren’t people, they’re so weird, blah blah blah” and were giggling and making snide remarks about his biking group who asked to come in and pray over him. It really made me see doctors so differently. Then, when his daughter came in, she profusely thanked them profusely for how “well they seemed to be treating them” completely unaware of how cruel they were actually being. It forever changed how I saw medical staff.
My mom always used to talk about how gossipy nurses are. According to her though the divide between venting about genuinely terrible patients and just plain cruelty was way close to 50/50 then she ever felt comfortable with
my ex interned at a hospital and said there was an old patient crying in pain but the nurses would say oh that’s just how she is. turns out she had sores but the nurses are so desensitized they forget they are dealing with people and didn’t check on the patient. after that she switched careers
@@tommys6596 yes, it’s genuinely TERRIFYING. I hate confessing this but I can no longer see medical staff the same. I once viewed them as heroes and selfless people (and still, some are) but I’ve come to find out many are sociopaths who joined the career for the wrong reasons (money,morbid curiosity, or just to have the title.) I hate that it’s become this way, but I view nurses and doctors with a newfound layer of skepticism and even scorn at times.
@@shi_va6754 I am so sorry to hear this. It breaks my heart to pieces knowing how many people end up getting damaged by these disgusting human beings who have no regard for the lives that are placed in their hands. My heart goes out to you. 💔 The way I see it is, one day everyone will end up being the one in the hospital bed, whether its due to injury, or because you’re in your final days, and when the time comes that these cruel medical workers have their turn, I hope all the memories of what they’ve done to others come flooding back.
Dae-hee already looked incredibly conventionally attractive to me, the fact that the job market is so toxic, shallow and messed that he felt the need change himself further and invest his hard earned money just for the CHANCE to get promoted is astonishing, I have no words.
Yeah, although pretty much all societies at least somewhat favour conventionally pretty people, some, like South Korea, are just insanely toxic. It's such a cool country, but so much is deeply wrong with their society.
I read in the wiki page regarding ghost surgeries that he’d been persistently bullied for the shape of his chin. I looked at pictures expecting a Judge Dredd/Desperate Dan shelf chin but it was just a regular looking chin. I’ve no idea what goes on in the minds of SK kids and why they’re so obsessed with appearance and bullying. Steph has covered many other cases of extreme violence and abuse from teenagers it’s mind boggling to me why their government isn’t concerned they’re raising a generation of psychopaths.
South Korea has an obsession with V-shaped jawlines even if it doesn't go well with the rest of their faces. Very unique beauty standard. To me, it looks like they're paying to look worse with those shaved jaws.
Mothers intuition is extremely strong! My great-grandmother was woken up one night because it sounded like someone was knocking on her bedroom window. When she went to look, she saw her son outside. She was shocked because he was in America and she was in Poland at the time. She went to let him in but there was no one there, not even foot prints in the snow. She got a call later that he had passed away. I just got chills writing this.
Who was your great grandmother because the exact same thing happened to mine. I know we have family in America that no one kept in contact with while mine stayed in Polska
There's a story of a soldier whose mother underwent a mastectomy while he was fighting (WW2 I think). She was recovering in the hospital with her husband by her side, dropping in and out of consciousness. Suddenly she sat bolt upright and screamed "DUCK, JAMES!" before passing out again. She later got a letter from her son describing how he'd been on sentry duty when he suddenly heard a woman's voice ring out telling him to duck. He did, and a bullet skimmed the top of his helmet. Mother's intuition is not only real, it can even break the laws of reality as we understand them.
Mothers intuition is 100 per cent real! When my daughter was 8 mionths old, i suddenly woke in the middle of the night, around 3am, and KNEW something was wrong. Like a punch to the gut! I went to my daughters crib and realised she looked very different, swollen, purple.... i took her into the hallway under the light and she was limp and barely breathing... Turns out she was going into anaphylaxis due to an allergy to penicillin that she was prescribed for a chest infection. The Drs at hospital told me she would not have made it until morning if i didn't wake when i did. She was literally minutes from suffocation. The weird part is, she didnt cry, she was barely moving so its not like she disturbed me in my sleep. Mothers intuition saved my daughters life. period. Shes 18 now and loving life
YOU ARE A MOTHER, YOU ARE HER PROTECTOR, YOU ARE HER GODDESS, YOU ARE HER EVERYTHING ❤ COMING FROM A MOTHER WHO LOSS HER 23 YR OLD SON TRUST ME WE KNOW WHEN SOMETHING IS WRONG 💔
@@jenniferkleininger9191 thankyou for your words 🥰 And I'm so sorry for your loss. We defo gain super powers when we have our babies 🙏 Bless you and take care x
wow..that is so scary. im not a mom but i def believe in mother’s intuition. you’re literally a supermom. you saved your daughters life. wow. moms are real life superheroes
Thank you so much for covering this story... The victim is my friend's brother and I watched how his death has affected him and his family so much, especially his mum. I think this is a great example of how tenacity of a mother for her son's justice not only gained it but also brought a positive change to how the hospitals operate. It's sad that something like this had to happen for a change to occur though...
It is so true that South Koreans get plastic surgery just for their jobs. I worked at an English hagwon in SK for six years. One of my younger Korean coworkers desperately wanted to stop teaching and get a corporate job. She kept failing interviews until she got double eyelid surgery and a nose job. She literally landed the first job she applied for after the procedures healed. I was happy for her to get her dream job but sad at the same time.
That shows how much influence the entertainment industry holds and how it absolutely DOES affect people. Alrhough so many deny it over and over again. This aspect of it is out of control twisted 😱 !
Doctor here. When we call emergency contacts for critical patients we basically have the same protocol for non-critical patients. We just call them, confirm their identity, inform them that they're the emergency contact listed for (patient's full name), and that the patient is currently in the hospital and requires their presence for papers and so and so. We will discuss the specifics of the patients' condition in person only. Though if the patient has a specific urgent need for like, blood or something… we will inform the emergency contact over the phone that if they can, to bring willing donor candidates etc. We never tell emergency contacts over the phone that their patient is perfectly fine/not fine. First off, that's not something anyone can guarantee 100% right off the bat. There's also the fact that patient confidentiality is at play and we must first visually and legally (with their ID, etc) confirm that we really are speaking to the listed emergency contact before sharing anything about the patient's status. Also, the doctors are not supposed to leave an opened patient alone in the OR without any kind of doctor. And I've never met an anaesthesiologist leave a patient before the patient fully wakes up in the Recovery Room. They're with the patient from the start of anaesthesia to closing, to transfer of the patient from operating room to recovery room. The anaesthesiologists constantly check the patient's vitals and should they step out a bit, another anaesthesiologist/anes resident should take over the monitoring. Also, should the surgery pause for any length of time, the opened parts of the patient are covered with a sterile cloth (if possible, since there are surgery sites that are too sensitive to be covered by anything) to prevent loss of fluids and as respect for the patient's dignity.
That’s good to know, and it makes sense. Like Stephanie said, people might rush to the hospital if they knew it was a big emergency and cause more accidents in the meantime. That, and you can’t verify who someone is over the phone. It might not be the actual emergency contact on the other end.
@lemonsalmon4559 Really like how having rules/regulations and policies /procedures in place automatically means everyone follows them. Makes the disciplinary process obsolete, doesn't it?
Medical worker here, just to add onto this, legally we can't actually say whether someone is fine or not because of the legality of essentially promising. You can be sued for falsely claiming or promising an outcome and even apologizing can be used against you in the court of law.
The nurse mopping in the midst of a sterile surgical procedure is wrong and unsanitary. That’s not how it should be done. Basically Everything done in that OT was illegal.
not if it’s a clean OT mop, which i highly doubt in this situation of course. But if there is blood on the floor during an op it does need to be cleaned up to prevent staff slipping on it. which could be a huge danger to the patient too.
A mother's intuition works even when you are not dying or dead. It's super strong. She knows what is happening to you, sometimes before you know yourself.
Korea's judicial system is a mockery, those sentences and laws in which the guilty are capable of receiving a very low sentence or no punishment at all.
Some of these replies are just ugh at the very least mfers our systems sometimes works for good and they sometimes end up with people actually getting the proper punishment south korea? Fucking never
@@amishasalvatore4234in the last version she mentioned trainee doctors from china acting as the ghost doctors then going back and advertising as being trained in korea which makes them look more prestigious. i wonder why this was left out
Mother intuition is sooo real. My cousin fell and broke both his knees at work and my aunt immediately felt that something had happened to him and called him, he didn’t answer but later found out what had happened. (He lived in Washington DC and she lived in Central America).
Mother’s intuition is really strong, today makes 5 years since my eldest brother died. He got into a car accident a week before his death and was in a coma, the night he got into the accident my mother couldn’t sleep and had terrible stomach pains. My sister received the call first and when she went to wake my mother up, with one touched she woke up and was like “Which one of your siblings died” She knew one of us died that night before receiving the news.
and hug her extra long, too.. like at least, a minimum of 5mins hug.. if she tries to let go of u, u just keep hugging, just ignore her action and tell her just let u have ur 5mins hug with her and don't forget to talk to her while u hug her, like thanking her for everything, from giving birth, feed u, roof over ur head, love, lesson in life, express ur gratitude while she's still alive.. and by every minute I want u to hug her tighter and firmer and stronger.. I wish I could hug my mom too.. but she left us almost 18years now, I was still in college, rebelling against my parents, I regret I didn't get to settle our differences before she passed away.. although I was with her during her last 2 weeks in the hospital after the accident and 3 surgeries.. her 3rd surgeries sent her to coma, lasted for 3 days before she left.. even the doctors assured us that she'll survive after the 3rd surgeries.. I thought I still got time.. if I only knew, I would do what I just told u, I'll hug her and won't let her go, keep holding her hand, settle our differences, tell her I love her more, thank her for everything, express my gratitude more often and in details.. so much regrets and I hope u won't do the same mistake like I did.. I always advised all my friends about this too.. more interaction with parents coz they're lonely as they get older and I think they are too shy to express their feelings.. and it's our turn now to take care of them, feed them, tell them u love them, and if it makes u feel awkward about expressing ur love, then u should agree with my assumptions that they also shy to express it too.. so why don't we be a good son/daughter and just ignore the awkwardness.. it's better awkward but the message are delivered.. than avoid awkward and u will regret for the rest of ur life like me.. I know you'll do the right thing.. have a great day!!!
I'm an Anesthesiology resident. The surgeons usually leave the theatre after finishing the surgery but remain in the hospital until patients completely recover. If there's a complication, the surgeon will rush back to the OT. The anesthesiologist is the one who usually waits in the OT until the patients recovers from anesthesia. He/she is responsible for assessing the blood loss and replacing it if needed. They also monitor the vitals of the patient until he recovers. After recovery from anesthesia, the patient will be moved to the "recovery area" just outside the OT. There the nurses will monitor his vitals until he is ready to be moved back in to the ward. The anesthesiologist and the surgeon CANNOT go home until the patients are sent safely back to the ward where the ward doctors and nurses will take over monitoring activities. Also we never start a surgery without getting IV access first. Specially if it's a surgery done under general or spinal anesthesia
@@barbarah7089 It should be. The surgeon is responsible for the surgery. The Anesthetist is responsible not only for the drugs that "knock out" the patient and manage pain; but also for ensuring the patients vitals remain steady. They are responsible for intervening and preserving life in the event of a drug reaction, or adverse outcome. They are specially trained in resus, and intensive care. I have seen an Anesthetist pull rank on a surgeon and end a case early due to concerns over a dropping BP and O2 sats.
I had nose surgery in London, UK by a well-known clinic. After several severe nose bleeds I called the clinic who assured me I was fine and it was normal even though I’d had an ambulance out. I finally collapsed after a week as I’d lost so much blood. Thought I was going to actually die. Everyone around me was scared too.I had emergency surgery that night and 4 pints of blood. The surgeon had cut open 2 arteries in my face (I guess accidentally) and left them bleeding. I tried to take him to court but it couldn’t be proved. This man is still operating for this big company in the UK. It’s sickening. I had a mini tummy tuck too several years ago too. Went ok but found out through a TV programme (tonight with Trevor MacDonald) that my surgeon had been struck off in his own country for nearly killing several women but was working for a reputable company in the Uk. So scary
Yes, it was a dr called Mr Seruji. He was based at a well-known clinic in Peterborough run by Transform. The law suit went on over a year but they couldn’t 100% prove he had cut the 2 arteries in my face open and left them to bleed out. The only reason it failed was to do with the fact I had high blood pressure at the time and he could have refused to operate or go ahead. He chose the money. Not sure how that was related as report was huge but even the nurse who took my gauze out commented there was so much and made me first wonder if something went wrong.The hospital in London they sent me too were awful. I rang them a couple of days later to explain that I was bleeding out and they said they would write me a prescription and send in the post! 😳Had Rhinoplasty before with wonderful surgeon, now retired sadly, but I recommend a proper hospital like spire health or bupa and reputable names not these gimmicky ones advertising on tv as they send you to any old place and just want to sign you up asap for your cash. Might be more money but surgeons are well-known and often work for NHS for years before too ❤ Also, lesson from me, research the surgeon online..I was naive ❤
Anesthesiology graduate here. I’m heart broken to hear about the negligence in the case. During training we are told literally that the patients life is in our hands and that patient safety is ALWAYS number one. I remember my training officer always reminded us about this. Constant monitoring is crucial and not having an IV before an operation is a critical mistake. Establishing a line (in this case an IV line) should be done in case something goes wrong. It makes me think that the patient was under general inhalational anesthesia considering the surgery and to not have an IV? That’s irresponsible. So many physiological changes happen under inhalational anesthesia (or any anesthesia in general) and we need to be able to respond to it. As anesthesiologists, we do close monitoring intraop and post op. This means we have standard monitors that should be attached to the patient. We do not leave a patient or even wheel them out of the operating room if they have not woken or shown signs of recovery from anesthesia. We shouldn’t leave the operating room and patient with someone who is not trained to monitor the patient (usually we ask help from a fellow anesthesiologist if we urgently need to leave the room for some reason). I’m not sure why the nurse did not think to call for help when she saw all the bleeding but she shouldn’t have been left alone in the first place with a critical patient. That’s on the doctor. Surgeons usually leave the operating room after the surgery is done but they remain within the hospital. And the ones I know ask us how the patient is or come by themselves to check on the patient after the procedure. But if the patient has not fully awoken or perhaps was unstable- they’d usually wait before leaving the hospital. Post op is critical and usually they are in what we call PACU (Post anesthesia Care Unit) where there a dedicated team of nurses who monitor the patient. But the overall head is an anesthesiologist or the anesthesia department. The nurses help us to monitor the patient and we respond to any changes in vital signs or to any problems. Also the anesthesiologist gives the final clearance for discharge. Patients are only discharged (either back to room or to go home) if they have recovered from anesthesia. If they are admitted, then another team of doctors and nurses take over their care. I will repeat what several have said here - patient safety should always be key. That is why I am so sad to hear of what happened. Also it’s disheartening to hear how they tried to hide it by falsifying records and say that it was the fault of the ER. My condolences to the family.
My partner went brain dead while I was a few weeks pregnant. I had moved to nyc and I was actually back home telling my family about our lives changing. He had fallen in our driveway and we had to make the decision of taking him off of life support at 25. The organ donation conversation is not something anyone is ready to have. He saved other people’s lives, but i will never feel any less guilty about ending things sooner than giving him any chance of life. It felt pressured and intense. When all you want is a miracle.
Im sorry for your loss. I can't imagine being in that position because you wouldn't want to face reality and would be praying for a miracle. I hope you, both sides of your families and your baby, are doing as well as you can and healing. 🙏
I'm so sorry for your loss and what you went through regarding the organ donor situation. They really pressure you into hurrying 'it' up. The same happened with my brother who OD'd on fent.
Stephanie GIRL you do not need to overwork yourself after just getting better. PLEASE take care of yourself first before you think of us. I was so legitimately concerned for you and your family because of the sudden silence. But now that you're back, we just want you to pace yourself so that you don't get sick again!
Mother intuition is extremely strong!! We live in Puerto Rico, after Hurricane María trees and stuff were loose, I was on my way to work and had a full on big heavy part of a tree fall on my car busting my windows and mirrors and visors flying off!! Super scary... called my mom she answered the phone scared and told me she was in the middle of prayers for her children... the way the tree fell was a final destination experience should have flew straight in my face... didn't happen thank goodness
The last quotes from Lee Sanghee brought me to tears. To see a person that has been dealt so much hardships in life being so resilient, that he would love to help people like him who want to be actors if he had the opportunity really speaks of his heart. Glad to see you're back Stephanie! Lots of love from Germany♥
When my mom died I felt her soul touch me. I was racing down the highway and hoping to get to her two hours away.. a little more than half way through my trip I started screaming out “no mommy don’t leave me! I love you so much! Don’t leave me, don’t leave me.” I didn’t know she was actually dead until i walked into the room and said “hey mommy.” Took me about 30 secs and I broke down crying. Come to find out her time of death was exactly when I started screaming out to her. Our soul ties were breaking and I still haven’t recovered 4 years later. I feel so bad for his mom, that type of love is the hardest to lose.
You may not heal for a long time, that's normal, I lost my mom 7 years ago by now. Although it's been hard, I definitely feel like I've processed the majority of my feelings, even though I still get sad sometimes. Don't feel bad for not moving on yet, it takes time, your mom wouldn't want you to beat yourself up. I reacted the same way, I was 15 years old at the time and I was awake at 3:00AM, I was at a relatives house when my dad (Who was also visiting.) He told me "I'm sorry *name* They couldn't save your mother." Which caught me by surprise, then he said "She's dead." I looked dumbfounded, "This isn't real right? There's no way, are you serious?!" His nod and tears confirmed it, I started yelling in denial "There's no fucking way! This has to be some fucked up joke! She's not dead, I just saw her alive! This can't be real!! Because she had been alive but hospitalized three days prior. I sobbed, I wailed, I was completely devastated, I never felt anything so painful and upsetting in my life. He took me to the hospital to confirm she was being artificially kept alive for organ donation, image still is in my mind years later. It's a hard experience. Sorry for your loss 🙏
I have similar feelings and somewhat similar experience from losing my eldest sister in Feb. My dad had to pick me up from work and we were rushing over, both me and my dad in one car as well as my mom and my niece (my eldest sisters daughter) in another car that left ahead of my dad. And we were all too late. We were just very grateful that her best friend/boyfriend was with her when we couldn't be. May we heal in kindness and love. Wishing you, and everyone reading/watching this video, the best
For two weeks before my mom died me and my siblings dreamt of her dying every night. We didn’t even know she was sick. Theres a connection between loved ones that you just know when something is wrong
Kwon lost over 3.5 liters of blood, over three times the amount later reported by the medical staff; the unsupervised assistants had to mop the bloodied floor over a dozen times. Kwon was transferred to the hospital that night, and died seven weeks later.
That's horrifying. I lost 1¼ liters of blood in January and the docs were extremely concerned in the following days making sure I was safe to go home. I'm Lowkey kinda surprised it took him 7 weeks to die
I realize they weren't sure if it was a nurse or a nurses aid, but after wringing out a blood soaked mop, even just *one* time, seems like that should concern any sane person?!
Yasssss!! These doctors do switch out! It happened to me! I questioned how he was going to do all three of us in the waiting room by the time they closed. Then I woke up during surgery! I saw this strange doctor and I started screaming where is "Dr. (Name)"! They freaked out and quickly knocked me out again. Afterwards I searched and investigated and found the other doctor by memory of his face and I saw his name on the door as they wheeled me out of surgery. (I was becoming conscious again). He worked in the same hospital. When I went for the after surgery check ups a nurse practitioner saw me and not my Dr. It was supposed to be with MY Dr. I tried to see him and they kept making excuses that he was in surgery or just unavailable each time. I was never allowed to see him again! I paid $6,800 for the doctor I had researched for over a year to find. Not some random doctor. I felt I had no recourse because I didn't have a negative outcome, "injuries" or damages that could be brought to a court. Please be careful out there! This is so real and I've seen horrible outcomes like this. It's way more common than you think!
Story time about mother’s intuition: When I was around 7 years old, there was flem on the back of my throat so I was coughing to get out. After a few hacks I started to cough up blood. My older sister who was watching me started to panic and I let out a sheer SCREAM. My mother was a few towns away, about an hour away visiting my mémé. From what she said, she heard a little girl scream in terror and she instantly thought of me. She called my sister, turns out it was just because my throat was sore due to the surgery that removed my tonsils, and me repeatedly coughing made it completely worse. On another note: whenever a severe depressive episode kicks in, my mother always messages me, we don’t text as much as I’d like to, so mothers intuition is 100% REAL
I was 19, my daughter was 6montha old. My mom called me in the middle of the night asking me what was wrong with my daughter. In that very moment I had just woke up out of the blue to check on her and she wasn't in her crib. I found her crawling through the living room on the way to my room once I turned all the lights on. She was safe,,she had climbed out of her crib and was crawling through the house in the dark. The fact that me and my mom both woke up at the same time bc we knew something was wrong with my daughter is definitely proof of mother's intuition
Wow! Most 6 month old babies are rolling from front to back and your baby was able to climb up and out of a crib and crawl through the house in the dark? What an incredible story!
She started walking at 9 months old . She started doing everything earlier than most. She was so small that she looked funny walking compared to the other babies. She just graduated with 4.0gpa magna cum laude with a major in psychology and a minor in sociology. She is extremely smart. I mean she is one of the smartest people I know and she's 24 now. She's a genius!
Truth. Oh man, did I realize. I've been asking my Husband what the heck I was supposed to be listening to while I drive around for work and get ready for work! 😅 I am SO tured of all of those drama channels talking about kendall jenner's latest antics or what have you.
I interned for a plastic surgeon in college who also had a great reputation. He had fixed my septum after I broke it and I realized after the swelling went down (shortly after the internship) that he botched it. He didnt use a ghost surgeon, but he would squeeze like 13 surgeries into 1 day and just do them all as quickly as possible. The nurses and anesthesiologist would talk shit on all the patients while they were under, even for stuff like not shaving their pubic region recently. The doctor would half ass all the surgeries to get them done in time.
How did you break your septum? I have had a nose surgery to fix my deviated septum. Most people I talked to have had the issue of the breathing problems coming back years after the surgery. Mine was good. But I had a car accident where the airbag hit my nose and I am very sure that had an impact, because after that I have breathing problems again. 😢
@@LuminetheoneandHOLY I got hit in the face with a field hockey stick. I had to have a second surgery to remove facial swelling and actually fix the septum. The first guy just straightened it a tiny bit but hardly made a dent. Ive been able to breathe well ever since the second surgery. He was a much better, more careful doctor who was a perfectionist and took a lot of time on each surgery. Finding a good doctor, not just one with a good reputation, but one who cares and takes whatever time they need is important.
As the daughter of a plastic surgeon and an anesthesiologist, the number one priority in every operation is the patients life and safety. Even if it's something "harmless" and "simple". If a sugery can potentially harm a patient, the docter has a right to inform the patient of the risks. And mopped the patients blood 13 TIMES ?!?! Thats just straight up malpractice in any circumstance. Ps. I'm not a docter myself (yet) so there may be some things that others may add. Oh and english isnt my first language.
Right, I’m a doctor, and I am so confused and horrified by all of this. The fact that nobody said anything when they had to mop it up makes me wonder if they were used to that happening. And multiple surgeries IN ONE ROOM without even so much as rescrubbing in is absolutely mind-boggling.
@@cassie1790my only question now is, why weren't the hospital directors ( I think thats what they're called) doing anything against this "ghost docter" situation before, when even the cctv and audio recordings confirms it. Do they just turn a blind eye cause its bad for business ?
@@M3ZZ0R3LL4you can’t expect other countries to feel, react, or believe the same ways that you do in your country. (I’m assuming America). I know majority of all ppl think the same things are wrong no matter where they live but that doesn’t mean societal norms are the same. And not everyone will go against societal norms. Going against the grain is much more common in America than elsewhere. Even if it is dealing with lives.
@@chelsear9483I understand what you mean. I'm southeast asian, born, raised and still live in my native country Indonesia , I have never left my country for more than a week (and never once have I even stepped foot in America) because I'm new to highschool (turning 15 next month), what I'm stating in the comments is my opinion on things and how my parents raised me in the medical field, maybe other countries have different customs and beliefs but I'm just stating my personal opinion and how my family feel about this matter( not happy because my classmates think my family don't care about peoples lives ( I come from a mostly service associated family ( teachers, docters, military, and such), and because of this case has made my family even more hated ) . Other countries have different customs on how to deal with this and I accept that wholeheartedly. I would never want to make others think that a certain countries customs and beliefs are " better" than others. I would also like to admit that my country also has cases like this and my country isn't perfect either. I also want to study in the medical field, so learning customs from other countries can really help with my future desicions. I'm sorry if I read your comment out of context, if I come of as hateful, it is never my inntention.
40:04 I swear he is the Goat! His expertise in knowing the difference between regular glass and tempered glass in the glass stepping stones game came so handy.
I think this was the second story I listened to from you on Spotify when I first found you. The story of that girl bullied/killed by a group of girls in an abandoned factory was what first brought you to my attention but this story is what solidified it for me.
Hearing her say basically "I had to mop up blood like 13 times" and doing absolute jack is just as ludicrous as it would be hearing someone say something casual like "yeah I stabbed them 13 times in the chest, I'm not sure why they aren't waking up from anesthesia...'
something abt your comment just told me to reply, just know i’m wishing you the best and the happiest most fufilled life’s you and your daughter can live! 🫶🫶
The thing with body donation is that yes, the body could go to a medical school to help future doctors, or it could be used in some f-cked military experiment to develop weapons.
1:04:13 “I think he’s having fun up there, he’s too busy playing to even show up in his moms dreams” I don’t know why but this broke my heart into a million pieces and I started sobbing 😭
I remember the first one! Hearing it a second time still makes my skin crawl. Absolutely inhuman to just keep mopping up blood THIRTEEN TIMES without any concern for the patient 😣
Mother's intuition is very VERY real and I have no idea how it works. Last year I attempted to unaliv3 myself. My mother, she works in canada and I am in the PH, she said that she really pushed my brothers to constantly check on me but the problem was I turned off all my devices and nobody was able to call on me. My mom, she felt like something so bad would really happen. Until.. thankfully i got the courage to finally reach out then admit what I was about to do and my brothers were able to reach me. My mother really felt like I would die that day and she was scaringly right and today I am glad I am still breathing and still holding on.
the addition of not needing cameras in operations “for training purposes” just makes me believe that they will have students stand in the room in order to circumvent the cctv requirement.
100%. The student loophole makes no sense in the first place. Unless they make numerous fatal mistakes every day and they don’t want the public to know? Makes me glafd I refused to have students do my open heart surgery. Maybe when I’m 80, I’ll let them have a go at repairing my graft.
@@keyareuh_ yeah im sure that this is true for students and many would struggle with that amount of pressure. i know i would. nonetheless, doctors can and will take advantage of this loophole in order to get away with malpractice- so it should not exist. safety > feelings
You are my absolute favorite youtuber/podcaster. I am always so intrigued and interested when i watch your videos and i think its also a great way to learn about lots of stuff. Ive watched nearly all your videos and find all of them just amazingly informative and worded. I thank you so much for the work you put in all your videos💗
korea's judicial system is insane i swear to god. from basically letting a child predator out and letting him live near the child he literally abused until her insides were ruined, to this. it's not for justice, it's just to win a game of who can win the case.
As a mom of 2 I fully believe in mother’s intuition. After you’ve grown a human inside of you they become a part of you. It’s a connection you can’t explain or put into words, you just know when something is wrong!
My mother intuition always right, It's more about the relation strength, If you have a close friend there is always that spiritual connection between you 2 , like dreams or even telepathy
Is true. Even my Grandmother who raised me would know things, like when I was dying as I gave birth my severely late stage Alzheimer's Grandmother broke out of her secured Alzheimer's patient ward to "find my baby because she's in trouble." The nickname my Grandparent's gave me was "the baby". Despite not knowing anything else she knew all the way across town I was in bleeding out after childbirth. It took 7 police officer's and a entire medical team to wrangle my Grandmother back into the facility. All the women in my family has this weird ability to just know when their child is in danger and that goes for myself. Nothing cuts that connection, no amount of hateful words, arguments, or actions you hate. Somehow we just know when something is seriously wrong or our children are in critical danger.
You have worked so hard. I only came across your YT maybe 2 months ago and have binged all your videos. It’s all good! Please take care. We’ll be here patiently waiting😊
In hospitals, there's no sugar coating. You say it the way it is because there may be a slight chance that this is the family's only/last chance to say goodbye to their loved one. I'm RN, and that is the protocol!
It differs by hospital’s protocol and culture. In some hospitals, it is important not to directly tell the family that the patients is currently cardiac arrested and we are doing cpr. We would tell them the patient is critical and the family need to be at hospital stat.
I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE BACK. I WAS SO WORRIED 😢 THIS IS BY FAR MY FAVORITE CHANNEL, AND YOU'RE MY FAVORITE RU-vidR! (And let's not forget your hubby who asks the questions we're thinking without even having to ask the audience lol) ❤🎉
Stephanie please take care of yourself. The reason we watch your podcast and love you is the compassion you show to the victims of these horrific crimes. What separates you is your attention to detail, accuracy of reporting, and compassion 💕 You deserve compassion too! Love you, sister 💕
I was seriously worried about you I was checking your channel everyday thinking maybe I am doing something wrong! So happy to see you again and I glad you are feeling better 🥰
I had upper jaw surgery for my horrid underbite at 13, I can confirm, THAT SHIT IS PAINFUL. ITS EXCRUCIATING. I specifically had Orthognathic surgery, and I hated every second of that recovery. cannot imagine willingly going through that. I know it’s not the same, but still!!
I think I had a friend in school that got this done. She was gone for a summer, and when I saw her at school, I didn't even recognize her, especially because I think her underbite made her voice more nasaly, and she sounded clearer. I guess she was in hiding for recovery all that time because they broke off and moved the upper jaw forward with metal and stuff. It sounded painful. Did you feel like you had a different face afterward?
I also had surgery to correct my underbite (struggled with clicking jaws and discomfort when eating), and the surgeon had to extend my upper jaw and cut back my lower jaw. The recovery was long and quite uncomfortable. I think my face was swollen for 1.5 years. I hate my high school grad photo because it was when I was still in recovery. Chipmunk cheeks for days.
@@tomoyo6162remember in times of pain, this too, shall pass. It may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass, and your quality of life will be better after it. I hope you have a speedy recovery!
When my mom passed away from liver failure from alcohol abuse and ultimately covid in 2021, i was around 16. They really did inform us over the phone and a 3 hour drive away from the hospital that her vitals were crashing and to make it fast to figure out what to do, and to make the unfortunate decision to sign dnr papers because she was suffering for years and it was discussed beforehand because even she knew how bad the alcohol abuse was. I don’t usually comment on videos but ive never told anyone about this. Im extremely grateful we didn’t get into an accident considering this was also during the texas freeze. be mindful of your alcohol consumption guys and stay safe. 🖤
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a 2% chance of surviving the weekend when I showed up at the ER with multiorgan failure for alcohol abuse at 25, and I was extremely fortunate to be one of those wild cases that survives to see a successful transplant when I was that far gone. I still don't feel like I deserve it, since alcoholism is such a controversial disease. On point, my fiancée was with me and they wanted to call my parents, but my fiancée (who had the legal right to make decisions on my behalf) prevented them from doing so. Thank goodness she did, because when they finally found out they were both escorted from the hospital by security for getting violent. 😂
@@Nylak-Otter my mom was 35, she was given the opportunity but refused to stop drinking due to some narcissistic tendencies she had, “im an adult i can drink when and how much i want”. So ended up losing the opportunity to someone more motivated to recovering yk. im hoping you are doing so much better now and thank you!
So glad you are back but you definitely have every right taking time to recover without “making it up” we are happy just getting these videos when we do :)
Mother’s intuition is for sure a real deal! When my daughter was a couple of months old, I was still suffering from PPD and I was constantly exhausted so I would sleep like a log. One night, I woke up for absolutely no reason. Just opened my eyes as if I had just closed seconds ago. My chest had started constricting and I decided to check up on my baby. She had managed to roll over on her tummy, face down in the mattress crying. Had I not woken up when I did, she would have suffocated. Typing this still brings me to tears and since then I don’t play around when I feel something heavy!
wow that’s amazing. i believe it too. my mom told me she jolted awake when my dad and i were in a head-on car accident just for her to get the call moments later
This is disgusting and it does happen in the US. In my state there was a Plastic Surgeon’s brother who was a Radiologist, and was allowed to operate on patients. Nothing much happened to the Plastic Surgeon except a fine and loss of privileges at that particular hospital and the Radiologist went to prison. I don’t remember if there were any deaths, but there were complications. It was horrifying!
My dad is a very good radiologist, although he knows anatomy, he said he wouldn’t be able to operate or do things other doctors can. He is supposed to look at pictures not the human themselves. I can’t fathom they won’t take his license away fully?!
“I don’t think you guys noticed” I think you majorly underestimate the role you play in my life😭 wishing you a fast recovery and don’t worry too much, we’ve got more then enough content to keep us busy 💕
ER nurse here. I did clinical in the OR for a semester in school here in the US. Nothing like this. It was extremely professional and sterile. I never witnessed any disrespect towards the patients. Everyone was attentive to the safety of the the patient. This is terrible!!
I just really love the way she tells this cases and paired with her husband in the background, sometimes laughing/asking question, it makes this whole podcast 10x better. I don't always listen to true crime but if it's stephanie I'd listen.
As a 911 op, I was told to call the workplace of a husband to come to the ER where his wife (deceased) had been transported. I was not to inform him of her status. My heart broke having to ask him to drive there, knowing what he was about to face. The absolute change in his life, the pain, the shock, the loss. I hurt terribly for him. In under 2 minutes, this man lost his life along with his wife. If it is a rule, it should be changed. A person should be there when they are told. You should not omit or lie to a person to achieve a different response that's more convenient to you. A person needs to be there. Period. Drive for them. Hear them. Hold them. 😢💔
Because of HIPAA. It's not about it being better for doctors at all. They are making sure the person getting the news is the right person, also, in the hospital there is netter staff in case the person collapses from the new. They can't just panickly call someone and deliver news through the phone.
I don't agree with this. It's not for the doctors benefit. It's for the benefit of themselves as well as other people in their surroundings. So many people would speed upon finding out news like this, and that could lead to so many dangerous accidents. You can't just tell them news like this despite the fact that it's not beneficial in any which way. Also to add to it like the other comment said, HIPAA exists
Actually, you can call a family member and tell them that they should come to the hospital urgently, but it also depends on state to state and hospital policy.
Mother's intuition can go both ways too. My mom knew from my presence that I was home and what kind of mood my hormonal teenager self was. The closing of the door and way I walked up the stairs just confirmed her knowledge. She knew when something wasn't tip top with any of her kiddos, and acted appropriately. I knew a couple of days ahead of time she was going to pass on (screw cancer) - and all it took for me to awaken the day she crossed was my bedroom door opening. I saw my brother's face and immediately knew before the first word came out of his mouth. Now that I have kiddos of my own, I know just how strong mother's intuition is. Being literally connected to the child(ren) may have some role of it since pregnancy directly feeds the uterus/placenta to grow the fertilized egg all the way through birth. It's a long time and a bond that truly is remarkable. I can't tell you how I know things about my kids, but I can tell you that I know the things. It would be interesting to learn about the science behind it, even though not everything can be explained at this time - and some things will never be explainable to our 3D world.
Med student here! I actually signed up to have my body donated to my faculty when I die. But when I did this I found out that my faculty can’t accept a body that have been in a car crash, the cause of death is unknown or if the cause of death is suspected to be foul play (they died because medical negligence, murder etc). That’s how it works at my faculty, maybe it’s different elsewhere. Also you sign up to have your body donated to a specific faculty, there’s like 10 faculties of medicine in my country, but the contract is the same in every faculty. The faculty pays for „the funeral“ even though you just get a tombstone with no body and at my faculty they also plant a tree with your name in our campus Edit: I live in the Czech Republic for clarification 🇨🇿
In mine (in addition to what you listed) they also stopped accepting bodies from people with Alzheimer's because they're scared of prion. I think it's overkill because no one is eating the brain, it's just for educational purposes 🤷♀️
*Facilities Also, you should really look into the disturbing facts surrounding the donation of your body after death! There are several videos on YT & Google about the body donation industry & how horrible it is! I was an organ donor for years until I found out about the disturbing facts behind it! I’d highly suggest you do some research for yourself & look further into it before becoming a donor!
@@Magdaroooreply it’s not for this reason. AD or Alzheimer’s disease, is not a contraindication to deceased organ donation per se; however, the coexistent atherosclerotic pathology of the brain that may result in the death of a patient with AD may also affect abdominal organ function and suitability for transplantation.
Doctors swear an oath to follow multiple ethical principles. Beneficence and nonmaleficence - help and do not harm the patient. Veracity - telling the truth. These principles are considered in higher regard than simply protecting your own or other doctors' reputations. No sane ER doctor would even believe a surgeon telling us that a hypotensive person is "not in critical condition." That is ludicrous and stupid. Why even downplay the patient's condition instead of telling the truth so the most aggressive level of help be given ASAP 😡
Hhmm, I gotta read the whole Hippocratic oath... I'm just curious now... Do they all say it before graduation? Like, before getting their doctorate? And do all doctors have to take it? Do nurses also take it? Do caregivers also take it?
Well, that oath went out the window when covid hit! Many Dr's lost their jobs if they talked about the vaxes. Lost their jobs if they didn't take the jab.
I loved this episode because she was more light hearted and made jokes even though the topic was heavy, it takes me back to her first podcasts and her mukbangs 😄
The powerlessness Jin's parents went through breaks my heart as a new mom. My son was born with respiratory issues and I couldn't hold him until he was 2 days old. It was heartwrenching. I couldn't understand what that powerlessness felt like until then. This story was devastating. Feel better soon girly ❤
As a mother, our child is our heart walking around outside of our body. They are literally part of us. They only have to feel something for us to pick up on it if you have a strong connection with your kids. It’s magical. Ever reaching.
So so true. My mother and I are still very much like this with each other. It’s so crazy, but we can both literally feel when one of us is not alright. I have had moments where I have felt that my mother was sad or in pain for some reason; she has been able to do the same and we have always been very spot on with one another. We can’t stand each other at times, but my mother and I really have a bond that just transcends this world. It’s truly amazing and I feel so blessed to even have that kind of connection with her❤️🙏🏾✨
@@SageLaFlame that’s so beautiful 😻 seriously! I have the same with my mum, we drive each other crazy but she always knows when I’m not right even if I haven’t seen her. Having my own two littles now, really made it click the connection you have with your kids and how your mother is someone that will feel that pain or happiness with you and for you like no other! 💕
44:44 My first strong sense of mother's intuition (other than guessing the gender long before we could confirm with ultrasound) was right after my child was born. It was a rough birth, we were 3 weeks early, I ended up having a general anesthesia c-section after 34 hours of active labor, but as soon as I woke up, I felt like something was wrong. Even though she was a preemie, as long as they're over 6 pounds, they'll usually let baby stay in the room with mom. I just knew something was off. I called for a nurse, told her something didn't feel right, told her to check my baby's blood sugar and sure enough, she was critically low. She had to be taken to NICU and put on a glucose drip for 3 days.
Perhaps mother’s intuition is related to the “quantum entanglement”, of the power of love. I love your story telling skills and deep analysis. Great to see you back from your break and feeling healthier!
I had emergency brain surgery last year which saved my life. I was out for 15 hours with the operation taking 9. It was super scary, but to this day I’m thankful to the surgeons that saved my life. I know there are many horror stories, but there are also doctors that are genuinely kind and will do anything in their power to save your life.
You know, with the amount of bad doctors I've had, I think it is only fair we talk about the good ones more! They absolutely deserve praise, especially if they have to deal with my paranoid butt on a regular basis (chronic pain and illness).
Me too i had an emergency brain aneurysm surgery in june 2022 I was 16 then and it was very scary and traumatizing because it happened so suddenly out of nowhere with no signs of illness but i had the best doctors they treated me so good just like i was everyone's daughter cause i was the youngest in the ICU. So happy i can relate to someone.☺
Oh no you were sick too!? I was sick for 2 weeks with covid and it was terrible, I'm happy to see you are feeling better and are able to post more, don't push yourself we will always be here waiting even if it takes a month for the next video 😊❤❤
